how do i not be so paranoid about my boyfriend cheating on me, hes never done anything at all to make me think that hes gonna but im soo insanely scared, ive been cheated on so many times in my past relationships and i talked to my bf about it and he reassures me but everytime he leaves me in the same room as his phone and he gets a notif on it, i just wanna check who its from and go through his ENTIRE phone (which i know is really unhealthy and i dont do that, but he always offers to show me his phone and laptop whenever i overthink), hes being so so patient with me and i appreciate him so much for that but my overthinking needs to stop, and he would love if i was able to help myself change. another reason why im really scared is because i dont wanna let myself fall in love with him deeply and trust him and then find out hes done something to cheat on me.
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shadow bison
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how do i not be so paranoid about my boyfriend cheating on me, hes never done an...
hey
often when we have bad experiences in the past we tend to believe the same experiences will repeat in future relationships
but it’s important not to let our past relationships and experiences affect our present and future
your boyfriend seems like a very nice person
it’s great that you have communicated how you feel and that he reassures you
but you need to let yourself trust him and love him
otherwise it’s not going to work out and you might regret it later
i know it might be hard, but allow yourself to trust and love
we never know what the future is going to be- it’s best if we can hope and work towards the best circumstances