I've kinda been struggling with over thinking, and there is a whole story yk. I have a beautiful girlfriend and shes just perfect yk. but my mom is always not the best support which gives me doubts on my own yk I kinda just need a place to through out the darker thoughts and basically be told your overthinking, or ground those thoughts yk
#Need help
eager shoal
native sparrow
I've kinda been struggling with over thinking, and there is a whole story yk. I ...
Are you comfortable sharing a bit more???
eager shoal
Yea kinda like I've created a wall between me and my gf becasue of the pressue both my own opion and my familys. for clearification they both don't like eachother which is hard to balance both yk
native sparrow
Why don't they not like each other?
eager shoal
well it kinda steams from my sister creating drama with her ex bf, and snitching him, and my gf was just text her friend and her friends bf snatch the phone and showed everyone at the party and my sister tried to deny and felt like everyone was ganging up on her but the reality is they didnt care cause they knew already so that spiraled into my sister crying to my parents which ended up them goin through my phone, pressure of me trying to break us up and resulting in me leaving my family for a year
native sparrow
What the what
eager shoal
A lot Ik
native sparrow
You = A , your gf = B
Your sister = C , her ex bf = D
your gf's friend = E , her bf = F
B called E but F snatched phone and show to everyone about C and D
So C cried to your parents
And your parents want you to break up with B
Cuz they think its her fault
eager shoal
Correct except it was text not call
native sparrow
And this lead to you being separate from your whole family for one year??
eager shoal
Yea the middle details were intense of what led up to it
native sparrow
Finally , I was confused how this can lead to family seperation
Are you comfortable sharing that ,no pressure
eager shoal
It’s kind personal but I’ll elaborate a bit more, there was physical and verbal abuse and publication of my private text for the next month or two
Btw I was 18 yrs old
eager shoal
Yea it’s better both don’t like each other but just have nothing to do with each other but throw in comments yk
native sparrow
So you keep them separate
eager shoal
They more keep themselves separate
native sparrow
So whats the issue??
eager shoal
I just overthink a lot but I kinda figured it out personally
native sparrow
Figured out the solution?