removal of moderation of feminine boy related content

[wintry badger]

yeah I love them and if someones talking about them sexually that can be dealt with individually

[arctic temple]

hola

[wintry badger]

yo

do you

agree

[weak forum]

Just wanted to mention why it's banned. The staff stated that frequent NSFW search results were the reason as minors could search it up due to different reasons when the word was mentioned and lead to such exposure.

[wintry badger]

those can be moderated individually

if too many ppl use it nsfw it can be re banned

[weak forum]

It's not that it was used in an NSFW way, it was that browser search caused NSFW results

Actually, what you said was also included "due to people twisting into something it isn't and overly sexualizing it.)

Staff will probably summarise everything in a while. I mostly wanted to give you the general picture

[wintry badger]

okay, fine

but if someone says feminine boy, it cant be accused of bypassing if the reason is that the actual word reveals nsfw results because feminine boy doesnt, right?

[patent sentinel]

Hello! I wanted to say I completely understand that some people may be part of the community and for them it's their identity but due to several reasons such as
Femboy being overly sexualized
People turning it into what it isn't
And our server is strictly SFW + minor friendly so we don't want anything here that could expose them to 18+/inappropriate content (which is risked when someone searches it up)

It has been a topic before about whether it should be removed or not and unfortunately it's just not going to happen.

You can use substitute words for femboy instead! Such as..
Tom girl
Soft boy
Rosboy
Feminine boy
(to talk about it)

I apologize if I didn't explain properly (I could also ask a higher up to answer this)

[wintry badger]

Okay that answers my question i understand the searching of the term causes nsfw results and I had heard before that people were moderated in the past for saying feminine boy for bypassing but I may be remembering wrong

[patent sentinel]

Bypass is against the rules as each word is filtered for a reason.

.r swearing

[idle stone]

Behavior Reminder

Do not bypass our swearing filters.

Because there are minors in this server, keep language appropriate. Only light-swearing is allowed. Therefore, typing abbreviations or bypassing swearing is not allowed.

Command | .remind swearing

[patent sentinel]

It's a rule :))

[wintry badger]

But feminineboy is allowed right ?

just not the original word because of internet sexualisation

[solemn cargo]

What is Fem. Boy?

[wintry badger]

[weak forum]

a slang term for a male (often young) who adopts a traditionally feminine appearance and demeanor, such as wearing skirts, makeup, or thigh-high socks, while not necessarily identifying as transgender. It is a form of gender expression that breaks away from traditional masculinity, emphasizing a soft or androgynous aesthetic. And don't bypass, please

[solemn cargo]

Gotcha, I was trying to understand what this was about, pretty new here, do not know what it is and wanted to make sure I avoid conflict, I wasn't aware of.

[weak forum]

It's fine

[patent sentinel]

I can ask and confirm for you. Is that okay?

[wintry badger]

Well thats what you said right?

[wintry badger]

Right here

[patent sentinel]

I think so!

Those are just alternatives that people use for the word "fem boy"

Since it's not automodded then I'd say it's probably okay. I'll double check if just 2 be safe so you don't get in trouble or anything

[wintry badger]

gracias

[patent sentinel]

Heya! So I'm correcting myself and "feminine boy" is not okay but the others that I mentioned are okay :)))

[gentle plinth]

they are no longer in ttc

[patent sentinel]

Oopsy daisy..