Breakup

[wispy hedge]

well my first question is how old are you and how old is he

[sick patio]

I’m 21, and he’s 27.

It has been years too, since his late wife passed. I forgot to add that to the post.

[floral hull]

🧐 Quite a big age gap yes?

[floral hull]

This girl is into sonic fan fics

[opal crown]

I hope you’re feeling better and that from now on things progress forward.

[sick patio]

I like older men 😔

[floral hull]

So does my gf 😔

[floral hull]

U like them because we're saggy yes?

[opal crown]

I think its okay

[sick patio]

I appreciate that, thank you very much. The first few days are difficult 🥹

[sick patio]

Yes, can’t help it

But with him… it was different. I thought we had a chance, but that relationship was likely strained at the start.

[floral hull]

The sag is juicy indeed

LMAO

[sick patio]

[floral hull]

We should make a minecraft server

[wispy hedge]

it sounds like he's still not over his wife and it feels like, my opinion, he was trying to find someone who looked like her

tbh I'd be weirded out

[sick patio]

Honestly that’s what I struggled with, and I tried to talk with him but he said he comforted me already, said I wouldn’t be in her shadow

But I wanted more comfort, and I don’t know if I was just being greedy

[floral hull]

It seems he was finding someone to cope tbh

[floral hull]

Was he handsome?

[sick patio]

And you’re right… he likely never moved on from her. Before we got into a relationship, it sounded like he needed someone to cope. He said “I need someone else to move on”.

[floral hull]

[sick patio]

..God I’m now just realizing I’m not the only bad guy here

I was used

[floral hull]

damn so...u were

[sick patio]

God that makes me feel so much worse

[floral hull]

a fwb situation?

[wispy hedge]

yea it's a Kim and Kanye type situation

[sick patio]

No, nothing like that

[sick patio]

He was

But I was used, and that’s

No

[wispy hedge]

yea he's weird

run for the hills

[floral hull]

Wait how old are you 😭

[wispy hedge]

26

[floral hull]

no way!!!

Wait

are u trans or..

[wispy hedge]

no

[opal crown]

You don’t know so try not to overthink it and stay positive. Life will put you through interesting things, everyone has a destiny.

[floral hull]

we should be friends!

Ive been looking for people around my age

[opal crown]

That’s dark

[floral hull]

server doesnt have much of us

[floral hull]

huh ._.

how old are u @opal crown

[wispy hedge]

did he use you for ||sex|| as well?

[opal crown]

“Are u trans”
“no”
“we should be friends”

[floral hull]

I cant send u a friend request v_v

[opal crown]

17

[floral hull]

Well its because I try to be cautious around them

Certain things or topics seem to be a trigger or problem for them ig

plus its hard to tell

[opal crown]

No problem, idk why I highlighted that anyway

[sick patio]

No, only for comfort and consoling… because he was feeling depressed and down about his wife

[wispy hedge]

good lord he needs help

[sick patio]

I’m just now realizing things I was blind to 🥹

[wispy hedge]

lots of therapy

[sick patio]

Sigh

[sick patio]

AND HE TOLD ME I NEEDED THERAPY 😭

[wispy hedge]

bruh

[sick patio]

Like I get it I have my own set of problems

[floral hull]

Seens like he put u through alot

[wispy hedge]

how did you meet him

[floral hull]

and now ur seeking guidance

[opal crown]

I was interested in that too

[sick patio]

I wanted support, knowing I’m not alone because it’s easy to feel alone

[floral hull]

Did u meet him on a dating app

[sick patio]

I did yes

[floral hull]

I knew it

[sick patio]

And we talked for awhile before dating

[sick patio]

[floral hull]

SOOOOOO

soooooo

[sick patio]

SO WHAT

[floral hull]

Lmao nothing wrong with it

[sick patio]

[opal crown]

I think you should treat yourself to lunch that’s probably the best next step 😊

[sick patio]

Treat myself to a nice dessert maybe

Thank you all for the support and helping me realize things I was blind to everyone <3

[opal crown]

Yes, what’s your favourite?

[sick patio]

I really like Starbucks, especially the pink drinks 🥹🫶🏻

What about you?

[opal crown]

Yummmmmm

[opal crown]

I love millionaire shortbread

[sick patio]

What in the world is that?

[opal crown]

First of all, it’s in the world (thank goodness). And basically it’s shortbread but with a key on top of sweet caramel and then a layer on top of the caramel of chocolate.

[sick patio]

It doesn’t sound like something I’d like, I don’t like caramel and shortbread…

I wish I could use my GIFs to express myself

But it sounds yummy in thought

[sick patio]

What happened to those promises, telling me you wouldn’t leave, telling me you’d stay. That you’d even be a friend after.

Even though I shouldn’t want you to come back because of recent realizations. I know you loved me, genuinely, as well, but you also used me to cope. And that’s not right at all.

I’m afraid of what I’ll do when I’m alone, when there’s no company to listen to, or to talk to. To just deal with all of this with myself, am I even going to be able to handle it?