#idk how to live alone i genuinely acnt function anymore

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unique cairn
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So you don’t live with your parents anymore ? I would say if you rent your place just get a roommate it’s fun and cheaper

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Or like when does the contract end

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Shared living is bigger and has benefits

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Ngl I would also feel lonely in a studio

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Wdym ?

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What led up to this

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Wdym you had to ? You’re only 20

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Oh that way I see now I thought you meant like forced marriage or smth . I mean if you stay strong for him so when he does come you can start with a good foundation

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How long will it take do you know that

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Yeah that’s really good

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Well aren’t there ways to get faster

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If you’re married wouldn’t that give him the pass

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Ah Damm

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Wdym you got hobbies or friends to keep yourself busy

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You just gotta stay strong

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Have you ever done voluntary work ? Also if you feel lonely the only way is to find people to connect with and there are many ways

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Don’t you work too isn’t that something that keeps you busy

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Wait how do you have money if you don’t mind me asking

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I thought it was on the very low end almost impossible to live from that

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I mean have you tried voluntary work .

unique cairn
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Kinda it’s unpaid work but it can range from food banks to hosting events for children

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Just abt anything

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I would say it’s worth a try

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You could also meet very kind hearted people

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Just don’t go to the vegan protest stuff they do wild stuff

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Yeah ngl sometimes I’m like that too even tho I know it’s worth it to go outside . It’s weird

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If you know deep down it was the right decision it doesn’t matter what someone has to say

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Like are you scared to go outside or what’s the term

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Yeah fr you can’t time travel

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But also during this time you can upgrade yourself I think it’s better because what if the issues you have come up in the marriage

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It’s easier to be prepared

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Hmm depends on what kind of arguing and reasons

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Did he ever gave you an reason to be religious but you didn’t understand the point or it didn’t make sense

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I think maybe debating is better it’s supposed to be purely on exchanging thoughts no emotions involved mostly and doesn’t need to be this is right this is wrong

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I wonder what kind of contradicting things I’m also seeking the truth so

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Yeah I see It’s really something you should build up and make a habit of . It’s very useful

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Is it a sin ?

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Tbh that’s a good point . It’s essentially saying being gay is wrong but how can someone ungay themselves

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Wdym

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As hard

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To be clear it should never be abt spewing arguments it’s more like giving a valid point and trying to understand how it works and slow pace not fast talking . Because you shouldn’t be emotional abt that it should be healthy convo

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Because then you can have a lot of talks not just religion

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I can understand that very well . If y’all meet back def delve deeper into that

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Other than that just try the methods to keep you busy and I hope y’all have a good marriage