#How did you convince your parents to get your first reptile?
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They kept reptiles before i did
my neighbor turned family friend got one for their kid i pet sat for them for four years before they had to rehome it, i was allowed to keep it because my mother grew attached to it watching it grow as a baby
perhaps asking them to petsit for people who have exotics to show you want to take on this kind of responsablilty might do the trick
Honestly, my parents just disliked hamsters and rodents way more than turtles
Not to be rude, but if you're young enough to need to convince your parents, think very hard about whether or not you're ready for a reptile, and if you're still gonna be able to care for it when you leave for college/university, or maybe move into an apartment that may not allow reptiles, etc etc
It could be that you're old and mature enough, but many people often aren't until their late teens or even later than that
And as I said, you need to consider whether or not you'll be able to care for the animal as changes happen in your life and you move out of the house and whatnot
I'm just speaking from experience, as I had pets when I was too young and immature to properly care for them, and I'd like others to avoid the same mistake
But it could be that you're like 20 and are ready for the responsibility, in which case, have at it
I didn't tell them 
I spent a couple months gathering the supplies and building the tank, then got my lil sweetheart and didn't say anything until they noticed her in my room one day
I would not recommend doing this
but hey, I showed 'em how I've been caring for her for awhile, paid for everything myself and would continue to do so, and pointed out that no problems have occured since she joined the family
She hangs out with the family in the front room now after they fell in love with her lol
You weren’t living in their house at the time were you? If so how did they not notice lol
Some parents dont look in children's rooms ....for whatever reason they have, respect of closed doors, chillax parents, etc.
Yeah, but this is really risky depending on the parents.
Some can be very violent and not allow their kid to buy essential food or supplies, try to force them to rehome, and in some extreme cases some parents could act out violently to an animal and even cause harm to them.
I was just explaining how kids could possibly/potentially sneak past the parents. I never could, my mom and older sister came in my room without warning sometimes, (now they just tattletale on me for everything I'm the youngest but they are the children) I liked it when I got my lizard it got them out of my room just as fast
I get what you mean.
I'm a parent and didn't get a reptile until I owned my own house but from a parent perspective I'd never let me kids keep a pet I didn't feel comfortable caring for. Because at the end of the day even if it is their pet it is a living creature in my house and it is my responsibility to make sure that it is cared for. That includes making sure the kids do the chores asscoited with the pet. Maybe you could convince them to watch some careguards with you on YouTube and you could pick out something that everybody's comfortable with together.
Talk about it much and Ask if you could do something to get one , that's what i did
make sure they know u can care for it and that you will be paying 100% of the cost
Prove u can take care of them by ur self
i did my research got good grades, and they were like "well he knows how to care for it and stuff so he should get it" so i got my first reptile which was a petco leopard gecko
Didn’t really convince them to get my first one, but my second one I had to. Tbh, parents have super annoying opinions about reptiles
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Still convincing them lol
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