What do I do now?

[west steppe]

I apologised to a girl and now she won’t speak to me [18m] [18f]

For context I’ve been talking to this girl for a month now and since we weren’t together I wanted to arrange meeting this other girl. The day after I tried arranging she started acting off and leaving me on delivered so I thought she was fed up with me. I apologised and said I’m sorry for hurting you and I wish you all the best but she was confused and I said my reason for apologising was that I was acting like I was ignoring her and now she won’t speak to me.

[orchid vine]

That’s on her dawg

[upper mica]

Sounds like she ghosted.

[thorny vapor]

she formed an attachment to you and you "'brushing it off" by having a date with another girl made her upset. she feels like one month talking together means nothing to you

[west steppe]

The thing is tho I never actually met her and she didn’t even know I tried arranging anything just said I was sorry I was avoiding her

[thorny vapor]

technically it is not your fault so don't worry. she just overthinks about your relationship together. but like, when you talk to someone new that you can be attracted to, a person would assume you and her are in the talking stage. the point is that it's her overthinking, and you should make clear boundaries when you start talking to someone to avoid delusions from one or both