#general-help-chat

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young umbra
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Hii I need study tips I am in my final year on high school🎒📚

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Good grade can reduce my university fee

lost oriole
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you'll get through it with the power of friendship

dusky hearth
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I mean

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Tell me if it works then I'll try

young umbra
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Any science students out here? I posted a question in science help....class 12th standard...if anyone helps me I will be really grateful

charred coyote
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how to stop thinking about whats gonna happen in the future, i cant study rn, thinking about what the future holds for me, if i will get a good job, or wtv

hallow remnant
hoary aurora
livid citrus
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y'all have a good anti-dandruff shampoo recommendation that i can use?

river nova
agile garden
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hello 👋 im a commerce student, ive got free time for a month. I'm willing to learn a skill so I've decided to take "python pro bootcamp '' course from udemy. Need your opinion. Do u suggest me anything else ?

red charm
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when i study the first study session either goes well and then the second one is pain or the first one is. I feel really tired during my sessions and i tired out different times and i drink enough water and eat enough. Do you guys have any tips on what i could do to feel less tired and have more energy

round crow
young umbra
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@visual osprey hope this helps

visual osprey
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Ok

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Thnks

hoary aurora
azure rose
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hey, im a bit late to this, but never lose hope dude. some people including me find it hard to concentrate on things that seem to be the most important to them. thats okay. just never fall into the trap of desperation and giving up, theres no such thing as being cooked for life.

snow void
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I just failed the easiest class at my college for the second time 💔. My brains can't comprehend with the fact that am passing harder classes and falling easy ones. Some may think because I say is easy I put no effort in studying the materials but that's not true I work the hardest and smartest but then is another day with life showing me that my hard work isn't always gonna pay off. Am pretending not to be affected and not care about my GPA but I have already cried my eyes out. I have to say goodbye to a summer internship because I messed up a class and a min GPA is required for the job. Idk what to do in this particular class, everything was going well until I saw my final exam grade 💔.

crisp scaffold
young umbra
# snow void I just failed the easiest class at my college for the second time 💔. My brains ...

Yo

Sorry to hear that
Ik that Failing an easy class is frustrating af especially if u have already done ur best , and it didnt pay off as expected .

So Take some time for yourself , idk if u r free rn or not
But just forget about it rn , u can change what happened and u have already done ur best
So rest a lil bit , after a while try to ask someone who has passed the course of how did they pass it ( the materials they were studying from , the way they were studying ) just to be having another perspective , and if u could ask ur professor about the marking criteria to just know what answers does he want in the final exam .

And Remember, one class doesn’t define your abilities or your future , You’ve already proven you can handle challenging courses, so this is just a temporary obstacle and u r gonna pass it

Just dont keep overthinking about accept what happened , be focused on what u r gonna do

Keep your chin up. You've got this.

snow void
young umbra
rotund ore
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Hi, I have 2 exams this semester, math and a coding subject (python). I would like to know the best way to study for an exam in general, doesn’t have to be specifically for the subjects mentioned. I have around 9 days to study for my math exam and 20 days for my coding subject. Therefore, how do people usually study for an exam in uni? I feel like rewatching lectures is definitely huge waste of time. I also have not touched my coding subject since week 6 and now it’s week 13 of the semester.

rancid estuary
jaunty glen
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hey guys in a week i start some crucial exams that will hopefully get me into university , the thing is that because of their importance i cant calm down and i am scared of failure ,im losing my hope and i cant study ,does anybody got a tip for me?

desert pine
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there is a quote that goes "nothing changes if nothing changes"

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and
"one day, or day one"

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We spent wayyy to much time up in our heads thinkin' and contemplating which is so bad, and we all do it, of course, but what I am trying to say is that you should just get into action pal.
Pick up a notebook, jot down what you would like to do, like start with a fun task, and work towards the more demanding stuff.
For example, I always start with a fun course, shit course, fun course,...
Words are nothing without action, it's like eating a dry loaf of bread.
Head up, overthinking button turned off, pen in the hand and notebook in front of you, and I am sure you will achieve.
Good luck.

jaunty glen
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thank u very much man you really helped, i appreciate it.

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i will try my best

raw yacht
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Hello! I have a problem. It feels like every time I work on math problems, my brain doesn't process them, and after a few hours, I forget everything. Do you have any advice on how to improve this?

hallow remnant
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it solves all problems

raw yacht
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im pretty sure i sleep good

young umbra
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drop what u struggle at while u r studying here , and if anyone could help u , or even tells u ur mistake that u may not recongize it by ur self

young umbra
glossy yew
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does anyone know a good site to get online pdf books
I am looking for the book ' tribe of millioaires '

lament wagon
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hello. anyone well versed with the ansys software here? need some help doing a cfd problem.

desert pine
strong forge
scarlet fog
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Hi
is anyone in the music instrument industry, or can predict about the music instrument market in the upcoming 10 years
(For my personal research on music instrument company stocks)

river nova
young umbra
copper bramble
tender hearth
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does anyone geniuenly have tips for better focus? i barely studied for 1 hour just now and im so tired and irritated Lol

limber ibex
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hi can someone give me some advice:

im having my finals in 1 month. i have to test for 4 subjects in 6 weeks and am having difficulty in creating a plan for revising knowledge (normally my tests are scheduled separately so it has been quite manageable for me, but i haven't got any idea of revising multiple subjects in the long run).

anyone got recommendations on feasible study plans/how to spend time wisely so that i dont get burnt out over a long-term, intense revision period? thanks!

young umbra
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smoky canyon
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Good luck

normal epoch
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Im going to move into a new room, any suggestions on L-shaped desks? preferably desks that long and wide, and 29+ inches tall

young umbra
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I wrote this two days ago already a little freaked out and now this... if there is anyone religious or doesn't actually matter I just need different opinions and views about what happened now ( read the paragraph on the picture first ):

Update: I'm the person who deleted their Instagram and TikTok accounts. I had a very scary dream last night, and I have no idea if it is related to the whole devil thing, but I think I dreamed of the devil. In my dream, it was trying to convince me to follow its rules, which meant becoming free from God's "rules." I spat at the devil and said, "Never in a million years; I don't care what you say." The devil told me I didn't have a choice and that all it needed was a drop of my blood, and then started coming closer to me. My heart dropped, and I started reciting the Quran out loud in my dream. Eventually, when the devil was close enough, I closed my eyes and accepted what was happening, still reciting the Quran. As soon as I closed my eyes, I woke up in real life.

The thing is, I wasn't scared of the appearance of the devil, although it was literally the scariest thing I've ever seen. I was more scared about whether the devil would actually get to me and take my blood. Does anyone know the meaning of the dream, by any chance? Does it mean I don't have a lot of time left?

spice pine
# young umbra I wrote this two days ago already a little freaked out and now this... if there ...

Uh well I think you're just overthinking the situation. The dream was just a nightmare that you had because you were overly affected by the videos that you saw. Your dreams are mostly based in reality so if you dreamt of the devil, per say, its just that the concept got to you pretty strongly and transferred over to your dreams too. The algorithm works in strange ways especially at night so seeing these kind of videos is not that big of a deal.

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Not trying to undermine any of your experiences with spirituality. I'm sure that's very important to you but I'm sure you will be okay

night geyser
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You have an indomitable human spirit and faith towards God

young umbra
# spice pine Not trying to undermine any of your experiences with spirituality. I'm sure that...

i agree with everything you say and usually i dont mind nightmares since i have them pretty often. after some traumatic events at the age of 13 i started getting nightmares and im 19 now and it still isnt stopping. im used to it. the thing is that i believe every dream has a meaning and so far when ive dreamed about smthn later i always so ohhhh that makes sense why i dreamed that way kind of like telling me about the future in a more dramatic way. it jst makes me wonder what the meaning behind this dream is... does it mean my time is coming? im aware im overthinking but maybe im being tested aswell? why be tested now? why not sooner? ive never dreamed about the devil butmy friend things its sleep paralysis..

young umbra
# night geyser You have an indomitable human spirit and faith towards God

thank you it seriously means a lot hearing that ❤️ maybe this is a sign to come closer to god. i wouldnt consdier myself religious. i do pray 5 times a day and fast on ramadan as expected on fellow muslims but im not covering my hair and i sometimes on special occasions dont dress modestly as expected on muslims so maybe this is a sign...

tight garnet
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Maybe because the devil came in ur dreams it cud also mean that there are wrong choices that uve been making which might be helping him, id say be careful with the decisions u make and the frnds too. And usually this means that he recognises ur presence. Just keep praying to ur god

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Just be alert rn

young umbra
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even if i dont come to a conclusion just talking about it makes me feel better like i am doing so much better now... thank you everyone for listening ❤️

desert pine
young umbra
# desert pine Ironic that you need to experience "awful" things to finally realise how bad soc...

i already know it was really bad but im not really one to keep up with social media. usually i dont even sit down for two hours on instagram i was just having a bad day and some other issues that wasnt related to this and needed some type of distraction. i knew it was bad but not to that point i never knew all those things. i think the reason it made me delete it was so i dont get sucked into all that stuff... like i dont wanna support stuff like that on accident and since i didnt use insta that often it was usually just for posting pictures, i was like yeah lets just delete it...

split scarab
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the algorythm saw that you kept watching related videos so it proposed more

split scarab
analog badger
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hi

young umbra
crisp scaffold
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hi

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i lowkey be writing here like daily but i keep like falling back into bad habits and idk why. Like one day i'll finish all my hw and not procrasitinate the whole day but then the next i'll barely be able to do any work, while deleting social media cuts down the procrastination a bit i keep finding other stuff to keep me occupied. I'm not really sure how to deal with this.

young umbra
# crisp scaffold i lowkey be writing here like daily but i keep like falling back into bad habits...

yo
deleting the social media is a great step tho , and you cant stop falling back to bad habits
u will just keep falling and knowing ur mistakes and u will keep trying ur best to be on the right path by trying to stop every bad habit and u will indeed stop em at one time but by knowing how u get to them and what leads u to them and why would u do that habits

and dont be harash on ur self tho , one day without work isnt end of the world , take it as a free day , sometimes our brains just goes off and needs resst as body does

crisp scaffold
young umbra
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naive void
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I made a tool that returns detailed immediate prerequisite lists for any concept you're trying to learn. You can explore them recursively and browse aggregated online resources. It's manifested as a chrome extension. It works quite well for STEM subjects.

Feel free to ping me if that sounds useful.

rotund ore
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how do you guys study for a math exam in uni? I have like 13 weeks of contents to cover but only managed to do like 5/13 contents in 5 days and I got 4 days left until my exam. I have been doing the problems in my exercise booklet but it's been slow since I have to rewatch my lecture and check the slides again.

heavy island
# rotund ore how do you guys study for a math exam in uni? I have like 13 weeks of contents t...

well im not really pretty good at math, but i have an A so hope it could help you. English is not my mother language so im very sorry if there are any mistakes.

for each chapter, instead of doing the exercise, I review the lecture and the slides for each topic at first, then summarize all the important knowledge that i should know. While doing this, I also note every point that I dont understand, and check it again in notebook or gg, asks my friends... any way that you can answer for the questions you have. By that way, I can systematize all the things that i need to remember and review it easily when i forget or need to check again. Then I will do exercise for each kind of chapter, and note carefully about what formulas could be used in it.

The key of having the good results is doing as many exercises as you can. Of course, you have to assure that you really understand why that formula is used in the exercise, then you will not confused when met strange exercises but use the same knowledge.

hope you have good results for the upcoming exam, fighting 🤛

desert pine
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and just know what he/she covers lol

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in my case its 50% theory, so proofs etc, and 50% p sets

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so cant focus on one thing

young umbra
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Hey everyone, I wanted to know if you had any tips on improving focus and actually getting work done. Even without distractions I can't seem to put my mind truly into the work I do unless it's math and it's not what I need to work right now. Do you guys have any advice that could help ?

rancid estuary
# young umbra Hey everyone, I wanted to know if you had any tips on improving focus and actual...

lets refer this quote which we use while coding
"Thinking about and designing code is a separate task from writing the code itself"

it basically means whatever work you get, first plan on how you are going to do it, then break it into small tasks and slay all those tasks one by one.

this way you will be clear with what you are doing,

-> then even if u lose focus you will still be able to do the task

tip: watch a study stream while studying, it helps a lot

young umbra
# young umbra Hey everyone, I wanted to know if you had any tips on improving focus and actual...

it happens to me usually when it comes to a class that i hate to study , or when its a thing i cant understand so i keep avoiding it and procrastinating till i got no time for it
but when usually this happens to me i just grab a paper and try to write what i got to do and why i got to do it (and probably it wont be one thing to study it will be alot but i didnt figure it until i wrote it )
and whats preventing me from doing it and what do i do to avoid everytime ; either it was lack of sleep , lack of focus or procrastinating , i just know what i did i do when i was supposed to study it last time to know what is my mistake
usually when after that i just start with a small thing to start with , just as a beginning for me bec i didnt use to study it alot so i need a lil start and then i could more time for it

young umbra
young umbra
rancid estuary
young umbra
velvet merlin
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hello guys it might be a strange question but i feel like i have to find some answers - when u study/train/exercise/.../... you do it towards a goal (to be a programmer/doctor/...) or do you do it just to develop? my last three maybe four months were hard - procrastinating as hell, doing nothing. a year ago i had a 'goal' to become a programmer but i feel like i burnt out. now i don't have a 'goal' (i have no clue who i want to become profesionally) and I can't do nothing because in my mind everything is waste of time (i know it's not). i tried many things like ikigai bla bla bla and still my head is empty. maybe somebody experienced the same?

river nova
spare temple
# velvet merlin hello guys it might be a strange question but i feel like i have to find some an...

Yeah, I know how you feel, bro. When I was trying to pass my certification, I failed three times while my friend passed it easily on the first try. Sometimes I wondered if I was dumb or if my friend was just too smart. So, I went back to basics and focused on the process and my short-term goals just to pass the fucking exam. Haha.

My advice is to determine what kind of programmer you want to become whether it's web, mobile, game development, or some other specialty. For me, I focused on network and cybersecurity.

normal epoch
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is it possible to take a Chemistry prep class, Biology (zoology) class, and college algebra (with support) courses on the same semester and pass with all As? (at the very least a couple As)

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I'm looking for an honest response

desert pine
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getting A's though?

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im not familiar with it, because getting an A here is pretty damn hard. Like 1-3 people in a class of 100 get it

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so maybe a B in a few and an A, sure

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where there is a will, there is a way

normal epoch
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i'll need my blessings

desert pine
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only thing youll need is a brain, persistance and willpower

fleet storm
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Hi! does someone here study law in the USA?

distant raptor
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Hey, anyone know if James continues streaming?

opaque nacelle
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Hello

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Can someone give me some advice

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I am applying for University

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and I have the choice between Computer Science and Computer Engineering

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Computer Engineering is more Hardware stuff than Softwar

rancid estuary
opaque nacelle
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And did someone studied Computer Engineering?

peak plaza
swift cape
warm shard
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anyone here doing IB?

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I've made a website filled with resources, might be interesting.

sullen flame
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HEY guys does anybody know how to analysis a story ?

young umbra
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I lose my concentration by thinking about future what can I do

spare temple
desert pine
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or put a podcast on

young umbra
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When I have a lot of learning to do in a short amount of time, I feel like I'm all over the place. I set a goal of finishing two grammar books last week but ended up finishing only half of one. The thing is, the other students, who are a bit more relaxed, probably because they will write the exam later than I will, accomplished way more than I did.
Could somebody gimme an advice (my test is in 19 days so I can't waste more time)

swift cape
young umbra
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Hi

young umbra
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How are you mate?

young umbra
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Just burning in this heat wave

young umbra
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Yeah bud Emotionalshrek

plain meadow
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@young umbra lol nice username

young umbra
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thanksss

mellow edge
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Sorry, I've just seen the tech channel

young umbra
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Hi

young umbra
merry birch
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depends on what u like

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i'm listening to distractible

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more of a goofy one

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slept to it many times

young umbra
strong saddle
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more specifically, conceptualize a goal and explore what your life will be like: 1) if you do gratify it/them 2) if you don’t

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your rumination is simply caused by unresolved thoughts, a Freudian idea!

lyric glen
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need some web3 help

spiral fractal
wraith hare
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Can anyone tell me a great revision strategy?
To be specific a type of system or a software that can remind me to revise a particular topic or chapter in every few days.

nocturne sapphire
light fern
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what should i do when i lost my life motivation?

lyric sedge
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hello guys. I've been trying to become more productive for about 1-2 years now. I was kind of a social media addict (yt) and a gamer at the time and now (elhamdulillah) I avoid youtube, (haven't used such apps like tiktok and instagram) and quited games for 1-2 years. But I have some issues with my schedule. First of all, being productive and disciplined is hard especially for someone who doesn't live alone (I live with my family) and also I'm a programmer so I need to do work on my computer sometime. (I'm actually a highschool dude but have been into programming for some time and I don't want to lose the "knowladge" that I gained from there). (NOTE: I'm the only one who's responsible with all your advices. So please say the truth straight to my face). As I'm becoming senior this year I'll need to study for a hard centrical university exam (called YKS in turkish education system) I have a lot going on my mind. First of all I'm prone to look up things that are attracting me (e.g a topic about programming, psychology etc.) and I find myself surfing the internet for things like that. I block some mainstream media devices (which generally has a plus) but I also think that I'm blocking the useful information from there that should get filtered by some iron willpower.

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So quick list of my problems:

- I have hard time studying school while I read books, study different topics etc.
- I will be attending to YKS (uni exam) this year
- I'm getting attracted to some distractions on internet while I'm surfing the topics I'm curious about.

What I'd like to hear about you:

- Some internet tricks (e.g if there are a productive internet layer that blocks manipulating content and pure productivity focused)
- Some techniques that may help me integrating both computer, books and studying into my schedule (I'm a computer programmer also a computer abuser looking to every interesting topic I want)
- Is quitting computers worth it? (I have done that for about 4-5 months and I kinda feel like a caveman)
- Does quitting internet make sense?

Possible solutions that may include your responses come to my mind:

- Write down topics that comes to your mind and then look up for them in a planned duration of your schedule (problem: I'll need to use my computer but will write down the topics I want? It's really hard for me to us that willpower that way. I need to study on my computer sometimes but not always)
- Use another person's device (I live with my family so that seems to be the option that makes the most sense)
onyx gorge
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hello everyone

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i have an MUN coming soon and i have got the portfolio of brazil

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if there is anyone who is brazillian and willing to help, please add me

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thank you

crisp scaffold
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i finally used up all the pages to my pocket notebook. Does anyone have any recomendations for a new one which doesn't leak ink, I use a fountain pen so that was a large issue with my old pocket notebook'

crisp scaffold
# onyx gorge i have an MUN coming soon and i have got the portfolio of brazil

Just a tip about MUN is try and keep your solutions and what you talk about general. No one else in the debate is really gonna know much about your country so you're better off dedicating more time to solving the issue. I made the mistake of learning too much about my country much and ended up not being able to use any of the detailed info.

lyric sedge
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yeah but anything that depends on someone else is hard to plan. And harder to plan your schedule, less disciplined you are

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thank you so much btw

verbal parcel
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hey im tired i feel tired and its a different kind of tired how do i explain it you get this feeling? where no matter what you try to do it feels like its all for nothing. Recently, I entered this music competiton with an original work but i wouldnt even call it original since i didnt compose shit init besides coming up with its arrangement and some creative ways of twisting sounds. I shared it in da music club becuz hey i made something but nobody bothered to acknowledge it which is fine but when others stuff gets acknowlegded im like okay how does this work but then i dmed literally every person on discord or insta thhat i know or have talked b4 and they were quite open to listening to it and some said it feels too overwhelming like its noise and some said it was nice hoping that i would win or can win with this one. Tbh in terms of da music i put alot of effort innit when it comes to details and whatnot only to get like 100 views which is fine i dont deserve it. Classes in college are also boring not very eventful everyone's just killing time and i feel this strong sense of everyone has stopped trying to find meaning or purpose and just give in to this idea of being ordinary which is fine some people choose comfort in their lives. For me, in that environment i never really connected with the people around me apart from few and when everyone's around you just killing time not paying attention in class jsut attending it for the sake of attendance whats the point of it all? i meaan some do study but i feel i havent seeen anyone ambituous the ones who is about cybersec doesnt even bother attending classes and when he does he's not even paying attention and the point im trying to make is wheree are we heading? where am i heading with this environment and the whole idea of opportunites lie around every corner for the youth is like a huge lie and people view relationships through this transactional lens so what happened exactly and how did it go so wrong?

safe lintel
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There are a lot of reasons why your feeling this way.
You feel yourself sliping into mediocrity. takeing away your drive 1 teaspoon at a time.

Your not competent because when someone gives you one you don't accept it and down play your efforts most likely.

Make music that resonates with you.
Don't try making your music for everyone because you will please no one.
Make it for yourself and express what you want to.

safe lintel
verbal parcel
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i can only make music when i experience something special

safe lintel
# verbal parcel i can only make music when i experience something special

Yeah I used to be like that with art it what put me in a slump back then and held me back from constant practice and study.
My suggestion on your problem with you last song was the music was in a conflict with it's self.
Beats that were good were overlapping each other fighting for control of the direction of the song.
Your problem with Sweet Revenge was the rain lasted too long.

See with most song you need a hook and to think about people that would like to listen to that song on loop too.
Seems like you were just missing some pieces of puzzle.

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Your flow is nice but can be refined and polished.
As well as working on the hook for the song within the first 10 seconds.
There are 1 minute song I will put on loop again and again if it's got a good flow to it.

slate oxide
unreal summit
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hey, I would like to have a some feedback and ask you, how do you take notes? I am trying to improve my productivity, but so far I have only taken my notes with paper and pen, I would like to experiment using markdown and my iPad, any advice?

crisp scaffold
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idk

dim valve
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مرحبًا ، ابحث عن رفقاء للدراسة عرب اونلاين ..
سأستمر الى قرابة الشهر في الاجازة ادرس واريد بيئة تحفيزية يدرسوا معي حتى لا اشعر بالوحدة ، هل يوجد احد ؟

swift cape
# lyric sedge So quick list of my problems: ```md - I have hard time studying school while I ...

Some of the things I learned from jvscholz videos actually helped me be a little more productive, and some things I was already doing. I bought a crappy ThinkPad back in the day
From ebay, it was $250 and just good enough to run stuff for my classes, except android studio. In my last 2 years, I was doing my classes online so I switched to my desktop. It was too awful to run games, even though I caved and played oblivion on it just fine. I have an app called digital detox. It locks me out of my phone during the set hours but it's finicky and sometimes locks me out of the whitelisted apps.

I need to find something good for laptops cause that one gets distracting too.

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I've been doing the project 50 by som studios it mainly consists of wake up before 8, no phone for 1h after wake, exercise 1h, read 10 pages, eat healthy, dedicate 1h to learning a new skill and track daily progress or why you failed to do your tasks. There's a notion template but it's behind some crazy sign up email thing.

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The only thing that stuck so far was the eat healthy and read. I've been 1000% neglecting exercise and 1h learning.

verbal parcel
jovial cradle
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Guys, give me tips. I'm tired, demotivated and have ‘’brain fogg‘’ (simply burnout). I don't really have time for breaks, anyone any ideas or advise?

river nova
jovial cradle
river nova
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You are right but that will be a

polar pewter
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is there anything specific things that i need to have to get a higher change to get into the oxford or MIT

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?

desert pine
# polar pewter is there anything specific things that i need to have to get a higher change to ...

For oxford you'll have to do sit an entrance exam to be able to have a slight change of getting in. If you study mathematics, its called the MAT, in case of physics its called the PAT
Whom stand for "subject" Aptitude Test. You can type in "MAT/PAT past papers and you will find a bunch of past papers.
The tests are made to check your problem solving skills and your knowledge in the field you want to study in.
Before you start, make sure you check out the university requirements to even start the entrance exam. I think you need an AAA* in maths, further maths and physics, check it out, i don't know it 100%.

MIT: is for people who are really good at one thing, think about exact science, engineering, applied sciences,...what you can do is just do your best and make sure you get to the top of your class, get a few medals in national competition or just stand out on your essay, i know someone who wasn't the best student, but wrote an incredible essay and got in.

You should keep in mind that, although these universities are the best of the best, they might not fit for you. Its not because people fit that you will do so. I see you are only in middle school, meaning you still have things to figure out, and if you already did, congrats to you!

Try to find what you like, what you don't like, experience yourself, your pierce and the world around you, make sure you are a well build person, with norms and values, and strong believes, and the most important thing. Believe in yourself, where there is a will, there is a way.

Best of luck!!

tame seal
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Anybody got some good programming methods to help keep myself motivated and to study for my computer science exams or any other exam in generall but mostly focused on computer science. Also does anyone have good tips to start learning assembly and coding a compiler?

swift cape
#

I print it out and put it on the wall right in front of my face

stable sleet
#

has anyone tried online IELTS test? i’m confused whether it is better to take the test at the test center but computer-based or just online.

my friend said that online test has a higher risk of you failing cus poor connection, technical issues, etc. but all this time there has no internet issues for me.

any suggestions?

hard ingot
#

How Does James Take Notes From Lectures?
does anyone know his process of taking notes, and then studying them? I know he downloads the lecture slides and adds a few notes on the slides but i dont know how this is productive, does anyone know how this works?

blissful kelp
dark moss
polar pewter
#

let me read it now

#

omg

#

thank you bro

#

really apperciate that advice

#

i will try my best to get in

stable sleet
desert pine
untold apex
#

hi does anyone know asian parlimentary debate style

left dome
stable sleet
#

i see, thank you for the info

torn leaf
#

"jo listen to my rap
"let me rap
"hey
yeh
hey
i want to say
yes
um
girl
i just wanna rap
for this
to you
and your body
on the cluth on snow
body on the temperature
on your fresh level
i cant think but think
love is different way
but i just wanna be your babie
wanna be 1 2 3
wanna be my prohercy
or you just need the way you end
cause i found you
the level of concern
you can find but you never heard
you bring my heart
the level of concern
i teach you tell me what alright
tell me that you okay"

#

let me rap

#

rate my rapcheck

winged topaz
#

Is there anyone here studying sociology/anthropology/culture-related studies? I wonder what your plan is for career after graduation? I just finished my bachelor's degree and I think I've got post-grad crisis. I'm starting to reconsider my life choices because it turns out that job market sucks unless you work in IT or got at least 10 years of experience

#

I think about choosing more practical master degree but I'm not sure what I should take and where I can apply with my undergraduate

stray yarrow
#

How do I live without being offensive to others

desert pine
#

you just live

#

people be to sensitive these days

#

just say what you meant to say

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if they f with you, you keep em, if they dont, they dont

#

life is full of people whom come and go

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and youll find people who respect you the way you are

#

it kinda tells me that you can be to honest in some kind of situations

#

keep that trait

#

youll see people come to you

#

truth >>>>> lies

#

keep that in mind

lilac shoal
#

u feel me

#

the guy above is right asf too

#

you just gotta change a bit about your perception of other people

desert pine
#

Now

#

there is a thing called perception

stray yarrow
#

Both of y'all chill asf

#

Aight aight I'm just messing around

#

God level advice tho

desert pine
#

and if youv read the rules you know this kinda conversation is not to be helt in this IV, because of the age etc

#

but i am the same kind of person as you to ask those question

stray yarrow
#

Idk I just like to say offensive things to others

desert pine
#

because we are are filled with information everyday without thinking rationally

stray yarrow
desert pine
#

and those questions are meant to let people think

desert pine
#

and dont want to get banned yk

#

but all in all

#

ill say something

lilac shoal
stray yarrow
lilac shoal
#

it messes up your mental

#

bit by bit

stray yarrow
#

Sorry to you both
But I have a real issue in life
I have corn addiction
I don't know how to deal with it ..it's messing my life lately

#

Any real advice please

desert pine
#

Hitler his actions were one of the most, if not, the most brutal thing that happend in the history of humans. I am not ignoring other genocides and mass murders like 9/11 or other terrorist attacks, what made Hitler so damn different was his motives, he came almost out of nowhere and he did so much in a small amount of time.
This combined with his ideology made him a "bad" man
Why do i use ".." because people tend to forget what Hitler did RIGHT.

RIGHT?! he did somethign right? Of course, the pizza out of the freezer you eat, the car you drive, the german technology, im talking about BMW, volkswagen, dokter oekter etc, were all funded by nazi leaders who were under charge of hitler, and because he was so wealthy, the people whom had to work for him got funded by him and they carried out the wealth, resulting in the german families whom belong to the richest in the world. (take in account that the richest families in germany are all ancestors of nazi leaders) And YES, its "nazi" money, but the world needs a war sometimes, and it might be very wrong to say it, but its reality, wars are needed to progress faster then ever:
Space, technology, medicine,....
So yes, Hitler did bad, very bad, but he did also good

lilac shoal
#

You know like you go to gym and do progressive overload, right

stray yarrow
lilac shoal
#

You do progressive overload

stray yarrow
# lilac shoal Slowly detach yourself from it

I tried multiple times...but I use YouTube...and uk baddies sometimes pop up in shorts...and reddit too...I use reddit to get books and stuff...everywhere it's present
It has become like whereever I see..all i see is that

lilac shoal
#

so it you wanna quit, just do progressive overload, but backwards

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Do it less and less but dont really try to do a quantum leap

lilac shoal
#

and you'll overcome temptations

stray yarrow
#

I did that too

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I've completed it

#

3times

desert pine
#

buy a dumbphone

stray yarrow
#

The old and the new testament both

desert pine
#

best 100 bucks i spent

stray yarrow
desert pine
lilac shoal
desert pine
#

a phone that has minimal functions

#

music and sms

lilac shoal
desert pine
stray yarrow
#

😭

lilac shoal
#

I can't focus at all lately

#

Ive been getting no sleep

#

5-6 hours

#

this sucks

desert pine
#

is there something on your mind?

stray yarrow
lilac shoal
stray yarrow
#

Since a week

desert pine
#

whats up with yall

#

spill the tea

stray yarrow
#

Don't give suspense

#

Brotha

desert pine
#

school? friends? family?

lilac shoal
#

I was just talking to this girl whos like 10/10 my type in looks 10/10 in personality, quiet and doesnt really get on socials

#

but it prob wont work out

stray yarrow
lilac shoal
#

cant do nun

stray yarrow
#

Trust me

lilac shoal
#

yea ik

#

that's what I like about her

stray yarrow
#

Go n meet her then

lilac shoal
#

but she busy, I be feeling like she don't wanna meet fr

stray yarrow
#

Get her some flowers

stray yarrow
#

Just ask her

#

If she wanna hang out

stray yarrow
lilac shoal
#

She used excuses 2 times (actually beliveable ones) and when I asked her if she wanna hang out someday she said she busy all week

lilac shoal
#

Everything else goes perfect

stray yarrow
#

Nah my girlfriend fought me last week

#

But it was her fault

#

So she just got me chocolates and shi8

desert pine
stray yarrow
#

And apologized whole heartedly

desert pine
#

ask once, ask twice, but not 3 times

lilac shoal
#

yh

stray yarrow
desert pine
#

dont let people play with your heart man

#

your a human

lilac shoal
#

I wont ask for the 4th time

stray yarrow
desert pine
lilac shoal
#

I aint texting no more, if she wants to meet then she better ask it herself

lilac shoal
stray yarrow
#

Psalm ig

lilac shoal
#

Yea I know

stray yarrow
#

I'll give you right things at the right time

desert pine
#

what do yall believe in?

#

christianity?

stray yarrow
#

I'm not even a Christian but I've read every book

stray yarrow
#

But hol up

#

I've read bible

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Quran

#

And gita

#

All 3

lilac shoal
desert pine
#

respectfully

desert pine
lilac shoal
stray yarrow
#

See I've got sh8 like
I know things
But I can't implement it

stray yarrow
desert pine
lilac shoal
desert pine
#

but cant type it xp

lilac shoal
#

gtg, good luck y'all

#

have a good one

cedar stag
#

How should I study for a final on an entire novel

polar pewter
#

hitler was really hard-working ngl

humble turret
#

any recommendatons on "Introduction to Quantum Mechanics by Davif Griffith"?

desert pine
#

but is a more advanced version

#

you are still in high school though?

humble turret
humble turret
desert pine
#

the griffiths gets used in last year undergraduate, more graduate studies

#

so depends on your level of uni

humble turret
#

like as i said, i did two courses in quantum physics, and yah then gave some national exams (the result was quite good, like a gold medal), so yah i wanna continue discovering the subject

desert pine
#

then you should

long verge
#

Can someone help me with the holocaust homework

stray yarrow
#

Yes

#

As a German too 😭

#

@long verge

elder dove
#

Hi anyone has a good note taking app rec for Samsung i tried good notes but its meh

stray yarrow
#

Try Samsung notes maybe

surreal spade
#

I have a question related to religion, I don't consider myself religious, I was raised as a Christian but after I became a teenager I just forgot about religions altogether since I don't find them important in my life, but recently I have gotten into mindfulness and I have read about the story of Buddha and I want to start practicing routines and advice from Buddhist monks, so does that make me a Buddhist then? Or just someone that doesn't care about religion but has Buddhist behaviours and habits? Can you only consider someone religious when they believe in the "unreal" or "magical" part of a religion? (Like something that definitely is impossible to archieve irl) Idk I'm curious to hear your answers Happyjoms

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What are the traits of someone that make you categorise that person as religious?

#

And it's believing that no religion is real (atheism) a religion itself?

stray yarrow
#

Well It completely depends on the way you think man!
If you're following their ideologies that makes you one of them according to abhidharma or the sastras
But if u think you are not one...then you are not!!
It's completely upto you
There is no such thing like being converted into buddhist
Same goes with Hinduism...you can't convert into one...you just follow their ideologies
If u really believe in him and follow him whole heartedly and accept urself as a buddhist...then you are one!

And the 2nd question..atheism isn't a relegion...there are 2things
One is a relegion and one is just the way of living known as Dharma
Atheism might be considered as a Dharma
Relegion requires having faith in one being...but Dharma doesn't
In Christianity..you need to have faith in Jesus
In islam you need Allah
In Hinduism...it doesn't really matter...in it the karma matters
And in atheism too...u don't need faith right!

Lastly
If u really believe that Buddha was right his englightment was true...and only if you're truly interested..then consider yourself a buddhist

Otherwise..you are an atheist
Simple

surreal spade
desert pine
#

and remember

#

"god" is the same for everyone

#

he does things differently according to the believe

polar pewter
#

i hate my country

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can't even make paypal account T-T

#

and no electricity all day

#

but now i have to use generator

#

T-T

young umbra
#

Guys

#

Does anyone know

#

What monitor this is

surreal spade
young umbra
#

Tis an old video

#

Productivity setup tour

quaint spire
#

Hi. Just wanted to ask what happened to james. I am quite new to his stuff and just use his streams to track and motivate my studying but it seems like he just dissapeared without sayin anything about 2 years ago

past violet
#

he’s graduated so i think he’s just been doing his own thing but he still uploads on his other channels, jay skullz and jvscholz

stable spire
#

Hello everyone, hope yall are? Sorry for the bother, but any christian person here?

quiet lantern
#

hey guys, i'm a bit new to discord and confused with the streaming schedule - are there study live streams on here at the times scheduled in the google docs or is it "only" the studies rooms & everything else that is here right now?

past violet
#

people just join or leave study rooms here at any time

quiet lantern
#

Aaah I understand, thank you so much for the infos! 🙂

past violet
#

no worries!

polar pewter
#

btw how do i shorten my link for my youtube channel

polar pewter
spring lotus
#

hi for anyone that like

#

has been involved in or experienced greek life in college what were your thoughts on it

#

just if u liked it or not and a little bit why

halcyon bronze
#

How do you all get yourselves to stay focused on a task / studying?

desert pine
#

in short terms:
stress = fuel

vale compass
tidal sonnet
#

guys do you know any place i means whether website or app where I can get counselling session , I felt very anexious all about my situation and feel depressed for so long. During these day, I've worried about health of the people I care so much and felt very worried.

spare temple
tidal sonnet
#

Thanks

young umbra
#

Sorry for being rude but this question is bullshit bro. Simple thing to do is to ask yourself questions like: Why I wanna get serious about my studies? Is that important to me to study? What I wanna achieve?

Wanna get serious? It's only your thing

desert pine
#

Your biggest enemy is yourself cuh

neat ivy
#

no answer we give you is going to help. its gotta come from you brother

stray yarrow
#

It's gotta come from u but

I just think about what my dad n mom had to go through to get my education done
What all they sacrificed for me...and a simple thing they want is
My studies
Thinking that...I study in sadness

#

But they...I still study tho

desert pine
#

somebody who studies physics in uni?

#

if so

#

when do you start revising your material?

#

lets say you have 5 days for a final, do you revise everything (theory) the last day? i notice i lack so hard

young pier
#

of

#

I mean I do xD

young pier
#

I try to learn the formulas when I know I’ll have practical work

#

So I know when to use my formulas

young pier
#

always rewriting on a paper the formulas I learned yesterday and the day before etc…

desert pine
#

same

#

but my brain cant get around the fact i dont revise everything the day before

#

while i know the material yk

young pier
#

That’s stress

#

tell yourself you know

#

trust yourself

#

I know it’s harder done than said

#

but you’ll be fine !

#

you’ll do it 🙂

tender surge
#

are panasonic lets notes good to run linux on

#

thinking of importing a cf sv1

sullen flame
#

Guys is it ok let your friend borrow your book as a birthday gift?

#

I need help (my friend's birthday is tomorrow)

stray yarrow
stray yarrow
rapid mantle
#

How would you feel if I gave you a birthday present and I asked you to bring it back in a week ?

stray yarrow
sullen flame
tight garnet
#

If thers any btech students studying in blr pls pls dm me!!!!!

sullen flame
#

Instead I can make paper flowers.

#

🤡

#

Yes I'll make that Instead.

rapid mantle
sullen flame
#

Ok thanks

stray yarrow
#

Make her something memorable

sullen flame
#

Change the plans I'll just make a card with some chocolates

stray yarrow
#

And give it to hrr

frail scaffold
tight garnet
#

I need helpppp TT

#

Can i dm u

frail scaffold
#

sure

tender hearth
#

Whaddup everybody

quaint mica
#

yo anyone good with spss?

primal crater
#

I need any help I can get to study anatomy and physiology better. Please anything, this is like my third time taking this stupid fucking class

rare spade
#

and something handmade is rlly rlly cuye

#

cuz it mean u put effort

young umbra
#

Every time I wanna study

#

All I do

#

Is just

#

Procrastinate and procrastinate

#

Idk how to stop

#

Please help

green oar
midnight oasis
young umbra
#

Can sum pls help me

#

😭

amber sandal
#

looks pretty straight forward. just take it a step at a time. find a mucician that you seems interesting

#

then do the research that you need. just take some notes of what you can write in each paragraph

#

after you have an outline/some research, start writing. shouldn't be too hard to write because it's pretty much just your research but in a sentences/paragraphs that flow better

amber sandal
# young umbra

but the biggest thing is to just take it a step at a time. pick your mucian, research/take notes to form an outline, then write. it's not too bad i think

young umbra
#

I’m done with it

#

Thanks for the help tho

muted swan
#

first time taking a coding class and im already stuck Roar I tried several manners but at this point im slowly giving up, not sure where im making the mistakes :[ (java)

young umbra
young umbra
stray yarrow
fierce hare
#

hi i want to learn coding but i don't know where to start can somebody tell me where to start and where i can learn that language (i saw some languages best to learn from yt some from websites but i don't remember)

river nova
fierce hare
stray yarrow
#

@river nova I always had a doubt...is coding on mobile possible..like web building

river nova
#

i want to make a game in the future (

stray yarrow
#

I have a pretty good phone

river nova
#

i don't know u can try but u will be straining ur eyes for sure

stray yarrow
#

Okii

#

Thanks

sullen flame
stray yarrow
#

😭

stray yarrow
sullen flame
#

What?

#

What????

stray yarrow
#

The star@_.tangerine.#0000

#

@sullen flame

#

😢 well tried tho

deft elbow
#

does anyone know any way to find JSTOR articles online on other websites or for cheaper, not sure if I want to pay 200 a year for something that should be free

young pier
young umbra
#

I need help
Give me a link for the best book holder? My books are heavy

desert pine
# young umbra I need help Give me a link for the best book holder? My books are heavy
young umbra
#

I hope my 2.5 inch thick book sits properly on it

nova sapphire
#

Guys, what will you do if you stuck with a question? It already has final answer, but your answer just doesn't match with that final answer
Idk what to do
Its freaking thermodynamics 😭

desert pine
#

Using given constants and a situation?

#

or what are you implying?

nova sapphire
sullen flame
slate coral
sullen flame
young pier
#

hehe nice !

sullen flame
#

Guys I have question I get paranoid alot after I Watch horror games or movies but I'm also interested in watching those things. Why does it happen.

stray yarrow
#

Mind

#

Brain

#

CNS

young umbra
#

where can I find cocaine?

stray yarrow
sullen flame
stray yarrow
#

Is that atlas?

young umbra
#

why you ping random dudes

#

or he is selling it

sullen flame
#

Has anyone ever played the game 'hotel 626'?

stray yarrow
stray yarrow
sullen flame
sullen flame
young umbra
#

bro stop ping random folks

stray yarrow
#

Ask both of them@mahin_._#0000

#

@young umbra *

sullen flame
#

😭😭💀💀💀

sullen flame
stray yarrow
#

Best ones out here...with good rates
Don't try bargaining though
Or you'll hands and legs end up in diff countries

young umbra
#

no seriously you guys run drug business on the server 💀

sullen flame
#

💀💀💀💀💀

young umbra
#

I got to call the polici now

stray yarrow
# sullen flame Explain?

Adrenaline runs
It gives u excitement to watch them but ig a part called cerebrum is associated with feelings which makes u scared

#

And dopamine of course wants u to see new things

sullen flame
#

Damn.

stray yarrow
#

U want to do it but also scared

stray yarrow
#

U don't wanna do it...but eventually u will

#

Coz ur brain is rotten

stray yarrow
sullen flame
sullen flame
stray yarrow
#

Omce

#

Once*

#

Great one....and great memories too

stray yarrow
sullen flame
#

Wait how you do know I can speak Hindi.

stray yarrow
#

@upbeat charm would you mind doing the honours??

stray yarrow
upbeat charm
#

banned thanks

stray yarrow
#

Thanks

stray yarrow
#

Yes sir

#

I'm fine how are you??

#

And did u have ur food??

steel raptor
#

poop

stray yarrow
sullen flame
#

Does anyone here read the story 'the midnight visitor' by Robert Arthur???

narrow basin
stray yarrow
stray yarrow
cunning swift
#

where'd the music channel goEmotionalshrek

#

anyway

#

consistent 12 ~hours this week

tender hearth
safe lintel
normal condor
polar ridge
#

Hey

sullen flame
rare spade
# sullen flame So like what should I write in the analysis of it?

okay so basically you can start with how fowler thought that being w a secret agent was not as adventurous as it is shown in books etc, (it's kinda a useless point but u can write it ig) and then iy shows the significance of how having a lot of weapons doesn't matter if you're a secret spy all you need is to be witty. u should try to handle tough situations calmly like that guy did

#

what was his name idk

#

fat guy

#

😭

#

yeah so thats kinda the maine theme of not panicking

sullen crag
#

hello

sullen flame
left dome
sullen flame
dry gale
#

does anyone knows whether mechanical engineering needs circuit analysis class?

rare spade
#

u mean summary right?

sullen flame
#

I did wrote the summary

#

But I am about to write what I understood from the story

rare spade
#

ahhhhhh

#

isee

polar pewter
#

how in the world is so hard to get into MIT

#

like i see some like youtube portfotlio for MIT addmission i think

#

i mean they are like so like genius

#

like

#

how am i going to do this

#

can anyone help?

#

like what should i do start from now

#

btw i am IG level now

#

and i going to be answering in the 25 Oct Somewhat like that

#

but i only got 18 months

#

English 
Pure Math 
Math B 
Physic 
CS 
ICT 
Business```
desert pine
#

Step 1.
dont focus on mit
Step 2.
follow step 1

#

And if I remember quickly, I already gave you tips.

sweet blaze
vital sail
#

how do i stop addiction, specifically for games, facebook etc..? been doing these for days while being aware

#

im aware but cant stop

#

at the end of night i'm sober like, it just stop

stray yarrow
#

Try nd find other hobbies or things you like
Like going out
Touching grass
Drawing
Painting
Reading
Avoid creating screen time which ain't useful for ya

slim wedge
#

i am new here ,i want to know how to see our study stats?

stray yarrow
mint junco
stray yarrow
#

Bro is literally a she

slim wedge
stray yarrow
#

Nah 😭

mint junco
#

you js sit in vcs and study and that’s it

mint junco
slim wedge
stray yarrow
#

🫡

stray yarrow
sullen flame
#

So I started watching HOD(house of dragons) and manged to complete two episodes (I'll watch it later again) but I have questions is daemon Targaryen actually viserys sibling or son?

#

And is alicent trying to seduce visery??? 😭😭💀💀💀💀

stray yarrow
#

Ma'am this is a Starbucks??

young umbra
#

hey there

#

can i vent here

desert pine
#

whats up

young umbra
#

i just did in some other server its quite a lot

#

mind if i send an image of it?

#

im not a good typer

desert pine
#

of course not! go ahead

young umbra
#

Also the part with me talking to the girls in my class is one of many examples

#

each time it happens i wonder why me even though i always try and do the right thing and always try my best to have a healthy relationship with her

#

i enjoy talking in school

#

not necessarily an introvert

desert pine
#

I can end it quickly and say that your mother wants the best for you, but i am sure you have heared of it

young umbra
#

but also

desert pine
#

so lets not do that

young umbra
#

i used to live in another country

#

where i used to meet up with 2 good friends everyday

#

both of whom i havent spoken with for quite some time

#

Due to them having issues

desert pine
#

can i ask the reason why you moved? and how long ago?

young umbra
#

It was i think 5-6 years ago

desert pine
#

so both your parents are in your life?

young umbra
#

i came here without knowing the language so it was hard at first

#

yes

#

ever since i moved i feel less attracted to meeting up after school

desert pine
#

then what i would do, is sit down with your mother and have a brief talk about how you feel and what she does that makes you feel like that. Even ask why she does things like that and if she knows that she is doing it

young umbra
#

ive tried

#

everytime she says she wants whats best for me

#

i try and explain further

desert pine
#

Maybe she is struggling with something you have no idea and her way of venting is putting it onto someone

young umbra
#

im pretty surr i know what it is

desert pine
#

And can you help her?

young umbra
#

no

#

most definitely not

desert pine
#

Hmmm

young umbra
#

things of trauma

#

And pf the past

desert pine
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a therapist

young umbra
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her father passed

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before my birth

young umbra
desert pine
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someone getting a child in your family?

young umbra
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spoken with one about me too

young umbra
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Also

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she thinks im growing up and becoming someone similar to her brother

desert pine
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sorry if that was to personal

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just trying to form an image of the situation

young umbra
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Who she has a bad bond to

young umbra
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i’m just

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i always try to find a good solution and i know shes trying to be nice to me and help me

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but it never works out

desert pine
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do you siblings? if so do they experience the same stuff?

young umbra
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i have a sister

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shes quite young though

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so not really

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also

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my parents have extremely high expectations of me aswell

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surreal i’d say

desert pine
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yeah thats whats up being the oldest, my sister (whom is older) experiences the same stuff

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its setting standards for the younger one

young umbra
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yeah probably

desert pine
young umbra
desert pine
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just so you know, parents want the best for you

young umbra
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making me learn 5-6 languages

desert pine
young umbra
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making me play the piano

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sports

desert pine
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are you happy?

young umbra
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no that was a role i probably took by mistake

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im still in school

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but have grades i’m more than happy with

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but with immense amount of trauma

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i hated exams

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Especially the school system over here

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i go to the highest school education in my country

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in quite a good school

desert pine
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where are you from?

young umbra
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germany

desert pine
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neighbours 😄

young umbra
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🤝

desert pine
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well

young umbra
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wbu?

desert pine
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i would ask myself the question "am i genuilly happy at this point in my life"

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and dont lie to yourself

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be as rational as you can be

young umbra
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i would be if my mom just worked things out

desert pine
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do you form a bond with your dad?

young umbra
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yeah

desert pine
young umbra
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pretty good one

desert pine
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see!

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change perspective and think about that!

young umbra
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ive always had a good bond with him

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thats why it doesnt bother me as much

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but it does bother me that i had a good bond with my mother

desert pine
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i know how you feel 🫂

young umbra
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And suddenly

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she acts so much stricter

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shes from iran

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And she feels as though some are racist towards her here

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(Generally could be true in some cases)

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but i think shes paranoid from all this overthinking

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I just genuinely want my mother to be proud of me

desert pine
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i think the basis is her untouched trauma

young umbra
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havent heard it from her in quite some time from her

desert pine
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projecting her trauma and insecurities on people close to her

young umbra
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everytime she argues the also says

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“I wish i never spent this much time raising you and instead did on your sister”

desert pine
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thats a very harsh thing to say to a child...

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do you feel unwanted?

young umbra
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at 13 i remember clearly all i wanted was good grades learning the languages i aspired to want to learn

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The piano

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Play Basketball well

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And now i have all this

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and it means nothing to me

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it feels as though i sacrificed my bond with my mother

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For all this

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And i just want it back

young umbra
desert pine
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you should not think like that to be honest

young umbra
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she just says harsh things while she gets mad

young umbra
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cant go a day without getting remembered about the arguments

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and once i try to

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another one starts

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i dont think its a mental issue of hers

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But rather a way she was taught to be

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i was told her parents freaked out if she got bad grades

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maybe its just her projecting that onto me

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(Even though she says she doesnt)

desert pine
young umbra
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regardless i

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if i had a 2nd chance

desert pine
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mostly the education your parents give is a projection of themself

young umbra
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(Im almost done with school)

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I would have taken the relationship with friends and my parents

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Over whatever i have now

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cant think of what happens if this continue until me leaving thw house

desert pine
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"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about."

young umbra
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Ending in a permanent bad relationship with my mother

desert pine
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you are overthinking now

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why?

young umbra
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guess im just an overthinker

desert pine
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because you are looking at stuff you want

young umbra
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always expecting the worst

desert pine
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to fill a void deep inside yourself

young umbra
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it just seems

desert pine
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and its not the relationship with your mom

young umbra
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Theres no solution

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if even a therapist cant fix her

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who am i so say something

desert pine
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lets now switch the situation shall we?
lets say you have a wonderfull relationship and you didnt do all the great things you are doing right now
that might result in a counter effect of you needing to vent about being a failure and not having done something with your life

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some things in life happen with a reason

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and this is one of them

desert pine
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its called -growing up-

young umbra
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having good friends and family connections

desert pine
young umbra
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is more than enough for me

desert pine
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thats impossible

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its a whole different situation

young umbra
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how exactly

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I couldve balanced out

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My things

young umbra
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With a healthy relationship

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Yet i didnt

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Due to my arrogance

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thinking i didnt need all that

desert pine
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because you are in this situation now

desert pine
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cant change shit about the past

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live today

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change day by day

young umbra
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how if i cant enjoy it?

desert pine
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and your future will change

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find joy in it

young umbra
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knowing my mother sleeps badly due to me

desert pine
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life aint doing only things you like

young umbra
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because of my actions

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knowing her mental health grows sick day by day

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due to me

desert pine
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because YOU think that

young umbra
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because its a fact

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there was no other thing at play

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but my arrogance

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and now that i have realised it all

desert pine
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she is clearly batteling things you are not capable of handeling/ progressing

young umbra
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it is sadly too late

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im leaving the house next year for my uni

desert pine
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well dont?

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if you say your arrogance is in the way

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dont

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problem solved?

young umbra
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dont leave?

desert pine
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yeah

young umbra
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The house

desert pine
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yeah

young umbra
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House is too far from the uni im going to

desert pine
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go by public transport

desert pine
young umbra
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yes

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still is

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its in another city

desert pine
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but my arrogance is in the way

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you are contradicting yourself

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you want the change but dont want to change

young umbra
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thats not arrogance

desert pine
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it kinda is

young umbra
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cant is the thing

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after everything i worked for

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The least i can do is pull through with it

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Frankfurt is the best for finance

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While my city isnt

desert pine
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or choose a uni closer to your house

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voila

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there you have it

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lemme tell you something

young umbra
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there are opportunities in life

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We must take

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for the better future

desert pine
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a uni's score is for 95% based on its masters and phd capabilities

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your bachelor doesnt matter

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the master and phd do

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so wanting to go to the "best" uni is for arrogance

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and for your ego

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and youll say no

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i know

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but deep down you know

young umbra
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its for ending what i sacrificed for

desert pine
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which is satisfying your ego and arrogance

young umbra
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ive tried everything

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i cannot fix her

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As u said

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Shes probably battling something i cannot comprehend

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leaving imo is also best for her mental health

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getting away from all those arguments

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again

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life went by too fast

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i blinked and corona took everything from me

desert pine
young umbra
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i dont wanna lose my job opportunity

young umbra
young umbra
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Moving there

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And networking with people from there

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Will set me up

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For my job

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biggest finance city in germany

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and literally a goldmine for the world

desert pine
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if you want the best, why not go to princeton?

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right?

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or harvard?

young umbra
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In germany all schools have the same level of education

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with good professors

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its highly regulated

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and its free basically

desert pine
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is it a private one?

young umbra
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also many people from princeton

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or harvard

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come to frankfurt

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In the finance sector

young umbra
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Its quite weird u can search it up

stray yarrow
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I smell sadness

young umbra
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its for english speaking people mainly

stray yarrow
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@young umbra are u German??

young umbra
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yes

stray yarrow
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Omg

young umbra
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?

desert pine
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its someone becoming an adult xp

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@stray yarrow

stray yarrow
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I've got my eye on gottingen

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What do u think they need

young umbra
stray yarrow
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Besides good score and German fluency

young umbra
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yeah

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well

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thats basically all u need in germany

stray yarrow
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Danke

young umbra
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its not like in america

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where your curriculum matters

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Focus on your abitur

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What are you going to study if i may ask?

stray yarrow
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Research in theoretical physics 🫡

desert pine
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what topic?

young umbra
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where did you do your praktikum

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that might be halfway important

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not as important as your grades though

stray yarrow
young umbra
desert pine
stray yarrow
stray yarrow
young umbra
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for example

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if i wanna study finance

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And i have an internship at idk some big finance company

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it’ll help me

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because it shows that i had interest sooner too

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and it shows that i have experience first hand already

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i can also recommend “dual studium”

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Gives you a big advantage

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getting more and more popular

stray yarrow
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I wanna get my bachelor's from there

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Lul

young umbra
desert pine
young umbra
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it’ll set you up

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And get you pretty far

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i’m looking for something like investment banking probably

stray yarrow
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It all started with gauss

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He got me interested in goettingen

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And quantum too

young umbra
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legit my dad spoke about him everyday basically

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and euler

stray yarrow
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True

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Also reimer tiemann

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If that's his name

desert pine
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fermat left the chat

young umbra
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Oh yeaahh

stray yarrow
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Maybe first in goettingen

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Then in zurich

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Due to the beloved Einsteinium

young umbra
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Also pascal

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🙏

stray yarrow
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Too many notable alumni

young umbra
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and his belief system idea too

stray yarrow
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All I remember Pascal is for his triangle and pressure

young umbra
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pascal was so ahead of his time

stray yarrow
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Soo truee

young umbra
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brought the world forward

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philosopher

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Mathematician