the bottom line is that the employee that emailed me said the sanction/violation/.. will stay in place no matter what proof I provide them and the trail of events
"Thank you for your response and screenshots. My name is Michael and I will handle your request further.
Your account may have been (temporarily) flagged as a spam account or limited because our privacy or community guidelines have been violated. If you send messages to users with whom you do not have a direct relationship in a shared server or in the friends list, or have sent too many messages, our system may block or hide your messages to prevent spam. Being blocked by multiple users can also have an impact.
If you have sent messages with unwanted content, a block on certain functions may also be imposed by our system or by administrators of certain servers, or you may be asked to re-authenticate.
You will have to wait until this limitation is lifted automatically after an indefinite period. Discord Customer Service cannot perform actions on your account to lift this restriction or make statements about when this restriction will be lifted. You can view the current status of your account on the desktop or browser app under User Settings > My Account > Status. Even if you have a normal status, all of the above may still apply."
"discord customer service cannot perform actions on your account to lift this restriction..."