Confused about my feelings

[frozen bone]

Why do you feel like you want to be with her?

[dreamy basin]

she is my type tbh in either body and personality

[dreamy basin]

Like I said I never really had a proper conversation with her and I don’t know anything personal about her so maybe the main reason is that I just wanted to love someone and feel loved you know
Right now if I were to actually try to talk to her and get to know her it wouldn’t be just for casual dating it would be with the intention of something serious like marriage not just a few months and then breaking up

[frozen bone]

Ummm , no I don't.
People don't resonate with someone unless there is something common or something has to be there.

[dreamy basin]

I forgot what are we talking about

[frozen bone]

No worries.

You were saying

You don't love her as a person but only fell in love with the idea of being with her.

I asked why you wanna be with her

In short you pointed
Maybe you just want to love someone and be loved.

To which I said
That's not possible. You cannot resonate with some unless there is something.

[dreamy basin]

thats kinda hard in my country and religion
talking, dating casually with girls isnt somth comman, the same for her we usually know each other after i ask for her hand, my question is should i try to focus on my studies and let thos things later or put it in my mind until i get fully independent

[frozen bone]

First tell me ,whether you both belong to the same religion?

[dreamy basin]

yes

[frozen bone]

And you are a guy and she is a girl?
Nothing else involved?

[dreamy basin]

yeb

[frozen bone]

Well that's a matter or wetter she is a genuine person or not?

Do you feel it in your bones she is a genuine person

[dreamy basin]

thats what i dont know yet

[dreamy basin]

maybe she is kinda serious and that make it really hard to make a conversation

my english kinda suck but still understandable right?

[frozen bone]

Don't worry , I think your English is very good.
I didn't run into a single trouble understanding you.

[frozen bone]

Then try to have honest conversations with her and then if you feel deep in your bones , she is a genuine person.

Then go ahead.
Good girls and guys are extremely rare.
Take that more seriously than you can.

[dreamy basin]

Its easy to say i have proplems with talking to guys imagine girls.. well i will try my best to keep some conversations here and here and will probably get the confedince to ask her about that

[frozen bone]

Sure kid , you can do this I am rooting for you.

Best of Luck in your pursuit.
You both are kids , so together or not , you both are still the future and I would like to see that future as bright as possible.

Leave us old timers in the dust. And be better than us. Build stronger relationships and have decent lives.

[dreamy basin]

i hope u doing good too🌹