Isn't there setting that you can allow only friends to send you messages?
And then you just reject all requests unless you know who it is
Also, there are apps that allow you to filter notifications and get pinged only for certain things
Like, one for my watch (not official one) allows me to filter by name of the sender and the app and even keywords
For phone I have all silent and minimised
I was on dating sites, I know what dummy messages are and how annoying they are :)
I had blocklists with several hundred accounts
I agree, having option to regulate in detail is helpful
But maybe this discussion helps someone to setup their system
I use tasker for many things profile/notifications related, but learning curve for that is huge
Ifttt, automate and similar should be easier to grasp
It's just that if you're at some social platform, no mods in the world can remove unsolicited messages no matter what they do, so, you as a user have to use all tools available to do so
I'd probably just block all non friends or everyone and create another discord account to use for friends and never write publicly with it so no one knows it exists
Throwing some ideas
Or just answer with 'yeah sure, this is my bitcoin wallet, transfer 10 bitcoins in advance and I'll think about teaching you'
I mean, you are allowed to be rude if someone is rude to you
I feel sorry for people who are harassed in their pms, I know the feeling, and staying sharp and 'cruel' is a way to go IMO, you're not here to provide free service, you're here to have fun, if it's not fun, delete it from your inbox and have zero remorse
There are options
And yes, mods cannot do anything useful about it, not with this huge number of users