#Yale University (2025-2026)
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What?!!
A beer bottle maybe lmfao
they only check once a year
That makes sense
id rather not lose my candles the one time they check
but i dont know how much they care
i think if u have ācontrabandā they just email ur suite
and tell u that itās not allowed
idt they do anything
fuck ass candle contraband
theyāre not gonna actually be checking
lol
u guys r overthinking lol out of all places yale does not care
they mostly r just checking rooms for fire code and such
i think so
but also a lot of the social scene is yale stuff
frat parties, suite parties, etc
I lowk wish it had more to do
or like club stuff
i mean also a natural part of college life
At yale
is that you get to go out
So excited
lol
what?
wait did you get in rea
lol yeah I had to remember that when I was there
šš
No I did yygs š
oh
Applying RD
One of my friends at yale last year showed me a video of frat boys yelling and running in the library
Wait is Yale fratty?
i didnt start my supps yet lol finals eating me up
I thought it was liek anti frat
Let me see if I still have thr convo
Theyāre lowk fun
a big part of the party culture is greek life
i mean itās not like SEC frats but we have fun
For some reason I thought Yale was very anti frat
i thought so too
Interesting
i wouldnāt say that you have to join greek life to have a social life
you definitely donāt at all
I mean Dartmouth seems like it would be more fratty
itās just an added experience if you choose
Are you gonna join?
i mean also frats at ivies are gonna be quite different than ur stereotypical frat
yeah im rushing next semester
I wanna be a skull and bones member but ts is impossible
no u donāt
lol
It was a pledge task that's why they were running yelling around campus
idk why all the prefrosh are always talking about skull and bones lol
A what
but we also have a bunch of coed social clubs
Assuming Iām a pre frosh is so nice of you šš
like a lot of the frats are disaffiliated with the official panhellenic org
i mean u are a prefrosh lol
daddy uni did you apply to vandy
I hope hope
no
Daddy uni is such a nice name
Real
i didnāt apply to any southern schools
thanks lol
Why
i made it my minecraft username a couple years ago
do any schools have vibes like yale?
I see
brown but in a different way
i think conn college has
I love seeing those WSJ articles like ānobody is going to ivies anymore, ONLY southern schoolsā like ššš
Did i live in the south prior to that is that why
did you apply there?
i might say dartmouth weirdly enough
no too close to home
I live in the south now but I did apply to some schools
no im from new england
Oh
New England is the best region in the country
maybe rice cuz resco system is similar
Erm
yall are lucky to even have schools that r somewhat good in ur state
it's so pretty fr
what ab washU
vandy has resco too
this is a pedantic task that serves no purpose
i got cu boulder and thats it š
but harvard #8
Washu is in thr middle of nowhere
didnāt apply
I have a vendetta against washu and I canāt tell you why, I literally donāt know why lol
didnāt know that
Vandy seems nice
me with my whole country
Damn
Vandy is a smart SEC vibe lol
yeah the location is kinda ew
Fr
Terrible absolutely awful
you could do colorado college
Yale is such a good vibe
Some might say in this chat lol
how do you feel
Everyone in this chat glazes yale and for good reason
yale is hands down the best ivy
ya itās a great place
there is no doubt
Litterally
unironically
if I don't get in undergrad I will work my ass off for grad school
colorado college is low key not good
it has a rave out of state but once you see it in person and grow up some what close to it, its not all that good
i need to go somewhere hot
Really thatās interesting
yeah you should go for a different experience
Stanford???
iāve been in the fold my whole life
ill apply
this is if i decide to pursue grad school tho
prolly phd
I only want nyu med school
i might go for a bs/ms
Any free med school
depending on how my grades r looking
Youāll get in
Lock in gang
East coast to west coast
i could never
i mean his linkedin will be highkey dope
Yale to Stanford pedigree would be insane
canāt betray my bulldog roots
I saw this kid on redddit like āwhatās the best school pedigree one can have?ā šššššš
Damn
no one dreams of harvard for harvard ive never seen
He hates Harvard lol
Same
everyone wants it for the prestige
Yes
Harvard just seems unreal
Thatās a very good point
and because it's known around the world
Fr
Like they give you a better experience
i think the thing about all of these schools that u guys donāt realize
Harvard is just for networking
is that theyāre all mostly the same
Princeton ngl they give a lot of aid but rigorous work
when you ask about worlds best uni even to a third world illiterate they will probably say mit/harvard but they won't even know ab yale as an ivy
i may talk shit about harvard all the time but liken
This is why itās so hard to do some of the supps bc the schooos see the exact same ā¦
your undergraduate experience might vary slightly but your degree will hold practically the same weight compared to other t20s
Very very very minor differences
Good point
like yeah yale has a lot of cool traditions
as an argentina fan I choose yale
so does harvard penn columbia washu etc
always with the blues
They created the frisbee!
did they actually
yall know too much about yale sometimes š
Yeah wait let me find it lol
wait daddyuni can I run into the field when yale wins against harvard
sure
who is stopping you
i didnāt rush the field because i was tired intoxicated and cold
Yeah frisbee pies
but i shouldāve lowk
Dan got trampled šš
Omg
omg harvard yale day was so fucking long i was so tired
It looks so fun
i waited in line for food for 2 whole hours
Fr
it was
And I donāt even care ab sports like that
Never ever
Harvard Yale is only sports that looks fun to me
U gotta eat before thst
i think i got to the yale bowl at like 10
i did
just write it
didnāt leave till like 5
also leaving was so annoying
im lucky my friend called an uber otherwise we wouldāve walked
uber expensive af too
Wait this was at yales campus righy
like 2 miles
U cant have a car?
i mean traffic is horrible
the biggest shock for me next year considering im only applying to east coast schools is the proximity of these states
Thereās not a lot of parking in New Haven I donāt think
And just super inconvenient
this
HELLO???
Yales campus is tiny
and also frosh arenāt allowed to have cars
what do yall mean it can take you two hours and ur in another state??
or at least park on yales campus
lol less than that
Can u hide it elsewhere??
my best friend is at but she visits all the time
Off yales campus
i drive an hour im not even into denver
i mean yeah but youāll have to walk a fair bit to get to ur carb
This is killing me ugh
atp just walk to ur destination
New Haven is very close to New York
lol most places donāt allow cars freshman year
I already dont have a car cause of my parents
u donāt need a car for undergrad lol
Yale is designed for humans not cars
especially not at a place like yale
And when I get one I still will barely be able to drive
if u were at oxy/stanford it would make sense to want a car
but u donāt rlly need one at yale
I hate driving
But what if I wanna explore a place 30 mind away
uber/train/walk
Take that with a grain of salt
occidental
I love honking at people for extended periods but thatās all
Uber is expensive
not rlly
I could do train ig
it takes me 7 and a half hours to drive border to border in colorado so just the concept of a) being less than an hour away but b) taking trains is something so intriguing for me
if u uber sparingly
Its not?
an uber to the train station is like 8 dollars
Oh
it just depends where ur ubering
Trains are pretty exclusive to the northeast corridor and they are phenomenal
unless itās super far never more than 30 MAXIMUM
unless itās harvard yale day then ubers r expensive
driving colorado is hell
Wasting 8 dollars when I could drive myself š„
the mountains still scare me
well most of the time
and ive driven them so many times
the passes up near loveland can get really bad really quick
if u need groceries just walk to stop and shop itās like 20 mins
Parties, studying
babes u dont need a car for ts
No i mean if I wanna go off campus on weekends
walk
i mean itās convenient sometimes but like
Train
there is yuttle?
one of my friends is from new haven and she was on gap semester
so sometimes sheād drive me places
Wait have u met Millie Liao
everyone asks me this
Her stuff pops up on my feed
Sheās my Yale icon
No way lol
until my friend was like oh thatās millie
Sheās lowk celebrity status to me
sheās one of my good friends big
Oh wow
like frat big/little
Once u get into an ivy you can sell fake courses or become a youtuber fr
And Cameron seems nice too I think I asked if u jnow her
i see her at parties all the time yaaa sheās nice
this will only make you hated
Her eating vlogs are so entertaining
like look at chris and elise pham
I know I'm not saying I'm doing that
most people hate them
Im calling out the others
Peep that Chris guyā¦.
Who have
yeah he sucks
Chris who?
but youtuber is cool i'd say
Wait
Never heard of him
yale grads are cool youtubers: kevin, cassandra
Cassandra is chill
Idk kevin
wrong reply ouch
elevated
lol itās so funny how your guys experience of yale is just thru yale influencers
idk i feel like itās easy to paint a great picture of yale through like when people post about the dining halls
How else are we supposed to know šš
but the individual experience is much different
Never had the chance to visit yale in person š
lol idk i just didnt watch a lot of yale influencers
This is why I was so scared I wouldnāt like it when I went to yygs lol
the only one i knew was the girl who did the eating in all 14 dining halls series
And i have now eaten in all 14 dining halls
Oh yeah Emmie
i should rank them
The hospitality girl
The Pauli Murray one looks the best
My dad saw her videos
IMO
i hate murray
Oop
oh do you mean like looks wise
Would it be bad to say seeing th pancakes she showed made me apply to YYGSā¦.
or food wise
Looks lol
I worry abt getting food poisoning
ok maybe the reason i donāt like murray/franklin
i think JE looks the best
I was at a summer camp at uni of Maryland and everyone got sick
is cuz i ate there twice a week
Valid
and i never like tuesdayās lunch
Med students, teachers, students they were serving raw food
JE courtyard and library top tier
and then thursday is tendie thursday which is good everywhere
Taco tuesdsy
Like chicken tenders??
Yes lol
yeah every other thursday is tendie thursday
Those
Gross I hate oily food so much
and the other thursdays are grilled cheese day
i donāt like grilled cheese dayā¦
Oily pizza is nasty
Whyy
the best pizza is in berkeley
Fr
i donāt like grilled cheese
@native smelt whatās ur fav pizza in New Haven
Ur missing out
iāve lowk only tried like 4 places
I had one today
iāve tried bar yorkside sallyās pepeās
pepeās is good
bar is really good
yorkside is alr
sallyās is also good
Let me just say Yorkside is so bad
damnā¦
the only time iāve had yorkside was when itās offered to me for free
and i canāt complain about free pozza
Lol
No I wouldnāt complain either but itās not even New Haven style
Itās like Greek
Ice cream I think arthesusa is really good
i havenāt tried arethusa yet
just ashleyās and milkcraft
Milk craft is lowk not bad
i have a soft spot in my heart for milkcraft
Ashleyās is good
even tho itās so expensive
It is but so good
Wait milkcraft is the one with the waffle like cone thing s
milkcraft so bad
Like the bubble waffles or whatever
my resco rented out ashleyās for like 3 hours and got everyone free ice cream during finals week
shit was so good
yes
Damn
Oh yeah I liked that
Junzi kitchen I thought that was great
Right by the lululemon
never had it
lol how did u try more places in 8 weeks than i did in a semester
lol
I swear I tried literally everything
I lowk thought dining hall wasnāt that good
So I was a bit disappointed
Big back activities
i mean also itās just more economical for me to eat in the dining hall more often than trying new restaurants
but when i order out im lowk consistent
tell me you tried haven hot chickenā¦
Oh yeah I know it was such a money drain
Such a horrible money drain lol
No⦠out of bounds
I was scared of going out š
Didnāt Cameron review that place?
IK THOSE BOUNDARIES LOL
ITS THE BEST FOOD PLACE IN ALL OF CONNECTICUT
the boundaries are fake
itās propaganda to get you to think new haven is dangerous
i walk past popeyes all the time people are so dramatic
Bro itās literally not they told us we couldnāt touch the New Haven green
oh deadass?? ššš
Yes we could go on every side but in it
I thought that was so interesting
ugh yale admin so dramatic
Yales whole thing with New Haven is so interesting lol
Didnāt they do that pizza party?
Or was that like a New Haven thing
new haven thing that yale students were invited to
okg that day was so overstimulating
Itās actually so disillusioning that old campus divides the New Haven green and the shoppes at Yale and each side is so different from each other
cuz there was a pizza party on the green
and there was also a bike race going on
and a protest
so much was going on
lemme see if i can find the videos of the bike race
yeah
The gates to old campus against the green sends a very strong message lol
Is there still that really loud food truck with the generator parked outside of old campus
Stop I think I saw this lol
Oh congrats on Harvard btw
i donāt think itās loud but there are food trucks yeah lol
also food trucks by science hill
i would try em but theyāre lowk pricey
Like I support small businesses but I was literally stuck between closing my window and baking to death or keeping it open and all I heard was that truck
Ty
New Haven has no business being that pricey lol
What are u planning on studying
Im think im going to explore a bit but probably something related to social studies
Twins
I wanna do like sociology or something
That guy on TikTok Aaron does Harvard social studies Iām sure youāve seen his videos
I actually havenāt I donāt watch that many college influencers
I probably watch too many lol
maybe I shouldāve applied to Yale I feel weād get along š Iām lowk scared Iām not going to have friends at Harvard
did u alr commit
never too lateā¦
I did š
aw
itās ok transfer apps open next january
when u lose harvard yale again donāt be afraid to open them š„¹
no im sure youāll love harvard
and iām sure youāll thrive there
i think itās just important to be selective about who you choose to spend your time around
i mean youāll see in what 8 months or so
freshman fall is a very transformative time
Thanks I hope and if not time to get acclimated with common app transfer
ngl even if i hated yale i wouldnāt transfer
i vowed to myself that after experiencing the common app once i didnāt want to experience it again
Itās such a shit show
I hate it so much
What a pain in the ass lol
unnecessary hate on common app š
congrats on stanford
why are there so many cracked ppl in here lol
fork found in kitchen
as international student when do I need to submit css to yale?
everybody is awesome
including everybody that didn't get into their school
By feb 15th
oh so we can't submit after the decisions?
On their website it says āthere is no strict deadline to apply for financial aid, but applicants are strongly encouraged to submit documents by the dates aboveā
oo okay i will lowkey submit on march 28 if the stars align
lol
i think ten minutes if you have the necessary information with you
Oh so itās the collecting part
If I had time I wouldāve submitted those with my application but I canātttt. Essays are taking up all my time and energy
how many are you left with
Why do I keep analysing every sentence I write š
i just started researching yale websites
Iām almost done with all 6 ivies Iām applying to I just need to work on the disagreement essay.
Plus the Harvard roommate essay. It should be easy to write
holy you are really ahead
finals eating me up fr
Yesterday I only wrote two essay. One for brown and one for Stanford š I work so slowly it isnāt even funny
i am writing my simple VANDY supp for two days lol
i suck
but your name is Fast
i used to be fast when I set this nicknameš
time to change it
No because my Yale essays took me about half a month..
HELP SLOW LMAO
yes
Do AOs really overanalyse the essays the way I (or we) do? Or do they read them with the intention to get the most out of them if that makes sense. Because their overall goal is to get to know the person whoās applying
to my knowledge, they just read them
Also I suppose they donāt have time for that
aos are supposed to make a case for you
they spend a few minutes on each application not much time to analyze
yeah
they root for you
LMFAO lock in gang
and the committee votes on her case
šš I NEED to
every day ive finished a college supps completely
Right
nah but surely they throw some files out the window
wait how do you guys deal with the "college research" part
most of my time goes to research, trimming down to word count, and structure
I'd say that was kinda easy cause my mentor asked if anyone wanted tk do research and so me and 2 other ppl said yes
Iām still stuck on the last essay because I couldnāt find any interesting stuff about the philosophy or physics departments to tell why Columbia specifically and I think just listing course names wonāt work out
I talked about the softwares I used to conduct it and the materials she provided fkr me
My research helped me with this part ngl
wait no I mean the college research, like for the supp
I did answer the 1st why Columbia and I lowkey like it
I found nothingšš
The research optional section right???
nohh, i mean specifics of the college, why is yale a good fit for you. courses, professors, traditions etc
i use the college essay guy template for that
OH I THOUGHT U WERE TALKJNG ABT COLUMBIA
š
I havwnt done yale yet my bad
This is helpful tysm
i would reccomend jus taking a few hours to click allthroughout their website and find something interesting
Omg
I do that on the regular
lolol
Mission statement and just overall I look at what does the school offer and what is it strong at and I try to explain why it fits me. I also use Reddit A LOTTT!! And I did find good aspects of why student like their school.
āWhy us?ā Essay Research Chart 2.0 Instructions: Complete the chart on the next page for each of the schools youāll be applying to that requires a āWhy us?ā essay. Try to name specific examples of what you want from the school. Think of this as a menu of what you want in a college, focusing o...
i can dye my body blue for yale but can't express the love on paper
what a big L
lowkey it's time to lock in
gtg
Well same š but as you know each school is known for something so they look for a specific kind of students. I always try to channel that and make them think Iām a good fit
I hope it works
do you read sample essays btw?
No
guess i gotta stop this
Because that would affect the way I phrase things
clastify sucks
Almost all the Yalies I asked for advice (which were my mentors at YIRLI!) said the best thing you can do it to only write stuff youād actually say in real life in a normal conversation. You have to sound organic and genuine
I'd dye my hair blue if I got in
you will twin
goal for tonight: complete yale supps draft 1
Iād actually fly to the moon and put Yaleās flag there
I only got 7 colleges left ToT
For how many schools are you applying
19
boola boola
I submitted some in Oct and nov
Is it crazy that I might add a school now? š
wow
i got 15 colleges left to do
If I already got answers for their prompts
yeah i am consistently adding and removing

Good to know Iām not the only one š
how frequent do you recycle your essays?
Very frequently. Academic interests and personal experience essays are the same across all schools. I just tailor the phrasing to match the prompt a little
I also reuse sentences that I like the sounding of it
i see
how do you approact the why this uni and how will you contribute essays?
cause those are like the most time consuming supps for me
especially how will you contribute one. It is so annoying man
You have to ask yourself if I got into X school what kind of person will I be there? In which conversations will I be involved? How will I contribute to the student body, classroom, and clubs & student organizations? You have to self-introspect first and then write it down very genuinely and honestly.
If you find that answer within you itās over. You just need to articulate it.
Lock in gang
A lot
I try to do it as much as possible
thanks
But sometimes they require completely new ones
Oh my gosh
well, i am an international student so need the financial aid
Ah i see

did you write the why yale essay?
if so, how did you approach it?
No i havent started on yales yet
i see
I think someone else may have thought they were talking abt it earlier
yes, you can request a yale specific waiver if you need it as well!
after decision right?
Spent a solid month scrutinising and revising every single line with my advisor š
I guess I am cooked
Ooh I need to lock in then
No, after you submit your app
they finaid office sent me an email saying they saw i had indicated my intent to apply for aid but hadn't received my application, then included a link to a survey to request the waiver. very easy, they didnt ask for much besides my name, household income and yale application id I think
thank you!
no dw, my story isn't yours. and I didn't change much over the course of the month, just small tweaks here and there besides my "why yale" which went through maybe like 3 rewrites
thanks, i think i read your why yale once
it was amazing
thank you! that's really nice to hear
I donāt have an advisor š
Btw were you a gap year applicant?
Lmfao
no lol. Why do you ask? I graduated hs in November
no i saw the hs grad thas why maybe your calender is different
what major will you take
that makes sense. yes, our school years starts in Jan and ends in November
WHATT
oh my god this is a relief
I'm set on Global Affairs + EP&E but I also really want to do African studies. So I'm battling between African Studies and EP&E. Hopefully a ton of introspection + my mentors can help me figure it out
Why, lol?
I think 95% of Africa operates on that schedule tbh
oh so i think it was pretty aligned with your ecs
Not at all. I took my SAT in October, and had to write my preliminary exams throughout September and early October and THEN my finals started in late October. PLUS my REA application was due on the 1st of November.š So it was hell.
but you got in early tho this is a very good thing
relief fr
i had to take september sat and then nov sat again
lowkey it's hard for most internationals
I would say so, yes. My ECs were born of passion and so because I'm going for majors that also align with my passion...1+1 naturally becomes 2.
I am trying for applied math but I don't really have much math ecs. Trying to figure out the why major essay atp
the SAT was so bad for me lol. I wish I'd had more time to prepare. The R&W was light work, but math really cooked me...which was weird because I'm really good at math and my honors were like state level stem accomplishments. š But they view scores in context so that helped a lot
oh what was your score
740 R&W
680 math š
1420 composite
I got a 780 math first attempt and a 750 on second attempt lol
luck issue
I wouldn't say I know too much about the college application process, but I don't think you need your ECs need to SCREAM math. As long as you can make it all make sense with your story then you should be okay. And the yale academic areas essay doesn't seem to be as much of a "why major?" they just want to hear about something you're interested in that field....a question you want answered or a hypothesis you want tested yknow?
shout out fr.š I genuinely think the October SAT was set by the devil
mhm i got you
sept was easy for me but nov was hard
no colleges expect you to have your extracurriculars perfectly in line with your major!
at the end of the day the extracurriculars should be interesting + enjoyable for you
mhm but i am sort of trying to sort of connect it to me
people are telling me to nerd out, but I have only excelled in math grades. i didn't go deep into this sub or do some research
you donāt need research š
that is not even expected at the admissions level
uni didnt do research and he is attending yale right now
i would say instead of stressing about what your extracurriculars arent and having āno connectionā try and see if you can find what about math is present already in what you do
the biggest issue with going too far back is it seems like youāre just digging for anything that grasps at math and if that connection throughout what you do isnāt visible, and its just dropping lore from elementary school, it may make it harder for your AO to see why in the present
does that make sense
not to say that you cant go far back but just make sure you tie it into who you are today and what that means for what you want to study
hopefully that helps
This is great advice
Thank you
for yale supplements is it better to spread out and tell your different interests in your short answers
for the short takes?
the short takes are a way for you to share your personality
i think for the supps you should have little overlap btwn each essay
so that each essay gives them something new about you
yea those
Yeah they really emphasise showing a new side of you with everything you write. They want cohesion, but not repetition
i mean try and show something different but have fun with them
yale
If I got certified as a Food Manager in my sophmore culinary class can I add this as an award?
Or no cause its a certifition
Very good way to put it
Never repeat the same story but you should be echoing a common theme in almost all the essays
The exception would be those short take ones
Those are there just to see a quirky side of you
Outside of academics
they referenced my short take in my app file lol
also at bdd they do a fun thing where they read a bunch of random peoples short takes
did your short takes really correlate at all with one another
not really
i feel like mine r just unique parts of my personality that are somewhat spontaneous if that makes sense
i can send mine lemme go find them
the 3rd one is too personal but i chose a music artist
Stoppp lol
Thatās so cooked
I think this is the best way to do it
In my non professional and fully unqualified opinion
thatās the one they mentioned in my application
lol
i mean i was also class prez so i was both unofficial and official mayor
lol
Lmao maybe I should be a Yale AO?š¤š¤
perchance
Damn
work for the admissions office once u get here
Running that school that shall not be named lol
Bros assuming Yale would take me šš
Wait they just read peoples applications @native smelt
Like to a bunch of people lol
what r u majoring in js wondering
wait these r good i like how they dont seem so elaborate or thought out but just true authentic short takes
noo
they take the last short take of some people and read it out loud
Oooo that random one
probably applied math/cs+math/statistics/pure math
The thing I wrote mine about is so random I canāt
one of those
reading aloud the whole alumni's CAPS š
I like those combos
most likely applied math or stats and data science
Why are you drawn to those fields?
LMFAO
what did u put as a field of interest on the yale application, acc do they require that?
i did stats and data science, cs & psych, applied math
in that order
and i wrote my essay about statistics
wait for short takes is it 35 words or 200 characters for the CA limit
Personal statement?
200 chars
no my why major
thanks
Oh the one about academic interest or wtv
i found myself liking math a lot more
what do ppl put for a why major if they dont know what they wanna major in
but also like idk yet
I used to think I didnāt like math but now I really like it
you choose the areas that most comfortably fit your interests at the moment
ah ok
letās see how linear algebra treats me
cuz they donāt admit by major
the amount of people who apply premed and switch to econ ššššš
thank god ā¤ļøā𩹠š¤
quant pipeline
Do you think trying to put the most niche major that still fits ur ECās and story is a good strategy or no point?
yale dont gaf
Econ gobbles everyone up
people in econ arenāt trying to do quant theyāre tryna do consulting or ib
quant is for the physics majors
ur not applying into a major š
i mean just pick what u want to study
lol
They still want diversity in major tho lol
just put what aligns with ur ec and story
physics wtf š i acc did not know that
be authentic instead of bull shitting ur ec into some random major because u think itll help u
its not that complicated
physics and math majors
half the people at yale switch majors after their first year??
No im saying tho like I can put political science or anthropology: one is way less popular than the other so im wondering if its a good choice lol but probably overthinking it
its not recommended to do any math majors if ur not strong in math right? i think math has always been kind of a weakness of mine and the enjoyable level is okay ig (im improving in math rn tho)
they do but they also know people will switch
i think the thing about majoring in something difficult
is that you should only do it if you love it
there are a couple scenarios
put what you want to study but i dont think its smart to try and manipulate the application into a major you dont even want to study but you think is a āniche majorā
ideally: youāre good at it and you love it
or youāre bad at it and you love it
which is also ideal
and then thereās youāre bad at it and u donāt like it
true yea
and thereās youāre good at it and you donāt like it
if you love a subject you will find yourself naturally putting in more effort even if youāre not naturally strong at it
how dyk if u love a subject or a topic
hm thatās a great question
i think its subjective and depends on the person
honestly the topics that im the most interested in, are the hardest to explain
I can do a really hard proof/problem and be like damn that was a good as proof
Or like i took an exam last week and did really bad on it
But i wasnāt like damn this isnāt for me i was like i love this subject so i need to do better
so itās kind of just like a gut feeling
itās natural to question if itās the right subject for you
iāve definitely questioned if stem was for me a few times this semester and i probably still will
but i like know its for me, right? like thereās not a tangible way to explain it. its kind of just a feeling
for me it took finding who i was first to get that feeling of knowing it was right for me
i think iāve known i loved statistics for a while and i was flipping and flopping
i went into high school convinced i was going to be applying to something pre medicine because i thought i had loved it. i loved it a lot going into high school and i took classes related to it because it seemed like something i wanted to do
like thereās one intellectual experience i can pinpoint where i learned i loved stats
and then i just explored a little bit and then came back to it
but there was a lot of self reflection within that time of exploration
whenever anyone asked me what i wanted to do the answer was always āpremedā but i had NO idea why
i thought i would major in visual artsš š
dont worr y
not trying to be jobless
i couldnt figure out why i was saying premed for the life of me
i had no tangible reason why i ālovedā it to the extent i did
yeah itās kinda just a feeling
fr? oh ok thats good then
for me ive been questioning often if i actually like a lot of the stuff I've been doing recently + why i like it, but idk idt its very productive (as in actually helping anything)
simultaneously this was the period of my life when i began to explore my sexuality and my identity and that period was amazing growth for me
and the feeling of growing into this identity was something that just felt so right for me
it felt so authentic, vulnerable, and real to be exploring
how did u self reflect like js journaling or being with your own thoughts a lot?
so much so to the point i began to question what my life would be like without such exploration
so then it just kind of felt right for me to study gender and begin digesting things related to queer + gender studies much more so than pre medicine
i had a reason and a feeling that just was there
but i never had with that āpremedā path i had deemed myself
so it just sometimes takes a spark of a feeling that u wont find with anything else
wait iāll give a better response in a second
yeah a lot of it for me sometimes is just that like. i canāt imagine studying anything else
how do u even realize u like math that much
lol idk
like, how do you sit down and have it as a hobby ykwim
i love it even when i hate it
like i cant describe it the feeling is just there
do u just engage with it in academics or how do u do it ooutside school
like i want to learn more math idk
š
i donāt really
idk if I've felt that before yet
maybe i have and im just misconstruing it rn as im trying to remember
i mean i try and do a little self studying over breaks
thats just crazy to me
i mean what ur a sophomore? u have so much time
i also just like find it fascinating how much math there is in the real world
it took me a long time to realize i liked sociology
itās nice to see nuggets of itās applications in real life
i suppose, but then i think that way then time flies by š
and that is also because it gets to a point where u have to look up 'college majors' and figure out which one is most interesting š
college applications, for me, have been such a formative experience for me and i am always raving about it because of the power they have if u approach them in the right away
you also have all of college and the rest of high school
YES!
let me find what i said when i was talking with someone and jeni the other day
you're right yeah im still like cracking the surface on them+researching colleges and they've made me have to think a lot abt myself
one of my friends is at harvard divinity school and early in the app process she gave me such good advice about approaching college applications
itās such a good reflective process
and itās difficult
but itās almost beautiful in a way
to expose yourself so much to yourself
thatās why i missed it a lil bit when they were done
just the reflection not the stress
lol
thats true also
when i started college applications this fall, i went into the process knowing very little about myself. i didnt really know who i was in a sense just because i never took the time to truly introspect on who i was, who i am now, and who i am becoming. if you approach college applications outside of prestige and all of that nonsense, you start to see the questions they ask you and the stuff you write begin to reflect more of you than you ever thought was possible.
the stress can be insane but like ive said, ill be leaving this process of applications knowing more about myself than ive ever before, and thats why i am so grateful for applications regardless of the stress they may bring me
it truly is something so special to happen especially going into undergraduate as, if you approach it right, youāve just opened your own eyes to the person you are becoming and that makes life exciting
and ngl that reflection continues into ur first year
and the rest of them i hope
i feel like iāve grown so much in the past 4 months
lol
college application kick starts your own reflective process and i feel like that is what needs to be celebrated much more than the results
i think one will always be discovering new things ab themselves cause we all change all the time
being with your own thoughts a lot
because college is inherently an independent process
you spend so much time with yourself
itās different from high school because especially at a place like yale everyone is so busy
and everyone is everywhere
so you learn, or at least iāve learned to appreciate solitude
do you feel like you are able to have a friend group at yale
yes and no

wait sorry i would be giving better responses but im doing something rn
youre fine
do u have a single dorm
i just want to go somewhere where i can make friends
like yes in the sense that itās possible but no in the sense that itās unrealistic but also not
yes
you will for sure make friends
close friends
having a college dorm and living in a college sounds so exciting lwk
iāve made very strong friendships actually
this is what im sayin
a place like yale has so many different types of people
i don't want to be growing up too fast tho i still have like a few yrs left, so i try not to fantasize/daydream ab being in college
it might take a little long but you will find your people
yeah dontt enjoy high school while itās there
yeah jus focus on being big fish
i miss high school but i also loved my high school
my hs is so goated i love the area where i live highkey
i do wish i started thinking abt college before junior though š
i missed out on a lot
like ec opportunities?
like life
yeah i jus live in the middle of fucking nowhere
so all of my ecs are online
and i couldve applied yygs sophmore year for example
how would not thinking ab college earlier limit ur life opportunities js wondering
just little things but its not that serious
whats yygs
yale young global scholars
its a program yale has where u go to yale for a week
yo wait what im gonna apply
its like a summer program at yale idrk remember what happens there
ts sounds cool
itās like 4 weeks
apps close jan 7th
do u gotta pay
its a little expensive but
i might work there
bruh š
they offer aid
yeah they have aid tho
full? or js half like a lot of others do
both
full i think
ooh ok
@past sable i think u qualify for full aid based off what uve said before
i was flying from seattle and it was like 9pm and i still hadnt gotten my decision
and i was pissed awf
so i would apply
yea hope so š¤
ima apply fs
then my flight got delayed and i was stuck in detriot of all places and they released decisions at 12:15am est
it was such a fever dream bro
also never heard of a program releasing decisions in the middle of the night š
is the yygs like ultra Competitive do yall know
yea def
and u have people in here that can help you with your essays
true
are u interested in stem
ehh well im open to everything rn but not rlly
if u have any program recs tho then ill look at all them
yeah yeah
wait u need an LOR for the yysg ?? š š
there are some more i applied to back in my day but i dont remember
dm me the links cause i saw it got insta deleted
$95 app fee š
it can be waived but it looks like u need a skl official and idt my school opens back up in time
rec form
it's aight tho im still looking into it rn
dyk if the activities section matter that much to which session u wanna go to (tech, or political, or global world issues)
i mean its probably the same as a college app
it should at least have some correlation
wait i think lowkey you have cracked the essays
yeah i think this mindset is very valuable to have
i find very few seniors who have it
and i donāt think mine was as developed but even having fragments of it helped a lot
there was one essay i wrote for mit that i ended up using for like almost all of my schools
and i remember strugggling so much to write it even though i knew exactly what i wanted to write about
yeah tbh as I am trying to reflect, I am being surprised continuously-like why have I done these stuff. all of it makes sense now
and once i finished it i found this sort of inner peace idk
very valuable essay to write
though it's hard reflecting on the past and find the connections to every prompt ever, but still the storytelling is an enjoyable process
mit ea?
yeah
probably my best essay
seeing as i used it for yale
and like
most schools lol
i will start my yale essays today, hope I have fun
my major is applied math
like you
lol
omg!!!
wait thatās so cool
what other academic areas of interest are you selecting
do you think it's okay to add some yale applied major specifics to the end?