venting

[wicked turret]

Yeah I will keep that in mind

[marsh dagger]

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[hard ravine]

where is the bot channel

oh nvm

[river wadi]

man does anyone else just wanna be mean for absolutely no reason. And then once you do it you feel bad abt it?

[mild compass]

Well

I relate somewhat to what you said, however i don't feel bad about it because:
a) this is the internet, deal with it lmao
b) im an asshole
c) look up a and b

But also it really depends on where you're being "mean". As the tolerance of the staff really matters. And it also depends on who you piss off, like say you piss off someone with admin perms. You're basically screwed bc those dudes usually have 0 bitches chill or comebacks so they cough
?ban and uh ?purge.

I could really go on about it but you get the point, the server and the individual you piss off are what matters and the situation would vary depending on how sacrastic / dry / sensitive / witty / in the moment you are.
just play Cod and Csgo to learn ffs

[river wadi]

I classify under b)

yes you're right

i'm not being mean mean but just want to be mean to ppl just bc

[mild compass]

Same brother alhamdulillah

[river wadi]

but obv i control myself

what would i do without your amazing advice

[mild compass]

You also have to ignore the ones with power if they insult you bc really if you say anything back they will cry about it

[mild compass]

Get banned lmao

[river wadi]

yes

agreed

[river wadi]

yes you're right

[mild compass]

I'm also really

Good

With women

U need some advice on that?

😎 💪

[river wadi]

lmao

dude

i think you're confused

dude

[mild compass]

Why

[river wadi]

jamaallll

i AM a female lmfaoo

[mild compass]

Oh wow

Hey there Rick

I kinda felt like we had a connection

[river wadi]

i'm kidding i'm actually rick astley

[mild compass]

Hehe

I could

Rick roll you

In bed

Ykyk

[river wadi]

i could throw you off a cliff but bc you're kinda a genius i won't

[mild compass]

You can't bec yk

You can't find nobody

Like me

We're meant to be

🥵

Damn she already in my DMS

Take notes kids

[river wadi]

actually i have just decided that i'm into women and need that advice

[mild compass]

Alright so step 1

It should be irl

Because edating is so ass

Step 2

Say hi

Dont have to say anything cringe

[river wadi]

i agree

[mild compass]

Get to know them

Be like hey whatsup im Jamal, never seen you around here b4

Wyd

Smile

Smiling is contagious

Step 3 be good looking

Step 4 alternative to step 3: approach ugly people

Step 5: get their number or contact

[river wadi]

💀💀💀💀 I stopped reading after this

[river wadi]

ah thank you

[mild compass]

There's alternatives dw

I gotchu

Anyway after getting their contact

Be flirty

Because let's be real

If you're not goodlooking

And u flirt

You're a fucking creep

[river wadi]

you look your face is having a seizure?

[mild compass]

Yea

Anyway

Make sure your flirts are not cliche

Or shit

[river wadi]

same thing

[mild compass]

Step 6 leave them on read

After flirting

Step 7 act like u don't approve of them

Like don't compliment

Then

Them*

[eager ore]

Nah the e sex I had last night went crazy

[mild compass]

Damn

[river wadi]

wow

[mild compass]

I just realized

Electro can actually

E sex

😭

Anyways step 8

[livid meteor]

Incredible advice

[mild compass]

Ask them out

Step 9 kiss

[river wadi]

why do you think of such weird stuff

[mild compass]

I lied, you need to be attractive

[river wadi]

HARAM!!!

[mild compass]

To do anything

Above

[mild compass]

The mind of a genius

Is often multi dimensional

Hive mind moment

💪 😎

@river wadi i should write a guide

[river wadi]

that's horrible

[river wadi]

yesyes

[mild compass]

On how to get bitches

And men

I'm good at both

[river wadi]

jamal's guide to implementing FBGM

[mild compass]

Join my 500$ course for getting people outta your league if you're kinda ugly

[mild compass]

What?

[river wadi]

that could be the book title

[mild compass]

What does it mean

[river wadi]

idk if i can say it just google it up

[mild compass]

It's a good title

Let me write th guide in word

[river wadi]

you do realize you're applying step 6 right now, right?

[mild compass]

It's instilled into my subconscious

I'm just too good

🥵

[livid meteor]

Thank you jamal I shall never use these instructions

[mild compass]

You're very welcome, not like they work anyway lmfao

[river wadi]

yes but you could still scam people and take their money. Half these self-help books suck but the authors are loaded af

[stuck mango]

@mild compass has a TON of experience it seems.......

[mild compass]

jokes aside perhaps.

[kindred stone]

yall

this is venting

want warns?

[mild compass]

What do u think I'm doing 🥶

[mild compass]

No daddy

[mild compass]

You’re weird

[fresh forge]

[wintry rampart]

and i got rejected by a girl a second time...

ain't that a shame.

i just want to end the pain so that i won't end up becoming an incel

cause i do not want to harm others for a silly reason

i think i'm losing it rn

and i wanna end it

fuck my life

i hate myself

[mild compass]

no, rejection is how you learn bro

there's someone out there from everyone its just a matter of time

[mild compass]

it happens bro, just don't get discouraged

[mild compass]

nooo man don't say that over a rejection, these things take time

[wintry rampart]

and i'm desperate

cause all i know is that i'm a creep who does not know how to date

and i hate being like that

[mild compass]

thats why you learn, rejection is how you learn

[mild compass]

also just know it takes time

[wintry rampart]

i had a conversation w/ her once, and i forgot about it

i decided to reconnect w/ her days later and i just found out that i got blocked

again

i hate being a loner

[mild compass]

what so you didn't ask her out or anything?

y did u get blocked then

[wintry rampart]

do i look like a creep if i do that?

cause i find this to be a bit creepy

[mild compass]

no no u are not a creep man, it depends on what you said, but no you are not a creep

if she blocked you while you were trying to make a friendly conversation thats her problem

i would say u dodged a bullet then

you deserve better, king, and im sure you'll find someone soon enough

[wintry rampart]

i'm socially anxious though

and i feel that this is dragging me down

there's no reason for me to become an incel

[mild compass]

put yourself out there more

[wintry rampart]

but a reason to blame myself even more

[mild compass]

bro the very fact that you acknowledge this means you aren't one

you should just talk to more people

covid has gotten us locked inside, all of us need to go back and socialise more

[wintry rampart]

i can't...

i fear of being rejected by others

even my own classmates

as my mom treated me like that a lot during my teen years

[mild compass]

ah im sorry you had to go through that, but trust me, with time things get better

[wintry rampart]

it could, but i have to forgive myself

for being such a jerk

for even letting my own thoughts consume me

[wicked turret]

my friend got rejected 4 times and 5th one was a success

you have all right to be sad and angry about this but I am sure the time will come.

[wintry rampart]

even if i'm introverted as heck

and have a large fear of rejection?

[wicked turret]

You confessed. Not doing this is a guaranteed zero. Also, I have seen my introverted friends in relationships.

I have never confessed in my entire life and you are in a better position than i am

[wintry rampart]

wdym

[wicked turret]

didnt the girl reject you cause you confessed?

[wintry rampart]

nope

just a simple hi, following a short chat after around a week got me blocked

[wicked turret]

oh

is it like dating site?

[wintry rampart]

simply facebook messenger

i do not use dating sites

[sinful wasp]

I can guarantee you you're not hurting anyone around you by confessing

[wicked turret]

is she like your acquaintance? did you ask her out?

im sorry for asking questions

but i just want to properly access the situation before giving any proper advice from my side

[sinful wasp]

whether you date or not should not be a standard by which you measure your worth

[wintry rampart]

nope. she just randomly posted in a freedom wall or something

and i answered her form

and now look where i am,

but thank god that i did not directly turn into a misogynist.

or worse, an incel

[wicked turret]

Oh. Don't take it way too hard if she is a stranger

1. She does not know who you are as a person, hence, she probably didn't reject you cause of your personality or introversion

2. She might not be interested in relationship at the moment

3. Some girls does not like to take risks with strangers.

I can guarantee that this rejection does not devalue who you are

[wintry rampart]

yup... i was too dumb to realize that i was trying to flirt with a literal stranger.

i'd blame myself for being too stupid to even fall for this type of drama

[wicked turret]

Nah don't be

It happens sometimes and that's what makes us human

We just learn from it to get better of ourselves

[wintry rampart]

is this even natural?

to flirt with random strangers, whether online or irl?

[wicked turret]

It happens sometimes

[wicked turret]

But I cannot answer to that question since I don't know much about it

[mild compass]

Lmao move on

[mild compass]

Also you don't flirt with people you don't know

[mild compass]

It is but depends

[eager ore]

Don’t get too stressed over this. You are going to get rejected and accepted but don’t get so dejected. Just move on. There’s certain situations where sliding in the dms is acceptable but usually you come off a creep. If you reply to her post or tweet and you guys hit it off sure why not take it to the dms(just 1 example)

[junior cairn]

@wintry rampart yiu dont deserve that

these things happen and even to the best off ppl

take a deep breath and realise your worth

[wintry rampart]

i'd rather be interacting, at an actual environment than the olnine environment

[junior cairn]

i agree online environments are hard to interact in

i wish i could meet my friends in person

[wintry rampart]

and these "best-of" people simply move on and learn from these rejections

[junior cairn]

im sorry you went through this

maybe you will look back and laugh

it happened to me too

and it hurts like hell

but these type of ppl never change, you should be happy their true colours were shown so soon and not once you were deep into the relationship

[eager ore]

Yea I get that, covid really fked over whatever social life I had left. But online ain’t that bad, you can always turn something online into irl

[wintry rampart]

i'd rather stay at home and be safe than catch the virus

[wintry rampart]

i knew it... i fucking ghosted...

this really is all my fault

[stuck mango]

Wow best advice ever

[wintry rampart]

lol

[mild compass]

Ight bet

@wintry rampart

Remember boys @wintry rampart @mild compass @stuck mango

If all else fails

[river wadi]

lmao can relate

who's partying in the middle of a pandemic lmao

[cosmic ginkgo]

plenty of people, nobody gives a crap in europe/ uk anymore

its not respect 😂 its not being fucked to invite ppl if you know they wont show

[wintry rampart]

i don't even find pride when it comes to being a single forever

just that you are a virgin per 5 chads and above

[livid meteor]

Thank you for the deluxe edition to your amazing guide

[mild compass]

dudee there's so much more to life than dating fr

you dont need to feel hung up on it

[tawdry star]

I'll be honest mate, from the talking I've seen you do I wouldn't be surprised if people didn't invite you even if you did talk to them ||/at them||-

https://youtu.be/EW6m2ECJP8E

Try harding at this too

[eager ore]

Smoke that pack

Nah this violation, bro woke up and chose violence 💀

[north karma]

Never seen someone flex he has friends before

LMAOOOOOOOO

[wintry rampart]

i mean, i made a bigger mistake by trying to flirt w/ a complete stranger other than my damn classmates

[north karma]

Direct flirting can seem wrong but nothing wrong with shooting ur shot

[eager ore]

Please don’t get hung up on this, the beauty is you will never see this person in your life.

[north karma]

Circumstantially

[wintry rampart]

of course...

i'll most likely move on

and remain a virgin

where everyone else is a damn chad

[eager ore]

You don’t have to limit yourself to people you know. The opportunity will come, don’t beat yourself up because of a girl.

[north karma]

Someones sore

[cosmic ginkgo]

..and that adds to your point how

[eager ore]

I don’t mean to sound like a dickhead but I think you need to work on yourself rn. You got to get your mindset right

[north karma]

Id continue talking but this isnt the right channel

[wintry rampart]

i'm in the middle of trying to move on

[north karma]

I may be a virgin but i have common sense 🤓

[wintry rampart]

from this

[eager ore]

Like I said I ain’t Tryna be a dick but bro it’s not that deep, you don’t need to be hard on yourself cause of this

[wintry rampart]

yup

it was unintentional, so why would i even overworry about this?

[tawdry star]

See mate

Those are all societally imposed things

Reflect, and think about who you are

What you wanna be

Trust me

The bad times are temporary

Just like any other "times"

Who are you referring to?

Nice bro

[wintry rampart]

and i should not bother what society expects me to be

as i can be who i want to be

whether i'd be a digital marketer, or a marketing manager, i'll not give a damn to peer pressure

even if it comes from my own mother

[cosmic ginkgo]

ken if you have nothing to add then please just dont

[tawdry star]

Mate it's venting

Stay the fuck away

Last time I'm telling you

[cosmic ginkgo]

this isnt the place for it

[wintry rampart]

100%

[cosmic ginkgo]

#chat-lounge please now.

[tawdry star]

@mild compass

<@&572709257036955649> request to ban Ken from #venting

[sinful wasp]

ouch haha

Don't measure success by whether or not you have someone

You don't need someone to have a fulfilling life

[cosmic ginkgo]

and nobody is a "perfect fit" for that matter

[tawdry star]

Yeap and it's totally fine

[eager ore]

No

[tawdry star]

This is also some bs that has been propagated

[cosmic ginkgo]

thats not very healthy is it

[sinful wasp]

Lmao that's untrue

[wintry rampart]

XD

[kindred stone]

i got ping

what ping

[sinful wasp]

Jeff bezos lost his wife bro

[kindred stone]

oh ban ken

[wintry rampart]

imagine being successful and becoming a magnet.

[sinful wasp]

She divorced him

[wintry rampart]

i'd rather be successful and enjoy my creations.

[north karma]

Yes everyones gonna be a billionaire at some point

[tawdry star]

Can we not talk about weird ass capitalists in the context of life advice?

[cosmic ginkgo]

thats the spirit

[tawdry star]

yess

[sinful wasp]

Do not focus on women being a benchmark for success that's not a healthy view

[tawdry star]

@gleaming sable mate sorry but stop this bs, it's very hurtful

[sinful wasp]

For either you or the women

[eager ore]

💰

[tawdry star]

Exactly

Also

[wintry rampart]

and i'd be hoping to at least not only be a good event manager, but also, a person who'd influence the rising field of gaming photography in my country.

[tawdry star]

By saying all of that

You are objectifying women-

[river wadi]

Don't get dejected by someone else rejecting you. Your worth isn't determined by anyone else's values except your own. But at the same time, don't think too badly of the girl and give her hate bc maybe she's also going through smthg rn or just doesn't wanna be in a relationship. SO even if you get rejected in the future, just remember that everyone is human and have their own issues, hence they may not want to be with you or anyone else.

[sinful wasp]

HAHA you didn't have to hit him so hard

[wintry rampart]

who gives a damn about wives?

[tawdry star]

I did

Just stop this bullshit

It's hurtful

.

[sinful wasp]

With all due respect I thought you did

[river wadi]

ATB 🙂

[wintry rampart]

success is exploration.

[tawdry star]

?

[sinful wasp]

It's not true it's backward and misogynistic thinking

[cosmic ginkgo]

that gold diggers exist?

[tawdry star]

In that case I'm going to ask you to keep your illusions private

Stop being dellusional mate

[cosmic ginkgo]

if your definition of success is being with a gold digger then you be you

[eager ore]

What are you looking for in a relationship?

[cosmic ginkgo]

but that isnt called a healthy relationship

[sinful wasp]

You can't stereotype "women coming to you" as both "healthy and a goal" and "gold diggers"

[real junco]

your mom

sorry

[tawdry star]

You certainly implied it

[wintry rampart]

someone who could understand me and help me grip my true self

[sinful wasp]

You said success brings women but that's clearly not the type of relationship they or anyone at all wants

[tawdry star]

.

.

Ya

[sinful wasp]

You are not going to get any good women either regardless of your success darling

[tawdry star]

Misogyny

[tawdry star]

LMAO

[wintry rampart]

it's up to you if you want to get a lady or not

[north karma]

The point isnt to tell him how tf to achieve his “goal”

[tawdry star]

See

[sinful wasp]

A healthy relationship

Not someone after you for material assets

Haha have you never been in one

[river wadi]

bruhh if someone's goal in life is to "get women" then that's messed up 💀💀

[real junco]

not the titanic

[sinful wasp]

Someone who supports you and your interests, accepts you for being you, sorts out issues maturely with you, etc.

[north karma]

Mashallah

[finite flower]

sure

[sinful wasp]

Mf really said "grind women"

[tawdry star]

Sushi too pls

[sinful wasp]

You're gonna ban ken n not ban sushi

[tawdry star]

We'll do both dw

[sinful wasp]

Yes it's literally a healthy relationship

HAHAHAA

[north karma]

Too busy grinding women than to be accepting calls to go to parties 😡

[cosmic ginkgo]

it honestly takes a fair bit of effort from both sides to sustain a healthy relationship, sometimes one of you might not have the capacity for that, and it happens even if youre "perfect for each other". love isnt finding the missing jigsaw puzzle, love is adapting, and understanding of each other

[sinful wasp]

Yes a healthy relationship requires a good personality first and foremost so that you can have good compatibility

Don't give relationship advice if you don't know the basics of having one

[wintry rampart]

and i thought the latter (a jigsaw puzzle), despite me being a highly-introverted being

[eager ore]

Respectfully you’ve never been with a girl and it shows.

[tawdry star]

+1

[tawdry star]

+1

<@&572709257036955649> how is Sushi still not banned from this channel?

[cosmic ginkgo]

we all have to learn one way or the other

[sinful wasp]

It shows

[north karma]

It shows

[tawdry star]

It shows

[real junco]

it shows

[sinful wasp]

Tell her I'm sorry

[tawdry star]

We'll celebrate when she's done w this

[sinful wasp]

And that I'm sure it'll get better soon

[tawdry star]

^

[north karma]

One year of this

God

[sinful wasp]

If you don't value her personality above all else

[cosmic ginkgo]

toxic relationships exist but thats a different box to unpack

[tawdry star]

@finite flower / @kindred stone how is this clown this here?

[north karma]

No amount of mental therapy can save me from that

[sinful wasp]

You know what this is venting

[real junco]

bruh I should be a mod smh

[tawdry star]

No I'm not a misogynist

[north karma]

Hes not being disrespectful

Hes jus calling out ur shit

[tawdry star]

I'm being honest and if you find that disrespectful

[sinful wasp]

Pugs is trying to call you out for your bs, which might not be in the most respectful way but he's calling out some unhealthy advice

[tawdry star]

You should take a look at yourself

[wintry rampart]

well, never mind the virgin v chad crap

[sinful wasp]

You should NOT be giving unhealthy advice to people who are lost and need help

[wintry rampart]

they're memes anyways

[sinful wasp]

That will only make it worse for them

[tawdry star]

^^^^^

[livid meteor]

I don’t think I’ve ever seen venting this heated

[sinful wasp]

So true welpo

It's not about talking to you

[wintry rampart]

there are many other ways to be a chad

[tawdry star]

No this is a public space, we will prevent you from spewing bs

[north karma]

Who said that

[kindred stone]

stop pinging me

[cosmic ginkgo]

not when youre giving people advice

[kindred stone]

plz

[sinful wasp]

It's about you offering bad advice to people who need good advice, which is unhealthy

[real junco]

allow me to introduce you to JC7

[tawdry star]

soz mate

[sinful wasp]

No we're not on the same boat

[kindred stone]

stop please

[river wadi]

Man, I understand that it sucks being attacked by so many people, but please be respectful of others and try to put yourself in their shoes. A lot of guys hate the topic of misogyny but think of yourself in women's shoes. It may seem like a small thing to you but others are tired of hearing stuff like this when it's straight-up rude and insulting. I hope you understand

[livid meteor]

what is jc7?

[sinful wasp]

love could you figure out a solution like removing toxic, non-self-aware advisors from the chat

That sounds inefficient but at least it's something

[kindred stone]

i've put a timelimit for now

[north karma]

Since this is venting i shall let my feelings out: ive always loved waffles, the crunch, the ecstasy i get when i take that first bite coupled with maple syrup MUAH

[real junco]

I have been betrayed

[wintry rampart]

okay... i get it, i was overthinking about a relationship, and i'm undergoing the stages of grief, and i feel that i'm ready to begin moving on, with baby steps. i may even actually be taking this block too seriously as well, as i've encountered this stance twice in my life, yet, I cannot believe that I was able to try something new.

[finite flower]

what is happenin

[unreal oak]

can someone tl;dr this for me

all i can see is that it was a shitshow

[sinful wasp]

tldr; guy wanted help, someone gave bad misogynistic advice, argument started

[unreal oak]

ah yes

[languid sierra]

well... what a way to help

[stuck mango]

I firmly believe this server needs more strict moderating to be a good place, at its current state it feels like a mess especially considering its partnered

[hard ravine]

I mean, I like freedom 😳

[cosmic ginkgo]

i'd suggest putting that on #💡-feedback instead

[wintry rampart]

I feel that this rant's concluded, as I would simply forget that these things happened, while acknowledging my feelings in a way that shows myself that I've still got emotional strength, even if I withstood 2 potential relationship-based relations, as well as getting a larger understanding of relationships, and I couldn't realize the full truth without @cosmic ginkgo , @eager ore , @sinful wasp , @river wadi , @mild compass , @wicked turret , and @mild compass .

I'll quote the third How To Train Your Dragon film (The Hidden World), which is 50% true, if unmanaged, with the relationship advice:
"Trust me. Relationships are nothing but pain and misery."

• Hiccup Horrendous Haddock III

[eternal axle]

Just tell me if you've calmed down now, or healed at least 13%

[mild compass]

slow-mode has been enabled cause I can't moderate right now, I'm in class

I will fix perms tomorrow

for right now, everyone please calm down

[wintry rampart]

healed by around 57%

[sinful wasp]

i didn't know there were three how to train your dragon films

[lament cloud]

Yeah the 3rd one was where toothless met the first female in his species

[wicked turret]

👍

[eager ore]

Hopefully I was of help and I hope everything works out. Good luck in your future endeavours

[junior lotus]

i just need to put this somewhere really quick i hope that's alright

[north karma]

It is venting after all

[junior lotus]

hi yeah things aren't really working out right now i am at a really lost place got nothing going for me at the moment

and it's just so fucking unfair because i did all i could and actually succeeded in securing good grades and university admissions to some pretty nice universities that i'd love to be in

and yet due to my family's circumstances i can't attend and i am just so lost with nothing to do i feel like i am wasting my life away i feel unproductive, useless and worthless

and i constantly keep comparing myself to my class mates who are already in uni, watching their stories i just find myself thinking where did i go wrong like what did i do wrong to not be there

i know people who skipped classes and just meh'd their way through high school and are now in nice elite universities

how is it fucking fair when I worked myself to the bone with the dream of just being in a fucking university in mind and at the end of it all i don't have that

[north karma]

I cant really say much about ur family circumstances but i hope you realize its not your fault at all life jus tends to be very “strange” unfair to some, but comparing yourself is gonna throw you in a downward loop

Try to do what you can at this moment

So at the very least ur not using the time you have rn atleast

[junior lotus]

it's such a struggle dude

[north karma]

I hope shit goes well for you tho its really unfortunate when external factors fuck you over

[junior lotus]

it takes so much just to get out of bed every morning

[junior lotus]

exactly. external fucking factors mannn

[north karma]

Oh yea one more thing

Please dont get the idea that your useless too

This is more of a personal thing since being called that my peers around me threw for a fucking loop for years

You determine your own worth

Take ur time with this tho honestly

[junior lotus]

i know and i suppose i have myself to blame for that because i really started associating my self worth with how much work i am doing during that time

i know all of that yet at the end of the day god does it make me feel hot with shame and self loathe when i see everyone around me doing some amazing things

no jealousy, i mean good for them, fucking kudos

but how can i face myself in the mirror when i have all this time and basic privilege and i'm not really making the most of it

[wooden elm]

wait let me get this straight, your going to university next year or smth?

[junior lotus]

man i dont really know when i am

[north karma]

The fact that you acknowledge it is a step forward

[cosmic ginkgo]

it doesnt make you ungrateful if thats what youre implying

[wooden elm]

What do you want to pursue

[cosmic ginkgo]

we cant all work constantly, we are human

[junior lotus]

cs

[north karma]

Also yeah ^

If u havent gotten rest after hellish application period

Its a good time to

[junior lotus]

yeah but we can do a little at least and i cant seem to even manage that

[wooden elm]

Honestly my recommendation would be to pick up skills within that time period, the fact that it cs only makes it easier

[junior lotus]

honestly it's really hard

[cosmic ginkgo]

it is really hard, dont be so harsh on yourself 💜

[junior lotus]

like yeah i could whip up youtube learn a language but deep inside the thoughts in my brain and honestly that if i will ever be able to put it to use

[wooden elm]

Start with what you want to make, u can pick up the language after

again I can't really help when it comes to your mental health, I am no psychiatrist, and neither do I have any experience helping, all i can give is practical advice

[wooden elm]

but yea try to build a portfolio of projects, and you may pick up some valuable technologies in the process

[cosmic ginkgo]

you can try working on personal projects like melon said, and those will be useful in getting you places

[wooden elm]

makes the application process a lot simpler as well

[junior lotus]

yeah i guess so

just hard staying motivated day to day

but i know yeah you're right

[wooden elm]

you could aslo work on your ads skills, it very important as well

[cosmic ginkgo]

you worked really hard on your grades, and you deserve to be proud of that, those are very valuable skills you have

[north karma]

The steps will add up

[junior lotus]

ads skills?

[wooden elm]

there is a reason why the saying "75th percentile math major is a better sfe* than an bottom 25th percnetile cs major"

algorithms and data structures

its something you could work on for free to, with shit like hackerrank, leetcode etc

codeforces if ur the competitive kind

[wooden elm]

honestly to be fair I would as well, I only perform when I have deadlines and time pressure to rely on

[junior lotus]

thank you man yeah honestly i feel like myself when studying, when given a challenge, i feel like that's really the only thing im good at in life

[junior lotus]

can u tell me more? i'm not familiar w these

[wooden elm]

Uhm they are sites where you could work on your algorithmic skills, so usually you have a prompt and you would have to solve em

and they are categorized in difficulty

[cosmic ginkgo]

im sure it isnt the only thing, but thats an absolute win that youre good at yeah

[junior lotus]

i'll check them out. would u mind if i reached out if i have any further questions about it?

[wooden elm]

sure, although I wouldn't be the perfect person to ask

but my dms are open anytime

[junior lotus]

thank u

[wooden elm]

no worries

[junior lotus]

thank u all of u for being such a kind ear

[wooden elm]

don't worry about it

[cosmic ginkgo]

anytime luv, if you need to vent feel free to dm me, never think youre a burden

[wintry rampart]

i now cannot stop thinking about misogyny

and i want that out of my head as i feel that this isn't the right way to do it

and instead actually move on from rejection

[slate sky]

Results are coming out so soon, idk how to feel about them

Kind of scared and nervous rn

Because I saw so many people get Us at a level despite low thresholds

[mild compass]

Someone pinged me a bajillion times what u need compadre?

[slate sky]

?

[wintry rampart]

now, i'm surely recovering, but i feel that something bad's happening to me, which is that of thinking about misogyny rather than self-improvement

idk how to remove these thoughts from my head

before it consumes me

[mild compass]

@wintry rampart don't be misogynistic my guy. You shouldn't judge every female out there just because a couple of them rejected you or even treated you like trash. Just like guys and basically humans. Everyone is different. Women are incredible, replace your misogynistic thoughts with positive anti-misogynistic ones. Women suck? Nah bro women are amazing. You have to fight these thoughts and way of thinking. Our mind is crazy, one idea simply can't consume 100% of it, you can change the way you think. Just be patient and persistent.

If there are people around you or even material that promotes misogyny, get rid of it.

(Like literal misogyny)

Focus on who you want to be. What would he do. What would he think.

What would he do differently

[wintry rampart]

yep. at least i tried and learned something from this experience, which is actually befriending others first rather than jumping into a relationship

[mild compass]

Friendship is a fundamental foundation to relationships.

If you dont hit it off as friends, it's literally impossible to go for a relationship

Be friends first, that's where u get to know them and how they're like etc
This is also where you develop real feelings for who they are rather what they look like.

you also see if they like who you are and whether you have mutually shared feelings and it's not one sided

But yea it's basically just that

Getting into a relationship isn't complicated

It's pretty straightforward

But being in one

It's a lot

so unless you're ready to deal with another human being on a very consistent basis and by deal i mean have to go through a variety of experiences with them.

Dont go for it

Relationships are more than just hugs, cuddles, kisses etc

Some fail and some don't fail

@wintry rampart

[wintry rampart]

you, sir, are right. i knew that i found small talk to be insignificant, which is why i have failed twice, but now, i'm ready to break my comfort zone and actually initiate small talk with one of my female classmates

[mild compass]

Yes King, you got this. 👑

[wintry rampart]

and i feel that it is best for me to seek advice from others than do thing my way

cause i really do not understand how the dating process works

[mild compass]

Yess this is actually 99% true. Advice from others helps a lot and even gives u some insight on what you might think is really smooth but in reality it's just low-key cringe. Saves u from a ton of embarrassing moments

[mild compass]

You'll get there bro, nun too difficult

[tepid delta]

i want to die

like

my mom was literally about to get some sleeping pills for me to take and die from

so i think my parents are okay with me dying

[wintry rampart]

nope

they're most likely mad

i've took all 4 of my as subjects and scored a U in math and comp sci, but a D in business and around a B or A in psychology

and yet, my mother got mad, and look now where I am, still happy as a person

[tepid delta]

Beyond ma

mad

my dad just doesn't see me as his son anynore

just

fuck my life man

if they want me to die themselves

the fuck is tethering me

might as well slit my wrists and call it a day thede

[mossy wave]

uughhhhh

stupid evidence testtt

my school is like taking tests back to back

it sucks

[warped zephyr]

us too

for evidence

they are rushing like hell

[mossy wave]

ikrrr

and our school isnt even sure if they r going to conduct the boards

its so hardddd

so if the boards do take place then I'll seriously be dead by the end of this

[warped zephyr]

for us they have assured boards are gonna happen but seriously jus calm down we are may june series and they like keeping full portion revision tests in jan 19

[mossy wave]

ikrrr

i do be dying on the inside

[eager ore]

Are you guys from India?

[warped zephyr]

i am

[mossy wave]

you got that right buddy

yep

also it is so cold here

[warped zephyr]

it is sunny over here but fans turned off

[eager ore]

Boards most likely going to happen, Even with a load of restrictions they're going to keep the school open for exams

[eager ore]

Yea, the weather is so weird

[mossy wave]

yeah

i'm here to vent more

i hate life

sometime

other time it be good

my chemistry teacher keeps giving us specimen papers

for our evidences

[eternal axle]

ayo dude calm down

No self-harm talks

don't care how bad it is

no self-harm

clear?

Remove that from your mind

Or beat it with a stick idc. Just get it out

[lament cloud]

^^^^^

[eternal axle]

You're not alone. My eniter 9th grade we had tests every week + daily quiz. And now in 10th I am having my fourth mocks

All you can do is keep solving

[mossy wave]

yesss

[mild compass]

Vent out the anger physically on tables or something. Dont harm yourself

[eternal axle]

yeah carnage therapy I think we call it that

[sinful wasp]

just so you know it doesn't work and if you try it it'll just end up making you feel worse

[mossy wave]

anyone need a pep talk

i'm hereee

[lament cloud]

listen to angry music

[eternal axle]

I guess you have to do it correctly. Don' just destroy stuff. Think of that one thing that is making you feel depressed. Then break

[eternal axle]

that...won't help

That'll just make him angrier

[lament cloud]

honestly its helped me

[sinful wasp]

i'm talking about self harm

[lament cloud]

it helps me vent

[sinful wasp]

and yeah angry music does help you vent your anger i think there were studies conducted

[eternal axle]

oh lol, didn't reply to msg so got confused

[mild compass]

NF

Eminem

[sinful wasp]

oh yeah haha my bad

[mild compass]

It does

[eternal axle]

yeah got it

[lament cloud]

ehh i dont really like his stuff but if it helps you then sure

[sinful wasp]

i used to listen to alice in chains when i was upset HAHA

[mild compass]

NF > Eminem

I will 1v1 you on this

[lament cloud]

choose the right music from his catalogue, the wrong ones could make shit worse

[mild compass]

some albums were a flop

Now he's just old

[lament cloud]

i suggest The Eminem Show album

[lament cloud]

i dont disagree

[mild compass]

ASS LIKE THAT

[lament cloud]

that was Encore

[eternal axle]

#chat-lounge pls pls

[lament cloud]

yeah my bad

[mild compass]

Looked like a show ngl

[river wadi]

No way you like eminem but not NF. That's cap bc they literally do similar stuff

@tepid delta I would suggest punching a pillow that's tied up to smthg like a bed-post, etc

It really does help, doesn't hurt anyone and still manages to let you get the anger out

[mild compass]

You like NF?

So cool

Bro you didn't reply me dms@mild compass

Turned into a woman fr

Left me on read

😔

[cosmic ginkgo]

A polite reminder to not goof around in the venting channel, keep that to #chat-lounge @mild compass @mild compass

[mild compass]

Ight bet 🤝

[slate sky]

Man 2 days till results left

Feels like the wait is over and just want to get this over and done with

[slate sky]

Wow

[wintry rampart]

oh well... time for me to use bumble...

even if i get a short relationship or smth

[mossy wave]

uggghhh

I have a physics exam tomorrow

It sucks

[thorn mason]

good luck!

mocks?

[lament cloud]

Lol good luck

[mossy wave]

no, so my school is doing the evidence test thing and its my third physics exam in the last three weeks

[mossy wave]

thank you

[mossy wave]

thank you

[lament cloud]

Sounds painful

[thorn mason]

ah i see. we are doing the same

it must be 1hr long

[mossy wave]

yep

i hate the days when we have two exams in one day

it is hell

[thorn mason]

we are done with 3 evidences

1 more to go

[thorn mason]

i can relate. I had a 5hr 15 min exam in one day 💀

[mossy wave]

we are done with 2 evidences for each subject

[lament cloud]

Yeah it sucks, I remember I had 3 exams in one day once when I gave A levels

[mossy wave]

must've been dead after it

[thorn mason]

3 hr of bio and 2hr 15 min eco

[thorn mason]

yes

[lament cloud]

Ooof

[mossy wave]

oh no

you've taken both

[thorn mason]

and the sad part is i had to prepare for literature the next day

[thorn mason]

yes

[mossy wave]

oh no

which text have you got

for lit

[thorn mason]

oh for drama i have crucible and twelfth night

and for prose 1984

[mossy wave]

1984

finally

1984

big brother needs to chill

[thorn mason]

and 15 poems

[mossy wave]

ryttt

[lament cloud]

Is lit hard

[thorn mason]

lol ye

[thorn mason]

i hate lit so ig it's hard

[mossy wave]

depends if you understand it

[thorn mason]

literature ruins the look of my report card

[mossy wave]

send me your list ... maybe we have some in common

[mossy wave]

why tho

[thorn mason]

sure 1 sec

[thorn mason]

the max i have gotten is B 💀

[mossy wave]

omgosh

[thorn mason]

all the other subjects are A* but lit is just sad

[mossy wave]

aww

[mossy wave]

surprising thing

these are exactly the 15 poems that I have

[thorn mason]

Wait what?

Lmao

[mossy wave]

yep

lmao

[thorn mason]

Nice

But instead of farmhand I have planners

Hbu?

[mossy wave]

yeah same

[thorn mason]

Nice

Are u good in lit?

[mossy wave]

if u want later we can exchange notes

[mossy wave]

yeah

[lament cloud]

Guys you should move this to #chat-lounge or #625747249334452262

[mossy wave]

all As and A*s

[thorn mason]

Damn help me 😢

[mossy wave]

k

[wintry rampart]

out of all beginner wish characters, why did i get xiangling???

i was hoping for fischl or sucrose

or at least a hydro character

[wicked turret]

I just carried out an small experiment

I stopped going to gym for 5 days

My productivity went up again

It makes me really sad that i cant do both academics and physical

I dont want to be a grumpy old man who regrets about not doing any physical exercise in his prime

any advice?

[mild compass]

Study during the early hours, 6am-11am.
Go to the gym in the afternoon or evening. 2pm to 5pm / 7pm-9pm. Whichever suits you. @wicked turret

Studying first thing in the morning will be better than doing it later bc then you'll be pretty exhausted and won't feel like doing much

[wicked turret]

Yeah that could work but

Our country's electricity cutoff is scheduled around morning

[mild compass]

But

Wdym blackout

[wicked turret]

Mostly 6-10

And I have class starting at 9

[mild compass]

Blackout as in no electricity?

[wicked turret]

No electricity

[mild compass]

Classes irl or online

[wicked turret]

Online

I have to save power for the class

[mild compass]

Hmm when do u usually work out

[wicked turret]

After school

So it should be 4

[mild compass]

Maybe you could work out first.

Study later

(Workout early)

[wicked turret]

Yeah but its the sudden depressive episode I get

[wicked turret]

Ohhh that could work

But idk about the depressive episodes

[mild compass]

You should try fixing your sleep schedule to accommodate the new routine

Like sleep before 10pm

Wake up at 5

[mild compass]

I'm sorry idk what this is literally

[wicked turret]

Period of being depressed or negative

[mild compass]

Does it happen after working out?

[wicked turret]

Alot which is the reason why my productivity declined

[mild compass]

ohh

[wicked turret]

I forgot to add one thing. I did do the similar routine before where I would play golf starting at 6.

The same thing happened

[mild compass]

Have u tried getting therapy for this problem

[wicked turret]

Got depressed really bad and I had to ditch the class for a day

[wicked turret]

Nah no therapy...no offense but my therapist just offered antidepressants

[mild compass]

This is kinda complicated

Asf

[wicked turret]

Which pretty left me addicted and had to deal with withdrawal for a month

[mild compass]

Wish school started in the afternoon

[wicked turret]

So I lost my hope on therapy

[mild compass]

That sucks bro, sorry you went through that

[wicked turret]

I can do really well without gym or sport

Which is why I hate it

I want to get fit for my age

[mild compass]

But having a physical activity is good

[mild compass]

Yess

[wicked turret]

But at the cost of my grades and uni isn't worth it

[mild compass]

School starts at 9 and ends at what time

[wicked turret]

3:55 which is about 4

[mild compass]

Damn

9-4

[wicked turret]

Yes

[mild compass]

You're probably tired as shit after that

With homework too

Best thing would be to workout after school and before sleep imo

[wicked turret]

The thing about gym or sport is that it makes me really vulnerable and emotional.

I might feel great during the period or feeling really down

And from that emotional instability just lead to snowball effect

And I get really screwed by it

That goes the same for the social call or hangout

Idk what went wrong with me in life

Anything I value, I just keep myself distanced from it

Ranging from sports to friends

[mild compass]

Is there any reason behind this

[wicked turret]

I did some research ofc...avoidant personality disorder ticks most of the boxes (or maybe I'm just anxious)

[mild compass]

I mean, you can't just go ahead and live your life out with this kinda problem clawing onto you

[mild compass]

Treatable?

[wicked turret]

For example, i will be happy that you listen to me and care much. But on next day, I will try my best to avoid you at all cost.

[mild compass]

Bro wtf 😭

Imagine getting married and avoiding your wife the rest of your life

[wicked turret]

It's manageable just like most of the issues

[wicked turret]

I dont think it follows the exact formula for some people

[mild compass]

Sound so obvious but do try to get help.

[wicked turret]

Idk man

[mild compass]

What about you tho

[wicked turret]

You can ask me to do labours for weeks but to meet another therapist

That's too much challenging

[mild compass]

You have to try and get help my guy, even if changing therapists is required

[wicked turret]

I just described my experience.

And which is why I avoided romantic relationship

Never had one in fact

[mild compass]

It's okay

But rn getting help should be your no 1 priority

[wicked turret]

It's just that I don't want to get close with another person or a therapist

Feel burnt-out when I think about it

[mild compass]

It's not Abt getting close Bro, it's about getting treated. Otherwise you'll regret it on your deathbed

[wicked turret]

Therapy sections are not free, bro

I dont wanna burden my parents

Not like when the country (myanmar) is falling apart

And our business is suffering from it

But ty, at least I managed to pinpoint the problem:

my mental issue

[mild compass]

Ah well. Not like there's anything I can do to actually help. But i really hope you get help someday, really do my guy.

[cosmic ginkgo]

<@&572709257036955649> sorry for the double ping

[kindred stone]

vhat happen

[cosmic ginkgo]

scam link

[river wadi]

if you really are interested in getting fit and struggle with the gym and sports maybe try walking/ jogging. You'll get fresh air and it's not too stressful

moreover it'll keep you fit and might not hinder your productivity

you could just go on a 1-2 km jog/run every alternate day

with music playing in headphones

and maybe do it in the evening

[wicked turret]

Ty I will try that

[sinful wasp]

@wicked turret not to downplay your shitty experience with therapists, but going to one will really really help. i had a bad experience with a therapist who made me distrust them too, but when i finally gave it a second try i found great help

not all of them are bad, although yours sounds terrible

but you need to find the right one who fits you

if you can't afford a therapist, you should still find some support because a good support network is vital in the recovery of any illness, physical or mental

[mild compass]

👆

[olive wadi]

@soft jungle btw i saw the message u sent in #chat-lounge that u quickly deleted, painful/traumatic experiences often add to my strength once i move on from them , i cant say everyone does this but i know this is how i do it , once im over the pain or the trauma , however long it may be , it only adds to my experience and mental strength so whatever happened i hope you find the way to get over it soon so a day of a year doesnt plague you anymore

[soft jungle]

thanks : )

unfortunately the trauma is continuing and the situation continues to get worse.

tw: violence. Feb 1 is coming up. It's one of the worst days of my life. In myanmar, the democratic government was overthrown and taken over by the military. The internet was shut down and there were bombs and guns going off. The anniversary is coming soon and idk how to deal with it.

that was the full message

the violence is continuing and it just seems to get worse and worse

[sinful wasp]

Yeah it's horrifying what's going on in Myanmar

And for you the worst part is that you can't do anything

I can understand why it would weigh so heavy on your heart

[olive wadi]

i cant imagine how terrifying that is , the worst it got for me was suicide bombers in our capital city where i live , so we were also living thru similar things before i kinda can get it and over time with peace it goes away but you must give yourself the hope that it will be better bec no one else is gonna do that , gotta hold on tight

[soft jungle]

thats terrifying i hope you're okay and thanks so much for helping me here and in the other chat

[soft jungle]

thanks

[olive wadi]

we used to have terrorist attacks , there was even once a bomb that went off right where i was headed in city center , dodged a bullet there im all good this was years ago , and also np im always here to help

[sinful wasp]

I hope the political situation in your country gets better

[olive wadi]

^

politics is some ass

[soft jungle]

thanks

[olive wadi]

and i hate it

[soft jungle]

ikr it freaking sucks

[sinful wasp]

All these old men

[soft jungle]

all the old, egoistical, self centred, privileged men

[olive wadi]

hope u can get outta there and move to a nicer place

[soft jungle]

thanks i hope so too

[soft jungle]

yeah im going to uni in a year and a half so just gotta hold on until then or until my dad gets a new job somewhere else

[olive wadi]

if you really do desire it and dedicate yourself to it , i know without a doubt u'll do it

u cant really control what job ur dad gets

but getting into a uni is upto you for the most part

thats the difference

[soft jungle]

yeah im sure ill get into a uni even if its a sucky one lol

you're a really good emotional support person thanks so much

[olive wadi]

you'll get into one that u deserve , the effort u put will eventually pay up

[olive wadi]

aww thanks :) just tryin my best to be of any help

[soft jungle]

yepp

[wicked turret]

:0

are you a burmese too?

[soft jungle]

im not but ive been living there for 6 years

[soft jungle]

are you?? omg are we from the same school

[wicked turret]

hmmmmmmmm

I would like to answer to that but i dont feel like doxxing both of us

out of paranoia after what this country has went through

[wicked turret]

and yes im a burmese

[soft jungle]

oooh

i hope stuff gets better for likely its not given feb1 is coming : (

[wicked turret]

I hate to say this but it might not get better here anytime soon

[soft jungle]

yeah ik ive been watching stories on ig

[wicked turret]

How have you been doing so far?

[soft jungle]

pretty sucky

you?

its like every time i feel a bit peaceful something comes and rocks it

[wicked turret]

same. power cut plus ooredoo servers being down in my region

[soft jungle]

yeah lots of power cuts but oh no

i didnt know that

the cost of data has doubled too

[wicked turret]

omg

yessss

I cant even access to websites for a day without draining 2 gb on my mobile data

[soft jungle]

omg

are you doing as/a level

cause i have offline savemyexams notes

[wicked turret]

A2 atm

i downloaded most of znotes and savemyexams pdf

[soft jungle]

oh okay

[wicked turret]

I cant attend schools properly these days though

you wanna move to chat lounge? mods may not like us chatting here

[soft jungle]

yep lets do that

[rancid anchor]

the whole process of doing applications, interviews while studying for my alevels dealing with continuous exams- idek if i'm a human anymore. the worst part is I'm in love with a college and i've been working my ass off but idek if they'll accept me, if any of the 21 universities i applied to will accept me. this is so hard. I need a hug

[mild compass]

don't worry 🤗

[mild compass]

i'm sure you'll do great wherever you end up getting in

[rancid anchor]

Thank you 😭 Even tho it's so overwhelming, knowing I'm not alone helps a lot

[mild compass]

for sure! almost half the server is in the same spot as you :)

[rancid anchor]

I hope we all make it. Everyone is so strong to be able to deal with this! I'm proud of everyone for holding on ❤️

[river wadi]

🤗🤗

[lament cloud]

I think there's still a couple of his messages left

Lemme delete

[rough holly]

Can i get someone’s advice. I dealed with a serious eating issue with me losing about 15kg within 3 weeks due to not eating cause of stress. My parents knew this and checked everything with a doctor but they didn’t think it was mentally. I recently just started gaining that weight back and my mum made a comment saying “ you used to eat nothing and now you’re eating too much” she also called me the hippo from Madagascar 😄. And i just don’t know what to do because i’ve stopped wanting to eat but then i eat too much and feel so guilty. I don’t think my mum really understand how much her comments affect me. She then started laughing saying it’s 😐just a joke 😐. Any advice on what too do?

[lament cloud]

I think you should have a serious talk with your mom and tell her how her comments make you feel, I also feel like you should also talk to a therapist about the stress you talked about

Because it honestly seems like you have a lot of stress and it's affecting you negatively in a serious way, and that's not good for your mental or physical

[scenic crow]

from someone who has no idea what you're going through but is close to someone who's facing the same disorder, i want to start off by saying how I'm v proud that you for recognizing and accepting the pattern. I want u to know that it's not your fault. The details u mentioned sound like you might be bulimic. and i want u to know that it's alright and what you're feeling is v justifiable considering evthn

honestly i feel like in moments like these the tiniest thing about ur triggers can weigh the heaviest on u

[lament cloud]

Yeah this is very true

[scenic crow]

if you're mentally up for it, i would suggest you look into ur eating patterns and research more about it. There is help out there and you're not alone. And always rmr, it's no one's fault and nothing is wrong with u

[mild compass]

I do have a vague knowledge of fitness n how mental health can affect someone’s eating patterns so I would say try eating ur favourite meal more often n also try exercising cuz u would gain more appetite n that will also help u tc of ur stress a lil bout the other half I really dunno wat to say but I hope everything becomes alright n just remember these times won’t last long there will be easier days coming ur way :))

[rough holly]

see my mum is desi, last time i talked to her was about some thoughts i was having ( dw now tho, i’ve fixed that issue) and she said it’s normal and it it doesn’t matter cause everyone else does too. I got quite upset so i didn’t talk to her for a while, and like everytime i try to talk to her she just ignores me and kind of tries to leave the situation. So although i get your point, it’s just a really hard thing for me to talk to my mum about anything. Also my parents don’t believe in therapy so i do sometimes talk to a teacher, but it’s not the same yk

[rough holly]

Thank you for your really sweet words,and it sounds like you’re right but i’m not too sure on even where to start to try and get into a regular healthy eating pattern. It’s hard when my parents know i’m not in the best state mentally and they still do everything they can to just make upset. Some desi parents 🙄. But thank you so much, and i think i will try to research my eating a bit more :)

[rough holly]

thank you! I have started walking more in the morning, and drinking a lot more water in attempt to not keep on over eating.

Thank you all tho, these comments made me smile :)

[tepid delta]

Desi parents do be like that,there's no satisfying them

As long as you're eating enough and keeping it in check,you'll be fine.

No one knows more about you and yourself,so you're the best judge.

Not your parents,not your friends,no one.

If you want to eat,go eat.
Don't give a shit to what anyone else says.

You got this Yoki :)

[rough holly]

exactly! it’s irritating half the time. I did reasonable on my GCSE and my dad made me retake eng lit because i only got a B on top of doing my A-Levels i had to retake it. And they’re mad because i didn’t take Physics and only took 3 alevels. But thank you again

all of you are amazing!

[mild compass]

3 A Levels is more than enough and universities don't really give much of a fuck about it as long 1 to 2 of them are related to whatever you're majoring in.

5 is overkill

4 is also overkill

[mild compass]

Why is your dad so pressed over you getting a B in eng lit.
A "b" is already so good in eng lit, why dont he take it instead and see how far he goes from getting a D 🥶

[rough holly]

brooo ikr. My dad got a fucking d in english and he’s mad at me for getting b in english but an A* in the rest 🙄

[rough holly]

YES! this exactly

[mild compass]

Sounds like he's too salty to appreciate the fact that you've already done so much better than he could

It's a known joke that B is as far as u get in Eng lit.

[rough holly]

he’s way too salty lmaooo

[rough holly]

ikr eng lit sucks

[tepid delta]

English Lit is USELESS.

Unless you are going into said field...

[mild compass]

Yea and get paid minimum wage while a janitor makes more lololol

[mild compass]

He should cope

[rough holly]

Did you send something else or i’m i just going crazy

[rough holly]

yes the most useless english subject

[mild compass]

I did but i have to hold myself back in venting

I could get muted for being myself

😔

[stuck mango]

Yes

[mild compass]

Discrimination is real

[rough holly]

daymnnn

[mild compass]

I see you have a playboy in your eye

Is that a reflection of me?

❤️ 🥺

#chat-lounge

[stuck mango]

#chat-lounge

[rough holly]

lmaoo sorry

[rough holly]

well i talked too her. “i didn’t like what you said too me, it wasn’t very nice” and she said “so it doesn’t matter”. Then she proceeded to say, you need to do this ( can’t say because private) so i just walked away and now she’s just mad at me for walking away

this right here

[soft jungle]

That’s so infuriating! That’s just how desi parents are: their parents beat them and don’t listen to them and they do the same to us. Hopefully we’re the generation that will break the cycle

[wintry rampart]

ehh... chinese parents are in the same level

having perfect expectations of their children

if they pass their gaokao, they'll love it

if not, boom

but here in the Philippines, there is no such thing as a gaokao, but each of the big 4 colleges (DLSU, UST, Ateneo, UP) get their own entrance tests, as well as every other college

and they're challenging as hell as back then, i did not even prepare for it

[rough holly]

god i can’t wait to have a child so i can treat them i wanted to be treated. I’d never deny them any hugs or loves, always understand when they’re going through a hard time, even if they fail a few subjects i would just sit with them and talk them through what they think they could do better instead of shouting at them and making it a hell of a lot worse. the most important thing is that i would respect their privacy but i also want them to be able to confide in me with anything they ever want knowing that they won’t be judged. Ik we still gotta be sort of strict like normal parents, but just giving ur child a hug like that can do a whole lot of good

[lament cloud]

I relate to this so much

[rough holly]

honestly it’s asian parents in general

[lament cloud]

You sound like youll be a great parent :)

[lament cloud]

Yep

[rough holly]

god I really hope so, never want my child to feel the way i feel or i would have known i would have failed as a parent

[lament cloud]

The fact that you're thinking this way shows that you will be a great parent

Yes

[rough holly]

that’s just bad what you said

[rough holly]

i agree

[rough holly]

yea i really hope so

[zinc frost]

@wintry rampart yea buddy

[real junco]

can you stfu and play fortnite

aww look how offended he is

fortnite sucks

[mild compass]

diaa please refrain from using profanities

this is your only warning

[real junco]

bruh just ban this guy

[mild compass]

he's done