#Not sure how to handle a friend completely pulling away

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gritty flax
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The best thing that you can do in this situation is letting him know that you are available to talk. If you can, try to schedule a meet up with him, sometimes its a lot better to talk in person. I think he knows that you care about him. Most of my friend groups are in their 20s, it's normal for us not to talk much over text, sometimes people are dealing with things that we don't know about. At the end of the day, it is up to them to share or not.

amber knoll
# gritty flax The best thing that you can do in this situation is letting him know that you ar...

Fair enough, just a little confused on the reasoning behind completely ghosting and just deciding not to "be my friend" with no communication and signs. That's why I am wondering if it's something he is going through and could use somebody or if he just decided he doesn't wanna talk to anyone he went through middle and high school with. Cause if it's the second one then it's fine, if he thinks that's what's best for him then I am okay with that, or if there's something going on because he has a history of depression and has tried to take his own life before. I let him know I am here and I am leaning towards stopping the calls and texts cause anything further from here is just going to do more harm than good.

small elbow
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Do you think something happened behind the scenes which make him not communicate? It’s weird because how you going to be friends with someone for so long to then decide to not talk anymore