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Hey Fabled! My advice is this- when you know her well enough to ask her out, you’ll know how to ask her out. Maybe she’s mentioned something she likes a few times, a movie she’s dying to see, a snack she’d love to go get. It should just be natural, “you wanna go zip lining? That’s cool, how bout we make it a date?” But that’s just me! You’ll know if she likes being around you before you ever ask, just listen~
I'll leave this to Karsa, also hi Karsa, fancy meeting you in here as well
BUT. ... Just ask 'hey wanna get coffee/tea/tasty beverage/liquified souls'. It seems hard, and from a potato who needed to be drunk to say anything AT ALL to his now wife. ... Just start with a friendly outing.
You'll be sad if you don't take the chance, or you'll be sad if she turns you down. But you'll be happy if she accepts you, which requires you to take the chance.
Hi Lordy B! Yeah, I saw this in the main chat and was like… yes, I have a few cents to share~ 
20 years later I STILL feel some regret for the time I asked someone for a number and just never ever followed up and completely avoided her for the rest of high school.
But as Karsa said, knowing when to take the chance is also important.
I'm great when emotion isn't a factor, soooooooooo 👀
How do i prod to see if she got a partner or not.
i dont even know if she single
Don't prod, listen. If she has a partner, he will come up in conversation.
That one is trickier without giving it away or being creepy. I'm no good there cause neurodivergent makes like sarcastically fun for stuff like that.
Oh yeah! Emotions make fools of us all! But someone worth your emotions won’t make you feel that way.
Falso
You'd know, people in relationships can't stop talking about it 👀
Lies
And single people can't stop talking about being single
Fake
If it never comes up, there's no partner OR it's toxic as heck.
Fuhg
Don't just talk, listen too. And watch them. Their expressions tell you a lot about what they are thinking and what they want. Good conversations happen over days, weeks months, not over one cup of coffee.
All people are patterns 👀 find the patterns, know the person

If you’ve known her for a long time and it’s never come up, just ask? But not like “DO YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND BECAUSE I LIKE YOU AND-“ if an opportunity arises, just ask.
But I've seen in movies that they get a cup of coffee and immediately fall in love, you mean to tell me it's all liiieeeesssss?
But to be fair, that can even work out...
Yeah RedRogue!! Yeah!!
LOL
I've been bamboozled
I mean... Fiction IS based on a truth. Getting coffee is great.
True. Some people like tea. Some like hot chocolate. Some like souls.
Thanks! I stole it from my wife. 😄
You see. She is always excited to talk to me but it seems like she is excited to talk to everyone but when we talk it feels amazing because noone gives me that kinda energy while talking. Me and her are both super open and talkative so it just feels right. Ive only known her for a month but we work together so we see each other often
You can "Get coffee" while getting something like herbal tea.
I'd called that "borrowed indefinitely"
She ordered it. I literally opened it, and was wearing it when she got home.
I think Hollywood often gets some things very right. I've experienced love at first coffee sip, and it was amazing...if you're both on the same page then BAM...magic. But those are the rarest of times, almost scred. And far...far too often only when you're much, much younger (sadly)
In Sweden we ask people for "fika" with is "get a pastry"
Café visit, basically
I like that better.
Bro i eould ask her to bake with me but that eoukd mean she had to coke to my house or i come to hers and thats a bit too much invasion of space i feel for first time hanging out

What also sucks is i work with her so if she said she doesnt wanna hangout its be awkward 
You could go grilling in a park. Cooking is involved, it is a public place, and is seasonally acceptable.
Should i invite friends or just her and i 
Could always just go do crimes. That's a fun hang out. (Disclaimer: Don't actually do crimes. I don't promote most law breaking.)
I heard crimes, and my 1000 year slumber is interrupted.
Hiiiii Kalan dear
Kalan ready to commit crimes
I don't live by the motto "Be gay(pan but the phrase doesn't sound as good), do crimes". I promise. ... ... leaves to do not crimes
So do us Swedes 👀
So if I meet a Swedish lady I like, I'll try to remember to ask if she would like to get a pastry.
Yes! "fika" is the universal key to being a swede
And to gain the approval of swedes
Swedish Fish.
We just call them fish
How about the gift of homemade pastries?
Oh boy you're set
can i be gay and do crimes
Rin, what you need is to be both definitions of gay instead of just one.
And the latter is the one that you deserve to be constant.

Yes


Rin, you deserve happiness.
im gonna hide again
noooo

Not me driving to therapy singing loudly to various metal songs and rocking out at res lights
hell yeah
A little bit of Avenged sevenfold
My "drive to work" is walking from the bathroom after my shower to sit in front of my computer.
Haha. That's mine too.
Mine is "waking up"
UGH ADHD testing makes brain wonky
I remember the school making me get tested for ADHA. When the results came back negative, the school angerly asked the tester "Then why doesn't he sit still in class!?" To which the tester asked" Have you asked him?" the school looked at me and with a snarky tone asked "Well?" To which I replied, "The seats are uncomfortable, I have to move a bit to keep my legs and butt from falling asleep."
Oh my gosh that test… so stressful and overwhelming. It’s an absolute assault on the brain.
It was easier than my normal day at school. I didn't have to worry about being attacked.
Oh, Oddy, how alike we are sometimes
I had it young enough that I don't remember it
I didn't get tested though. I just vanished. I was the best at hiding.
though according to my wife I am more a mix of ADHD/Giftedness (ugly word 🤮 ) than pure ADHD
By my 11th year, the kids called me ghost.
According to my mom, she thinks I have Asperger's.
In my 11th year, they called me the Candy King. Needed to raisd money for a school trip that was 1,100 USD, I raised 800 of it by selling chocolate bars, earning 0.5 USD per bar.
In the span of 4 months I sold over 1600 chocolate bars.
I sold many a chocolate bar lol. Mostly to my mum's co-workers.
Diagnostic by a close one are rather meh, I give my wife a bit of credit because it's her job to track that kind of thing in kids. But I told her their a difference between tracking and actually diagnosing.
My mom is a nurse, she came to this conclusion while studying neuro-divergence to keep her nursing skills up to date.
yeah my wife is a specialized educator specializing in neuro-divergent kids.
Everyone has some part of a spectrum, what makes a personality really
According to psychiatrists at least, look and ye shall find
@empty vessel my advice is... You don't really know her yet, so first step would be to get to know each other as friends. No date, just a couple of friends going for a drink on lunch break, or chatting for a while after work... The "do you want to grab a drink sometime" question is good because it's no pressure on anyone to see it as anything other than friends hanging out :) if she says no, don't stress. Some people don't like mixing work and social life, but you never know until you ask.

I second that advice
I also second that
second seconded
GASP
... Whut the
Some of my classmates have major family drama going on. So I'm there like" You need to make this school thing to work for yourself. So that you can start your own toxic free life soon. "
And the kiddos are just like "😳😳😳It works like that? You get away from these things when you adult? "
My testing included an IQ test. My brain is literally a hardware bottleneck. Thanks ADHD
That's such a great way to word it to them!
Well I try to make them more active towards our studies. I'm literally like some backup teacher atm. 😂
If anyone is trying to buy a ps5 best buy has them online currently
Aaaaaaaaaand it's gone.
I got one luckily 🙂
Oh I don't know if they're actually gone or not. Just making the joke.
But yes. They're gone. I looked.
Hey everyone
Why did the scarecrow win an award?
Because he was outstanding in his field
RoboticBagel Tells a Funny Joke in Minecraft
Loud laugh
Good morning. ☕☺️
Hey @languid dune 
Morning!
Mornin'
I had a bad crash on my way to work.
...And I work from home too XD
Dang things, begging me to trip over them XD
I tell you they're plotting my...downfall XD [wah wah wah]
Probably a weird question, and very off topic, but does anyone know a good way to remove sharpie from things? I have this really gorgeous playing card mat I use for Pokemon, and I'm trying to remove an autograph from it, the background is a white/very light pink color, and I've been hyper focused on trying to get rid of it for days now. No one sells it anymore either that I've been able to find. Can someone please help?
I've tried rubbing alcohol, and it helped it fade, but it's still very visible :(
But anything that might remove sharpie pigment might remove pigments you don't want to, so be careful listening to my advice XD ^^'
Oh huh!
.
I think acetone is next on the list :3
And then xylene :3
Ok, thanks :) I'll try that
(and if those don't work, after that I think you need a federal permit or something XD )
Oh yay :D
I hope it works :>
(and doesn't destroy the thing itself x'D )
(I've destroyed things with acetone before)
(Did you know Legos dissolve into liquid in acetone! 0,0 )
No, but now I do, and that's pretty cool
How is everyone doing this fine [time of day]?
I'm doing ${user.currentState()} :3
I’m glad you’re in a state of existence, haha!

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Tau, Jina, Ashura, ... there are peoples! :D
Is there somewhere I can learn about them? :>
(Or are they not settled as characters yet? XD )
If she is at work. Today is the day i ask her to hang out after work 
I will
Today is the day
Oh man, every time I try to work on my art for the contest
my cat comes to snuggle… I’m doomed!!
Pup, have you looked back through the official art channel? Lots of good stuff to see there!
Oh I see! :D
(I didn't even notice it next to rules and such ^^' )
Yup! There’s a bunch of good stuff hidden around! There’s a pinned tweet on the main Palia chat that’s an unofficial compiled bunch of helpful info!
Oh neat, thanks! :D
Oh I forgot about lunch
..I forgot about lunch too!
..for 10 years @,@
(probably i should eat more than two meals a day XD)
Wohoo! It's weekend!!
And I'm way too early to pick up some second hand stuff. Oops.
Does anyone here live near Orlando and want a free ticket to MegaCon tomorrow? I can't make it
Some surfaces are coated well enough that you can scribble over the sharpie marks with a dry erase marker, and it will lift everything when you wipe it off.
your pfp reminds me of The Polish Ambassador (who makes and collaborates with the best musics) 8>
So my cat is officially broken. We have the roomba running. ... And she keeps running in it's path and LAYING DOWN so it runs into her, to which when then jumps all scared like "OH NO WHO WOULD HAVE EXPECTED THIS!"
And she repeated this 5 times.
Until I picked up my phone to record it.
my dog is so terrified of the roomba I had to get rid of it. Just the beep it made to turn on was enough to send him flying, shaking and practically hypervenitlating.
He started to think that all remote controls could channel power to the roomba and would get triggered as soon as one was picked up

AWWwwwwww
pavlovian ptsd ;;
Ours is finally getting used to it.
Thank you! I'll try that!
:>
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@onyx quarry which part of England, if you don't mind me asking?
Oh hi! I lived in Hampshire
Ahh ok! I was in the midlands, Worcestershire area
Not now, though I'm originally English! But now I live in America :) (hubby is usaf so we go where he goes hehe)
oh ok!
Were you visiting on vacation?
oh, no. I was married at that time and moved over there with my then husband xD
he was getting his PhD
Oh cool :) ... I don't want to assume but we seem to be online similar times so you're US now? It's been a learning curve moving between UK to US, they seem so similar but are soooooooo different lol
Yes I am stateside. And yes there are a lot of subtle diferences
everypuppy has a role to play :3
Ours was indifferent to it before but nowadays started to growl and bark at the roomba when it bumps into her 
That's perfectly fair. Roombas are kinda rude.
Did something happen earlier
Make sure you grab your dedicated thunderpants!
Oh yeah? Name everything on Netflix then
Have you seen Queen's Gambit?
The series about chess? . . . not yet 😅
that one, please do, it's a good watch, I recommend
And if you haven't watched The Mitchells vs the machines, do
will add this to my list 
I already watched that 😂
yeah! haha I love their dog 😂
system error 😂
What's the movie you could watch over and over?
Back to the future 😏
yup!!!! 💚
so you found the teacup eyyy 👀
It's how I became a lord 👀
My first wish was to have 4 wishes, he granted it and said: now you have 3
That movie is 
puts hands in pockets
yes..
Omg yes.. I've been binging Hell's kitchen only for the golden bits that is Gordon yelling
All I see is Bezos.. not a political thing, just, similarities
What season are you watching?
Should find him on TikTok. He calls people donuts now.
People cook bad on purpose to get called one. lol
What I wouldn't give to be called a greasy fried ring by the man himself
I've seen that 😂
I wonder... I could make the blue ramen I once saw on the internet for my first TikTok and tag him...
Have you seen the animated RAW short on youtube? XD
Possibly. I forget a lot. ADHD brain is like a doom pile in my head.
I wanna link it but he is so vulgar haha
"Where is the lamb saaaaaaaaaauceeeee"
It's sad Kitchen Nightmares in the US became what it did. Entertaining, yes, but it didn't actually help many places because they didn't listen...
The UK version: Look, your food sucks. Here's ways to improve and be a success.
Chef: Ok. Thank you Chef.
I was honestly just waiting while watching Hell's kitchen, for the episode where they put the wrong finalist behind the door that opens
The US version: Look, your food sucks. Here's ways to improve and be a success.
Chef: censored
And they're out of business.
I mean I put that down on ignorance
It seemed like past season 1, half the people on the show just wanted to be on TV and fight with him.
Gotta get those 15 minutes
Sadly, it won't help if you FOOD SUCKS.
"But my mom says it's great"
Oh god abc..
They were looking to sue him because of the yelp reviews that followed him leaving xD
They didn't even play along on the show.
Too bad the show itself was all the evidence against them.
You can't argue with stupid though, proof isn't proof because their opinion is it's not
and opinion > fact
Also "Hey lets make low key mafia threats on a recorded TV show."
I'm still waiting for that day, praying it happens this season LOL
I'm glad there are others who feel the same way I do about ol' Gordon. I never get tired if watching him try to scream the dumb out of people.
I think he’s only growing in popularity because he screams out dumb people
If you would like to see him do his thing without being all shouty, he did a show called The F Word that was quite good.
hi!
Hellooooooo
Helloo ~
Yessssssss XD
Although I usually went with Lex Luther but this is also good XD
Is scam, don't click it friends
anyone wanna play gartic phone?
aah discord now lets you sync your contacts. for anyone else who doesn't wanna be found via phone number:
(it's called "find your friends")
- open user settings
- privacy & safety
- disable "allow contacts to add me"
or under discovery permissions
that's useful to know, thanks :D
but I don't see "allow contacts to add me" or "discovery permissions" there :<
(is that because discord doesn't know my phone number? XD )
(>:3)
another friend just got an update notifcation mentioning it so maybe you just need an update 🤷♀️
(but this might also be the case)
ahhhh, I'll restart discord :3
nope still nothing :P
maybe theirs isn't linux like mine and the Linux version gets updates later 🤷
It's there on mine but was already turned off
i agree

Omg @rigid zephyr that gif.. I take it the animated shorts were appreciated? XD
💯
So I ended up not sleeping much and had s12 of HK on, which I apparently hadn't seen, and omg they were so bad
3 nights in a row without a single dish going out
How do can chefs be that when they if not.. what..
who's your favorite chef so far?
R..am..say.. 👀
I was rooting for.. ehm.. Jason, but then he got drunk and was late, so I switched
My wife and I really likes Giovanni 😁
Simone freaked me out
Those eyes.. like they saw through the veil
Wait there's a giovanni in s12? or you on a different season now
Giovanni Filippone from S5 and S17
There's season 17?!
I need to update my search parameters damn
Pick it up Sweden, get me show coverage
yeah, it's like a champions edition or something like that 😅
Okay that I gotta see
I love people getting yelled at but I get so uncomfortable when people mess up over and over
me too 😂
Sitting there like: no... no no no.. not again.. don't tell me they did it agaaaaaain
I love it when gordon kicks them out of the kitchen 😂
I remember that one! 😆
There was one dude that kept coming back, like 3 times xD "Next time you come back you're leaving through the front door"
To some extent you gotta admire the determination but damn
have you seen the potatogate scene? haha 😂
you should watch that on youtube, it's also the donut scene where he called the dude "donut" 😂
He's called people so many things..
Are you watching hell's kitchen on Netflix or Youtube?
Youtube, Swedish netflix hasn't paid for the rights to HK
I remember going like this:
at the woman who said she thought cold water boiled faster than hot
This topic makes me want to watch it all over again 😅
I'm down to binge 👀
will watch season 1 again later hahaha
I started watching HK again cause I was in a drought for shows and movies, felt like I had seen it all xD
Quarantine hit different
I prefer Hell's Kitchen over Masterchef.
Do you watch animes?
Yeah me too, but that's mainly because of Joe Bastardianich 👀
Gordon is ruthless but funny, Joe is just insulting xD
If you count Pokemon and Narrotoe, otherwise no
I agree 💯
Great minds and all that
Do you watch NBA? They have this new Pokemon jerseys 💚
As in basketball? XD
yup 😶
I sure have to now
Each teams has their own pokemon version jersey 
I rarely watch any sports on tv, if I watch it I go see some live
(Because my father is like: Hey wanna go watch sport)
And there I am: woo you slapshot that baseball passed the 50 yard into the hoop! YATZEE!
my dad usually wants to watch sports in his TV not unless it's boxing 😂
I take after my mother: "If I want sports I'll watch the yearly highlight reel, that way I only get the best parts"
btw, I ran out of movies to watch - do you have any recommendation? 🤔
Don't forget Queen's gambit ;) but ofc I got movie recommendations! What genres? ^^
zombieeeee apocalypse type of movies 😅
Oh I'm gonna not recommend The Intouchables then xD all though it is a great one
too late; googling it now hahaha
It is, such a good movie (if you don't mind it being in french)
will try this later 👀 adding this to my list of "to watch"
good or "bad" ones xD
let's start with the good ones lol
World War Z and Warm bodies are both good, WWZ is scientific and Warm Bodies is some weird romance crossover xD Zombieland as well, has a satire humor feel to it
Zombieland 😍
Army of the Dead is a new one from 2021, got Dave Bautista in it, it was a decent enough action movie but the twist they did on zombies was interesting
The ending was just . . . 😶
omg I know
was disappointed with the ending . . . I was ready to give the movie 10/10 😅 Oh well! It's still an 8/10 for me.
Yeah I'd give the acting a 5 but the concept a 10 xD so overall a 7-8
Have you seen the Korean series "Kingdom"?
I've seen "The Last Kingdom" 👀 so no
Oh so you're into Medieval period movies/series?
I'm into Good movies/series 👀
I'm into zombie apocalypse and vampire movies/series. 😅 I don't know the name of this genre lol
Probably zombie apocalypse and vampire movies xD
Wait what did you think of Dracula, then? Vlad the Impaler
Are you talking about the tv series - Dracula?
The movie ^^
which one? 😅
I watched that maybe more than 5 times now 😂
I really love the story . . .
Same! I see a trend of liking spins in concept 👀
Or maybe better called alternates
I really hope that it'll have a part 2 🥺
It needs one..
Oh yes that'd be neaaat
By far, the best vampire movie I watched is the Daybreakers 💚
adds to list
I highly recommend it 😁
What in the world, Ethan Hawke, Sam Neill and Dafoe? How have I not already seen it?
you'll love the story 😉
I am going to believe you and I will let you know

I will wait for your honest review of the movie 😏
I will let you know in 1 hour and 38 minutes
Well, I need rest but after that, the 1h 38 minute timer starts xD
9am and I'm still awake
lurk <w<
This is my headcanon now lmao
Peak vibe lmao
@verbal fossil
🥞👒
Oh wow those pancakes look amazing
When I can't sleep, I like to daydream - at night. It's like regular dreaming except I'm totally aware and have way more control over the goings-on. At some point, my brain catches on, snaps its fingers, and says 'Ohhhh you want actual dreams' and I seamlessly pass out without noticing the transition.
i do that too sometimes. it's so weird to wake up from a daydream and realise you were dreaming for real.
Like lucid dreaming? Or something different?
Lucid dreaming is when you're actually in deep sleep but still aware of where you are and able to influence your surroundings.
The experiences you have feel real in a lucid dream whereas daydream is more like watching a play of something you imagine than experiencing it yourself.
yeah, i do that a lot too. again, really weird to wake up from that and enter the "real world"
Yeah I lucid dream often, but hadn't heard of the daydream changing into actual dream before, just wanted to check I was understanding :)
Mine can sometimes get very intense to the point where I can recall faces, names, streets, landmarks, addresses, and other details from the dream. Eerily, sometimes they link up to realworld things that I had no knowledge of prior.
That's really interesting!
Oh yeah definitely
about a month ago, i was telling my SO about how i was looking forward to the movie she told me about. she asked "what movie" and i told her. she was like "i've never heard of that movie." the next day the trailer premiered on imdb.com and she was like "i hate it when you do that."
Lol
Same thing occasionally happens when I'm making a joke and the random detail I choose to use turns out to be significant and relevant, ie suggesting that someone likes a certain musical artist, very obscure, and they happen to be listening to them at that moment.
i've been having these kinds of things for decades, pretty much ever since puberty, where i just randomly know what's about to happen. makes birthdays and x-mas really hard for my family.
It's a lot of fun, really. Coincidence? Prescience? Luck? We may never know, and I adore that we may never know.
idk about "fun"... i get the Cassandra thing way too often. seeing that kind of stuff doesn't help my depression any, let me tell ya.
Well, sure, I get it for sad, scary, and unpleasant things too, but conceptually I am delighted by the thought that there are things we don't and may never understand. Some people find it depressing, but whenever I try to imagine what came before existence as we know it and am reminded that no one's 100% certain, it gives me absolute zen.
i should try that more often. i keep slacking on my studies and i really shouldn't. i know waiting is part of Zen, but doing is just as much a part of it.
You’re right, no one knows 👀
Hiiiii Tuuuuurtleeeeee
I'm in a meeting but then, then it's movie time 👀 if ya kno wa im sayin
Hi Berry 👋
Is this the ban hammer? as they call it
movie time 🍿
It's the turtle ban slap 😂
I approve of this, very much, yup
And my "3 hour meeting" is now over after 50 minutes, YEAH OKAY ADMIN, how about you apply some administrative reconditioning to your own work, HUH?! They should hire me xD
I specifically requested clear times so I could plan my day 👀 guess I got 2 hours to kill now before my plans start, hmmmm
Daybreakers 🍿
Bake a pie.
This
I'll have my judgement ready for you in 1½ hour Turtle, ciao!
what are you doing here, Berry
vibrating
@slate cave "good work you did what you signed up to do and knew you had to do"
Good work doesn't fit if it's what you signed up for xD
hey some people don't sign up for it
also you still say "good work" after someone completes an assignment
like 'oh i finished that spreadsheet' 'oh good work'
That wasn't mandatory
i mean if it's for work it probably is
I mean not even working is mandatory, you can just leave
you have a weird idea of what mandatory means
Mandatory is when you don't have a choice
I don't think there is anything mandatory in life then.
I mean…. If you want to keep living then some things do become mandatory……. Yeah?
that's what I mean, your primary choice isn't "eat", but eating is mandatory if you want to live
🧠🔥
What I mean with "side effects"
It's all comes down to what people consider to be their definition of it, but that's mine ^^
That I can understand and agree too! Everything is subjective and up to personal interpretation!
I feel that's very important that most miss, just because you think something doesn't mean everyone does, and if you want your opinion to matter to others, you must respect that others may feel the same way, but you don't have to agree at all
I just try to keep calm. 😅 So much huge things happening atm.
Huge things? 👀
Communication is the absolute key to a happy life, in my opinion! Understanding and valuing each others differences start with communication.
Communication is the most fundamental aspect of life, and so many disregard it by choice xD
Yeah. I have been staying home with kids for years. Now I go to school everyday and even my sweet baby went to school all by herself today.
It felt so weird to leave the kid home when I took off. 😬
Oh wow… that’s huge.
Time flies
Yeah..
Gosh, I got so anxious thinking about it! Kit is only about two months old so I won’t be leaving them anytime soon.
I wrote an article for my thesis about "subconscious communication", it was a fun study
are they wiggling
Not right now! But sooooon… I can sense it in the air…….. the wigglies. Haha!
wiggle child
Yup! I’m glad though! Wigglies to let me know they need something is better than straight to crying!
What an evolutionary turn! (joke)
@rigid zephyr It is now 1½h later, I can confirm 5 things:
- Concept 10/10
- Story composition 10/10
- Acting/script 7/10
- They sure solved the overpopulation crisis
- Ending could've been better imo
Was a good watch, I appreciate the recommendation!
What’s your favorite character from a game you’ve never played?
That green guy named Zelda (I'm joking don't kill me I know it's Link)
Mine is Junkrat from overwatch. Never played it, likely never will, but Junkrat is P E A K character design!
Trashmouse is pretty neat
If you haven't seen the short of him and Roadhog, I suggest you watch it
clear from dramatical murder (nsfw bl game so dont look it up lol)
I have!!! Glorious! Junkrat is actually the reason I tried boba milk tea for the first time, haha!
Oooooooo!
Solair from dark souls
What game is that from? O.o
dramatical murder
(i like him better with the mask than without it though...)
my reasoning is "hes cute lol"
It looks like one of those ehm, text progression games, whatever those are called
Quick!! What’s your favorite color? You can’t pick a color someone else chose before you. GO! 
Red!
Is black a color? I guess it is ⬛
Yellow
Pink
Depends on who you ask, I'll say "sometimes"
Orange, btw
Purple.
btw do you guys know your personality types? i think im infp
Blue
Pastel pink
I'm me
thanks for playing along
We just had some temper test thingies today
I'm everyone around me. 👀
Damn chameleon 👀
INFJ, Blue here.
i havent taken a personality color thing
It has been years since I did. Was on a dating site.
:o
Ended up leaving that dating site, It started out with questionnaires and personality test to try and find matches based on personality and interests, it had chatrooms and bunches of ways to get to know people. But in the end they started stripping features, till all it was, was a smaller tinder clone.
Well, I'm very shy, and live like a hermit. It is the only way I get to meet people. every date I've been on has been with someone I met on a dating site. Though I haven't been on a date in over 3 years, so I am starting to doubt their current effectiveness.
ive never really tried
i dont even know what sites are good
when i thought about dating sites for gay guys i heard of grindr but im pretty sure thats more for hookups than dating...
well, whatever
That is the issue now days, It is hard to find a dating site that isn't mainly used for hookups.
:(
Who knows Rin, maybe we will meet our future perspective halves here or in Palia when it comes out.
I've know people to meet their spouses in other games.
OKCupid isn't that bad because you can answer a billion questions and say how important each answer is to you, so you can kinda filter people out that way. Like there's some questions in there about racial preferences when dating, or rights for certain people and I can look at those and say "Oh, okay this person and I would not get along"
I've answered 2983 questions on OKCupid...
859 for me, but most of them I just replied 
This is the reason why I had tinder, I don't meet people anywhere cause I rarely leave my apartment. And somehow I managed to find someone through it, we've been together for three years now 💜
Congrats! That's wonderful to hear.
Personalities have colors now?
I met Jules through twitch and discord of all things, I don’t leave my room either 👀
Yeah Red, yellow, blue and green.
The more you know, I’ll never get why but knowledge is power
From what we read today I'm yellow. And still an introvert. 😂😂
Imagine meeting someone through Palia discord. You guys are some weirdos 😛
We met in an art discord actually haha, was in the same project
I can be hopeful.
@unique spear I mean that in the nicest way
Well I have only odd friends that I have collected during odd hobbies.
Odd people are much more fun than boring people
Yes.
yup, i know lol
So duck met someone here, got it
And for real you can't say that youre too tired to meet, if the other half is a normie.
The more you know
They met for cheese and quackers
I would expect nothing less
imagine setting up a meetup with me, only to meet an actual duck waiting, sitting on a chair beside a table
Still no :Palia facepalm emote:
My hubby just promised that I can order doll stuff. 😭
So you actually met up, the more you know
"i just told you I'm duck"
Don’t rush me D:

I’m on my way home, I’ll get to work on it in 5 minutes and we’ll have a facepalm emote within 2 hours
Quote me
No, dad, don’t actually
Imagine Jules’ surprise when there was no Berry waiting
I don't remember if I was infp or inft... But I had a personality test at job lately. I am 0 tradition oriented and 100% spontaneous also I'm 100% solitary
My memory is so bad, I can never remember who said they were working on it.
Assume it’s me, if it’s not I’ll know who XD
might explain why my test entries are called things like "litte frogs vs car" instead of "test entry 1"
I try those things but it always crashes, same with therapy, just ends up with the therapist crying
PSA: The Dynasty Warriors movie on Netflix is a wild ride! 😄
"No, dad, don’t actually" - @median brook, August 16th, 2021
Thank you, it was just for you 
Berry has Nitro...
If I had nitro, I would only use it to use emotes from here on other servers, as none of my other servers have such quality custom emotes.
(I’m in another server only for the emotes)
But you bet your sweet behind on that I use Palia emotes more
Is there a way I can use Discord emotes in Slack?
Not to my knowledge, those are different softwares, no?
Yeah, but Slack as a way to add an emote, but I don't know how to export them from discord.
I think downloading them and adding to, is the only way
But I don't know much about Slack
How do I download emotes from discord?
You on pc?
yeah, but also had the android app installed on my phone.
just watched the new episode of the owl house
On pc you can right click any emote and save it
noone can beat the chancla
Once an emote is sent you can right click and save it to your pc*
Cool!


Now we know what the favorites are 👀
Aye.
I know where that's from originally xD
same

Downloaded and tested. I know have Palia emotes in Slack 
A question popped into my mind while I was eating...if the Earth was a square...would the spin axis be in the midlle of the face or on a corner...
it would be kinda on the left
The physics portion of my brain started to scream when I read that.
sorry...if the earth was a cube
yeah mine too...but then the ADHD part. just say sush! It deserve consideration and basically started singing louder than the physics portion could explain
The earth couldn't be a cube, the gravity of its mass is what makes it round.
I know that, but what if?? It's like what if you could smell the color blue.
humm 4 coffee cups by noon is definitely too much
Well, smelling the color blue is as simple as synthistasia or taking LSD.
Both are bad, by the way. One is a sign of brain damage, the other can cause it.
The Earth is a cube
Earth has a 4-corner simultaneous 4-day TIME CUBE in only 24 hour rotation
how 'bout we all agree that the earth is || flat ||
:insert Eye Twitch emote here:
that is a joke don't @ me bahah
Oh, I'll @ you
soon Odd-ball will be curled under his desk
as a joke a feel it fell flat...
thank you, thank you, Years of being a dad help a lot
My pantheist uncle believes the earth is flat, the moon is a projection on the sky, and that the government controls peoples minds with microwave ovens...
the 70s were not kind to him.
oh no
what kind of phrase could a pokemon professor say to include nbs
"Are you a boy or a girl or neither?"
that sounds kinda longwinded
think of all the extremely funny people that will say the super cool and original helicopter joke
or they could just do away with the convention of the older adult asking the PC about their gender identity xD
That reminds me of a chaotic one in TikTok. They do a series of "What is your gender?" and crazy off the wall responses that avoid the question completely.
"What is your gender?" "Well you know that scene in Overwatch where Hanzo and Genji are fighting using the dragons and-- (goes into a long rant)"
"What is your gender?"
Jojo's
"What?"
Jojo's bizarre adventure
"No I'm asking about your gender."
- I said what I said.*
Yes
That’s why I answer “asparagus” to what my zodiac is
My nephew has very long hair and many a individual are always asking or outright referring to him as a girl
Kid is like 6 leave him alone
just be sure that you want to be identified as a Jojo's, because I would downright write it.
i hate the helicopter joke but i adore gender jokes made by lgbtq people mocking the helicopter jokes
Leave the kids alone
Teacher
Some people are terrified when they can't instantly determine someone's gender.
Me
what's your zodiac sign, Berry
I get so uncomfortable using pronouns nowadays I’m afraid I’ll have to go to prison for mentally insulting someone
That above is the glorious chaos.
I’m such an asparagus you have no idea
Do you accept elder scrolls signs?
Screw zodiacs, whos your final fantasy guardian
I think it's hilarious; people feel robbed if they don't know whether to call someone sir or ma'am and it's in the context of that person just bagging their groceries for them. Just say thank you. Like magic. ✨
Can I ask a genuine question that some will take as offensive?
If you get corrected, just say 'thank you' and make a note for next time (and y'know try to remember it)
just be grateful that english allow for some gender neutral expressions... you can't They peoples in french
I also accept stop signs
if you have to ask before you ask, may be best to take it to DMs xD
Well in some states medical professionals can lose their license by accidentally using the wrong pronoun, even if the person in question doesn't complain. There is even a chance of being fined, gladly the jail time portion didn't get passed.
It’s not offensive, just some always think it is
I’ll ask you in dm and you can be the judge since I don’t have feelings
That sounds pretty silly. I get if someone is persistently using the wrong pronouns on purpose (you get briefed before you meet with a patient, so their chart should always prevent this from happening), but accidents are totally understandable.
yeah i also think thats silly
Medical charts show biological gender due to it being needed for proper treatment. Some also include gender identity, but not all.
Okay, so just add an identity data point. Healthcare is about the whole person, or should be.
In the US, it is more about milking a sick person for money.
Which states are those, super chief?
I look at it the same way I do with people who get name changes. Even totally usual cisgender heterosexual people sometimes look at their names and say 'nah'. People might still call them their old name and professionals might goof and do so because the name hasn't been legally altered, but it'd be pretty rude if someone who knew better kept going out of their way to call you Percival when you go by Kevin now.
When my mom was a nurse in California, she told me this was the case. One of the reasons she moved to Utah.
I don't suppose she told what law or statute of the licensing board that was under, because I'm just having so much trouble finding any information about it.
I mean the leading joke online is that people in the states would jump out of the ambulance if they found out they were in one
California has too many useless and stupid laws, I don't bother to keep track of them all. Especially as I don't live there anymore.
I see plenty of stuff about new laws passed or in progress where doctors can charged with criminal violations for treating transgender teens
I think it is 5k for an ambulance ride, 15k if you're choppered out.
Which is why I was on the floor for an hour waiting for my brother to pick me up when I had a kidney stone, I thought it could be my appendix, but I couldn't afford an ambulance ride, so I waited for my brother who lives 40 miles away.
US #1
Yeah I’d jump out xD
🌯
People have, I’ve seen it
They’ll try to bring people on on the stretchers and if the patient tries hard enough they can sometimes unstrap themselves and run away
for some reason the bottom right corner of my mouth is hurting
or just feeling uncomfortable
@uneven scroll Welcome! Here's the requested gif. https://i.imgur.com/V6x0jLM.gif
It is a thing of beauty
Never has there been a warmer welcome 🤣
I bet if we tried... We could do the whole song...
In other news. Running dev channel Windows 11.
My first major error! Windows Explorer won't start up.
You don't need it. Windows Explorer isn't that important
It's only the start menu. LOL
But me fixed it. Ran a script in the Powershell and logged out and back in.,
@young palm RE: your former wife
So I trust it would go without saying
That I would feel really very sad
If tomorrow you were to fall off something high
Or catch something bad
But I'm just saying
I don't think you're special
I mean, I think you're special
But, you fall within a bell curve
I mean, I'm just saying I
Really think that I would
Probably
Have somebody else
🧐
Join my coop game on Bloons TD 6! https://join.btd6.com/Coop/RVGRUH
I have the infinite internet at my fingertips and I can’t figure out a single thing to do right now. So blahhhhhhh.
Love to join a BTD6 with you guys once I'm off the clock 😊
Bloons... 🤤
googly eye bloons
🎯 
explorer is important...what would you use to download firefox or chrome if you didn't had it.
is explorer the same thing as edge
No no. That's INTERNET Explorer. This is Windows Explorer, AKA the core program that lets you navigate Windows itself.
ahem
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
That's fair. And now you have! 😄
I have so many flag emotes it's great.
or 
for some more examples. 😄

but I've got a ton of pride-themed heart emotes



etc

can't forget the one I literally identify with
It makes me tempted to make my own so I can get even more
but yeah for me it's
These are all so lovely 

and then I use

to tell people to respect trans folks' pronouns
or their pronouns boutta be was/were
my favorite joke so far lol
That's one of my favorite jokes/threats right now. 😄
It boggles me that so many just can't stop giving a crap
@craggy sapphire Ok so they were accused of harassment and some other things, The theory is they were on vacation during the investigation, sadly the team has not given a result of the investigation yet but more than likely them leaving the CM role is a big part of it. A lot of people are for now are holding judgement until we see the results tho. Right now it looks like they just moved nel to another position but again nothing official.
If anyone doesn't respect pronouns, I shall identify as a problem. That's also one I enjoy.
yes
Thanks
Yea, about 10ish old coworkers from blizzard came out about her on twitter, but out of respect of the team I wanna keep it off the server so dm if you want to know more @inner ice
Thank you
Not that I'm the team
I don't want to know more, given my own past history with this kind of stuff on the receiving end
I just...
The past is the past...
But there's people who are completely over hearing about it too xD
Is what I meant
yup, but I also don't want to hide it in the backround so I'll keep people up to date but I wont encourage discussion on this server at least
People can be over hearing about it and there can be people hearing about it for the first time;
I'm not asking for a discussion.
I just wanted to know the very basic headline, so to speak.
Now that I know that, I'd prefer to move off this topic.
Nothing against you at all Claris ^^ was just a comment on that it was for respect of the team, which is nice
It was an addition not a remark 
I getcha.
What language you debugging in?
C++
Oof..
it's mostly in the move state files, which should only be about 80 lines
I've lost my entire C++ knowledge and what I did know then was brief either way so I am no help at all
something about the way it grabs the target is just...
not checking the enemy side of the field
and I don't know why.
the Spikey is very clearly blue team.
Well, they could have just said in the post in #📢│community-news that Nel was moved to another position. Because my first thought was "What happened to Nel". I mean she's the one Dev we have had the most communication with. Not addressing that question by themselves create a natural urge to know more, right
You sure you don't got a line in there claiming that it's only friendly fire allowed? XD
It can't hit friendlies
I added a line to switch me to blue team
and it could attack
but it couldn't hit me with the attack
friendly fire is literally impossible as the engine is rn
Ok are your enemies in seperate classes
Oh I misunderstood the targeting issue
I just need to go over the mob I copied Spikey from
and see what I accidentally erased.
Fingers crossed its early in the 250 lines
could you do a diff comparison or are the classes significantly diff
class for the player and the enemy are both derived from the same base class, but inherited differently down the line
agent > character > several classes to handle movement, attacking, etc
each of the several classes being built according to the players' needs or the enemy's needs
right now I'm looking for where Metrid, the enemy I based Spikey on, decides its target
but it looks like that's done auto at battle intro, with code found in Agent
so that's innate to every monster derived from Agent
and thus shouldn't be where the issue lies
could it be that when it first grabs the ref of the players location it is pulling a null? becuase it's to early in the stack
oops found the issue
I was telling the Spikey to warp to Player X / random Y
it CAN'T warp to Player X.
it needs to warp to random X / Player Y
got it backwards.
so since it can't warp to that, it just continues teleporting around the field.
ahh, the issues of too many protections leading to making debugging harder
some enemies DO need to be able to warp to red tiles
I know there's an option to let them
but it's something you have to turn on during attack/move state
confirmed I can share a gif of the fix;
it's a little fast on the animation itself but Spikey now spits fireball at ya!
Fangame making is going well
gotta slow him down and add a pause after he fires before he goes idle again.
but once I do that, Spikey's done!
maaah detail detail....
Ho ho, 99,990 discord members. Better start preparing the party for the 100k member 🥳
dance party!!! /0/ /0/ \0\ \0\ \0/ \0/ \0/
LESGO
Reimagine the galaxy with #StarWarsVisions, an Original Series featuring stories from seven visionary Japanese anime studios, streaming September 22 on #DisneyPlus
wait...was that a lightsaber umbrella??
and 100k + 4 members 🥳
The A:tLA ttrpg hit their stretch goal for a virtual tabletop and companion app
omg
That discord Video is hilarious
.> weird that i liked it but i did
Did anyone else see the weird video?
We made a movie. Actually, you made it too, so we hope you like it. It's about what Discord means to us, to you, and to people everywhere. Whether you're here to hang, chat, talk, study, or love eggs, all you have to do is imagine a place on Discord.
More on #ImagineAPlace: https://dis.gd/imagine-community
oh I've never seen this before!
it's so silly x3
but it's nice

I just watched Plastic Memories and I cried for the first time in a good long while ;u;
This kitten has improved my (tbh not that bad) mood 10 fold. Thank you. ♡
IT'S THE KITTEEEENN CAVALRY!! SO MUUUCCHHH CUTENEESSS


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Time to Lucid dream about 3 years later
You should maybe sleep
I would love to but I can’t
.
Ah.
And I don’t mean “oh no I can’t whua whua” I mean I physically can’t
Until my body decides it’s time to pass out from exhaustion
Damn. Hopefully ya can get something that'll help with that at some point
So far I am 9 years into trying different things and 2 years with consulting doctors
Kinda used to it to say the least ^^ but be nice to be able to lay down and sleep in 5 seconds
Like a normal carbon based life form 👀
I have trouble sleeping at 10 like most folks, so I just stay up until 2-3am 'til I feel sleepy. I can relate in a way.
Sleep is a bodily need I would like evolution to get rid of 👀
Coffee can fix that! You just need more and more strong amounts of it.
Imagine if we didn’t need sleep and just functioned 24/7
I mean eventually you die xD
I would get so much done
It sounds nice until you realize everyone else is also gonna be up 24/7
I mean someone is always awake
I too, have troouble sleeping these past two nights (well this night is still going, it's around 5am here)
Imagine the free time you’d have after work
But what're the odds of another 2-3am wanderer being in the same building?
If you didn’t have to waste 6-10 sleeping
My screaming neighbor would make that 100% likelihood
6-10???
Normal people offal not us
Man. I remember the time I spent 10 hours sleeping. I don't even know how, but I felt like going back to sleep the second I woke up
The older you get, the less sleep you need
Until you’re old and you need more and more
What's the oldest limit?
Pnia is a GMT+1/2 dweller like me
Oh, even people in their 70's/80's need like 7 hours sleep on average I think I read once (sorry, no source :c) which is one hour less than the 8 hour average I hear so much about (also no source u_u)
I just base it off old people always being asleep
I'm going to get told off if I don't at least try. I'm going to put something boring on and give it a shot. I will probably be back.
5 hours is also a thing, but that's gonna really really mess you up.
I’ve been trying since.. well you know when XD
Well, I have slept this night already, but had to get up to go to the toilet at 3:30am and then the same thing happened like last night: I thought about how excited I am for my student job and a Minecraft server I run, and couldn't sleep anymore
Best of luck Offal
Thank you muchly. 
I hope it can helpy
Aye, good luck Offal
So is everyone active rn a night-dweller?
Probably.
I’m a everything, some nights I’m awake at 9am still, and some I’m asleep by 6pm
But yes?
I just simply don’t sleep and crash anywhere between 24-72 hour intervals
I slept pretty well before last 2 nights :( darn excitement
But! I am so happy I found this community to chat with at those times ^_^
It’s nice to have company that’s for sure
So what are you doing at the moment, fellow night-dweller(s)?
Thinking
What aboot ma dood
I'm making a few fixes on our MC server website 😅 They've been there for too long
If I can do rocket science, I can absolutely obliterate Kerbal Space Program, but I need to master Calculus/Physics, and THAT will require Trigonometry plus some other things I can't remember!
Morning. 🥱
Can always ask dadjoke for classes, or take my physics and math classes with me in a couple months
Maybe.
I’ll stream them for you
I just might chug the strongest dose of coffee I can and see if I can magically crunch everything ever
hmmm... coffee
might make some too, but Imma wait a bit longer as to not waker up the neighbours here with our loud microwave x)
I'm pretty glad to be an extremely quiet person. Everyone would probably hate if I stomped around the house at 1-2am.
Sweden welcomes you, we’re the country of Sshhhh
Even in public
And then the worst monster of all appears in the dark: a bug.
Because you'll wanna jump when some 6/8/30 legged creature pops up in a corner or something and scares the life outta ya
Worst I get is house centipedes or the horrible scratching of something outside the house
Oh I love Grounded! I tried it out in the recent free weekend
Grounded is nice. I gotta wait on it to be finished though
I have screamed in surprise a few times, I admit. Sudden spiders are not fun xD
I'm going to wait as well. I was contemplating to buy it for around 30 euros in alpha, but Imma wait for a sale on the finished product.
Me and Jules got it the other day
When I see a bug I make a varying degree of "FSHFHSFHSH" depending on how close it was
I was super wary of even the 'cuter' bugs at the start> Had to mind-over-body my reaction to seeing a simple fly at first
Jules is an arachnophobe, I am the lookout so she doesn’t have to see them
I just hate all bugs.
They should stay where they belong, outside, because that’s where I don’t belong and I respect that 👀
Ye
True, I know I can expect them in nature or my garden, but rather not inside my home
Yee yee
Hi @subtle heart, greetings from your southern neighbour from Belgium
. Are you still up or up already, cause it darn early xD
My timezone is New Zealand :3
Ahh, that explains!
That’s a jawadadade from me
I find it awesome to meet fellow Dutch speaking people hehe.
Woo! 🙌
Ooooo
Hmm, I might make a Dutch neighbourhood when this game comes out, lol
I do, yes :) a Dutch one at that too!
Oooo, I am interested!
Oh, send me a pm ^_^ I'll explain everything
In about 7 minutes I'm off to work 😀 take care everyone and see you this evening!
Morning Pals! Wishing everyone a good day today ❤️
it's going to be humid and warm today, with Fred visiting tomorrow (Thursday). i am very unexcited.
I want a knitting machine.
beh week going to be hot and humid...
https://albiononline.com/?ref=TVLCXMT654 Let's play
wanna see the music video with the weirdest aspect ratio ive ever seen
uhhhh blood tw i think
俺は泥棒である。
往古来今、多様な泥棒が居るが、俺は奴等とは少し違う。
金を盗む訳では無い。骨董品宝石その他価値ある美術の類にも、とんと興味が無い。
俺は、音を盗む泥棒である。
思想犯というテーマは、ジョージ・オーウェルの小説「1984」からの盗用である。そして盗用であると公言したこの瞬間、盗用はオマージュに姿を変える。盗用とオマージュの境界線は曖昧に在るようで、実は何処にも存在しない。逆もまた然りである。オマージュは全て盗用になり得る危うさを持つ。
この楽曲の詩は尾崎放哉の俳句と、その晩年をオマージュしている。
それは、きっと盗用とも言える。
ヨルシカ - 思想犯
Yorushika - Thoughtcrime
作詞作曲、編曲(Words and Music): n-bun...
(the song bops btw i love yorushika)
the in-discord player doesnt really do justice to how far this video stretches in browsers lol
patient doggies attack one at a time
Oh I've heard of that, it's that megaman game that blew up and became competitive
You'd think that this is just EXE6, but actually it's a replica engine of it
😉
been working in it the past month or so.
That series was good.











