#general-chat
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Have you asked other peeps in your situation?
i dont know anyone:(
idk, the incense he recommended was japanese
Surely you can dig online
hmm they only complained about the website being too pricey but thts every website so idk what can i do about it... im ready to pay but i expect a place to stay in in return you know
talk to people who have used the website
i mean i know it was fine for them
im checking reddit, most ppl say its a scam ofc but others say when there's high demand its normal for landlords to do this
Ask them for any proofs and keep every receipts
sorry ask who
Ughhhh
oh while reading reddit i realised deposit is more than first months rent but that was the case for other apartments too
The landlord? The company that provides the place? Insurance things?
Bruh
oh ya speaking of insurance i was asked to buy one too but when i said how and where i got ignored lowkey
they only said its price which is not much but yea
It does sound scammy
but the website is trustable
I'm so confused lmao
i think this landlord is just an ahh hole
Mmh if the appart is on the market via the agency it should be included in the official price or on the "bill" paper thingy they issue at the end of each month or semester ( idk if it works the same in your country though)
If its the landlord only, you need to get your own insurance, and the landlord should not ask you the money for it, only proof that you are covered by insurance
Yeah, maybe go see other options before committing to this guy
Also also, in some places, the deposit can be 2 or 3 times the rent payment., but I'd advise to not engage any money of you are not absolutely sure you're getting the deal and not being scammed.
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why
oh i see, i mean its me and landlord now because agency stopped caring after making me pay the first months rent and booking fee
so now they want me to buy an insurance, fair i guess
yes
that was pretty much the best option for me
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you are right shai thanks sm for the advises ๐
i will look into it
how are you miki?
hot as always, im getting ready to move out to hostel
wbu? hows our cucumber
cucumbers growing! im getting ~3-6 pet week
what hostel? you are on vacation?
holly molly
uni hostel, no im at my house ;( i wish i was on vacation
i was thinking to start coc again
Welp
GOODLUCK! u got this
thts amazing if u feeling betterrr. GOOD JOB BABES
how r studies?
Kinda stressed. gotta finish this report but im alright. Alive but stressed 
good evening noone
FRogyyy hiii. Good evening! hru? did listen to the playlists? or r they too boring for u?
7.5 watermelon done this summer 
i cant listen them full, because this is spotify and i need register + download that. But i listen all short preview, they are too relaxing, like old good jazz, i like it, but not really my type 
tell me ur favourite genre
Ic. Being stressed means you are alive so good for that lol
right???
exactly
let me google what genre are exist haha
well, looks like i like almost every electro music, like techno, house, Synthwave etc...
can i send some?
did bun leave
Check out the actual contract to see if you are paying the insurance via the agency or of anything is stated
okay i will thanks shai
hey is there a dc notification whenever james goes live? for the study stream yk
You're welcome hun 
@tidal basin ?
hey guys how are u?
yes he is on a break
oh ok
Bruh he was stressed yesterday but he promised that he will feed me thukpa someday
May he come back real quick
was he? was it about the server
did someone upset bun
he told me he was just busy
Yeah he told me the same
I asked him to have some alone time to unwind
umm guys
But he didn't take my advice and went on to chat further 
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im ok too, glad to know it
what are you upto
yea, I was just to say the 3th time now, but it would be very...
๐ญ lmao
tbh just to chill... I'm kinda sick
literally ๐ญ
ITS AMAZING ๐ฃ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ
Getting older and getting responsibilities ๐ฃ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ
Free will ๐ฃ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ
wow, take care man
sorry im helping my mom with cookinh rn
trying, but at least I lose weight as consequence
hey chilll, no worries
No there's no notification, the server being this big, alot of people would dislike the @ everyone ping, ig that's why ^^
if u want a notification u could just set one up on youtube
or just have a timer go off 12PM PST
cause thats when he usually goes live
I js had a big ahh pizza and some garlic bread I couldnโt study much beside the classes.
meal fit for kings
Do you mean fatasses?
nicenice, do you gym
i mean we twining cause I would eat that shit
I started last week, but I lose weight more throwing up than other thing๐
good good
lol you should go to doc tho
oh what the helly
wtf wife?! how old are you unc
I will make 20 this month
20 and married?
yea
damnnnnn
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i thought 23 and married is youngest married couple i've seen
is she 20 too? (sorry if i shouldnt ask)
yea
@violet gull is this better way to ask
we both are 20
oh nice nice
yea
where yall from
I'm from Portugal but I'm in bulgaria
oh damn suii
ahaha yea
Who did?
You're slick miki ๐
Youre not hiding from the military anymore, the military is hiding from you
I was a little inspired by digital minimalism and I want to try it
has anyone tried it yet?

Starting today, Iโve decided to use this server daily for my study sessions. @everyone @here seems very friendly and kind, so Iโm looking forward to having a great time with all of you!-:)
good luck
Nice
naurr
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morning
tf is a consiglier
consigliere?
it's literally Tom Hagen from the godfather,
it's a member of the mafia who is the adviser but also keeps the mafia and family intact
it's the guy who knows what's business and what's personal
you think you can be that guy?
meh,
It's a mafia themed game we play similar to sub rosa
Yo I havenโt been here in a LONG time Hru guys and whatโs James been up to
I saw his YouTube and he has another channel now? Can u guys update me (ping me plz)
Well, he is back in LA
good morning everyone
alright so he's back in LA, has a bigger apartment.
he's working in his social media app thing (minimalistic social media i guess)
@ jvscholz is his updates and everyday carry youtube channel
while @jamesvinhscholz is his streaming channel
ye he's back streaming his study with me live pomodoro! again with rain sounds
and lofi :)
oh shit
thanks

hi!
7
13
1
what y'all got
bro why are you talking to me like this ๐
i didnt even say anyth cuhh๐๐๐
check dms :^)
wha?
WHAT HAPPENED?
some guy was posting an ad on money making
pretty sure he's broke


Hey guys I need help
like alot
of help
I have a question is there a study guide on here
Like a guide for study tips
cuz like i did really bad last year
check pins of this channel and other
and ask questions in #general-help-chat
geng vs t1
Why scared, you're tala you always get out on top
@turbid vector are you in uni yet ?
ill find out on results day ๐ฅน
Whattt when ???
the 14th
astrophysics
yeah the nerves are starting the settle in
me too, i kinda just want them over with but in typical united kingdom fashion they love building tension
You got any big unis in your wish list ?
depends how it goes on results day
though the university that im waiting on is top 10 here so im not gonna complain much
Hell yea man, you're going to love it there, university is very different
bro i spoke to a friend of mine yesterday
told him my current lifestyle and he just said "your on track for uni, the only difference is youll have 3 lectures a week"
my schedule is wake up at 2pm and play videogames all day
Watching my least hated englishman make it to university is emotional ngl ๐ฅฒ
my friend is also a pilot btw
This is why england fell so hard
But yea you got so much more freedom, if youre smart with your time you are going to love it
bro im expecting my first year to be full of socialising
out at night every night
if my flatmates are incels then im going outside with a bottle in my hand levels of insanity
Great mindset
Just dont forget about classes Sam ๐ญ๐ญ
i can worry about that in the latter half of the year ngl
The youth nowadays ๐
im pretty sure the first term of university in the uk is usually recap from what youve already done
since i havent had school for the past 2 months now
Yeah, I'm not sure about the UK but in the US it is really easy unless you already have credit and take what your studying
have fun
They give out your results so late
275000 people take my exams every year
You got 3 weeks to settle and prepare
depends on the uni
usually they start last september early october
i think mine starts in september i have no clue
ill worry when its september
we dont have that credit system which is somewhat of a bummer
Still, this isnt optimal for the students
We have 720 000 people passing the baccalaurรฉat, they still get the results in july and they get to go to uni between september and october
you do the course and only your course with no leaneancy when you apply in the uk
For once France is actually organized
yeah but like baccalaureat its worldwide no? i know a school near me that does it
most likely a) the examiners are understaffed b) they also include gcse exams (the ones you do 2 years prior to the ones i do)
Yea, like the SAT, the correction is made in the rรฉgion where it is taken, everyone gets their results on time
and gcse has like 6 million every year people take it
Most probably a
and they get their exams on the 16th
fair enough then
hi guys. how r u doing??
Hi welcome to the server ๐๐
What's good
Nice pfp i agree ๐ฏ
@everyone Im making a Schedule routine to how to become Efficient Rather than working for hours like me ill send it here and also use it for several week myself Im sending it Since my agenda is to Help people like myself which study for hours but still dont get the grades they want
Also you can modify the routine As much you want
If you got any tips for it drop it here so i can read it and add it in the schedule
My man... your pfp...
Cheers
Does anyone have any resources for self teaching more effectively and efficiently? Ie, how to schedule, how to process information more effectively, etc. Edit: To be clear Im looking for books, videos, etc. Im not against clear AI tools but im more trying to understand dense matierals and books, without AI.
You can use AI to schedule...and it can also assist in self learning
this is true but i got too reliant on it
if i didnt know something i immediately asked chatgpt
i am trying to just not use ai at all these days because of that
Yes I agree on that...we need to push our brains on difficult problems. But it surely helps for scheduling and organising your stuff, hence for self learning
yeah it could be useful in creating flashcards and stuff ig
Hmm this is my fault for not accounting or excluding from this. But noted regardless. I meant more books, videos, etc.
once you find out i would like to know too
ive heard of this book called deep work (havent read it myself) but that could work
I have a copy, but like any reader I fall behind 
I know the author has a youtube channel.
i listen to his podcast its pretty good
You'll find tons on youtube, but what is going to help you the most is starting, starting anywhere, and learning from yourself.
You'll know best what are your limitations. Take ร week planner, make your own plan, see if you overestimated or underestimated your abilities, and go from that
This is going to be worth much mire than the time you'll spend wondering, and researching, and not actually doing the planning
hello scopio ?
did u set ur books
I set them, and i even started one
ohh isnt that bad ?
It was about announcing death to the family, that was ... something : D
hahahahaha
Well, im not yet at ร stage where i understand everything, but 75% is good too
Hru doing ??
ohh ok keeping moving but dont stop
im doing good today i git bio's flp
Yess, very important
i scored good marks
ikr how u doing ?
Niceee, whats the next step ?
Im doing good, Im happy with what i studied, Im planning on doing one or 2 mini chapter ร day this year
umm till 14 sept i will giving flps and mock test so that i could make a grip on my concepts
Go all the way down in the list of channels, its called lofi room
yeah this will be so good ngl it will help u alot
most importantly u will complete it on time
Great, training as many times as you can will get you on top
Yesss, im trying to make ร difference in the long run
ikr hope i can make it to the top
ikr gl
Whatโs the Coldplay song with the monkeys
Cause Im alive again tiridurudurududurududu
dunno the name tho
Aventure of a lifetime
take ร
If you flinch your eyes ร bit you can see what i meant
Thank you
i always know what you mean
Oh wow
Thank you reyn, that sounds supportive
ofc hun
<@&942391219206647828>
๐ซต this man right here
man im the only mod now
What the hell, we cant just leave you alone like that
Its okey, I volunteer graciously to help you, just give me the mod role and well tackle that
Come on come on come on
Yesss @tidal basin just tama and me, admin role would be cool too ig
Hehehe
Right tama ? We'd take anything
I have hardly seen mel take a break it's high time we fill in her boots
This is the sole and only reason why we'd want to have responsabilities and control over 151 000 people ๐๐๐ผ
4 u to have a breather mel
Just... leave discord for a week or 2
Yesss you deserve it more than we do...no guarantees if the server will remain the same or not
What can probably go wrong tho
We're too good and stable for that tama, all will go juuuuust right ๐
@tidal basin Look at this smiley face and tell me you cant trust him (and me ofc :DD )
Let the girl sleep ahah
Naaah mods should never sleep
Exactly why
And this is why me, Alex goodman, propose myself to the post of "moderator" for jvs
Better call Alex ๐ซต๐งโ๐
@mint frigate whats the plan for today ??
Oh... wow, yea maybe not the best day to get some studying done
Good luck, take it easy
Well right now it is 11pm, qo probably some mimimimi time in a few mins XD
Thxx, cya on the other side ๐
Night night hopefully you get to your goals tomorrow
yes u can
nonononon
ur not getting that role before me no ๐
i cant
fr
yello chat
Hi ๐๐๐

Vc SONT working
hi
I fear I just joined for the tag pls don't hang me bless
6 7
fire pfp
i just behave cold thats why i choosed it as my username :))
@fresh hazel
bruh
Onsa ni dri?
Thatโs a lot of smileys for a cold behaving person๐คจ
on text ig not irl
lmao
Sorry to break it to you but we are all a warm 36 degrees celsius
We have so much in common ๐คญ
hahahahaha
35 degrees here
i dont feel warm idk why like i dont sweat much summers and i feel cold more then warm so yeah this can also be taken as a reference
oh wait is it 35 mb
I see
ohhkay stay insde the room lol
get a blood test asap i think this screams anemia
hahha no im alr plus ima also med student so yeah ik all about my body its like genetic most of ppl in our family got same problem as me
oh good thing u can take care of yourself
im just an anemic bioengineer so dont mind me
i can see the problem and find a solution but i wont know how to treat it like a doc :p
coool i've heard this feild first time 0_0
yea we cure diseases and stuff
find vaccinees etc
anaemic?
work with doctors
make wound dressings or biomedical devices or tissues etc
we can do genetic eng tissue eng etc etc
anyways
is there any automod in this server
woow u having great field ur username is worth it ngl
hahaha <3
im also hoping to clear my med school entrance exma which will be on 14 sept im looking forward to BDS ( dentistry

soo close omg BEST OF LUCK WITH IT !!
aww thanks melisa means alot !!!! :3
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wholesome
Whats friday ???
What happened to him ??
Oh hell yea
Did you "get rid of him"
You sound like you put him in a suitcase in the trunk of you car
Lets just say youre the now boss now
my fav couple supporting each other
Partners in crimes โค๏ธโ๐ฅ๐
There isnt any emoji for a non gender kissing a man or a woman, thats messed up
๐จโโค๏ธโ๐โ๐จ ๐ฉโโค๏ธโ๐โ๐จ ๐ฉโโค๏ธโ๐โ๐ฉ ๐
IMDYING WHAT IS THIS
Looke at the emojis
You got man man, man woman, woman woman
And non gender non gender
i want woman woman
Typical cruel, callous cold Mel ๐
lowkey ure right wtf
Even ร racist and sexist knows love more than her ๐
ow im cold?? i am tbh
Yea, 35ยฐ body them AND doesnt care for feelings ๐ฎโ๐จ
35 is hot when its air and cold when its my body? thats racism dont u think
I DONT CARE FOR FEELINGS??
i wish bun was here to protect me rn
๐ฉโโค๏ธโ๐โ๐ฉ
There, now the most difficult part : find the poor soul you'll use it with ๐ญ๐ญ
i alr have one i will text her today
thanks
she a greek goddess 6'2
its nth serious
Using bun as ร mรฉat shield, typical ๐
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TYPICAL
@violet gull u made me struggle with that
I should have told you sooner sorry, i let the convo roll ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
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im on phone too
i got my ears pierced
for the first time in my life
Ooooh
yess it hurt
Did you take it like a man ? ๐ช๐ช๐ช๐ช
how do men take it u need to specify
Its hard to concentrate when you get dumbass messages in your notifications ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
it was yesterday
Crying like a bitchh probably, aint now way im doing that
oh i didn't then ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
OK WTF
EDIT THAT BACK
I got slurs privilรจge ????
TO CRYING LIKE A BITCH*
till automod bans you (instant)
Acting as if youre not going to code him to ban me whatever i say ๐ฎโ๐จ
i alr did
my profile pic is awesome
1984, litterally North korea here ๐
alex ure studying med right?? what's my condition find it out ok I'll tell you now
i lost the ability to enjoy even the most expensive ice cream
Cant make out what that is
A slump of mangled mรฉat and fur ?
CAT HUGGING A PLUSHIE
teddybear actually
and a kitty actually
Uhhh, i only worked with elderly people yet
I mean, ik what youre gon say...
glad u agree I'm young
There was ร time, long ago, when you were as young and healthy as i am
(8days ago)
hello gang
Hru doing ?
Dude you need to calm down
Wha how
Its the guy, vsauce
Hi vsauce Michael here
Hru doing ??
im doing but my brain lowkey not
Whats up ?
im learning swimming but im really bad at it
life is titanic and im jack..
what's up with you tho, @violet gull ? :D
Fuck oily food
What about me โน๏ธ
Eh nothing big, im waiting on classes to start over in septembre, i should lock back kn one of these days
Pro tip : stay above water
Oo same here! I'm stressing in advance ๐ญ
Noob result: failing
Whatttt the hype is real wdym "stressing"
What are you studying ?
Switching to law after a lifetime in science ๐น
Pro tip nยฐ2 : dont go where you lose footings then omfg ๐ญ๐ญ
Wbu buddy?
Hahaha, I'm too tall for that ๐
Rip, i remember how law used to make us happy we got 10
Medicine ๐
What no its perfect, you can go anywhere in the sea
Hell yea
I am NOT slenderman ๐
Fuck you too ๐
But im being fr i was eating french fries and suddenly i got group of fries which were oily afff
Vsauce omg i am a big fan
yello chat
Hllo daughter, never give up on your dreams
Ooooo
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go touch some grass and better luck next time
man it was funny but i guess i must delete it
WHAT THE FUCK I WAS READING
thanks i actually laughed irl
LMAOO
Oh my gad man
HAHAHHAAHHA
Literally took the book out of my hands and threw it in the trash ๐
Yea yea ๐
Cya Mel ๐๐๐
ahahah
:0
mew
Ooh Hi tala ๐๐
hello dr
lolll
Did the results come out ?
not yettt
Or is it on monday ?
on the 12th
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Me too omg. My brain is stuck
can we honestly e date
noo senior year hehe
LOLL
Oh yea
Believe me : you missed out on something XDD
i feel like I did
Man tala i am hyped, you were so serious this year, all this work MUST pay now
good luck
hii
Welcome to the server ๐๐
tyyy
hello grandad, what kind of help
What is it
Just got off work and don't feel like studying.. Urghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
@boreal ermine Hi frogg ๐๐
hello scipio, i didnt forget you
๐ฅฒ
I get you man
Can I also get a Hi๐ ๐
Hi chad ๐๐๐๐
Hru doing ? Except for tired ?
Lets gooooooooo. I'm good, started a new job recently so I was anxious pretty much whole week but once i got to know everyone the days became fun.. how you doing @violet gull ??
Whats your job ?
Im doing good, im about to go out to study
Bro your bio is so cool wtf ๐ญ you are actually so smart its amazing
Goodluck with your heavy books!!
R u mista catfish
Also scipi have you ever Read camus's books
Hoover
Colleen hoover
I GOT SICK
Devastating
AHHHHHH
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Oh get well soon man ๐ฅฒ
yuuup
Don't tell me you read her
Productivity's been baaddd
Thx. My poor back wont get any rest ๐ญ
Hell nah i just know from the memes
Its a her?
MISTA HOLMES
I got 2 of his books, i started one and dropped it for now, he got ร ... unique style ?
holmes?
Should i read kafka as a 17 yr old
I read the stranger, i started the myth of sysiphus, and i got the revolted man
Yess frr I read the stranger but his writing has something deep which most of us neglect
Nvm , how have you been?
Absolutely, he's very easy to read
What you studying??
metamorphosis ๐
The manga?
Yeaa, ideologically he's ร bit of ร pessimist, so you gotta hold tight and not let that tire you out (like it did to me)
Medicine ๐
Good , couldnt crack the exam but in college now though
That one was ร very good book
a french person a pessimist? tell me something i dont already know
Shipment logistics but im trying to get into microbiology, and be a researcher. I believe
I think the stranger was a hard read because the narrator was just everything I don't wanna be
I... cant contradict you ๐
i mean it worked out in the end didnt it ๐
Irrationnal ?
It did :p
Just need to figure out how do i balance living life and study
You chose the major with the msot complicated words ? ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
Thats so sick, are we talking Making/researching medicine or like a doctor..?
well done regardless you did your best and thats what really matters
But in this attempt I think he was trying to tell you that don't you just go on believing in nothing and drew a very thin line between nilhism and absurdism
Surgeon would be sick, but as of rn i have barely started
Which year are you ?
Aww thats really sweet thanks for the positivity bro you made my day
Sometimes a replace some words with, Glyco-thingy if i can't remember๐ญ
He was just so pessimistic about everything like he had a life but what was it worth for
Agreed
I think its a waste to ponder the purpose of life rather than actually live it
Yesss i agree w/ that. Mf dropped everything bc he believed nothing mattered
If you liked him maybe you'll like "crime and punishment" by dostoievsky ?
The diffรฉrence is mainly that the character in dostoevskis novel does what he wants bc he thinks as he has free will, he needs to do good in the world at any cost whereas camus character is just ร selfish monster
In the end ig they are pretty similar, since dostoevskis character is still doing things for his selfish reasons
Damn, I heard med school is brutal, you got this tho
I'm not even in the field yet, I need to pass the entrance exam... I want to go to a top Uni so they said i need to work on my physics... so yeah physics is bottlenecking me for now but ill beat it
Im still trying to get out of it rn XD
I don't think nihilism is inherently bad unless you become cynical
Trueeeee
Thats the only path through which it is going to lead you, camus visions is just not realistic
People dont just smile in the face of nihilism, they need ร reason to exist
Yes I will try reading that but I hope reading all these books only inspires us to be better and not adopt their ideas
Ooh thats the end goal for you ?
I was reading stoner rn
So you think nothing actually really matters?
Oke not anymore, but its hard to not be cynical
hello
You realize everything is a social construct, so why would you believe in anything ?
Hi cold, whats up ??? ๐๐๐
I think its how you see it , instead of finding one purpose for your whole life you should instead find meaning in the smaller things
hii scipio !
im in between normal and abnormal
wbu how is ur day going ?
Oh for sure, thats why we need many different povs
isnt the chat active today !!!
Being cynical itself indicates you are not out of it
Boring af, I have rotten in my bed all morning, im just trying to get up and actually get some work done now
i sometimes think that if i am boring or the life is boring it self
Everything might be a social construct , but you are not, try caring less about what others think and living more honestly with yourself
Idk. I see it like this. if you have experience a level of true suffering then it will be significantly easier to fall into cynicism but if your life is ok or relatively ok i feel many people in this catorgory wont fall into the despair of being a cynic and are able to live being a nihilist. You don't necessarily need a ''why'' to get out of bed to get out of bed . I do agree that cynicism is easy to fall into but not hard to get out if you not experiencing significant suffering
Whats so abnormal today ??
Its suprising how you realise there was no social construct to begin with except the one you made yourself believe in
Ig so... its not ร happy way to live ones life ill tell you thay much
end goal is to research longevity science, so the aging of cells
Yea i feel that...
idk every day is like this for me i just wana go outside to some museum or anywhere else where there is no one no human interaction
How are we not social constructs ? We are nothing but that
we all feel the same
What we think, the way we think, its all chosen for us before we can do anything about it
I know i have been there once and let me tell you one thing, its not permanent, one day you will realise its actually not that bad
yeah obv we think like this
but still we have to work on our fate cuz we have a power to change it somehow
we cant blame our all problems on the fate
So what is the remedy ? to forget suffering and act as if nothing happen ?
To not view suffering as bad
Oke here i think you actually have a point, dont you think this argument makes you fall even deeper into nihilism by denying even the fundments of social norms ?
obv this is our laziness that we blame on fate saying that i've done enough it wasnt meant for me , obv it was but we didnt put our all efforts but in some case if we did then if we aint got it then it wast good for us
Its not it might seem that way but its not , its not chosen for you nothing is really , you decide how to make the most of your day and life, you have free will , i can understand how you feel completely but you will realise how infectious that thinking process is
Thats sickk, so youre more of ร lab guy
Its doesnt really because nihilism means loss or absence of purpose but , denying the existence of a social construct doesnt mean that
Because the social norms were never the thing to decide your purpose
Yea, bc social norms want us to believe everything is our fault, that wasnt always how western society (bc this is a very western way to view things) treated the matter, doesnt that prove that everything is a social norm when even our relation to social norms is rooted in a social context ?
In reality in somewhat way there is no grand purpose but what really is , you , you right here in this moment you exist
I know you exist
Ill shut up for a minute and just read maples point, he's making a good point here
Live the most you can
not to forget it but understand that we are only consciousness. all it can do is experience things. there are experiences that very, some that are bad and good but suffering for an example, is a bad experience, but that's all it is, a experience. All experiences has a start and end... atleast thats my world view. this does not stop me from crying myself to sleep sometimes tho๐ญ
omg deep conversation in gen chat today
Trying to be
They still set an ideal social personna to strive for, once you refuse the fact that they exist you're also saying it doesnt really matter if we become that guy everyone wants to be, yhat sounds ร lot like a nihilistic argument ?
Yess, we welcome any new additions from your own life philosophy
see we that there r all perspective not facts and today in our generation there r so many new things and so many new pov like there would be few ppl having same pov it depends on us how we r taking that relation like seriousl i've never had this type of relation but still u got a valid point there with ya
Honestly suffering is only suffering if you tell your mind it is, imo, sometimes you just gotta tell yourself that its okay , you have to be kind to everyone but be the kindest yourself , forgive yourself more than often because the closest person you know is you yourself
They will try tho, like religion, marriage,etc.
I find that recently the social norms have shifted to identifying the external factors that drive what we do. Examples include the super popular belief of Freudian psychopathology emergence from childhood factors. In the real world, we see tons of media advocating for victimization, and the word "trauma" has never been used more.
I 100% agree, this took me so long to learn
what are u guys talkin about
Life ๐
But why should you care if you are the person everyone wants to be? I think its more important to ignore social norms and be the person YOU want to be , because once you start doing things your way what others say really stops mattering
Yea, this is factual,
So to you think we decide truly what we can do in the moment, and the accumulation of that means we can chose where we go in life and we can set our own goals independently
So you believe that by believing very hard in freewill in the moment , you allow it to exist
hey just a quick reminder โ letโs keep the chat respectful & comfy for everyone
deep convos are cool but try not to get too into controversial or heavy stuff here (like religion, trauma, etc), just so it doesnโt get out of hand.
thanks for understanding <3
True and the worst part is people that subscribe to this thinking will feel like there life is out of their hands and they will continue to wander this void of endless pity and day-to-day suffering
Sorry
I strongly disagree with that
In theory youd be right, but in reality social mรฉdia made us closer, we dont have ร very wide diversity of opinions in truth
Hmmm religion i think is a very good way for inner peace , it doesnt define social norms but actually teaches you how to life therefore giving a pseudopurpose , and marriage i dont really think has any norms , marriage is a different topic
Yes , and by free will i REALLY mean free will , just go say hi to a random stranger ask for their name and their life , and doing this thus breaking the act of never knowing another person
Sorry i will stop my bad mel
Strongly disagree, but don't want to get into, @tidal basin already gave us a heads up
We will try to keep it comfy for everyone
Yes lets stop
Yk its weird bc no matter wether of the philosophy you have contradicts that, it always stay true in practice
thanks guys<3 im the only mod that is active recently so stopping this convo would be really helpful ๐
Yess PLEASE EVERYONE NO RELIGION (see that Mel ?)
i do i do thank u sm <3 HAHAHAH
We will stop pur bad mel
Had fun conversing with yalllll
Yeah. I just finished a book titled "Dopamine Nation" by Dr. Lembke (which was honestly just confirmation bias on my part) and a big aspect of her research surrounding this generation and addiction is the lack of what she calls "prosocial shame." Prosocial shame includes taking responsibility and, in the part of those surrounding the addicted, being pushed to better oneself. The opposite, I'll just call bad shame, is somehow a mixture of not taking ownership and having a support system that outcasts you for your actions. Its a loop.
AHHAHAHAH
enjoy your evening mappleeeeee
At the end of it, i think you are content because you dont go reaching too far into it
Its overthinking that kills happiness
Bye bye maples, thanks ร lot for the discussion ๐๐๐
Make a group chat? You donโt have to talk here. Just like yall mentioned, โbreakโ the act of not knowing a stranger @violet gull
Yeaaaa that is true, here you're saying happiness is out of our reach because we want to identify with ร set of values/characteristics that are standardised ?
Yeah you articulated it nicely. I honestly don't know if theres any quick fix for this issue on a macro scale
Yess sรปre id be down
Byeeeeeeeeee
Groups like AA already do this to an extent, by providing militant-esque values and a support group outside of one's natural habitat. I think casual addiction will be much harder to fight, and while places like this offer support groups of people who want to be more productive, I just cannot see it breaking into the main stream any time soon.
I could be totally wrong though lol
That sums up why we're ร very unhappy generation then...
Its easier to point fingers at others
Same idk how tho, i don't use discord often
At society/parents/enemies
true
we have scopia literally everyone thinks way diff from us even tho we are same and all
I dont think i am seeing the world as such ร colorful place as yall XDDD
it isnt colourfull it is filled with darkness we all own
Me trying to find ร slight beam of happiness : ๐
Coldplay shutting that down rq : ๐ซ
HAHHAHAHAH FR cold play thinks very cold ngl
cuz reality of life hit her so hard
Do you read books as well
yeah
biology ,logicall reasoning , chemistry, physics, history, psycology
I know lol sorry ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ
People got excited when they saw the word nilhism
Oh are you a pre med student?
Chad what is it you have to say already ?
yeah ๐ฅฒ
chad is writing a book
Ey gc is back to being for med students ๐ฉบโ๏ธ
wbu ?
I literally just erased it๐ญ
Keep out CS grads
โThe only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.โ
bruh no i was joking ๐ญ ๐ค
Whos that ??
I was, didn't have a happy ending tho
u study here scipio
Whay the hell man ๐ญ๐ญ
The legend himself CAMUS
Maybe this year i will yess
huh why ???//
what happened :/
I forgot the topic well writing because of the music i was playing
Ey tama, what are you currently reading ?
this year ig the year is started a while a ago
Just couldn't get into med school the paper was a bouncer
awww bruh it happens most of the time ๐ญ
I just lost my 'Myth of Sisyphus" book when i moved last month and i didn't get to read it. Wanted to cryyyyyyyyyy
School year cold ๐
I was reading stoner wbu?
where r u from if im not getting personal ?
Moby Dick by melville, but if youre reading some camus Ill pick one of his books again
Ahhhhhh hopefully you don't get on our club of not liking him
ohhh yeah bruh is a school guy aww scipio u should study
It's alright I am from India like most of the people
bruh i've read this moby dick in 7 classs
Big ahh book, how did you like it ?
Why๐ , I feel like his such a old egde lord i love it
Scipi can we do this book club thing where we read just one common book a month and discuss about it
Hopefully he does, I barely read 20 pages and Camus was already telling me to KMS
Yeaaaa absolutely
I'm currently reading Lord of the Mysteries since nobody asked
ohhhhh thats really bad if u didnt maked that out stilll u have so much more to do i also have 2nd option if in case i could make through it
What is it about ?
Absurdism wasn't my cup of tea lol it was hard finishing that book
bruh basically it was the part of course lol
WE GOTTA CHOOSE ONE FOR THIS MONTH THEN
it was in our literature part
Oke just... DMS TAMA
Second options are scary yk like it's all scary you don't if it's even gonna work out or not
ikr ๐ญ
im working hard to clear it i really hope i could make it out somehow
Yes please do it's a very bad situation where you just contemplate over your decision
Done talkin to mom
yeah sometimes when like so fed up i think i've made wrong decission but now im into it so now i cant drop it i've no choice but to work hard
omgggggggggggggggggg. peak fiction. ok so this guy Zou Mingro (chinese name so i most likely typed it wrong) 'transported' into this other persons kleins mind just after Klein commited non-living... anyway the the new klein now has to find his bearing in a new body and world. oh yes and theres gods in this world like a lot and the main character practically in conflict with a lot of them and out-smarts them in the coolest way possible. it take place in a Post-Historian london esk era. Peakkkkkkkkkkkk
I don't think its practically in any way๐
Hope she's doing good?
wanna play typeracer for a break anyone?
How is she doing
Ping me tmr i wanna flex my 100wpm
ok but on which website
Typeracer?
Dayum
Why do you ask questions when you know the answer already ? ๐
I thought its nice to ask others parents health
Oh yea ofc, youre such ร sweet boy miki
I dont know how all the girls dont flock in your dms
Same (scream this next time)
Like, ร 6ft tall animal-lover with ร 6 figure job like yourself cant be single for long (he's 6ft tall btw girls)
Being 6ft is such a privilege
W wingman
Nah, 2 of us short kings can bring miki down im sure
One takes the face and the other one deals with his kneecaps
Racoon style
This is gonna be epic lmao
@mellow fulcrum you fall
Scipi how do you deal with this insecurity
I struggle a lot I am always conscious about how I walk and if I am walking straight or not to add that extra one inch
Its not really an insecurity, its ร fact of life, wtf am i supposed to do ?
And i have learnt through expรฉrience that height doesnt limit you as much as youd think it does
This is such a slap on the face I need to remind this all the time
So well said ๐ญ๐ญ
Interestingly, if you think the height is an issue, your subconscious behavior gives the vibes to others about that issue
Alright thanks so much for the update
does anyone here live in japan?
happy national cat day guys
Not that i know of no
ofc alex the time zone difference is crazy
lol, I don't subscribe to time zones
Well, i guess he finished education and now he just has work.
Yeah he has his start up
Helloooo
should i install roblox
nah
idk im biased, i quit games for like 5 years
then played some tf2 and osu
but now i uninstalled everything agaiin
real
do what u want bro, it's a social game so if u dont have friends to play with it's kinda boring
bruh ๐ญ
I think gaming is fine in moderation, gonna be playing ghost of yotei when it drops
i gave my epic games account for my friend, id give my steam for you but i have only terraria and undertale ๐ญ
that epic games account had gta v tho
lol
๐ญ okay then i will lose anyhow cuz my best on that website is around 70-80 cuz im not used to using punctuations
morninggg!!
You cant change height
But you should focus on something you can change
Lol even im insecure about my height but what can we do except praying
๐ญoh we doing punctuations??!
Lol ik you are neet aspirant
hapy rakhi
Not anymore
Frr ๐ญ
Oi rakhi Happy!!
Did you clear it frr?
hehe yessss
Wow what you doi ngnow
Noo ๐ญ
Pvt
Mbbs? Noice
happy rakshabandhan chat :D
Happy raksha bandhan hazy ๐ค
thats what i said, i thought you got 100 wpm with the punctuations on
without punctuations im good
well atleast that's what I think
I wish ๐ my pinky is weird
my right pinky has no functional value like it just exists nothing else
true

hi
is anyone here know how to get canva pro for free?
You guys still couldn't complete it?
Also noone has been busy I guess haven't seen her a lot this week
Crazy
Oh I see
im 90% sure some russian guy on telegram has it downloadable for free
Season 3 nhi dekha
kya kr rhe ho bhai aese thodi na trends ke saath keepup krpaoge u gotta improve ur game fam
Bruh season 3 came already???
I am too slow to keep up with this world
wait im sure you dont know about this one either
did ya know that
gpt 5 dropped
What is gpt lol
the ai thingy like chatbots yk ? chat gpt ? sam altman white american guy ceo
no ?
Yeah that I know but yeh gpt 5 kya hota hai is it like a new version
han bhai jese companies naye model nikalti hai na appliances ke wese hee kuch smjo naya fridge aya hai open ai ka
Why is it significant that one should know about it
I gotta level up my tech knowledge tho
It did right when we second season finished
becauuuuuseeeeeee open ai is currently the supposed "leader" in the ai race and the job markets tend to go a bit crazy everytime open ai drops smth yk job layoffs people gettin replaced w ai all that stuff
Don't tell me you are majoring in cs
im a mbbs student good sir
Broooo ๐๐
but i like tech shit :P
HELLO GUUYSSS
FIRST HAHA dont call me a baby istg ill whoop ur ass
Oi long time no see how is you?
im good ou?
Bruh you have achieved what people dream so not calling you a baby
Oh yeah I am fine as well how has college been
ek dum jhakas
HELLOOOO ๐๐๐๐ IN ALL CAPS
awwww cute
i do
Hope it treats you well for the rest of the years as well!!
bru idhar aake fr humanities better lag rha at least life would have been more peaceful
i love chatgpt
Kaha chupake rakhti ho itna gyaan
lets go another openaisexual in the house
chatgpt paglu
hope it does what about you?
hehe boi
me
me too
isme cute kya tha bc ๐ง
I got into a third tier college gonna do btech in biotech don't know how that's gonna go

which college?
new day new pepega
Waaa pihu welcome back ๐๐
boi u doin btech and dunno ab chatgpt my G MY G MY G LEEEEAARRRRNNNNN it'll make ur life easier

yo wassup
this is me after 12 am
bol bhai
savan khatam ๐ฎ
I js ate kfc and pad thai again
I don't want it to get easy I wanna do things without it
Yummmm
Am at work, the day was long enough at noon, now its unending ๐
Hru doing ?
stop i haven't had non veg in a month i might go insane
that's what people said when calculators became a thing ๐
btw suggest me qan ai that can actually anlaze my crush patern guys
Mat pucho ๐ฅฒ
you're not in college anymore hell nahhhhhhh
character ai
Oh aaj sham se we can eat non-veg
Maine bhi nhi khaya tha
Pure mahine
I will only use it if it helps me to learn something better otherwise it's a no
will that work?
baap reyy meri mummy toh aaj tk maanti
We go back to class in september, I work the hotel desk until then
mere se bura nahi hoga
Hi woot ๐๐๐
hi scipoo ๐
ah okay gotcha btw im fine what about you
I know yours i don't think it's that bad
Oh ic
pihu colez namedrop
Im doing good, i want summer to be done already
Lmaoo
CHANDIGARH UNIVERSITY IN PUNJAB
Woot knows mine

ooo nice

guys i used mcdonalds email adress to get a one day free trial of prepladder lfg
same here i want winters
Use marrow
mai saif ali khan ka relative nhi hu bhai
itna pesa nhi hai
i miss winters south me bas 20 deg C wali baarish gir jati hai winters ke naam pe
bas?
hanji bas asli winter is when it hits negatives gurl wtf
yes ek dum hath jam jaye barf barf har jagah
exaaactly
you're also in college?
unfortunately
no i use 13 year old compaq
it makes those khich khic khic khic starting noise when i turn it on
compaq?
thas wut am talkin ab company so old people forgor bout it haiyah
haha
if only ebay was still working
i would have atleast bought a ibm laptop and run linux on it
id be surprised if ud find a compaq today even on ebay

