You should have close friends ofc but one secret to many friendships is not opening up fully to others all the time. its okay to just enjoy a single thing with some people. That makes social circles a lot less elaborate and isolating.
#Losing Friends…
tacit ibex
dense plover
You should have close friends ofc but one secret to many friendships is not open...
Wdym
I do need to open that Im a Trans Woman
Im just asking to be friends in this conversation
tacit ibex
I do need to open that Im a Trans Woman
Do you really? I am not saying hide yourself, but masking is a natural way to stay socially included with outsiders like queers and neurodivergents.
dense plover
Do you really? I am not saying hide yourself, but masking is a natural way to s...
I still don’t understand
Because recently my friends who is homophobics keep calling me he/him
So I advise them to use she/her
They don’t want to
Its common to come out
tacit ibex
From what I gathered so far its best to only come out to your close circles and do it gradually bigger. A huge splash of new identity can isolate you becvause - well people assumed to be associated with a different version of you.
dense plover
From what I gathered so far its best to only come out to your close circles and ...
I dont agree
Im sorry
I don’t want to stay as a man forever
tacit ibex
I am sure that legal situations have been arranged for that but you cant make everyone arround you tolerant. You dont have to hang arround bigots but a coming out is a drastic change for most people and it takes time till things settle to normal.
tacit ibex
As in if you go runnig with someone is coming out to them even relevant or is it a source of potetntial conflict? People dont say their political opinions in the first conversation with a stranger for the same reasons.
tacit ibex
I want to find a friend that is lgbtq friendly
Do you live in a sparely populated area?
dense plover
Do you live in a sparely populated area?
I live in most non lgbtq friendly
tacit ibex
Oh like are you russian?
dense plover
Oh like are you russian?
Asia
tacit ibex
If you want to find friends on here, I think its best if you share your interests
dense plover
If you want to find friends on here, I think its best if you share your interest...
If I share my interests but they are homophobics there is no use
tacit ibex
I can talk for ages about stuff with friends without ever getting personal
tacit ibex
If I share my interests but they are homophobics there is no use
I dont think someone homophobic would get out of their way to be fake friends with someone that is openly queer
dense plover
I dont think someone homophobic would get out of their way to be fake friends wi...
Nah
Enough is enough
I already experienced it with 5 friends
tacit ibex
I dont think you are very open and accepting yourself with a stance like this. Dont be bitter. You dont get to choose your friends, life does.
dense plover
I dont think you are very open and accepting yourself with a stance like this. D...
Its not I choose my life of friends
I just don’t want a homophobics one
There’s no point of arguing Im here to find friends not arguments