overwhelmed - what do I do?

[azure prawn]

I’ve started my first character ever a few days ago. I chose LotM for my start (apparently a bad choice?) and I’ve finished those quests and got my awakening unlocked. I have Tuvala gear at pri (3?) and I am 56.

There’s honestly so much information about what to do that I can’t parse it. I’ve watched hours of guides and only half of them make sense to me and they often contradict each other.

I really want to enjoy this game and I look forward to grinding.

Please help tell me what I should focus on to make the most of the season and progress my first character.

I’m not sure if I should do certain quests, grind somewhere, or how to upgrade my gear. I don’t want to do it in a dumb way and waste materials.

Ty!

[median zinc]

i would say fininsh all of your loml quests, do the valencia questline, then quest your characvter to level 60/61 with this guide here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGnqzmTlsBs&list=PL54hqKbxU-U1mp7QgWs2bzlI7zt-zOljw

after that, i would say just max out your tuvala gear, a really good spot in my opinion is titium valley (desert fogans), and then once you do that, just grind centaurs or kratuga ruions for money so when you graduate you have some dough

also you should be doing the jetina accesorie anmd bos gear questlines, and finish your adventure logs as soon as you cna

the guy who makes the videos i just linked has guide on everything i just said so consult his channel whenever youre confused

[mental saddle]

It’s 3 years old, still relevant?

[lavish thicket]

Yes, these vids are still relevant

[misty umbra]

You are not alone on feeling overwhelmed. There is so much to do, so much to catch up on and get done. My advice to you is take it step by step and try not to feel like youre in some sort of race to the finish line. Enjoy your time in accomplishing stuff and youll see your progress skyrocket out of nowhere