I need a boyfriend and it's so hard to find one. Im almost giving up

[chilly pelican]

I’m starting to feel like it’s really hard for me to find a boyfriend these days. It’s not that I need someone just for the sake of it, but I do want a genuine connection with someone who actually cares and puts in effort. I’ve tried talking to people, but it often ends up being shallow or not serious, and it gets tiring after a while. I just want someone kind, respectful, and real someone I can talk to, laugh with, and feel comfortable around. I know I’m still young and I’m not expecting perfection, but I hope I can meet someone who truly wants something meaningful too. I've been experienced theres a one guy starting liking me but he only liked me because of my body then he blockes me after. watching couple reels makes me broken as well ans depressed. Its so hard/rare to find a loyal and respectful man.

[final storm]

Yeah it's hard because genuine people are rare.

Try seeking a genuinely emotionally available and intelligent person who is also interested in relationships

But first also consider are you yourself that person?

Best of Luck kid.

[carmine perch]

can imagine that tbf, but theres still time, just continute to be yourself and positive and someone will come eventually

[rigid plaza]

I get why you feel like this, honestly. It’s not that you’re asking for too much—you just want something real, and that’s rare these days. But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. The right person won’t treat you like that or make you feel used. Just don’t lose your standards because of the wrong people.