drifting sage
You barking up the wrong tree. And you don't even know it.
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Listen modern humans exist to relish all sorts of no good.
Gossiping , tea collection , false accusations , gawking at women's private parts , using s,b,c,w words , spite , bitterness , envy , lust , adultery , polyamorous , OF , ONS , high body counts , bullying etc etc etc.
Its itrinsic to their nature. They can't help themselves.
And they enjoy human suffering , infact they feel so dopagenic about it.
You think there is some good left in them. I tell what the best of them , have to offer.
A 37 year old fully educated psychologist , beliveing "survival out of spite". Not for growth , not to be strong , not to save someone but something as filthy as spite.
Now if their best is this.
You can pretty much guess what is their worst.
So honestly , what type of good are you expecting from them. Sure they may have one or two virtue here and there but overall they aren't good but bad.
It will be better for you if you make peace with that and move ahead knowing such people exist and its K.
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And this is solution.
Try to seek genuinely emotionally available people.
How to spot one , just trust your heart. Believe me , you will know if you ever meet one.
They are extremely rare but not extinct.
Do you know how many I have met in last 2 years , 1 was full 100%.
But 1-2 more were close.
So in round off 3 .
Out of how many . Most probably over 10,000 throughout the globe from US in far west to Japan in far East.
jovial nebula
dark narwhal