#All Liberal Arts Colleges (LACs) (2025-2026)

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lilac trellis
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Northwestern can't be that bad

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or was Carleton that magical

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lilac trellis
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Very fair

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Which place has better food

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That's the real question

muted cloud
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who is WE

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lilac trellis
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We filling out transfer applications together

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lilac trellis
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tough mantle
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Don’t worry guys

muted cloud
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im only going to urichmond for the food

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trust

lilac trellis
tough mantle
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I survived on college food for like

muted cloud
lilac trellis
muted cloud
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i literally intentionally didnt apply to ivies

tough mantle
muted cloud
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fucking hate ivy culture

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🙏

tough mantle
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And ate nothing else

tough mantle
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My sat isn’t high enough

muted cloud
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i jst hate the culture

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i mean I ended up going test opt but if I wanted test scores I woulda chased em

lilac trellis
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we all had less than a 1200

muted cloud
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most LACs dont really consider scores that heavily so I just didnt bother

tough mantle
floral coral
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😋

lilac trellis
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Carleton excellence

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tough mantle
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When I applied to Carleton

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Unironically I think Carleton values sat

lilac trellis
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Yeah their SAT ranges seem pretty high

tough mantle
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Carleton is one of the LAcs who value standardized tests

fringe spear
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my stats were the weakest part of my app

lilac trellis
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my application was the weakest part of my application

minor tundra
formal patrol
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does anyone here know ab trinity university

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i was wondering if anyone here either goes here or knows a lot about it and i was js wanting to know more ab the culture, experience there etc

hearty summit
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1560 but it took my 4x

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my psat was a 1200

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🥀

lilac trellis
formal patrol
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the one in san antonio right? js found out theres a trinity college in hartford ct lol

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prolly shoulda specified location

glass hornet
hearty summit
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i learned that sat doesnt matter

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all my best choices were test blind schools besides bu...

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gpa will always unfortunately mog

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hearty summit
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honestly it feels unfair, i wish the sat was more important

hearty summit
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like at my school a 75% in apes is an A

tough mantle
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Fuck that test

hearty summit
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but in other schools a 90% is an A

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how is that fair?

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how is a 75% beingan A at some schools and a 90% being an A at other schools fair?

glass hornet
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Gpa is always the most important

hearty summit
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the sat is not perfect but it is signifiacntly more fair than the gpa which can vary soley from a schools grading system

tough mantle
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SAT is bs

hearty summit
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i do understand the sat not being perfect though

tough mantle
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You physically can’t change my mind on that

hearty summit
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i just personally think that gpa has more problems than the sat does

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yes im not saying the sat is good either

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but it is the lesser of two evils simply

hearty summit
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sat grading system doesnt change basd on what school you go to. gpa does

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colleges wont take the time to individually check every single schools grading system so its just unavoidable that ppl can get 4.0s with 75%s in classes

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70% in ap phys 2 is A for my school while 85% is A for ap bio and its honestly kinda dumb

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majority of my school has above 3.8 bc of this

tough mantle
hearty summit
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my school doesnt do weighted or class rank

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so nothing helps at my school

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like theres ppl with a 4.0 but below 1100 and honestly thats just to another level

tired wadi
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saxophones are sooooooo cool

glass hornet
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Is it true that applying to an TO school without sat score will hurt u

hearty summit
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because the sat is alg 2 cap while ppl are getting As in ap calc bc yet they cant score above 500 on the math section. this should not happen

glass hornet
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My counselor told me if u don’t submit they will assume u got a bad score

tough mantle
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That logic is false

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I’m proof

glass hornet
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I m not taking that shit again

glass hornet
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I hope 1450 is enough for transfer

cunning sable
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if they cared that much they wouldn’t be TO

tough mantle
tough mantle
cunning sable
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also i honestly don’t even think you need to TO for 1450

hearty summit
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i think it really depends on the school

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georgetown takes more ppl who submit sat than test optional

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but that might just be bc those ppl who submit have a rllyyyy good score

hearty summit
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personally idk if i like test optional. i understand that people are bad at standarized testing. but i think that they can put this in the additional information section instead of being able to hide their scores, just like how you cant hide a gpa and become gpa optional

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a 4.0 and smth like a 900sat just doesnt feel fair for other students at all

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if its grade inflation, thats just an unfair advantage

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like if you have a learning disability and its impacted your sat score, you can say this in additional informationa nd the college wont hold it against you

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but bc of test optional, the average sat scores at every test opt college goes up. this ruins it for everyone else as their own competition is harder and higher scores just dont mean anything anymore bc of test opt

glass hornet
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I think the sat kinda saved me

tough mantle
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I’m gonna choose not to speak

hearty summit
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i have nothing against ppl who get bad scores, but it really hurts me when this makes a school's average sat go up

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this means ppl with high scores just dont get as much credit. like for some schools the aveerage sat went up by 100 all because of this

glass hornet
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My gpa and ap scores are kinda shit, it just basically tells college I m a B student, but the 1450 saved me

tough mantle
hearty summit
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okay i can tolerate test optional

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but test blind really upsets me

glass hornet
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Not saying 1450 is a good score

hearty summit
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it sucks when you work hard for something but a college wont even recognize or consider it. it feels like your hard work is for nothing

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and i just feel like test blind/opt discount the effort people put in

glass hornet
hearty summit
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you get a high score and yo uspend hours studying yet you cant even submit it

tough mantle
hearty summit
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okay

tough mantle
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But test optional is completely fine

hearty summit
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for test optional i think im willing to compromise

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but test optional has raised the average score for sats

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now people with high scores dont get as much credit

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because imagine yorue in the 80% quartile for sat but it drops to 40% quartile?

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tough mantle
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Yes they do?

hearty summit
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now it just makes your own application look worse than it actually wouldve

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for people with special circumstances, why cant they just explain that in additional information?

cunning sable
hearty summit
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we dont have a gpa optional for people who have extenuiating circumstances for gpa, those people with lower gpas get a chance to explain. so lets make sat mandatory but have ppl be able to explain a low score

tough mantle
hearty summit
floral coral
hearty summit
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i recognize that my schools grading system is unfair towards people in other schools and im priveledged to have a school tha tmakes it so easy to have an A. a 70% in ap physics 2 is an A

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this just isnt fair at all

tough mantle
hearty summit
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grade inflation is such a bad issue

tough mantle
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And it’s a dude

cunning sable
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who are these mythical students who have high grades in high-rigor classes but have 25th percentile SAT scores

cunning sable
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a test optional applicant did not unduly take your T20 seat

tired wadi
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tough mantle
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Actually wait I have a 1250 fuck that

glass hornet
# tough mantle 4.0

I think u have to show college ur somehow academically prepare, whether it’s through sat gpa or AP

floral coral
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but i really do love music

tough mantle
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Good grades in rigorous classes

glass hornet
floral coral
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and i wanna try to make a band in college maybe

tough mantle
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People who say that make my blood boil

hearty summit
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im not saying they did take my spots though

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im just pointing out a flaw in the system that i disagree with

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tired wadi
cunning sable
hearty summit
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but i dont understand why youre implying that i think tset opt students are taking my spots when i did not say this

tough mantle
hearty summit
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i am just saying that i believe we should keep sat requirements for colleges just as a way to counter grade inflation and unfair grading systems

cunning sable
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it was a general you

hearty summit
cunning sable
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you called it an unfair advantage

glass hornet
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Ok chat I quit on the sat convo. I think u need to show college ur somehow ur academically prepare. Like u cants have a 3.0 gpa and 900 sat and 1s on APs.

hearty summit
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again my school has a 75% as an A in apes while other schools have a 90%. how is this fair? how can we rely on only the gpa?

hearty summit
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a school having a 75% as an A while other schools don tis not fair. that is an unfair advantage. thats what i was trying to say. therefore we should require the sat

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sat counters differing grading systems across schools

glass hornet
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Admission is holistic, everything makes up the app

hearty summit
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that was my pain point

cunning sable
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they don't look at your GPA alone and close their eyes to all other data

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they also see your transcript with your actual grades and with the grading scale your school uses

hearty summit
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admission offiers just dont have that time

cunning sable
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yes they do that's their job 😭

hearty summit
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im genuinely not trying to insult people with low sat scores at all or people who go test blihnd and im not trying to make it seem like that

cunning sable
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it's on the transcript

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you don't just send it in for fun

hearty summit
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im just bothered with grade inflation and unfortunately right now, the sat is just the best way to counter it. the sat is not perfect

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the sat is just the lesser of two evils

hearty summit
glass hornet
cunning sable
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i think you're making generalized statements that you lack the inside knowledge to back up

hearty summit
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my school has a different grading system for every single class

cunning sable
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for the record i do think there is data to support the idea that test-required admissions has its benefits

hearty summit
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90% is A in others, 75% is A in other classes. how is this fair?

hearty summit
cunning sable
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but i do not think that TO schools are closing their eyes to very simple concepts like "some schools being easier than others"

hearty summit
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but i think we can at least agree that we dont like test blind

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im willing to agree to disagree on test optional

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its just a problem in my own district where grading systems are way different for schools and classes

cunning sable
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i did not really say that

hearty summit
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and thats why i feel this way from my own personal experiences that ive witnessed

hearty summit
tough mantle
glass hornet
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I just found out the AP discord does lectures for students to prepare for the may exam

hearty summit
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again for people with special circumstances like difficulty with standarized testing, they can use the additional information section with this

hearty summit
glass hornet
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Chat come join me if ur also preparing for the AP exam

tough mantle
hearty summit
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again i dont have anything against the peopel themselves who go test optional, i just wish there was a better way to counter grade inflation and differing class grading scales and unfortunately, the sat is the best way right now. the sat is not perfect and i admit that the sat has multiple problems too

glass hornet
hearty summit
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its ok if you guys feel different

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ive just made this opinion based on my own experiences and what ive seen

tough mantle
glass hornet
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Ngl for the past years I just watch YouTube videos

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Maybe this year I’ll try something different

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Since it’s my last year

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I love Heimler history

glass hornet
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💀💀💀

hearty summit
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heimlar + amobea sistesr >>>>>

tough mantle
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My teacher is giving me a test over spring break…

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tough mantle
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I genuinely don’t think words can describe my actual hatred for calculus

glass hornet
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I find it really interesting watching juniors and sophomores suffering through APs as a senior myself

muted cloud
# cunning sable but i do not think that TO schools are closing their eyes to very simple concept...

Current standardized testing is flawed, hence the need for test optional. At the same time, much of that comes to a lack of standardized education in the states, hence the need for that. The problem is you can only standardize so far until things become out of touch with the local area.

It goes something like this: people who study solely for standardized testing won't do well (a criticism of AP at the college level as well), but people who can't do it all it also probably says something. The issue was there was too much weight placed on standardized tests, and I think eventually the scales will tip back in favor in testing, but probably in a reigned back form.

fringe spear
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I got a 53% on the calculator section of the mock ap calc ab exam we did today

tough mantle
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My hatred for calculus exceeds AM’s hatred for humanity

glass hornet
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I think If u don’t submit ur sat u better have a good gpa and good APs

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U need something to back up ur academic

hearty summit
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im willing to be ok with test opt if theres a national grading scale put into place and schools r required to share individual class curves 👍

cunning sable
hearty summit
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i do thihnk the sat is more english based than it is math just due to the confusing wording on some math questions

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the math section felt more like an english reading comprehension test to me than actual math skills since most of it was desmos

cunning sable
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the ability to do algebra and comprehend a paragraph of academic text are skills every well-equipped high school graduate should have (barring learning disabilities etc obviously)

fringe spear
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gotta know how to read

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even to do math

cunning sable
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if the SAT had history or science or even advanced math like calculus or stats, that would be a different matter, but it doesn't

weary cobalt
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So glad I never took the sat

cunning sable
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even the ACT science is just reading graphs which is another skill you should have

weary cobalt
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If I was applying for 26-27 I’d be so cooked bc every school is going back to it

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Or most schools are

muted cloud
cunning sable
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i do think that unless one has certain difficulties then an inability to get a roughly average SAT score is a red flag for a lack of academic preparedness

tough mantle
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I think both are bs so

glass hornet
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I hate the sat but thank god that shit saved me

hearty summit
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the sat has many flaws

glass hornet
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I have never gotten a 5 on APs it’s all 4s

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I m the definition of B student

muted cloud
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The problem was majorly out of hand

cunning sable
hearty summit
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hmm ik more ppl with low sat than low gpa who got into selective schools

tough mantle
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I know at least 3 people with a 12

cunning sable
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¯_(ツ)_/¯

muted cloud
hearty summit
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wait but the UCs have you self report your own grades

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how do the UCs know your schools grading system if its not a transcrip tthen?

muted cloud
hearty summit
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oh i see

cunning sable
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i'm not saying it's a failing to get a bad standardized test score, just that if you are that far below average then you may not be prepared for higher education

hearty summit
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i guess i was worried that not every ao would do this for every single applicant 😭 idk how much i trust an ao to really do this

cunning sable
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HOWEVER if someone is pulling a 12 on the ACT there are likely other such signals

glass hornet
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Sat is short term

hearty summit
hearty summit
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and again if theres other circumstances they can explain it in the additional info section which is totally okay

cunning sable
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which is why i don't necessarily think that it's always 100% necessary to require testing

glass hornet
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No fucking way someone just told me AP calc is easy and AP psy is hard

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Son I m crine

hearty summit
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ap calc exam curve technically easier

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ap psych is more vocab 💔 which im buns at

tough mantle
cunning sable
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nobody who earned a 12 was getting into harvard whether they were TO or not

glass hornet
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I m never talking to any stem kids again

cunning sable
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unless they fell asleep on question 3

hearty summit
cunning sable
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it's just not happening

hearty summit
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okay

tough mantle
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I think the act and sat can determine if you’ll do well in a college, but it cannot determine how well at all.

cunning sable
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12 is a 5th percentile score

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meaning ninety five percent of ALL american test-takers (not all college applicants or admits, ALL students who take it) perform better

tough mantle
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I think I know someone who actually got an 11

cunning sable
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there is evidence that standardized test scores are a fairly reliable predictor for future college performance and that students with scores far below average may indeed end up worse off academically

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which is why i understand why many schools are returning to test required for some or all applicants

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but one size doesn't fit all and i don't think TO is an inherently bad thing for all students or all institutions

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many schools have likewise found no impact on student performance with or without testing

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it just depends on a lot of factors

tough mantle
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The kids who work harder will always do better than the lazy ones

glass hornet
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Ok chat

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What are some things u should ask on admitted students day

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Like some tips

tough mantle
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Can I get by with doing absolutely nothing in my classes

fringe spear
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LOL

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kind of depends

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on who you are

glass hornet
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cunning sable
fringe spear
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what’s your biggest concern entering college

tough mantle
fringe spear
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for me i tended to ask about social belonging, some culture questions, and then about students with disabilities

fringe spear
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go ahead!

rapid creek
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if youre FG and or LI id also ask about that

tough mantle
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Specifically the first and last

fringe spear
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absolutely

tough mantle
rapid creek
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top LACs are all private and majority affluent

glass hornet
rapid creek
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some support FGLI students better than others

fringe spear
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in the contexts i was in when asking all this i was at thrive scholars college fair (all of us were fgli) and at fly ins so it was kind of already addressed by the colleges beforehand

glass hornet
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I notice a lot of schools have FG org that supports FG students

fringe spear
cunning sable
tough mantle
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I’m going in a week so

glass hornet
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That was my worry

fringe spear
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i’m used to being the poorest person in the room

glass hornet
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Or am I just being too sensitive

fringe spear
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i live in a pretty affluent area but i am NOT

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topic of one of my supps lol

glass hornet
cunning sable
glass hornet
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Like it’s dirty and things like that

fringe spear
tough mantle
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What is money

tough mantle
glass hornet
fringe spear
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a kid here moved from new york to los angeles to specifically attend my high school

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like what

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??

rapid creek
glass hornet
cunning sable
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i definitely notice that a lot of my friends are much wealthier than me and occasionally i'll end up in an unfortunate money-related situation (like once my friend had her birthday dinner at a restaurant where the entrees alone were all like $25-30 and i had to just thug that one out)

rapid creek
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i dont feel it much here at the 5Cs, we have a lot of Posse folks in my class (which while not specifically targetting FGLI kids, tend to draw them in to the program and provide full tuition scholarships) and QB people as well

cunning sable
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but if you associate with decent people they aren't going to make you feel weird about it or anything

fringe spear
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i hope i can find my weirdos

glass hornet
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😭😭😭

cunning sable
rapid creek
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but you can definitely like, as chloe says, end up in a social situation where you end up spending a lot

cunning sable
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with tip and tax ended up paying over 30

rapid creek
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if you hang around affluent people

fringe spear
cunning sable
rapid creek
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lmfao california prices yea

tough mantle
cunning sable
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cunning sable
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i don't like to spend more than like 20 on a meal (when i do pay for food, which is rare given my meal plan)

fringe spear
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mid ass food for 25 bucks

cunning sable
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damn

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it's hard out there lol

glass hornet
tough mantle
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Yeah Fazolis was 30 bucks for me and my mom today

fringe spear
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30 bucks for 2 people is impossible here

tough mantle
cunning sable
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that is pretty low i feel

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although i think you could definitely make that happen here at a casual sort of place

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like chilis or something

rapid creek
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i think what also helps at Pomona specifically is that every campus resident is on an unlimited meal plan and 200 dollars a semester to spend on cafe items, so like you can totally just eat campus food everyday and not spend your own money going out

glass hornet
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30 bucks for fish and fries is too much

rapid creek
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not all colleges do this tho, not even within the Claremonts

cunning sable
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it wasn't even THAT good

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like it was good

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but not $30 good

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i've had better food for cheaper

glass hornet
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U can prob get that for 10 bucks at another place

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Inflation is also crazy

glass hornet
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I think it’s just cheaper when u cook on ur own

cunning sable
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i'm fortunate that i don't actually need to spend very much money

tough mantle
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Im becoming like way more concerned about friendships in college

fringe spear
cunning sable
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which is why i feel better about things like going out to eat sometimes

glass hornet
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Btw, chat if u have ur college email be sure to use it for student discount

cunning sable
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or buying stuff for fun

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i don't have real expenses

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my tuition is pretty much covered and so is my food

tough mantle
fringe spear
tough mantle
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I want my Spotify premium back

cunning sable
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so when i spend money it's because i want to not usually because i need to

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with some exceptions obviously

rapid creek
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yea same here

fringe spear
glass hornet
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My college requires us to buy meal plan

fringe spear
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esp bc i expect my adjustment period to be really rough

glass hornet
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I need that dinning hall food to be good 😭😭

cunning sable
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anyways tldr about the money stuff it's mostly fine but sometimes you end up in interesting situations

glass hornet
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But u’ll find ur ppl trust

cunning sable
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i went to a very wealthy private school so i'm kinda used to being in such situations so it wasn't as big of a shock to me as at davidson

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but still it's interesting

rapid creek
tough mantle
cunning sable
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something that always fascinates me is how often rich people do not percieve themselves as being rich

tough mantle
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Like I have a hard time making close friends

fringe spear
glass hornet
fringe spear
cunning sable
glass hornet
tough mantle
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Im pretty extroverted nowadays so i can definitely talk to people but making close connections have been hard for me in the past

tough mantle
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Wait Hulu too??

glass hornet
glass hornet
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I m abusing my school email

fringe spear
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i have to find specific people who understand

glass hornet
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Let’s all stay positive

fringe spear
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i’m sure i’ll find my people

tough mantle
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I’m generally very chaotic

fringe spear
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one of my reasons for going for swarthmore is bc when i was on campus i saw a lot of visibly different people and felt like i could find people like me easily there

glass hornet
tough mantle
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Like my dnd thing would be Chaotically Good

glass hornet
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All my best friends left/moved away

fringe spear
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i can be very flat but i also have trouble not going off on tangents and getting too worked up over things

tough mantle
fringe spear
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my old best friend living her best life

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good for her

tough mantle
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Well

fringe spear
glass hornet
fringe spear
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we live in neighboring cities

glass hornet
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😭😭😭

tough mantle
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Like when people take more than 1 juice off the share table during breakfast

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Like no one likes you

fringe spear
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I get genuinely so upset at things like that it affects my functioning

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I had to stop using the breakfast line

glass hornet
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I feel like some rich ppl is just trying to be humble

cunning sable
fringe spear
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I get overwhelmed really easily so it can be kind of hard to occupy a space with me especially if it’s a busy one

cunning sable
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tell me about it lol

fringe spear
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like i might just randomly lose all communicative abilities bc it’s too loud

cunning sable
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but she's self-aware

glass hornet
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Are they looking for adoption

tough mantle
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I got a 98% on that test somehow

tough mantle
fringe spear
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i got ear defenders recently and bro how did i put up with this shit for so long

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no wonder i was so tired and upset every day

glass hornet
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I hate loud places

tough mantle
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I don’t like the 4th of July

fringe spear
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we dont really get fireworks here thankfully

cunning sable
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honestly at a school like this i find that it's impossible to not end up in frienships with people who are far richer for you (if you're LI) unless you intentionally only move among certain groups

fringe spear
cunning sable
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but like it's fine. just find friends who are well-adjusted and good people

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sometimes they will say or do something that's like ?? 😭 but that's life

fringe spear
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i just need to avoid becoming a lolcow again

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find actually good people

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i have trouble telling the difference

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until it’s glaringly obvious

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but i feel like i can have social success in college

tough mantle
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I really don’t believe in myself anymore

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But you got this man

fringe spear
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I don’t really believe in myself either but fake it till you make it you know

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I believe in you too

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You’re really pleasant to talk to over the internet, you’re a good person

tough mantle
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That’s comforting to hear actually

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Thank you

glass hornet
cunning sable
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yeah maybe it's because i have a lot of experience with rich people but the asshole ones tend to have an aura about them lol

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not saying you should judge a book by its cover

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but you get a sense

fringe spear
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every time people say aura like that i think of like a glow around them that emits words

fringe spear
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like PROBABLY ASSHOLE or PROBABLY COOL

cunning sable
cunning sable
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POV: when you turn 18 your net worth appears above your head for everyone to see

fringe spear
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me and my -$3 USD net worth

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what you do when i pull up

glass hornet
#

Also another thing is, real friends would not make u feel bad. So if they know u can’t afford expensive meals then they wouldn’t invite u to a expensive meal bc it’s going to make u feel weird and bad

fringe spear
#

didnt realize that friends are supposed to be nice to u

#

then i started talking about my childhood friendships and ppl were like dude

glass hornet
#

And it’s fine

#

It’s like a puzzle

fringe spear
#

oh boy another puzzle

cunning sable
#

not at davidson but elsewhere

tough mantle
fringe spear
#

i love puzzles

glass hornet
#

Real friends are priceless. I value emotions and relationship so much too

cunning sable
#

my friend was genuinely on her last dollar but her friend insisted they go out and then shamed her at the dinner table in front of other people when she didn't have enough to split the check

fringe spear
#

yes i have two people in my life who i hold very dearly

glass hornet
tough mantle
#

I feel awful for her Jesus

cunning sable
#

but well let's just say there were signs of her character before that moment

#

so the moral is befriend good people lmao

#

obviously easier said than done. but that's the guiding principle

fringe spear
#

friend offered to pay for lunch at our next meetup i hope she follows through bc man i’m broke

glass hornet
#

Or never talking to them again after that meal

cunning sable
#

yeah they don't talk anymore

tough mantle
#

Good

#

Holy shit that made me tear up a little

glass hornet
#

I love how my mom say friendships in adult world is just using each other and benefiting from each other,

tough mantle
fringe spear
#

for such a social species we can sure be mean

glass hornet
#

I think of real friendship as something rlly important

fringe spear
#

i dont like how mean a lot of people are

glass hornet
#

All it takes is one real friend

cunning sable
#

and in college certainly not. i have wonderful friendships

#

sometimes it takes time to find them but great people are everywhere

tough mantle
#

This nagging feeling keeps telling me that I won’t make any friends

#

And I can’t get it to go away

fringe spear
#

I’m in the same boat

#

I’ve been trying to reprogram my mind by saying I’ll be okay

tough mantle
#

Why does my self esteem have to lack this much

glass hornet
cunning sable
#

you just have to push past

tough mantle
#

I look at the Davidson 2030 page and I’m like

#

Yeah im kinda cooked 🙏

cunning sable
#

why do you say that

fringe spear
#

most of the swarthmore commits i’ve followed are rich kids

#

mostly the athletes

glass hornet
#

Dw, theUF and UGA 2030 page always makes me feel chopped

#

I will never in my life post my picture on there

tough mantle
#

As Alex says

#

“I feel chopped”

fringe spear
#

i’m kind of funny lookin

tough mantle
#

Also there’s been like 5 guys on there total 😭

fringe spear
#

i dont care about my physical appearance that much i just care that i look clean

cunning sable
#

a lot of guys just don't do things like that. doesn't mean they aren't out there

glass hornet
#

Dw it’s not a Davidson issue

#

It’s mostly girls posting

cunning sable
#

anyways 1) don't judge a book by its cover and 2) the people on that page are a very small proportion of the people you'll get to meet

#

i'm looking at the 2029 posts and only a handful of my current friends are on there

tough mantle
#

It’s also like

#

What if people don’t be my very exaggerated personality

cunning sable
#

people will

tough mantle
#

Also I apologize for complaining this much

fringe spear
#

Don’t

cunning sable
#

do you think you're the first davidson student in history to be quirky lol

#

i don't say that in a condemnatory way i just want you to really think about it

#

i understand the fear. i also had the fear

#

i had some very close friendships in high school and i worried that i was never going to find anything like that again

#

or that i had forgotten how to make friends and be normal

#

but it's an unfounded fear

#

2000 people is a lot of people. unless you're a lab specimen there will be people who like you

tough mantle
tough mantle
cunning sable
#

you're not

#

and honestly if you were then there'd probably still be somebody around here for you

glass hornet
#

Ian gl on making friends

#

Trust u will find ur ppl

tough mantle
#

I really hope

#

Thank you

smoky nacelle
#

you got this!!!!!

fringe spear
tough mantle
#

Thank you all ❤️

languid coral
#

you got that!!

steep ivy
#

i struggled with making friends in hs and im scared it’ll be the same in college

#

i feel like part of it is because it felt like a lot of people at my hs already were friends in middle school so hopefully college will be a new start

tough mantle
#

Kentucky isn’t for me anymore

steep ivy
#

we got this

#

and if not i can be your friend smile

tough mantle
#

W

gray citrus
#

still deciding...

glass hornet
#

Chat I m crine

#

I love how my AO is spamming me about asking them questions and going to admitted student event

#

And then when I acc email them they never respond

#

I m just gonna ask all my questions at admitted student day I figure maybe students knows more than AOs or counselors

minor tundra
#

Everywhere I got in I went test optional

minor tundra
tough mantle
glass hornet
#

Who wants to talk to them anyway

#

I would rather talk to a student or ask on Reddit

fickle tundra
muted cloud
#

distance, location, career programs, some other small things

#

im gonna visit both first

#

i alr have visits booked

glass hornet
#

I want to see Grinnell too

jaunty musk
#

guys help

#

scripps or smith

#

which one should I choose

hearty summit
#

OH MY GOD DID SOMEONE SAY GRINNELL

#

EVERYONE BETTER MASS PING ME WHEN THOSE PICS COME OUT.

hearty summit
glass hornet
#

Major, future career

jaunty musk
#

like something business related i think

karmic socket
#

much more prestigious in fact

#

wellesely tier

jaunty musk
#

do you guys think the resources at scripps is better cuz of the claremont colleges

#

the consortium in MA is slightly weaker right?

#

i don't want to go to grad school

glass hornet
#

Smith

glass hornet
#

😭😭😭

#

Ur such a Grinnell simp

hearty summit
#

grinnell and i are married but grinnell doesnt know it

#

ive already rejected my mit full tuition bc im that confident that ill get off the grinnell waitlist

steep ivy
#

(seriously tho you can’t go wrong with either, i think it just comes down to personal preferences like location, weather, etc. since california and massachusetts have very different vibes)

fickle tundra
karmic socket
#

apart from the fact that it doesnt have a IB pipeline like other LACs in its league

#

but the fact that grinnells in the middle of nowhere doesnt help its case

uneven herald
#

Hii everyone! Anyone else committed to Washington and Lee

cunning sable
glass hornet
#

this is crazy

#

grinnell LET HER OFF THE WL

minor tundra
#

Omg

tough mantle
fringe topaz
#

i hope shes joking this is insane grinnel glazing 😭

tough mantle
#

Nah Alex

glass hornet
#

I m deleting

tough mantle
#

I really hope that’s a joke tho 😭

glass hornet
#

It is 😭

#

I love u ian

tough mantle
#

I deserve a “fuck you” every now and then

glass hornet
#

But I believe in her

minor tundra
#

I may not be able to visit barnard

#

Im so sad

#

😭

glass hornet
minor tundra
#

I've yet to go to any of my admitted students day

#

This is the real one I wanna go to

glass hornet
#

I want to visit Barnard so bad

#

I love NYC

minor tundra
glass hornet
#

And the Columbia baby blue

minor tundra
#

2 in 1

#

My only hope left is asking my grandma to take me

glass hornet
#

My school is actually so bad

#

We are not allow to decorate our cap for graduation

languid coral
#

i went yesterday lol but i only passed by

glass hornet
#

But it’s giving nyc

#

With the cones

#

DREAM

languid coral
#

LMAO yeah

tough mantle
#

We actually don’t get our yearbooks until September

glass hornet
#

Ok I need to stop self doxxing

#

I think someone at my school is in here

tough mantle
#

People can already find me

#

Idc anymore

cunning plover
#

How to effectively appeal financial aid why are they so resistant to giving me like even 10k more wtf

cunning plover
#

Just had a call with a financial aid Dean did not seem too effective for me 😭

#

Sending them a mail today or tomorrow for the same will see what happens

junior field
#
poll_question_text

Colby RD results?

victor_answer_votes

14

total_votes

31

victor_answer_id

2

victor_answer_text

Waitlisted

cunning plover
#

Was a very off putting call ngl may not be able to go to my dream school now

cunning plover
#

All that work to get into my dream school and not be able to go for a difference of 20k a year 😭😭😭

cunning sable
#

unless you’re appealing based on some extenuating financial circumstance

#

they’ve done their calculations and determined that you can pay that amount. whether you’d prefer to is not part of the question for them

#

even if from your pov that “preference” isn’t really a preference but a requirement

cunning plover
#

Personally I feel like there are circumstances and facts that do change what it should be, and all colleges online calculators that allow international students estimations have a significantly different figure for me. But amhersts calculator doesn't work for internationals so I had no evidence to back it up

#

Its fine now ig whatever happens happens worst case I go somewhere else with a better offer

teal thicket
#

@floral coral Carleton had a stats prof last year that was apparently not great at teaching and he got fired midway in his first quarter of teaching and they had a professor go into the class midway and I heard from people the class got a lot better

teal thicket
sinful totem
#

Big unis don’t care as long as you publish lacs don’t care if you publish if you’re a shitty prof and the students don’t like you

#

Unless you’re tenured

#

there’s not really a public or perish mentality at lacs but it’s def be a good teacher or perish lol

#

which idk what is more stressful

#

both arguably bad…

weary cobalt
glass hornet
#

🙏🏻

weary cobalt
#

💔

#

Better than the dress code they gave us

rapid creek
#
poll_question_text

Grinnell College RD?

victor_answer_votes

9

total_votes

18

victor_answer_id

1

victor_answer_text

Accepted

glass hornet
#

I m crying

#

Grinnell

tough mantle
#

Don’t say the forbidden name

#

For she who shall not be named will appear

obsidian lintel
#

all professors are in pressure cookers unless they're tenured, and even then it's often stressful

#

at an R1 the difference is that the pressure is to publish

#

so your teaching quality suffers whether or not you want to teach well

teal thicket
#

Number 1 lac in the Midwest fs!

rapid creek
#
poll_question_text

Williams College RD?

victor_answer_votes

30

total_votes

49

victor_answer_id

3

victor_answer_text

Rejected

glass hornet
#

sry

#

accidently tagged

#

oppps

rapid creek
#
poll_question_text

Amherst College RD?

victor_answer_votes

24

total_votes

35

victor_answer_id

3

victor_answer_text

Rejected

hearty summit
#

im heartbroken.

#

DAY 13 OF BEGGING GRINNELL TO LET ME OFF THE WAITLIST

rapid creek
#
poll_question_text

Swarthmore College RD?

victor_answer_votes

16

total_votes

24

victor_answer_id

3

victor_answer_text

Rejected

silent otter
#
poll_question_text

Haverford RD

victor_answer_votes

4

total_votes

9

victor_answer_id

1

victor_answer_text

Accepted

rapid creek
#
poll_question_text

Colgate University RD?

victor_answer_votes

10

total_votes

24

victor_answer_id

3

victor_answer_text

Rejected

hazy grove
#

what tool is this

glass hornet
#

Some ppl say this is bs

#

This site

#

I would take it with a grain of salt

floral coral
#

im looking forwrd to it...

teal thicket
#

Tbf tho my friends at Carleton who was at that stats class

#

Before that prof got fired

#

Were telling me that prof was trash

#

And like I think once the chair of the department went to one of the classes to observe they instantly fired him

#

😭😭😭

floral coral
#

ngl i wish Carleton name was more well known but its ok

#

ill have no aura.. smh

minor tundra
#

Ngl I'm lowkey in a dilemma

#

If my appeal for Barnard gets denied its not financially smart to go there

#

But I really didn't plan to stay in north carolina at all

#

I got into nc state and that's my 2nd option I'm just kinda bummed (not abt the school) just not wanting to live in nc anymore

glass hornet
#

Ngl I hate school

tough mantle
glass hornet
#

Omg

#

I got into the #1 school in the nation

#

Grinnell

#

Jk

#

I love how Grinnell still hasn’t withdraw my application

#

I emailed them twice

tough mantle
chrome mural
#

It’s very strange tho, how such a great LaC is unknown compared to its peer

lilac trellis
#

Who's it's peer

teal thicket
teal thicket
teal thicket
#

i lowkey miss carleton a lot

#

i think i'm heading back to carleton for sproncert tho

#

my friends said they would let me in cause every student can have 1 guest

#

sproncert at carleton is so fire i saw ricky montgomery live last year

#

at sproncert

hearty summit
#

i had to do that for my loci and grinnell college admission office themselves never replied whiel my ao replied within around 2 days

crude shadow
crude shadow
hearty summit
#

waitlisted

#

but i did send in a loci!

#

i have made a promise where if i do get off the waitlist, ill buy the entire mod team coffees

viral stream
#

Hey everyone! I’m currently on the waitlist at reed college and noticed some new sections popped up in my portal over the last two days. specifically, there r new upload slots for I-20 documentation, passport copies, and proof of funds.
I’m trying not to get my hopes up because I know systems update all the time, but I was curious... is everyone on the waitlist at reed college seeing these new options suddenly, or is this just a standard mid-April UI refresh for everyone?

rapid creek
#
poll_question_text

Middlebury College RD?

victor_answer_votes

8

total_votes

18

victor_answer_id

3

victor_answer_text

Waitlisted

rapid creek
#
poll_question_text

Davidson College RD?

victor_answer_votes

5

total_votes

10

victor_answer_id

2

victor_answer_text

Waitlisted

#
poll_question_text

Wellesley College RD?

victor_answer_votes

9

total_votes

15

victor_answer_id

2

victor_answer_text

Waitlisted

tough mantle
#

Dang

rocky pelican
#

Not a single wellesley reject wtf

crude shadow
glass hornet
#

Yeah realized most schools admission office never reply lol

hearty summit
#

DAY 13 OF BEGGING GRINNELL TO TAKE ME OFF THE WAITLIST

chrome latch
#

😭😭

glass hornet
#

Son I m crine

fickle tundra
#

Guys can anyone pls review my reed essay

upper glade
#

what's your 2nd option rn??

tough mantle
upper glade
hazy grove
#

also the fog on i-5 is no joke

#

we drove from portland (was visiting reed) to seattle and midway through someone almost rear ended us

#

because nobody could see past the hood of their car

#

iowa doesnt have visibility issues.

upper glade
#

how was reed

hazy grove
#

it was nice!

#

i got accepted

upper glade
#

same

hazy grove
#

but i can't go

upper glade
#

same

hazy grove
#

92k coa meltingsob

#

and portland grey

#

fafsa fucked me i guess

glass hornet
upper glade
#

they have such a nice campus and vibes

#

plus some atrocious costs

hazy grove
#

that avg gpa makes me nervous too

#

3.3 avg

upper glade
#

shit

hazy grove
#

yea

upper glade
#

like let us enjoy portland

#

😭

#

I wanted a more traditional college experience with sports n everything so

#

guess it wasnt a fit

glass hornet
#

Aren’t they like stats heavy

hazy grove
upper glade
#

they are NOT stats heavy gng

#

all abt fit

glass hornet
hazy grove
upper glade
#

literally test blind lol

hazy grove
#

yeah also i had cracked choir ECs

#

so that prob helped

upper glade
#

and like their '30 page lowk threw me off

floral coral
glass hornet
#

Ok

upper glade
#

idk how do I say this

glass hornet
#

Don’t look it up

upper glade
#

like I'm not super liberal

glass hornet
hazy grove
#

if i wanted music i wouldnt have gone to reed

lilac trellis
upper glade
hazy grove
# lilac trellis Is that low?

depends on what ur doing. but if u want T20 law school it's ass bc the LSAC doesnt discriminate between school they just show GPA and LSAT

#

Reed is a feeder into funded PhDs though

#

which is meh for me

upper glade
#

nonetheless I would've found my community at reed but like

lilac trellis
#

yeah but like i feel like 3.3 avg for a college is normal

upper glade
#

I didnt see much social fit there

lilac trellis
#

What's the average like 3.5

#

I have no idea

glass hornet
#

Katherine what schools did u apply to

upper glade
#

isnt it t14 usually

#

and then like some decent regional ones like ND, USC, Fordham, GW...

hazy grove
# glass hornet Katherine what schools did u apply to

Applied to Macalester EA, UChicago ED, UW RD (Informatics program), Geneseo RD, St John's College RD, St Olaf RD, Scripps College RD, and Reed RD. Rejected UChicago and Scripps, WLd St Olaf, accepted everywhere else.

hazy grove
floral coral
upper glade
#

some dude at reed graduated with a 3.9 smth, got schwarzman scholar and went to HLS

#

bout to have the most ROI in reed's history

upper glade
upper glade
#

I have my friend there who got into Chicago EA but couldn't afford it

#

living the life rn

hazy grove
floral coral
#

i would have applied to reed but i fear they wouldve hated me for being a neoliberal (theyre also far as fawkkk)

cunning plover
upper glade
upper glade
#

hope it works out man

#

what did the dean say 😭

floral coral
hazy grove
floral coral
#

just wait and see how it goes!

upper glade
upper glade
#

I'm waiting on colgate rn

floral coral
glass hornet
#

Uchi is hella short on money

hazy grove
cunning plover
upper glade
glass hornet
#

They love full pay kids esp for transfer

floral coral
#

its very nice...

cunning plover
upper glade
#

I think some schools might lowball u first bc of unpredictable yield

floral coral
#

my debt for this year will be 5-10k and then itll probably go down after that

upper glade
#

and then if you get back to them saying its your first choice and allat

floral coral
#

theyre worried my dad will find a new job basically

upper glade
#

they can calculate again

cunning plover
cunning plover
upper glade
cunning plover
#

If doesnt happen then my choice becomes easier worst case scenario

upper glade
#

would you mind reviewing my LOCI by tmr

cunning plover
cunning plover
upper glade
#

tysm

hazy grove
# upper glade they are AWESOME for philosophy

TCD is js cracked in general. Book of Kells right there, Samuel Beckett was an alum, Larian is headquartered there (I'm considering video game writing so internships), theres an actual direct connection between our airport and dublin, and it's EU so i can study abroad for cheap

#

but i gotta apply first meltingsob

upper glade
#

also ireland is awesome

#

my counselor had a short stay there for bible studies or smth and loved it lol

hazy grove
#

it's either TCD or macalester most likely. SJC maybe but only as a transfer pathway

upper glade
#

TCD will give you a harder time for Law School if you're serious abt it

#

Mac and SJC would both set you up well

hazy grove
#

law school isnt really the main goal anymore. my main plan is to get my bacc, most likely do a masters in the US for english or history, then teach in private schools

upper glade
#

ahhh

#

doesnt public pay better in the US

#

I mean like if private means the philips academies and allat probs not but in general

hazy grove
#

def no. publics in MD pay like 60k a year for secondary school but independent schools like exeter pay 80k-100k annually

#

they both pay fine i guess?

#

it's the catholic schools that pay shit

upper glade
#

ahh

hazy grove
#

though u usually teach elsewhere first

#

with cheaper col ofc

upper glade
#

ahh

#

yo thats awesome tho

#

u need a masters minimum right

hazy grove
#

yeah

#

english or history depending on which one i want to teach

upper glade
#

ahh

hazy grove
#

what about you

#

your post bacc plans

upper glade
#

I have like 5

#
  1. Ethnomusicology grad school
  2. Consulting
  3. Law School
  4. Teaching (public/inner city probs)
  5. Corporate
#

or 6. start a select shop

hazy grove
#

interesting

upper glade
#

lowk burnt out and depressed from existential dread rn so

#

idk

hazy grove
#

we got this man

upper glade
#

I def don't wanna end up miserable going down the white collar pathway chasing clout

#

but the $$

hazy grove
#

one step at a time

#

anyway

glass hornet
upper glade
#

I need a quant baddie

glass hornet
#

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

tough mantle
#

Or a doctor

upper glade
#

neurosurgeon

glass hornet
#

I need to find my dream husband in college

#

I m too busy in college

#

Or dream wife

steel tree
glass hornet
#

Good men are doctors

#

And quant

#

IB is not husband material

#

Profs or researchers are also husband material

fringe topaz
#

random but is ames iowa or tampa florida a better spot for cs interns

#

i need to pick between usf and isu in 2 days

tough mantle
steel tree
obsidian lintel
#

in my area, the private college prep schools pay worse than the publics, and there's no unions

#

BUT

#

they get good benefits and the school environment is a lot more mundane

upper glade
upper glade
steel tree
steel tree
tough mantle
steel tree
#

Hopefully the leaves start emerging in time for admitted students day

floral coral
#

amherst is so nice

glass hornet
#

Is Dartmouth an LAC

tough mantle
#

That’s a good question