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plush depot
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on my studies

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keep gettung distracted

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(very small attention span)

strong comet
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Honestly. I feel you on this one but some things that have helped me is figuring out why i am actually waking up early in the morning to study and etc. Having my own personal goals or reasons why i am studying helps me sit in one location to study . Try the tomato timer method. If your attention span very small as you said. Set the timer to 5 mins of studying. Any subject your taking. Remove any distractions that may use you to lose focus like social media, pinterest, netflix, games, your phone and put your phone on silent. Either keep your phone away from u or use it as a timer and turn your wifi off. By turning off your wifi and keeping it on silent atleast now a good amount of distractions will be taken away .Some people believe in praying before studying you can try that and see if it works for u. Keep water and some snacks near u as u study. Helps u sit in one place longer.

Another thing that personally helped me is understanding that not everyday or all time. You will feel motivated or want to read but read anyway. It helps in the long run. Sometimes just looking and passing through whatever your supposed to study helps u in the next round when you actually try to understand what this chapter or lesson is about.

Other times you actually need to rest as in a nap before trying to read again. Getting a good night rest is important for you being productive the next day or the few hours from that said time. Personally for me. I take a 2 hour nap from 12 mid day to 2 pm then take lunch then get studying again. I noticed taking that nap works wonders for me in keeping my focus but do what works best for u and your body remember. We all work differently from each other so figure out what works best for u.

Planning out. What you want to achieve the next day. The night before also helps you out the next day. Gives a sense of direction , clarity and etc.

Create your own personal time table that works in favor of your up coming exams. Whether MAY/JUN or OCT/NOV.

unreal shadow
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you dont get it magically one day

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especially considering you probably spend so much time on tiktok/instagram

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that fucks up your attention span

strong comet
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unreal shadow
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id chop my balls off if russian guy acc uses Pinterest😭

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it’s mostly girls who use it

strong comet
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Tip number (idk lol) you don`t always have to study using one method. You might get bored and disinterested so try different study methods, reading, listening, testing yourself, teaching others, watching youtube vids based on the lesson or chapter, reading out loud. The list goes on. You can also try moving from one place to another when you feel like one place is making u feel tired,bored or etc.(For example. If you where studying in your room and now your feeling bored. Move and studying in the dinning room.) Try to avoid studying from bed because your most likely gonna pass out and not study at all.

strong comet
strong comet
unreal shadow
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those aren’t really things that i really care about lol

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but can see why people use it

strong comet
strong comet
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You can fine tune it to whatever that suits u best

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but for me in all honestly. Tic tok, pinterest,whatsapp are the apps i can spend hours on before we even get to games

unreal shadow
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yeah ig but most of pinterest users are females that’s why i doubt he uses it

strong comet
unreal shadow
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😭😭😭

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biological females

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you can find it by a quick google search

strong comet
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👀

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I am lost rn

unreal shadow
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nvm

worn skiff
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ah wait do you mean the like audience demographic?

strong comet
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is this what u mean @unreal shadow

strong comet
# strong comet is this what u mean <@891255573411135510>

bio woman
Biological woman. Someone who is born biologically female, with female sex organs. Does not necessarily identify as female, however.
Chaz Bono is a bio woman. He is transgender and currently transitioning physically to a man, but he was born biologically female.

Alexis Arquette is NOT a bio woman. She was born biologically male, but has transitioned physically to a female.

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source urban dictionary

unreal shadow
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just look up Pinterest users by gender

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youll see

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prob they identify as female

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since that’s what they put in the app when signed up

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and that’s how (i think) the data is gathered

unreal shadow
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there you go

strong comet
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I needed that link .I was so lost bcz i am sleepy but i wanted to help

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i checked yeah most users are females ,second are males and last is unspecified

cosmic ginkgo
hollow oyster
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I like chem women 🤣 🔫

unreal shadow
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i like physics women

silver wasp
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@strong comet 🤍 🤍

worn skiff
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women ❤️❤️

silver wasp
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😭

silver wasp
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Im stressing out

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Help

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😭

chilly solar
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You are very handsome in this photo @unreal shadow

unreal shadow
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thank you😊

bronze coyote
bronze coyote
silver wasp
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Keep revising it then

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And testing yourself on it everyday

silver wasp
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Np man

lament cloud
bronze coyote
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yes thats true too

pastel night
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Should I consider joining therapy before exams or after? Its not about grades though but more of an overall well-being

silver wasp
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Before if you feel like you need it and are stressing out alot

restive bridge
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I have been told that therapy is definitely worth it

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the only thing to consider is how much of your time will be taken up by therapy

silver wasp
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After if its like you feel even worse about doing the exams and feel you havent done that well on it

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It really depends on yo

restive bridge
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normally I'd say go for it no matter what, but since exams are coming up, I'd say, consider it

silver wasp
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I wouldnt prefer it before exams since it would take away from my time to study

silver wasp
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So maybe after??

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OR you can start before butttttttt do like 1 session a week

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Then increase it afterwards

restive bridge
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good idea

silver wasp
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But always make sure your watching out for your well being ofcourse

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Exams arent as important as you are

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They can always be redone but your health cannot be reversed if it gets worse

silver wasp
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I wanna vent about how horrible the timer is on the introduction channel 😭 🤬 😣

restive bridge
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i mean we're trying to prevent there from being conversations in there

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im also kinda immune

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lmfao

silver wasp
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But Zubair 😭

restive bridge
silver wasp
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Not him putting a question in there 😣

silver wasp
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😭

restive bridge
silver wasp
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I am eagerly waiting

restive bridge
silver wasp
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2 mins left

silver wasp
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Emphasis on "was"

restive bridge
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i applied

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i got mod

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it worked out

silver wasp
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Hehe

chilly solar
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So that is why I couldnt reply just now

silver wasp
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What was it like though

chilly solar
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Thought my discord was lagging

silver wasp
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HAHAHHAH

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No its cause the timer

chilly solar
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Yeah

silver wasp
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😣

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14 seconds

restive bridge
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or whatever they call it here

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on disc

chilly solar
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I see

silver wasp
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💔 🥹

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I was holding that message for 15 minutes

chilly solar
restive bridge
silver wasp
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Can someone tell me

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How I should prepare for math and be good at it like genuinely

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Math is my only letdown in IG

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Literally the only subject Im not good at cannot be good at am dying because of

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Hate

restive bridge
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hmm maths is easy if you understand it

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like really easy

silver wasp
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And Im stressing so bad cause of it

restive bridge
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you just need to know the concepts well

silver wasp
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But I dont understand it like I do some things but I dont other things its just so painful

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I dont know what to do about it

silver wasp
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😣

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Like logarithims are disgusting

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Trigonometry is horrible

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Functions can be pretty bad once in a while too

restive bridge
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there's like four rules

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and you just need to know those four

silver wasp
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Do you have notes or something 😭

restive bridge
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not even four

restive bridge
silver wasp
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Oki thank you @restive bridge

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pastel night
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Thanks @restive bridge and @silver wasp 💖

green ventureBOT
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Gave +1 rep to Geagle#4558, Angell#2019

restive bridge
restive bridge
silver wasp
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I didnt realise 😭

restive bridge
silver wasp
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🤦‍♀️ 👿 😣 😮‍💨 🥹

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restive bridge
silver wasp
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Can you also please

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Convince them to make the slowmode thingy

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5 mins 😭

restive bridge
pastel night
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Okayyy one more thing

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What if we generally don't open up quickly?

restive bridge
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Since they've probably dealt with a lot of people with a similar issue before

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restive bridge
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silver wasp
# pastel night What if we generally don't open up quickly?

Thats completely fine you dont need to completely either because some things are better off kept to yourself but do try to open up about whatever bothers you for example stress and as time goes by the therapist would make themselves seem more and more trustable so it becomes easier

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Its part of their techniques lol

pastel night
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Thank youu🦋

silver wasp
plush depot
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slowmode 5mins here tf?

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nvm

glossy pewter
plush depot
silver wasp
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I was asking him if they could change the slowmode in introduction to 5 mins rather than 15

pure citrus
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You guys I can’t seem to fix my sleep schedule

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Any tips :(((

pastel night
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I got a headache after being too happy 😂

stuck mango
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Wut

hollow oyster
lament cloud
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LOL

hollow oyster
wise mauve
olive wadi
# pure citrus You guys I can’t seem to fix my sleep schedule

wake up every day at a specific time , so lets say 8am u must wake up , u set up multiple alarms or have parents wake u up but ur aim is to wake up consistently at a specific time. This will make u more tired initially but within a week ur body will adjust to the new sleeping time and will want to sleep 7-8hrs before that , this is how u fix ur sleep schedule , u make a routine and stick to it.

plush depot
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initate by sleeping healthy hours

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~8 hours

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during the start if you have trouble falling asleep straight when you to your bed

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uninstall tiktok

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you won't make any progress, or instead get extremely exhausted/tired before you head onto you bed this makes it wayyyy easier for you to fall asleep

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and then sleep for 6 to 8 hours depends

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and then continue for few days and magically it will be fixed

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^this how i fixed mine, now it's your turn

plush depot
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actual brain rot

silver wasp
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Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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@hollow oyster ??

full parrot
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It's in most of the extracurricular channels as well.

silver wasp
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All the community moderators are off 😭

grim void
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fuck off

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<@&572709257036955649>

green ventureBOT
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User banned!

@mossy bridge has been banned for NSFW Link invites

hollow oyster
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@mossy bridge I cant believe you would do this

unreal shadow
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@iloxvoid i didn’t think you were gonna do this😢

lucid dome
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What if that person was hacked?

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Or clicked on a link that sent it automatically to everyone

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🤔

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If that’s out of character then I think they were hacked or clicked on a link, sometimes a link gets into the acc nd sends such things to every server they r in

hollow oyster
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if he was hacked he can email us

hollow oyster
lucid dome
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I guess y’all knw tht person better after all ngl, 🤷‍♀️ but yh its just a maybe

worn gyro
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its the only way that works

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if you do it correctly you can fix it in 1 day

pastel night
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Guess who was so close to winning a $50 cash prize for her poem but they chose another winner cuz the email they sent me (publishing agreement) went in the spam folder and I couldn't sign the publishing form on time soo......hehee .... don't know how to feel about this 🥲

pastel night
silver wasp
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😭

pastel night
# silver wasp ITS OKAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

Yepp I'm happy that my poem was good enough to be considered a winning piece and I reached out to the awarding body too, they said they were very impressed by my poem but they can't change the rules but they'd love to see me write for their page sooo I'm taking this as a good thing

silver wasp
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IM PROUD OF YOU

pastel night
green ventureBOT
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Gave +1 rep to Angell#2019

silver wasp
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You never knoww you might've lost that $50 prize for something better later onnnn

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You definitely deserve it

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But yes thats a really good thing omg

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Thats exciting

silver wasp
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Hehe

silver wasp
kindred ridge
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Is telling yourself that you will end up on the street if I fail my exams a good way of motivation?

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I Need help fr

chilly solar
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yes

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just do your humanly best

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humanly = your very very best

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like die trying

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because you only give this once

hollow oyster
kindred ridge
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kindred ridge
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lol jkjk don't take it too hard mr mod

valid raft
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please help

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what the fuck is a level phyiscs

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especially the mcq paper

glossy pewter
# valid raft what the fuck is a level phyiscs

Yeah ik it can be really frustrating and super confusing but after tons of practice doing past papers and watching YouTube videos from ET physics and I am sure it will become easier
Since we have only a month you need to work really hard though but not so much that you actually burnout and get so stressed that nothing gets into your head so I would recommend studying with a clear mindset stress free and you will be happy with the end results

sage marsh
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Heyyy

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So like I have my board exams in 35 days and I can’t seem to get anything done I have deleted all social media apart frm this and ws but like I still can’t do anything

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If I successfully stop myself frm being distracted then I won’t have the motivation to do anything

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Or how did y’all study for boards

unreal shadow
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how did i study for exams🤔🤔🤔

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easy

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open the syllabus

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read the textbook

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see what i should know and tick it off

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“god this is so boring”

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“are you a bitch? study anyways”

pastel night
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How to be calm before the storm?

olive wadi
# pastel night How to be calm before the storm?

i usually just think about good things , things that bring me comfort , i watch comedy shows i love or cartoons i always enjoyed to bring me some relaxation , talk to ppl i love talking to about other nice things , and just stick to my daily routine and chill yk

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going for walks or exercising definitely helps

pastel night
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I have to manage so many things at once so my sleep schedule is all over the place and although I love doing all the different projects I'm enrolled into but sometimes I end up having so many bad panic attacks when I can't get them perfectly done

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I do allow myself to make mistakes and learn from them and try not to repeat them again but when I do simple things wrong...it initiates a war in my mind

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I know I have the strength to manage everything, all I need is to relax and trust myself but it becomes hard to do that when a part of myself is at war with the other

wise mauve
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The mods are stuck in the matrix

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They won't let me type anywhere

plush depot
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don't type, easy

restive bridge
plush depot
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dawg i think you missed the joke 😭 😭

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mybad

restive bridge
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even though it wasn't me that deleted it

silver wasp
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I wanna know whats going on 😭 🤭

restive bridge
ionic copper
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i’ve been having bad migraines for the past consecutive days and i did things to reduce it and taking ibuprofen and advils for it but it is still there and its bothering me so much rn bc im abt to have an exam in few days but this migraine is sort of preventing me from studying my fullest potential. maybe this is bc of stress levels and i have other problems as well bc you know ppl can be cruel sometimes but i try to put that aside rn. so if its nothing to do with medication, what other alternatives i can try? i dont know

silver wasp
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Try taking panadol like 2 tablets

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Make sure youve been eating well dont have too much sugar and junk food

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Get alot of sleep take naps when you feel worn out of studying

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If the exam your having really important or is it an internal school thing?

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Dont worry too much about it if its internal its only 1 exam try your best on it but its not the end of you just remember that

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Your health is over everything youve got you can always retry on another test

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Try going out for some fresh air maybe to the mall to the beach to take your mind off things and to make you feel better go out to dinner its always good to treat yourself

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Even for a walk

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If it helps you mute the people that may be bothering you if its over text dont talk to them keep your mind in other things for example studying maybe taking breaks in between watching a funny or interesting video

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Think of those people being the last care you have in the world because they just wanna let you down make your headaches worse cause you more stress and distract you and you are NOT letting them do that okay??

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Try taking warm showers too

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So they calm you down make you feel fresh and relaxed

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It also kindof gives you a sense of starting something with a full peaceful mind

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Stay near the things that make you happiest

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If you have a good friend that you feel comfortable around and can potentially study with do that

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Eat alot of fruits make sure you get your fibre and source of energy from it eat alot of veggies if you dont like fruits

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Dont try to target studying to your fullest potential while feeling so unwell just make it a target that you need to study

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You need to study as much as you're capable of CURRENTLY

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Not what you WANT to achieve

glossy pewter
ionic copper
silver wasp
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And yes I do agree if they get worse or are not budging in any way shape or form its best to go to a doctor just in case aswell

ionic copper
ionic copper
silver wasp
ionic copper
silver wasp
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But dont overdo it because sometimes that can make you feel worse

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Try to have more control of it

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Dont eat junk to the point where you feel like junk yk

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Balance it out

silver wasp
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Sometimes it can be really important

silver wasp
silver wasp
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Again dont overdo yourself in studying for this one only study to the point that your capable of without stressing so much and tiring yourself

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Let yourself a bit easier on this one and focus more on yourself and try harder on other exams

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Do your best but dont do the best-est youve got because you're not in that condition esp if youre struggling to study your fullest yk

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Its hard to explain lol

ionic copper
silver wasp
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Try not to rely completely on your cravings aswell sometimes you need to force a bit of the healthy stuff in you

ionic copper
ionic copper
silver wasp
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I neverrr crave fruits or anything but sometimes I just grab some nd force it into me and end up feeling more on the positive end about doing that later on

silver wasp
silver wasp
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And again stressing doesnt get you anywhere it doesnt do anything

ionic copper
silver wasp
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It only uglifies you makes you feel disgusting lets you down lowers your grades lowers the potential you have in you

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All for nothing

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Instead keep yourself busy in studying in resting in distracting yourself in caring for yourself in making yourself feel special

silver wasp
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That might be a cause of your headaches

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Get 8 hours

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You need 8 hours minimum

silver wasp
# silver wasp You need 8 hours minimum

Do this by fixing your sleep schedule moving around the things you need to do in your bed trying to get yourself ready and in bed at an earlier time and waking up everyday at a specific time so your tired by then and making sure you get things done in the day when you have time to so you dont have to stay up or whatever

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Getting such little sleep will completely drain you and take the smallest bit of energy left in you even that it'll be even harder to study and cope with this headache

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I think you'll benefit alot from more sleep ideally

ionic copper
# silver wasp Intentionally?

noo this isn’t intentional 😭 im a med pre-clinic and i have long hours of lectures and some are early in the morning even. on top of that theres extensive studying and so much clinical rotations and practicals to do im abt to be sick

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everyday i take 2 shots of espresso to get myself energized throughout the day

ionic copper
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sorry i had lecture earlier, but thank u so much angell whoever u are for your support and giving plenty of advices :))

ionic copper
lucid dome
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How do you deal with the stress? Like I have so much things to do and to go to, and I feel paralysed and so tired

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But sometimes it’s like right when I wake up I feel hella tired

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Maybe coz I sleep late yeah

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I feel like I have headaches and but I can’t help but feel constant anxiety

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Like I’m always worried bout something .. so how do u deal with tht?

silver wasp
silver wasp
silver wasp
silver wasp
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Other than lectures and stuff is it possible for you to move around the times you study so you make room for sleep

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But I get its hard in that sense

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Might be helpfull

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In the end they all state the same points which emphasis their importance

silver wasp
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Im always here for anyone that needs it

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🤍 🤍

ionic copper
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i have like chores and other things to do too 😞

silver wasp
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Why dont you plan out your chores for the week and do them specific days so you keep other days free

ionic copper
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idk how long i can keep up with this lifestyle with a below average sleep hours

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maybe i wanna drop out if i like decide to quit or pass out or smthg

silver wasp
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Awwwww you can do it Im sure we can find solutions to the things that bother you

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Is there absolutely no way you can fit evne 7-8 hours of sleep within that busy schedule?

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Keep your gym days and going out days planned wiselly

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Keep your chores planned out and try meal prep and stuff

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So that you create space for yourself

ionic copper
ionic copper
silver wasp
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Trust me it'll make you feel so much more relaxed

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A messy room could add on to your stress and tension

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Organise everything and put things in the right place and try to avoid having things in front of you as much as you can organise them in drawers etc and only keep your important stufff

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It'll make it easier to clean too

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Keep fruits cut up for yourself so that you can grab them as a snack and eat them and keep veggies cut up for whenever you need to cook so its easier

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Meal prep is a good idea too especially with a tight schedule

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It saves you time from having to cook

silver wasp
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If you spent a fixed amount of time on everything starting from 5 in the morning

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When would you be done by?

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Oh I see 😭

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Waking up at 5 and being busy for a maximum of 18 hours

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Your only left with 12-5 to sleep

ionic copper
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by 10-11 pm but if i have extra work to do or group projects it could take up to like 2-3am 💀. and usually the day before clinical skills i have to study and remember the following examinations we're abt to do so that doctors wouldnt be pissed at us

ionic copper
ionic copper
silver wasp
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Noo dont ever neglect eating

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Hmmmmm

ionic copper
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sorry for like being so 😭

silver wasp
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Since your done with things so late try to get to sleeping ASAP

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But if theres study session you only need to attend a few times a week keep those on specific days too

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Noo your all good

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I see how hard it is for you I feel bad 😭

ionic copper
silver wasp
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Awww no your all good

ionic copper
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we get free pizzas every once a month from the uni. i think they think by giving free pizzas it makes us happy

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but everyone else is just fucked here

silver wasp
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Aww wowwww

ionic copper
silver wasp
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Omg

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Where are you studying at country wise

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If you dont mind me asking

ionic copper
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sorry can i ask u are u in hs or uni rn

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i feel bad if i burden someone thats younger than me 😭

glossy pewter
ionic copper
silver wasp
silver wasp
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And I wanna do medicine 😭

ionic copper
silver wasp
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🥹 💀

ionic copper
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IM SOOO SORRYY

silver wasp
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Are you studying in north america?

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Or like anywhere but that?

ionic copper
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i hope im not discouraging u and sorryy

silver wasp
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Noo not at all

ionic copper
silver wasp
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Ooh alright

ionic copper
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strict & v competitive education

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i think for north america u need to take like pre-med and go do any science related major first

silver wasp
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Yes 4 years pred med then 4-5 years med school

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I thought you were there since people struggle there but medicine is hard anywhere you go 😭

ionic copper
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takes more time there. here its sorta fast, like 6.5 years to become a doctor but its more intense bc we go through so much shit in those 6 years 💀

silver wasp
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I guess asian unis are pretty strict though I can imagine

silver wasp
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But I feel like education coming from asia is like that

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They zoom you past everything and expect you to store all the knowledge

silver wasp
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😭

chilly solar
silver wasp
chilly solar
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as in they trust us cuz we adults

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but standard is high

silver wasp
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Like you got no time to relax your expected to do this this and this

ionic copper
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but yeah slow paced is better, but med in general is just tough for everyone 💀

silver wasp
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It isss for sure

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Aww but I hope you feel better I hope whatever Ive said helps even the slightest bit its hard helping find you a good routine since obv I dont know much about it but you'd be best at shifting things around and organising them

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Just make sure you put yourself on top of everything because if your not okay everything else your doing wont be okay either

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So its important that you care for yourself

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If sleep isnt the way to go when it comes to caring for yourself then make sure youre eating well youre relaxing youre calming your stress working out doing things that make you happy

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Even organising and cleaning your room or making food for yourself or meal prepping can be ways you make yourself feel happy and relaxed

elfin wagon
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yes

silver wasp
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Dont think you cant do it though I know you can and as time goes by it will get better and before you know it everything will be over and you'll get over it

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And you'll reflect and look back and feel so proud of yourself

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How far are you into the 6.5 year course so far

ionic copper
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thank u sm for all your support :) i think u got everything in your life together, maybe u can excel med school better than me

silver wasp
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But if I can help others get their life together Id be glad to lmao

ionic copper
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nonoo u seem like u know what ur doing with all the advices u gave me 😭

silver wasp
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But no dont thank me Im just doing whats right aka helping someone that might need it

ionic copper
#

and also proper time management and consistency is key

silver wasp
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As long as you're okay

silver wasp
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Ironically

ionic copper
silver wasp
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But nowadays time management is so difficult its disgusting

ionic copper
silver wasp
ionic copper
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thank you so much tho for all this

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and im still 18, my parents left me to live alone and independent so i can live closer to campus

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huhhuu so sad man

silver wasp
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Awww

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But did you find good roommate and stuff to live with?

ionic copper
#

room is all to myself but there r some med students who live same flat as me so sometimes we study tgther

#

just the fact that u can put up with me is already something, so thank u so much for this talk its really refreshinf and also i laughed so hard bc i find it so ironic that im venting this to u as med student and ur here pursuing medicine too 💀

silver wasp
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Ooh

silver wasp
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Im so happy you laughed though

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I bet you needed it lol

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But its always nice studying with friends once in a while if you need help cleaning or organising your room you can ask them to help aswell

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Its fun doing things with friends and it can distract you too and motivate you a bit more

ionic copper
#

and also, u get along with med students pretty well easily bc its such a hard subject, literally everyone in my year helped out each other

silver wasp
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Yess which is AMAZING

silver wasp
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But I bet they could relate when they see it

ionic copper
silver wasp
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Aww thats sad

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But honestly people seeing therapists and stuff is a really good idea

ionic copper
#

either that or we became each others therapist

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thank u so much for the talk tho angell ^^ ur an amazing person for always supporting ppl

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im gonna go back to my studies now

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best of luck in getting into med school <33

silver wasp
#

I thank you for giving me your time and being so open with me

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It makes me feel trusted which makes me happy

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Im glad I could be here for you and lend a few words

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But I hope you get better and can make something from whatever advice I may have given to you

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Just take care of yourself study well but dont overdo it

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Good luck on your exam aswelllll

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And getting things together Im sure you'll be all fine

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And again whenever you need someone to talk to or your looking for any kindof help you can always ping me or even dm

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I dont mind at all Im here whenever wherever

silver wasp
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Gave +1 rep to profen#7612

silver wasp
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Idk you but I love you make sure you know that people care for you and that you matter loads

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Take care of your headache too

olive wadi
#

i would like to take this moment to thank Pure 3 maths Trigonometry , because of you i had to sit and grind trig but also algebra to the point where algebra went from my worst maths skill to my best perhaps , thank you for making me a better student but also fuck you for being so annoying to deal with , i cant wait to finish my exams and use ur past papers , worksheets and notebooks as my BBQ fuel

stuck mango
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Lmao

plush depot
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how do yall find motivation to grind past papers

unreal shadow
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You don’t

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Just do them anyways

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You will like it more as you get better at it

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Humans tend to like/enjoy things they’re good at more

chilly solar
sand pasture
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like i write half an answer and be done for the day

hollow oyster
inner rune
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so i was like if i do them ill find it

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i got the bio atp paper

#

anyways my turn to vent ion know but is it bad that I push away good influences and keep the bad ones i want to reverse but like it doesnt work and the bad ones stayed and i've been pushing everyone away and fighting my own inner demons when they impacted my own friends too and I'm not sure what to do to myself and it lead to self harm and i get made fun of the same thing and do it more and I cant stop therapy hasnt help I tried everything I really dont know what i should do

olive wadi
#

imagine spending so much time solving a question in maths and u end up losing half the marks bec u just messed up a simple addition or multiplication cus its all algebra now not actually anything else 🤡🤡

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i hate it when i make tiny ass simple mistakes 😔

glossy pewter
glossy pewter
olive wadi
chilly solar
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Just like put your face to each line of working

slate sky
#

@olive wadi Yeah I lost 6 marks in a test that was out of 18 just because I copied the formula for compound angle with a sign error

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I had a really bad day though cause I forgot my calculator for my physics mock exam 😭, luckily it was the real exam

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I came here to vent my grief and sadness about it

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Got lucky with the first question of my exam though since it surprisingly had maths that u could do in your head

olive wadi
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tho i assume it will be fixed with tons of practice

olive wadi
meager gate
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physics legit sucks!

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makes no sense whatsoever

naive skiff
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best science fr

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screw bio and chem

slate sky
#

Physics was all good until I started A2 physics 😭

chilly solar
#

😂

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it only gets better at the end

chilly solar
slate sky
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Cause Oct Nov didn’t go so well last year and u gave the same exam as me lol

cosmic ginkgo
meager gate
#

bruh

chilly solar
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watch em asap

meager gate
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he only does as level

chilly solar
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no

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a2 also

meager gate
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nah bruh im igcse

chilly solar
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ah

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um

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cant help

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i am doing a2

meager gate
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lmao

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what country u from?

chilly solar
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Malaysia

meager gate
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ohhh

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anjing

chilly solar
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you?

meager gate
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pabihutan

chilly solar
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ahahaha

meager gate
chilly solar
#

nice nice

meager gate
#

i got so many malay friendss a

west walrus
cold quiver
#

im a college student and im finding it quite hard to make friends in college especially to girls its not like i dont like talking to people its just i have a fear of like making a fool of myself

west walrus
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mr?

cold quiver
west walrus
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no not u sorry

west walrus
meager gate
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i mean me not mr

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lmao

west walrus
#

oh 💀💀

ionic copper
# cold quiver im a college student and im finding it quite hard to make friends in college esp...

having this fear of making a fool of yourself and being self-conscious about it is what prevents you from making friends. the purpose to have friends is to be able to express your true self comfortably, so you need to step out of that comfort zone and not to be afraid of rejection. remember that not everyone will be receptive to your efforts to make friends, and that's okay. don't try to be someone you're not in order to fit in or impress others because eventually you’ll find the right people who will like you for who you are

#

you should also try to be the first one to make initiatives, put yourself out there, and initiate conversations and socialize. i understand that this maybe be hard for you to do but it's either gonna be you or them to make these first moves

mild compass
oak sonnet
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just deactivated my Instagram and now discords distracting skullcry

chilly solar
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then everything will be good

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you may still make a fool of yourself but you'll do it with class

west walrus
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i deleted tiktok and stopped using instagram now dc is kinda distracting

glossy pewter
#

Thanks @ionic copper

green ventureBOT
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Gave +1 rep to profen#7612

oak sonnet
west walrus
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do it its worth it

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ur life become so peaceful😭

glossy pewter
west walrus
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i honestly didnt find anything interesting on tiktok anymore it got boring

glossy pewter
#

Discord is enough BlobSalute

west walrus
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tiktok fell off 😭

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idk imo its just the same thing

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dc >

oak sonnet
oak sonnet
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my fyp is litt

oak sonnet
west walrus
#

GOOD STUFF

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ur officially a sigma

unreal shadow
#

Go say hi and start a conversation or wtv

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If they aren’t keen on being friends with you you’ll be able to tell

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Which in most cases is unlikely

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When I first came here (uni) I only knew 2 guys

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And im p shy around new people

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Now my closest friends here are ones i met here

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Not the 2 I knew before

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Just talk lah and

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Khalas

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Most people likely wanna be friends w you too

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But too shy to come up

unreal shadow
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As harsh as it is

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It’s you who’s the problem not TikTok or instagram

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Or Discord

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These only distract you cause you let it distract you

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Become disciplined and those problems will disappear

real junco
#

people judge books by their covers

unreal shadow
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Just put on a smile and you’re good lmao

real junco
unreal shadow
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That’s too deep at this level

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More advanced technique

real junco
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ah true

unreal shadow
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But ofc have to gain their respect either way

hollow oyster
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Remember kids discord != social life

plush depot
plush depot
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im improving my rizz on catgirls which exist IRL

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so technically

oak sonnet
oak sonnet
west walrus
#

wait is it destiny

glossy pewter
tacit wraith
#

I HAVE NO MOTVATION TO STUDY, exam szn just hit i am way to anxious to study knowing even if i do read now ill still fail so whats the point of even trying anymore, last year i was pretty psyched about exams because i had a goal in mind. A goal to study abroad a goal to study the course of my choice. Fast forward a year later my parents tell me they cant afford to pay to study abroad despite giving me all the false hope and the little motivation that dream of mine i had, the reality is no matter how hard you work or study no one is gonna give me a full scholarship at least not in todays world which is ever so competitive, you may be thinking im just a self-entitled kid who thinks going abroad is everything maybe i am but i cant even study the course of my dream in my country. the uni requirements arent even that high to get in i have to rewire everything i know to pursue a 4 yr degree hopefully get a job out of it without having to do further education after that work a 9-5 job that i am not passionate about or be homeless.I dont want to be a burden to society or my parents i don't want them to ever think what was the point of him being born at the same time studying feels like a waste because i have all these jumbled-up thoughts and 0 motivation to study if i dont even need good marks at the same time i am afraid of failure i dont even know why i wrote this out maybe to garner pity of empathy or even sympathy but if you read all this thank you for hearing my thoughts.

lucid dome
# tacit wraith I HAVE NO MOTVATION TO STUDY, exam szn just hit i am way to anxious to study kno...

One thing u gotta have in mind is
Do your best and leave the rest.
You don’t know what the future holds, but you have control over your action now, opportunities will come so get the tools to welcome nd manage them, and the tools for now are ur exams nd studies.

Your mind is playing tricks with you, last year I was also anxious and had many thoughts like urs such as “it’s too late what’s the point” , but in reality it wasn’t even late at all.
Stressing instead of studying.. I did get lowkey good marks but I could’ve worked harder and not stressing over it rather than take action.

Doing ur best is all that matters , it’s not only doing ur best just because u want to get into uni and get a job, but rather if u try ur best despite those thoughts and all, that’s one step to ur own personal growth, this is like a crucial time to learn to do it regardless of how you feel and what thoughts comes in.

If you can’t fight those thoughts and see the end of the tunnel, then some other life challenge will come ur way and will make u feel the same way, so tackle it now, so that the next time, you know how to manage such circumstances.

deep down, you already know why you have to study, and if you were to write down the pros and cons, studying and get good grades is always better than not studying.

You want me to tell it to you? Studying will never be a waste, stop giving in to those intrusive and useless thoughts, such thinking wants u to fail, don’t give in to confusion, get up, plan , study and stay on track regardless of how u feel.

When results come out after u tried ur best, then perhaps wonder if it was a waste or not. Which I don’t think ull think “oh I got good grades, what a waste”, nah.

About the uni, dream and all, all of this will get better and ull figure it out later on, focus on seizing the opportunity to get good grades now, it’s a one time chance to study you know.
In that way u won’t think “if only I tried my best…”

#

Make the best out of what u can do now, and leave the future. It’ll come either ways.
But this time won’t come again

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Also don’t burn out urself, don’t doubt urself, u can do it

#

Don’t question why u should get good grades, rather question the consequences of not trying ur best.

This is not a “I have to get good grades” situation , this is u battling those thoughts suggesting u to do otherwise than what u actually want to achieve and if u do ur best regardless of such emotions and thoughts, u will rlly have a good development of character nd will understand how such thoughts don’t have any power, you do, not them

glossy pewter
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glossy pewter
#

And I did persevere

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And now I am back to revising my best

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So that I can do my best in the exam

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On focus on the now rather than the future

lucid dome
#

Plus there is much more to life than just studies too, so don’t see it as a whole “fail or win” situation, this is all to paralyze you.
You will be fine, things will be fine.

Do ur best now.
Persevere, fight it, don’t listen to those voices, ik how hard it is, to have ur brain be u own enemy.

lucid dome
glossy pewter
#

@tacit wraith I hope you take the same initiative because it is useless thinking about it now because you never know what the future beholds and trust me I also went through the same exact thing with family and university and stuff

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Yes it’s something you need to focus on

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But for now

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Don’t rack up your mind with those thoughts

lucid dome
glossy pewter
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Thanks again @lucid dome BalanceBlob

green ventureBOT
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Gave +1 rep to Etoile#0664

lucid dome
#

this is also why many people procrastinate, so that when results come out they go “oh I should have tried harder, ik if I did my best I would have gotten good marks” “I regret”
They fear facing the actual hard work, and would rather attach to the “what if” than actually work hard and see the actual results, because the fear of “what If I work hard and … don’t get what i want” comes in, so they run nd procrastinate, but that’s another issue that u should still work hard because who said u won’t get what u want? Have u tried it?

even if u dont get what u want , ull still feel fulfilled coz u did ur best and because u don’t need to wonder “what if I worked harder” which hurts more, u can move on and do what’s next while being proud of urself still nd accepting.

I believe that if anyone tries their best and work hard, ull get what u want, maybe not right away, but one day when the time is right.

I hope we all can tackle such self doubts and let ourselves grow into the best version of what we could be .
InShAllah.

tacit wraith
#

Thanks @lucid dome I needed to hear this, I shouldn't be giving myself excuses to not do my best, that quote do your best and leave the rest is going to be my mantra from now on 🫂

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Gave +1 rep to Etoile#0664

full parrot
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I may not find it really helpful rn maybe in the future but thanks alot @lucid dome.🫡

green ventureBOT
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Gave +1 rep to Etoile#0664

bronze coyote
minor comet
#

uk i never thought id see the day when i would a level chemistry to be easier than a level biology

#

esp since i thought bio was MY subject to pass with flying colors 😭

#

but nooo a level bio just has to be more twisted than chem, making you think you know the subject but in the end you are just as dumb as you were before

ionic copper
#

my parents don’t give a single fuck about me

#

but at least I am a woman in STEM

plush depot
#

how y'all be doing stem ☠️

slate sky
hollow oyster
#

I am hungry for iftar

bronze coyote
noble lagoon
#

science technology engineering math

noble lagoon
bronze coyote
#

okkk

#

i hope its nothing else

ionic copper
#

im doing medical field in stem guys btw just an fyi (very important detail)

bronze coyote
#

oh ok

mild compass
#

can u cure my mental illness please please please please please

inner rune
#

can you also cure cancer

bronze coyote
#

can you cure deez

mild compass
bronze coyote
#

yk

mild compass
#

no i don't

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enlighten me

bronze coyote
#

well im not interested

mild compass
#

L

lucid dome
#

Is it bad

#

Is it ok, do people over exaggerate when they say they have no free time

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Or is it legit

bronze coyote
#

If its not tight

ionic copper
#

100% legit

ionic copper
mild compass
ionic copper
#

are u familiar with lobotomy

ionic copper
bronze coyote
#

oh no

ionic copper
#

omg im having such a bad migraine rn

bronze coyote
#

go to sleep

#

im a doctor myself

ionic copper
#

really doc?

bronze coyote
#

ye

#

have some vicks and apply it on ur head

ionic copper
#

i've been experiencing it for 7 consecutive days

#

like legit

bronze coyote
#

have some hot water

#

or do steaming

#

lmk if u need an appointment

#

im free at 6:09 pm everyday

ionic copper
#

are u a certified medical practitioner

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or a certified dn

bronze coyote
#

im a certified 100 percent at everything ma'am

#

no im joking but i do have migraines too so ye

ionic copper
#

ahahaha

bronze coyote
#

i told so because i got scared

#

u were typing for so long

ionic copper
#

and out of all the drugs, you chose vick?

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sorry i made u scared im like multitaskign

bronze coyote
#

its safe and family friendly

#

or do you know axe oil

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axe brand

ionic copper
bronze coyote
#

for 2 or 3 days

ionic copper
#

they're the same class as essential oil

bronze coyote
#

if not cured

#

then use paracetemol or napa

ionic copper
#

so how much are the dose?

#

yk as a professional u should give me prescriptions or i will sue

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sue deez

bronze coyote
#

u can have 1 tablet after dinner or lunch

ionic copper
#

how many times u take per day

bronze coyote
#

dms

ionic copper
#

hm?

bronze coyote
#

also

bronze coyote
bronze coyote
ionic copper
bronze coyote
#

thanks for the foreshadowing

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but take my advice srsly

#

those are trusted

ionic copper
bronze coyote
#

thanks m8

bronze coyote
#

drink some tea

#

must be good

ionic copper
bronze coyote
#

do u usually dry ur hair right after the shower or take time to dry it

ionic copper
#

isnt that male stuff lol

bronze coyote
#

ok

#

but hair is hair child

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ok good

olive wadi
#

nah it takes less than 1 minute to dry our hair , sometimes its not even worth it

bronze coyote
#

nice

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ok good

olive wadi
#

yess

#

hey babe

bronze coyote
#

u are in the middle of an appointment

#

what is going on

#

also

olive wadi
#

No im here daily for A2 stuff

bronze coyote
#

drink hot water

restive bridge
#

who dares interrupt pr1th1v sir’s appointment

bronze coyote
#

exactly

#

geagle

olive wadi
#

yes

olive wadi
restive bridge
bronze coyote
#

no

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its my chamber

restive bridge
#

not unless sir says yes

bronze coyote
#

my hospital

restive bridge
#

it’s sir’s hospital

bronze coyote
#

yes

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geagle is my head mod

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of the hospital

restive bridge
#

yes

bronze coyote
#

he is my eyes and ears

restive bridge
#

I’m hospital head mod

#

yes

bronze coyote
#

oh no

restive bridge
#

damnit sir I think we lost a patient

bronze coyote
#

yes

#

its ok

restive bridge
#

we’ll get em next time sir

bronze coyote
#

tell alpha team to kidnap strangers on the road

olive wadi
#

yes i am

bronze coyote
#

and bring them here

restive bridge
bronze coyote
#

geagle this time u shall receive a 1000 dollar raise

restive bridge
#

||alpha team head out we need new patients||

bronze coyote
#

@ionic copper do u still have the migraine

olive wadi
#

ayo i dont wanna be part of this strange foreplay yall get back to ur therapy

bronze coyote
#

i was actually helping the other person

restive bridge
green ventureBOT
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Gave +1 rep to Valence#7361

bronze coyote
#

because migraines are so ass

restive bridge
bronze coyote
#

it interrupts our daily routine

olive wadi
bronze coyote
bronze coyote
#

the consultation fee is around 45 usd plus vat so its 60.9 usd

#

u didnt allow me to finish

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shh dont complain

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this is a renowned hospital or wtv

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jokes aside

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do have hot tea hot water and reduce screen time

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use blue light filtr

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when u go out in the sun wear sun glasses

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hit ur head against the wall

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i do and it helps a lot

olive wadi
#

watch regular show :)

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my momm

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no gifs? 😔

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drink lots of water and lay down on ur bed and close ur eyes

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i will once my studies are done

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is that shortcut for sayang?

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whatt

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hehe i knew it my tercinta

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with what

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its not because of the place its bec of the person im with 🙏

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hehe ur welcome sayang ❤️

glossy pewter
#

What’s sayang 👀

olive wadi
#

Nah i like surprises :)

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for sure

olive wadi
glossy pewter
olive wadi
#

??

glossy pewter
#

Why did you say that KEKW

olive wadi
#

idk but it aint good

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this

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did i say somethin wrong?

glossy pewter
#

Using the word they since I don’t know your gender @ionic copper

olive wadi
#

bro

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if im a dude

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and im the bf

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what gender can she be

glossy pewter
olive wadi
#

hey now

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im still straight aite

glossy pewter
olive wadi
#

shes a girl 100%

glossy pewter
olive wadi
glossy pewter
#

She might be Thai

olive wadi
#

if im straight i wont be with a gay dude

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would i be

olive wadi
glossy pewter
olive wadi
#

thai as in thailand ppl

#

?

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???

glossy pewter
#

Girls with long tubes

olive wadi
#

listen man

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im already upset to what happened to chris from mrbeast

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no need for this

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well not upset

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just disappointed

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oh yeah i had the pleasure of seeing it

glossy pewter
#

What happened

olive wadi
#

fun times

olive wadi
#

go check "her" twitter

glossy pewter
olive wadi
#

apparently chris has been going thru hormone therapy

glossy pewter
#

And a wife

olive wadi
#

yea

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him and his wife been separated for over a year apparently

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and he got the kid

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somehow

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poor wife

glossy pewter
#

💀💀

#

Wth

olive wadi
#

her life ruined

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i hope i never cross paths with whoever influenced this guy

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to ruin his family

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cus i wont be nice to this person

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whoever influenced him

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is evil

glossy pewter
#

Well the world is weird 💀

olive wadi
#

imagine leaving ur wife and child to be something u arent

olive wadi
#

u dont see this bs in the east

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its become a trend i noticed

glossy pewter
olive wadi
#

tbf he doesnt know where u are from

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oh wait

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thai isnt thailand ppl

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nvm

glossy pewter
#

I thought you were a guy

glossy pewter
olive wadi
#

bruh

olive wadi
#

dw half this server assumed i was a girl

glossy pewter
#

Okay imma be honest I think most people here are guys

glossy pewter
#

For a while

olive wadi
#

got to a point where dudes asked me out

#

indeed

#

CLUB PENGUIN

#

omg

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that was THE shit

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ur so cultured omg

glossy pewter
#

Pls is club penguin what I think it is 💀

olive wadi
#

i miss having numbers in maths

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the fuck is pure 3

#

omg bruh

#

i forgot no embed here

cosmic ginkgo
#

Get them to buy you nitro

olive wadi
#

ngl i was tempted

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they were getting me a lot of ingame items yk

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but hey

#

gotta be a good person and all that

glossy pewter
glossy pewter
olive wadi
#

well its easy to have a good heart when a lot of ppl believe in ur goodness

#

cus we all have darkness bro

#

its all about how to live with it

glossy pewter
olive wadi
#

LOL

#

LMFAOOO

glossy pewter
#

His brain?

olive wadi
#

ahahahaha

#

ily babe

#

🫶

olive wadi
#

hahaha its okay no need to apologize for such things

#

all natural

#

;)

glossy pewter
#

So cringe 💀

full parrot
cosmic ginkgo
olive wadi
olive wadi
cosmic ginkgo
olive wadi
# cosmic ginkgo I can't tell whether the people I know have darker stories than most or if every...

Nah everyone has darkness in them its about how we deal with it and how much we let it control us. I wouldnt be the good and respected dude i am today if i didnt have such great parents to lead me in a good direction and ik my darker side would of taken over and i would of been a bad person perhaps. Like i know some friends who went from being a good mama's boy who did good at school , to a complete woman abusing jerk in uni , ppls dark sides can take over , permanently or temporarily , but it can bec everyone has a dark side imo.

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cosmic ginkgo
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Succeed why lmao

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You get the meaning lmao.

cosmic ginkgo
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Not necessarily

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It's something I've put a bit of thought into for a while

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glossy pewter
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tidal sable
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u malaysian? 😯 or indo maybe

chilly solar
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I thought you from turkey

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Tercinta and syg

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Damn never heard someone being called my tercinta before

real junco
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guys please take this cringe out of venting smh

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||probably why I have no gf||

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my gf isnt

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