I started learning Japanese in 2019 with Genki 1, and stuck with that for about a month before I found Matt's YouTube channel.
At the time, Refold was known as MIA (Mass Immersion Approach), and it was similar in a lot of respects, but also very different and not as fleshed out as Refold is today. My original goal for learning Japanese was to be able to read most novels fluently since I got tired of waiting for official translations to be done, but at the time, Matt was pushing a listening-heavy approach since (in theory) it would require much less work later on to correct any flaws in your accent. Additionally, RTK 1 + 3 was still being shilled (this was before people started realizing it was not necessary), so I spent the first 5 months doing that, too.
Anyway, my first year was spent doing RTK 1 + 3 and watching anime without subs at all for the sake of better listening ability. After about 14 or 15 months, I was at what would be called 2C today. At this point, I was satisfied with my listening abilities to where I allowed myself to start reading, and so I jumped straight into literature.
The first 3 months were pretty annoying since I had accumulated a ton of words through audio only and I had no idea what their kanji were. So I was essentially just learning the kanji for a lot of words I already knew, which made it pretty frustrating considering the text density that comes with novels. It was also around this time that I started moderating this server.
After about 1.5 years of reading novels (~3-5h a day on weekdays, 10+ on weekends), I reached a point where I could comfortably pick up most books and read without much of an issue. This was very satisfying, but I was also starting to get bored of just reading, and so I began to work on output.
Because I had spent so much time reading while doing about an hour of listening a day alongside it, despite my listening-only period in the first year, I would write/speak like an author. That is to say, I would often use expressions, connectors, and literary vocabulary in my writing and speech. This was cool at first, sure, but it became pretty annoying lol. I decided to just work on speaking only until it stopped, which took about 3 or 4 months.
I'm 5 years in now and moving to Japan next month (July 12th) to do software dev. I don't really have any aspirations to have amazing Japanese in terms of accent (nor have I really ever have), and I'm pretty content with my output abilities now. I do intend to take Russian to stage 3 (already stage 2C), and more than likely Korean. I'm sure I'll work on Japanese more when I'm living in Japan, but the days of me spending several hours a day intently improving it are behind me I think. I just immerse for enjoyment now.
As for advice - I don't really have any lol. Any advice I would give is just advice you'd see a lot of other people in this server give, anyway.
I welcome any questions, though!
