#just something

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autumn marshBOT
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ts ain yo fault

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no offense but your parents failed you

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and

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your sibling

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so hard

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it’s lowkey crazy

young quiver
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what did the sibling do vro 💀

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?

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i never said anything about a sibling doin anything

young quiver
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the parents

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failed anon

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and their sibling

young quiver
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oh mb

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I read it wrong

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😭

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anon you should move to college somewhere and i’d suggest not going back home unless you really miss your sister, goto college live your life keep an eye on your sis and if you can try to pull your sis w you after a while and let her live w you anywho best wishes gang

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some people honestly should not be parents

young quiver
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lament yarrow
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dearest anon, everything you have written is honestly so so valid and something unfortunately, so many people around the world go through, especially older siblings. anon, as a youngest sibling, i want you to know that i am so so so proud of my older siblings. im happy that they got out of the situations our parents put us through and i dont hate them, or even dislike them a little bit for leaving me. you aren't 'leaving' your sibling, you are escaping a cycle of familial abuse. by leaving it, you allow yourself to not be part of it, and to live a life different and improved to it, and that is what you and your sibling need. you can still protect your sibling in other ways, that is by learning to heal from the trauma your parents have put you through and this is genuinely so important i cannot even overstate it. when you go to uni, get therapy, work on yourself, learn to let go of bad habits inherited from your parents and share these new improvements with your sibling. call your sibling everyday, ask them about their day and life, and im sure they will be so happy and grateful that you are there for them. but most importantly, you will find that in surprising ways your sibling will also end up being there for you. a lot of people, esp older siblings view their little siblings as unaware kids. youngest siblings who grow up in toxic households tend to be just as silently resilient and brave as the oldest siblings, and u'll find this in common with ur sibling. anon just know, whatever decision you make for the betterment of yourself, is a decision you make for your little sibling because you are their source of inspiration

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also anon, it is okay to take a breath, it is okay to take time for yourself, it is okay to prioritise yourself, it is also okay to resent the world around you for not allowing you to be able to feel free. it is so much easier said than done to just not feel responsible for someone else, because it comes as your first instinct and you know if you wont do it no one else will. im not going to tell you to stop, and neither should you. you are doing a good thing, and people are always rewarded for the good they do. but i want you to know anon, there is someone out there, who will let you be you. that person will allow you to just let go of all your worries, and feel at peace. they will shoulder your burdens and responsibilities, the way you do for others, and they will do it without complain. they will do it entirely out of love for the person that you are and the amazing qualities that you possess. this person may exist in a friend, a partner, a family member, anyone, but most importantly, there is the main essence of this ''person'' in God. I dont know if you believe in God or not, but belief in Him is very similar to having hope in good things, and you should be able to have that.

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be careful about the people you call ''best friends'' anon, because true best friends dont treat their best friends like that. not feeling like you are understood or appreciated to the person you are at your core is such a frustrating and lonely experience but ill tell you something funny. people dont do it on purpose, like they dont ignore you or try not to understand what you are expressing on purpose. most people genuinely cannot because they are at a completely different level of emotional maturity and intelligence than you are. you, as an elder sibling, have you so much emotional depth to you, that is just waiting to be uncovered. its good that random people cannot see you vulnerable, because people can use it against you. wait for the right person, who sees you as you, and opening up to them will feel like ease.

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pause

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i leave for 2 seconds

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and where did friends come into this topic from

young quiver
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did u even read it properly

young quiver
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im a slow reader

young quiver
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ok bro

lament yarrow
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and anon, we need you here, your little sibling needs you here, but most importantly anon, you need yourself here. your life is only your life and no one elses to live, so be there to avail it. life doesnt end at 5 when you fall off from your bicycle for the first time and bruise your knee, it doesnt end when you are 11 and your crush doesnt like you back, it doesnt end when you are 15 and your parents are abusing each other, it doesnt end till its meant to end. dont be the cause for its end. live your life fully, till the end, for yourself. you deserve that much atleast. dont give up your life for the sake of other people who have ruined it for you

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good luck anon, dm me if u need

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ur not alone 💕

young quiver
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won’t say much else cuz stressed already did, but much love anon and I hope you find your way through these trying times <3

lament yarrow
royal oriole
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anon u can do it

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trust yourself

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i have answers for both

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no the team was saying sumn abt giving me and stressed therapist roles LMAO

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like fr

lament yarrow
young quiver
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real

thorny rune
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but i will tell you that it won't happen

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💔 🥀

thorny rune
# lament yarrow 💔 🥀

you guys aren't the first people to be insanely active helping people out with their issues (weve had angell and fia and so many others in #venting even before anon-confessions was a thing). we don't give out custom roles for anything - we even phased out the ones we were giving out for being literally top 5 on the rep leaderboard

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plus, giving someone a role that reads "therapist" goes against a lot of other things as well; no one here is a licensed therapist or is providing "therapy" of any kind.

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however, i will say (on behalf of the team) that all of us appreciate your activity in this channel

royal oriole
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and on the behalf of the community aswell!!!

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stay goated stressed, shit and grace!!

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you should give me a role

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is it mean i was gonna say 'i aint reading allat'

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but i stopped myself

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seeing the amount of messages here

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so sorry for having this intrusive thoguht

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do not cancel me

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ball

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meager rune
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i aint reading allat

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young quiver