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As for your frustrations, which are many people's frustrations including my own, I'd like to take a moment of your time to share a story.
David Lepofsky - a blind and active advocate for the disabled community in Toronto, Ontario, once honoured one of my poli-sci classes some 5 years ago by coming to us bright and wide-eyed young scholars, future lawyers, future policymakers, and present activists, to talk about disability justice and alliance-building. In short, it was a very pointed and very honest lecture about how much the world sucks when you're a minority within a marginalized community (something I personally live with), especially when you're up against a task as monumental as getting sighted people to understand that the world just does not exist the way they see it existing.
David founded and headed, at the time, AODA Alliance — a disability consumer advocacy group that works to support the full and effective implementation of accessibility standards in Ontario (via compliance to the Accessibility for Ontarians with Disabilities Act) dating back since 2005.
One of his stories he told us about was related to the very building we were sitting in, high up on the 15th floor of our ivory tower. He and his compatriots had advocated for several years and worked directly in advisory committees, boards, and other such capacities with the university to have the campus comply with the AODA. Progress was being made. True, real progress. Academic accommodations for both sighted and blind students, audio-cued crosswalks and less obstructive, hostile architecture, and just getting disability into the curriculum wherever, whenever possible.
Progress.
Then, one day, a new building being architected by a team outside of these efforts designed awkward, diagonal staircases with random poles in the middle of nowhere, handrails that abruptly changed sides or stopped going along the staircases, and other horrifically dangerous design implementations that were approved purely on the basis of aesthetic design. Several years of hard work, seemingly undermined overnight by yet another ignorant group of people "who just couldn't care less."
David told us that the hardest part of this work isn't just constantly not being heard. It's constantly being disappointed that we're just not there yet. And we aren't. Not just Palia - a single game on the internet - but the whole world just isn't there, yet. There were many nights where he and his colleagues just wanted to throw the university to the curb, rise up and decry their bigotry, ignorance, and accuse them of little more than corporate greed. But he cautioned us as he cautioned his allies:
"Who left will be on our side when we stop believing in the few who are at least trying? The reality, as much as we hate to admit it, is we're easier to ignore and leave to the curb, than to make space for."
The university is a massive organization filled with hundreds of decision-makers and departments who are siloed, and bent under the pressure of an unforgivingly cruel and limiting economic structure of worker exploitation. I think, similarly, S6 are fighting on the exact opposite end of that spectrum. Where they have, effectively, a community ranging in the hundreds of thousands with, currently, 3 CMs and an indie dev team that's trying to keep up with keeping the beta hype train rolling so the game isn't dead-on-arrival.
David, that day, needed someone to guide him to the facilities because, of course, the floor did not make it accessible for anyone. I walked with him that day with our arms linked, and asked him if he wasn't completely outraged by how unfair all this was. That he'd be experiencing this ableism while lecturing us on allyship.
His answer was simple and profound.
"Of course I'm outraged! But outrage wasn't what brought us to the table. We have to be allies, first, then be angry at each other second."