#can someone offer some relationship advice
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A thread
As you walk into the thread of a thousand messages
You shalt know that boredom has many faces
what stuff
Apparently he deleted it but it was dirty
We didn't screenshot it too
😭
you didn't even read it
I didn't
wasnt dirty
absolved 
Resolved
Where
To a place we haven't been before
Can I join
ily
Maybe if you solve this puzzle you shall be allowed
What puzzle?
The puzzle is all around you, hidden in subtle messages are clues , it might sound like regular conversation but there are secrets hidden in them.... Find them decode then and you shalt find the destination
Let me try
Go ahead try
Stop this timepass thread
Bro you promised me dinner and you ghosted me ,... I mean i could be eating in that restaurant and now you wanna ruin us from having time pass in this thread also ?
U passing time with me
No you haven't been able to solve it ? That's pretty unfortunate you can still come over to the party
When is it
Right now
Where?
Where are you right now ?
In my room
Okay then stay in your room
Btw u called really early tho😒
halo
Hello
is your target achieved ?
No we are 1088 now
The new target is 10k
increase goals yay les go
Watha still talking about this same stuff damn so much is there to say i guess or it's just overly responded chat link ever
*thread
No we aren't even close to the record ,...
Bt
But
Maybe
We
Will
Reach
That
Mark
Sooner
Or
Later
Living is overrated
World is overpopulated and everyone is same, you die there are 100s of replacements for you
So what
All i care about is, would the earth stop spinning if you never existed ? you're insignificant
The Matrix eh?
Why are you still a sad loner ? Is it becaue your ego likes getting hurt ?
Yes they are they are lonely ... If they are not sad they ll call themselves happy single , or solitary person or un solo lobo sorts of things
Nice.
You re sad that's why you re arguing with strangers on discord
You re trying to prove a point
Aren't you ?
There are many arguments here
You re only rephrasing it , it's an argument full stop.

Ok
what is the record?
1136 now
We're almost there
Shut up bitch
10k???? Wth happened in three days???
Joblessness happened
Good for you
I didn't text here bitch
Rude🤧
There can't be two alphas in the same room
It's like an unstoppable force meeting an immovable object
What is your opinion on true randomness ?
I have a feeling that Heisenberg's uncertainty would get outdated as they get powerful devices and new concepts , they might as well find more details and information about subatomic particles
iss good
I ain't fighting he being rude af
He is a she
lol
Damn 😔
I’ll be nice to you
Can you be nice to me too ?
Why??
Thank you Aidan

You are most welcome Mysti
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he's just being nice to you cos he hates me
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Why what happened?
nothing
Cool cool have fun y'all
felt like you were having too much fun
Just 1220 messages
there is no y'all 😔
Ah damn is there an empty grave anywhere 🔍
Thanks
I can't even read what y'all typed out single letters 😅😅💀
Why ?
Letters got singled out
Clearly
Because of confusing her feminity
kehtha hai dil
what
So I can be buried 🤧
Are you okay?
I bet we won't reach 5k by this month
I know so much
Yep 100%
Be optimistic for once
i always am wdym
I mean your brain is glitching there buddy
yours is too 😔
Stfu yours glitched before me
🩴💀
This thread is probably the most brain-dead place in the entire server. 
mod on mod violence
Outmoding a mod
Can you remove me too? I want to know what happens when OP gets removed
Will i be able to join again ?
Very active
Not active
You didn't get removed after all
He was on a spree
I joined again
Noice
lol
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No logs found for that user
Perfect member
Do me
true
Who cares brother
No logs found for that user
Lol
No
to be fully honest, I've been in a few and it all sucked so for me it has been a waste of time considering all I've met are batshit crazy women. Pretty sure there are some amazing girls out there that you will have a nice time with. (it just aint in my vicinity tho
)
Women are crazy for not fitting into your stupid expectations ?
oh no xD
i dont have expectations xD
somehow my relationships have been batshit crazy.
had a distaste last time with the girl cheating on me with my best friend so that's what I define as "crazy"
🤷♂️
but I'm saying.... depending on the person itself, you can have a wonderful time or a shit time.
so dont feel pressured to get into a relationship. just do it if you really like someone rather than for the social obligation of it and wake up a few years later and realise you're with the wrong person which doesnt just ruin things for you but them as well
You had a girl friend and a best friend also... Don't do that man ... Same happens with girls also guy cheats with their bestfriend
Cut off friends if you get into relationships
yea....
it was sad
the only requirement you need to have for relationship...
considering all the good things like relationship, feelings, emotions and stuff....
if you like being around someone who doesnt make you wanna shoot yourself in the head, that's a keeper
I think cheating should be allowed , more like hall passes you re not entertaining her enough she needs freedom to explore more options and come back to you
You re being narrowminded and stupid .... I mean lose both best friend and girlfriend because they did something ... I am sure they had their reasons
yea they had their reasons of being absolute scumbags of ruining my trust.
Trusting people is stupid too
Just be with people and have fun don't trust them
then why are you even asking for relationship related advice lol.
relationship is built on trust 
without trust it aint even a relationship homie
Well no relationships is built on boredom and money ... People are bored , people need an idiot to sponsor them food transportation and such, people need to feel like those movie songs and vibe to those songs
Everyone only really has lust
Heart just pumps blood
Get real man
I doubt this conversation is gonna lead anywhere.
I hope you find what you're looking for.
any opinion from me is not what you want and you just seemed to paint me as the villain for something I had no control over. so have a good day man
You loved her for the same reason right she was cute , she was hot and she let you be with her she let you do things to her ... Otherwise you wouldn't even have spent time with her
wow that's a very shallow way of looking at life.
are you always that cynical of life?
That's called being real , you stupid moron
hey now
He is ruining our spam thread
ofc those factored in but also it mattered that I placed my trust in that person because somewhere down the line, I thought there's a future with her.
but apparently it didnt work out that way
alrighty then.
imma take my leave
mysti a goofy ahh mf
no i mean don't take it personally
I didnt 
I'm just seeing where he's coming from
its an interesting approach to life
Talking about relationships is an insult.... Because we don't get any
my bad then.
skill issue
oh
No fuck you i was being honest to parents with studies good grades i am in a good job with good salary ... I am living a succesful life
I purchased a car from my own money
In some years will have a house too
woah
that's acctually very impressive
I thought he was being serious with that question so i responded to him.
I dont really mind his take on it. different people live life differently.
I was just giving my understanding of the topic but it seems that he has his mind set in some ways and anything I say will upset him.
that's awesome man
maybe i digress here a bit, but mysti have you ever really, deep down, wanted a relationship?
Is it my fault to be introverted , is it my fault to be a nerd, I liked what i did that's it
even when ur in one
I had a couple of relationships during college
nah not really man.
its totally understandable if you dont wanna have any.
I was kind of agreeing with you there.
different people can have different priorities and interests in life
def not, but some of us just aren't ready for one, and it shows by how much we're willing to go for the other person
at this point in life, even I've kind of stopped pursuing people because I dont really see anything from anyone cuz I'm currently focused on my life and I got a lot of senior citizens to look out for at home.
that's my priority at the moment
You scrolled 1000 messages to reply to that one question ? You re one crazy mf
Yes now read the entire 1000 messages and then advice
Don't just come here half heartedly and give half hearted advices
sigh
Most of it were spams
yeah but
I wasnt necessarily giving a half hearted advice really.
the thread is named "can someone offer some relationship advice" and i shared with you what I thought of the topic but it seems like you already have an opinion and its not advice you're looking for but looking for someone to change your mind.
and that's not me. I'm just giving my thoughts here.
if you need someone to change your mind, good luck finding that person to tell you
My high school English teacher gave a prompt "your pet" we all wrote essays but three fourth of the classroom had no pets
Funnily enough i dated an English teacher , more like went out with her when i started my job ,... She was a trainee teacher at a university
I did give you advice because I have had* (i did specify had) relationships.
I never said I'm in one now. and I have had a fantastic relationship a few years ago but I had to end it because geographical factors came into play.
I was giving you my thoughts because depending on the person, it can be good or bad. I never said anything other than that
Geographical factors ? Like
Nerdy chicks are awesome!
facts
just gotta find them 
They are everywhere
guess I'll keep looking 
thats a weird ass emoji

lol
College has a lot of nerdy chicks but you ignored them because you seek movie levels of beauty and pron levels of performance
why would say that bout a dude who u don't know...kinda stereotypical to put all dudes in that one box and think thats what everyone wants 
have a cookie
Then how would you explain not having a nerdy gf ?
I'd like to keep that to myself 
Then whatever i said is gonna be the truth
I cant change ur weird stereotypes or ur opinions 
lol this is from a streamer's server
hoho
She had to move and it became difficult to maintain it because of time zones.
You ain't pullin any punches are you dawg 
F
Hi5
This thread is dying honestly
lame
I can't offer you relationship advice because you are single AF
Lmao
Fuck you no one asked for your opinion
I have a relationship advice for you ... Don't get into one ... you d thank me later
so 1400 comments on this post has concluded to this?
Happy pride month
@hearty ridge people are selfish and trash
raccoons like trash
We are humans not raccoons
Can I ask you a question?
go ahead
Have you ever been set up by a friend or been set up by a bunch of friends ?
Like playing cupid sorts ?
I guess this depends on how fair and reciprocated it gets ... Most times it's just one sided and sad ... Like one person putting all the efforts
Not really, but i prefer not having a lot of mutual friends with person i am dating
You only prefer dating apps ?
I hate dating apps
Over a period of time things get rocky and its very difficult to survive that
Yo
when then
Idk man people don't even want to put efforts,...


Never ewww get away
Never have expectations
need to find any other thread
Yes go make your own thread

efforts
i am jk
i will stay
a
hi
ok
cool
awesome
hope faith
Already in a relationship with @lofty estuary
that's crazy!
Yes ik you already told me what i meant was after break up don't get into relationships again
Aidan you re bad at acting surprised
Damn 😔
The Earth will have to break apart for us to break up
earth break
Oi shubh shubh bol 😭
Damn this Post is best
Merci , lei parla ingliso ?
Earth breaks apart every now and then
people getting into relationship and I can't even ride a boat
@solid hatch
Give relationship advice
How to survive it
How to keep each other interested
He is himself single, how will he give advice
you give then
Still
Not anymore
Noooo
Yes
No yes
Yes
Now give tips
Why is this post pinned tho
Too much philosophy in this thread
We'll end when the universe dies
Pointed tips or flat tips ?
Both
Round tips ?
This too
When you find a girl compliment her but make it sound a bit sarcastic ... The intention is to make her laugh while making her feel a bit impressed too
Got it sir 
Now hit me with a compliment
My brain is not working rn
Gotta be spontaneous bro spontaneous otherwise you d lose the moment
Not valid advice,,
I spontaneously combust,
A very pretty senior asked me out for a dance on valentine's day prom and i did a full 180 nope at the thought of being asked by someone i just met.. it was awkward to say the least

Ic
Need to train my brain accordingly then
valentine's day prom....
aye India mein kaunsi bsdk school valentine prom rakhta hai 
College😂
Yes i remember winning free movie tickets in a competition held during college valentine's days celebration

Uk i just realised boson meant that this thread to 10k thing was stupid... I thought i was been called stupud
why is this pinned
Sequel nhi hai.
Spider-Man has Spider-Man 2.
Relationship doesn't usually have that
People don't lose interest in relationships
People lose interest in people, they try to adjust and experiment just because they want to be in a relationship, peer pressure, efforts n such and then they get bored of it or the factors that enabled relationships no longer go...
Healthy relationships will go on forever but none are healthy... Everyone is either bored, greedy, forced by peer pressure , and so on
Wondering the same here ?
Because I am a celebrity
same
True... whenever I check this section...this issue always comes up...it seems that somebody is in a very bad relationship 😂😂
Except for me i was bored and that's why it's pinned ... Also read all 1500+ messages before judging anyone ok
Bhosdike
I am honestly curious to know who pinned this ?
Areee m not judging chillax...just assumed coz of the name of the issue
Judging someone is not my cup of tea
Bull shit you assholes always judge people and then claim to be non judgemental ...
Sorry if you felt bad but I didn't meant anything. Whatever I felt ...I wrote that's it!!
No offense!!
What's the difference between assuming and judging ?
I am assuming things not judging people here!!
Assumptions are judgements too
You don't assume out of the blue ...just because you re using a different term doesn't mean it's a different thing
Seriously, you are getting me all wrong here but again if you felt bad I am sorry I didn't intended anything and tell me is there any way to fix this up?
Abe jobless log
@solid hatch if possible can you hop to VC for a while... Just wanna clarify ... I don't want beef here!!😂
Online fight kro bas
Ummm Mai nhi hu filhal us grp me😒
No work today ?
Mereko krni hi nhi h 😂... finding my white flag
I don't VC
Cool ... Night shifts must be exhausting bro
You don't eat garlic ?
Night feels half of the day
Sure. Just wanted to clarify... If u want you can keep on mute..if VC is not possible ... it's alright...but I didn't meant anything
Vampires hate garlic
Whatever why are you trying so hard to apologize... It doesn't matter just get lost already
@dark crow why do you think he is doing this ?
Tbh I don't wanna talk more on this topic.peace ✌️
Yo stop passing time here, go talk to your alleged new girlfriend

She is asleep now
Talk to people in your college
Indians are prudes that's a sad reality....
A person i asked out last year literally asked for my caste after rejecting my date request
Only option is to shoot a hundred times with hopes that one or two lands
Wth
But again can't say anything it's her choice
Indeed
People are selfish too
They always make stupid choices and then cry over making stupid choices
Indeed
This is 💯 true
Use their selfishness to your advantage
Experiment random shit you d find some ways out
- how to be good in office politics
Have no shame , have no guilt ,... Just talk to everyone
Ic
Kiss boss's ass
Do him favors
Help him with things
After resignation mail?
Like ?
Find out what he likes and arrange those things for him
If you don't do it someone else will, and they will step on you and make your life miserable
What makes you think the new place would be any different ?
Then I will start business with NO Poiltics
More politics ,... Getting clients , business competition, rivals, sources
Same shit
Unless your dad already has the business connections you need or enough wealth
Ic
any found any gf ?
The more u talk here the more they gonna stay away 😭
lol
umm
I think somethings in life are better buried
Wahahahah
throw some opinion on self love
One sided
lul
m still judging XD
All places are good
Never go on first dates .... Meet and hang out few times and then go on dates
tell me what's the best place to meet someone for a date
A funeral
Why is this post dead ?
No more advices left
You already got more then 1.6k advices
cheap
One amongst the Fanciest hotels in town
with camera
I'm not taking her to Taj
thats expensive af
better go with friends to make it cheap
Own an apartment 
Umm
Rent it
Might be a wee bit painful
Hi
Hello lol
Vegannn
No vegetarian
Thats cool
No, u r cool
not at all
if i was cool, i would say something cool
🙂
Say "Ice cream"
Lol
Wegunn
Me?
Don't date
Be single
And enjoy your life
Don't let others ruin your life
Ruin yourself
Ahh let me think
+1
+100
How to enjoy without relay-shun-ships?
Yes mommy
Sounds like James Gunn's third cousin
Ewww don't bully me
Go out
Ok mommy
@pseudo oracle
mysti is fun just play with him / her ( any pronouns)
You cannot pronouns my pronounce
sorry please dont cancel me
Women are my passion hehe
Seems like we have thousand times more advices than we have relationships
My advice - go fuck yourself
That seems rude
Can you elaborate or detail on this advice ?
No advice is rude it's just cultural differences we don't understand yet
Everything is perhaps
Or she just jealous that her thread died out at 300 messages while we are going 1700+ and strong
lmao
Shut up I am not a no lifer like you to try and make my thread active, mostly it's other people commenting and I still don't reply there
Same here ... People genuinely ask for advice and i genuinely give them good advices
People have come back and thanked me for saving their relationships
Sometimes nice people like @ruby swift and @sullen snow and few others help with advices
Dont drag me into this dawg 😭
You re not a nice person ?
I donno I just got here


I am curious to know who pinned it ?
Yeah, I just noticed that today and was pretty curious as well.
hehe
Bro just wanted to make fun of us 😦
Who? Wait who are you ?
Your username is literally a rickroll
My identity ain't imp
Your identity is very important
Why
Because that's the only way we can judge you ?
But u already judged me
Tell me more about you so that i can judge you even more
What do you want to know
Have you ever been in a relationship?
Nope
Hmm idk I guess wasn't really as much into such stuff before compared to now
Are you ugly ?
I think I am ugly af
Why do u think that?
Idk it seemed stupid
Thing is, everytime I go outside nobody really looks ugly, everybody just looks okay I guess. But there must be some reason u think this way
I get very few matches on dating apps
That's the worst way to judge your appearance
The number of males on dating apps are multiple times that of the number of females
True most other guys get almost no matches
It's the same every where,... Girls are tired of being approached by guys on every platform, including schools colleges workplace and so on, do girls even had to go to a dating app unless of course they are bored sorts
Exactly the best way to judge your appearance is to ask somebody u trust and tell them to be truthful and look at how people who don't know you react to your presence
Do they do double takes? Do they stare at you
So people seem more helpful or kinder to you
They re gonna be biased they ll tell positive only not to make you feel bad right ?
Tell them u want the harsh truth whether that truth is that ur good looking or not
Obviously u should be able to deal with whatever they say though
No one does these... I have never been stared at
No people ignore me all the time , never have i met someone who has been kinder or helpful without a reason , or needing something never ... Neither guys nor girls
Then you might very well be average looking like the rest of us and that's absolutely fine
Good looking PPL might have to deal with creeps :I
Girls irrespective of looks have to deal with creeps
Kinda true I think but the ones that look good deal with it more
Have you ever approached people , tried to flirt or propose or any such ?
Hmm, approached as in not in bangalore. But before I did mention it to somebody but they didn't see me the same way
So you know
Does that mean I'm ugly?
Maybe
But ur bound to find somebody who could give a rats a__ about your looks
i might find somebody some day
And idk anything ABT your relationship status so
You re being too optimistic
I am happy single
I mean life is a b_tch so might as well be otpimistic
How old are you ?
I am 29
I always thought you were under 25
I m not
For how long have you been spying on me ?
Just scrolled through this thread of yours today & built a perception of your age
So, maybe 1 day but that's not spying ig.
You read all 1700+ messages ,...
Why? Roflmao
I mean causally scrolled
That's stalking not spying but kinda has the same vibe
I didn't read the whole thread
I don't have that much free time
You scrolled through the entire thread, that still sounds like a painful thing to do
not the whole thread, just past few messages
from the message where you started comparing your thread with someone else's thread & started badmouthing her.
I don't even stalk my crush, why would I stalk you
Xan is a girl
sure, corrected my message
Also it was Xan who started abusing me and two other guys
I was just being defensive
Apologies, I take my words back.
just wanted to give you context regarding the point in this thread to which I scrolled.
nothing lol, just getting back to working days 
sigh 🫂
flexing? 😭
😭
college working days
true
working those quads and calves fr
Masturbation is what he meant. I suppose so.
Kill this thread pwese
Who are you ?

@lilac garden
Why should I kill this thread, dear stranger ?
You re a nobody and this thread is immortal
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This thread ain't
Dying
Im a gentoomen kind sir

ok
i need relationship advice
ok as u wish
sure
mysti is sleeeping rn i just checked
we live together
nah
he wants me to use this thread
then
yes.
What uo
im broke TWSS
Wow no it's Friday it's holiday until Monday so guess no
Well exception for me
24x7
bas bhai bandh krde teri relationship advice
take it its free
and use when you need
@solid hatch everyone's journey is different on this planet. You will follow your heart anyways no matter u get 100 advises here. you will have to go thru the situation or may be happy to learn what life teaches coz u learn with ur own exp only.

smart af
Thanks
All lies
Allies ?
No
Is this a serious question or just a random shower thought?
Do you need actual answers or fun and interactive replies to keep this going?
At this point no one knows what this thread is all about 🤣
Dem! We got played 
You re telling me that people care ,... Relationships are trash and a huge waste of time ,.. so we just chilling here
Talking about random stuff
You know it
But you re acting like you don't know
I have been exposed darn
No I have not been telling you anything, I asked remember?
Relationships are trash, because as people we love a routine until we change our minds, people are complicated and to make one work, it is actually a huge effort from both parties.
Many just lack a general insight into relationship skills and what it takes because of the way we have been raised, our believes and a the way our society is formed around these ideas. In short.
I knew it
No many don't lack insight, many are simply narcissistic egoistic selfish and lazy too, it's not like they don't know to put efforts or they can't put efforts, they just don't want to put efforts ... Coz they re too busy being flattered by their self ego
Will not disagree if that is what you believe in. Our experiences and limited research (or an attempt to) leads to certain opinions and they are correct. In fact I might agree on this with people with similar personality traits.
No
Good for you
Thats why I prefer women who are down bad like 7x a day atleast so then we're always busy and nothing to talk about
Explain yourself Sir Johnny?
Fitness
Yaar phir wahi
Sax sux
idk i dont even click here
Okay ... @sullen snow any idea ?
Where is everyone ?
@ruby swift @hoary rain
Make this thread active again
@latent vault @lusty pilot
What’s up mysti
Nm revive this thread
Ask some questions and tag people to answer
Guys where do I find Turu lob @lusty pilot @solid hatch
turu lob , go to your nearest supermarket checkout the aisle with most girls , pretend to search for a non existent item , ask a person next to you where can I find this item, pretend like you re new town, can she also suggest what you can do during weekends like hang out that this...
After doing all those say bye and head home
Watch your favourite movie
"Let it go"- quote by girl from frozen
How to find rich girls
Spend money & go to expensive clubs & restaurants
I don't think that's the rich he meant
@hoary rain Can you explain
rich girls are high maintenance right??
wait my bad , maybe they are self sufficient , its dem wanna be rich girls who are High maintenance
Sugar mommy type then waifu material
Yes
Are ha per mera kharcha utha le bas
Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come
just focus on urself King
Mended butterflies didn't bees and wasps came , what do I do now?
ic
2d or 3d ?
3d 😋
3d will take a long time to render
i can wait
How many years do you plan on waiting ?
Tag some girls and ask, that way you ll get more clarity
NGL we need a Poll on this
Okay do /poll ask and check
know that they werent the one, Have hope
👍 Yes
👎 No
Hope is an illusion fed to the poor so that they don't go revolting and eat the rich!!
Great now tag everyone and take response
no perm 😔
True, Hope is also the lastest new thing that gets sold
@sullen snow @cobalt raven share opinions here and answer that poll
Have you had a sugar mommy ? How was your experience ?
I didnt lol
don't shit where you eat
Wdym?
Think it means not to betray someone
any progress
I don't think it has any connections towards betrayals
Yes some progress...
I think to some extent like having an affair with someone who doesn’t belong to you - or stabbing someone in their back, as in returning evil for good
Betrayal in any sense - particularly when someone trusts you , believes in you. It could be with reference to one’s own family and externally to the office / university etc
I wouldn't answer and let individuals theories evolve 
Isn't that dangerous ?
great food for thought tho
oh I'm talking about this
If you let individual thoughts evolve, or even in the case of overthinking it might result in plenty of miscommunications,...
I think a miscommunication just happened here
drake said that?
Where is Drake now ?
wow this place never died either
Congrats
Helo helo helo
@solid hatch very well knows how to engage ppl!😁
Self respect is important

huh??
no the other thread has like 4k+ messages and allegedly this is the closest lol
neevu pro idira dude!
In a relationship self respect is important
Both sides expecting self respect and neither sides giving it to the other
guruji🙏🏽🙏🏽
Marry into wealth 🙏
I want to have sex
I'm a boy
21yrs old
No preference
No lyf
It's more than a lot dude
Can't afford sorry
Not in your range bro
It's way higher
Can afford upto 2k
Max to Max 3k
Tf 💀
eat doritos for breakfast
There is a inherent need of humans they want to be felt special for someone outside of your family



