"Ex girlfriend situation with her weird gaming friend"

[past hill]

What the what is this???

Both of them are weird.

Why does he want full body picture of 20 year old

And why isn't she instantly blocking.

And what does it mean to like the attention people being weird

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And the moving and free rooms . No way ,noone is dumb enough to fall for that

[vocal dagger]

I think she is just facing mental struggles. She said "probably because he gets no action" so I believe it. Even she doesn't know why she doesn't wanna block.

[sick plume]

So the whole situation is that u Guy use to date before. but broke up because she thought she was lesbian (mental issues), U guy grew distance, then just talk back to eachother again, like best friends.

But after meeting that guy, she found him weird but not decided to do anything... (It making me creep out the part u say he want her pic and he has 2 room available, wth) ...

To tell u the truth, it weird me out about the age gap and how he act around u guys. U should tell her that she shouldn't feel guilty about blocking that guy, there other good people to be friends then these type of people.

[past hill]

What do you mean by , gets no action???

[sick plume]

Sounds like he like kids..

[vocal dagger]

I did Julien. It's a situation that I think she needs to deal with on her own. I guess I just gotta be there when I can to support her like I always did. But welcome to my world.

[vocal dagger]

Uhhhhhhhh, how old are ya if you don't mind me asking?

[past hill]

You mean the p-word

[past hill]

27

[vocal dagger]

He just wants sexual stuff going on.

in his life

[past hill]

Oh GenZ call it action. I see.

[sick plume]

If I was her friend I would gave her a big scolding and took the game and block him everywhere.

[vocal dagger]

Yea

[vocal dagger]

Me too pal. But, it's not that simple unfortunately with her.

[past hill]

You guys talk.
All this is very weird.

But that man is trouble and needs to go 100%

[sick plume]

Fr

[vocal dagger]

She is willing to give the guy a chance, I guess we just gotta see if he is a man of his world.

[past hill]

And that girl needs to like reset her mind or something.

[vocal dagger]

You guys must be my clones because I agree with you 100% lol

[sick plume]

Why gang 😭 that type of creep need no chance

[vocal dagger]

I know!!!!!

Fucking fr!

It's just a sucky thing lol

I'm laughing right now because this is what I'm saying lol

[sick plume]

I think that guy must guilt trapping her, just tell her gng

[past hill]

Oh God what are you both talking

Full body picture , attention of people being weird , giving chance , getting action

All of this is just so weird.

1. Man needs to go.
2. Girl needs to reset her mind.

No other solution.

[sick plume]

agree

[vocal dagger]

She's smart enough to know.

I just can't push that boundary.

[sick plume]

She sounds like Not smart enough

[vocal dagger]

I already said what I said and now I just gotta respect her choice.

I can't pressure her to do something that she doesn't want to do until he does it again.

I just gotta be neutral with the guy.

[sick plume]

Do she perchance has any other close friends?

[vocal dagger]

It's just me and another.

[vocal dagger]

Took the words out of my mouth. But the most important thing is her happiness during a dark time in her life. She's going through a lot.

[past hill]

You're wrong the most important thing is her safety

[vocal dagger]

If she brings her personal stuff up with him, I just gotta respect that and give her advice like I always been.

[vocal dagger]

That too.

[charred abyss]

Ong this situation seems rly freaking weird bro

[vocal dagger]

But she is her own person and I'm not her boyfriend right now so I just gotta be there as a best friend.

[vocal dagger]

Tell me about it! Finally some sane people.

[charred abyss]

A 10 yr age gap is troubling

[vocal dagger]

Well 13

[charred abyss]

Bro that guy is WEIRD and potentially dangerous

I would not interact lmao

[vocal dagger]

110%

[charred abyss]

Even worse

[vocal dagger]

Even worse.

[past hill]

But she is also at a little fault here. Why exactly is she not blocking her right away and keep talking.

[charred abyss]

Mental health issues is a valid reason

[vocal dagger]

Just mental stuff I guess.

She doesn't know herself.

[past hill]

What kind of mental health issues

[vocal dagger]

Just the normal stuff, going through past toxic relationships, figuring herself out during a hard time in her life. She felt suicidal before and is definitely using Call of Duty as an escape from her problems, like finding a job that would hire and satisfy her.

[sick plume]

Do she has parents?

[vocal dagger]

Foster and real. Her real parents are overseas. She has issues with her family and she sees me and the other friend as family.

Like she talks to me more than family.

[vapid carbon]

Yeah buddy she enjoys that Shi.

[sick plume]

oh i see the root of her problem.. she prob has emotional neglect

[vocal dagger]

Yup...

[vocal dagger]

Definitely unfortunately.

[sick plume]

have u tried to find a new friends or smt for her, cus she need help bro

[vocal dagger]

Yeah I'm trying to get my friend group on Warzone. They know my relationship with her and I just want her to be surrounded by folks her age that actually are human beings.

Not disgusting pigs.

[charred abyss]

Idk I’m not about to guess someone’s mental state but psychology plays a big part in decision making

[sick plume]

cus she need someone to tell her straight in the face that that guy is disgusting and weird and ask her to rethink her life decision... not u but someone else

[vocal dagger]

brb folks, gonna game with one of her friends. Thank you for all your comments so far and making me not insane.

[vocal dagger]

Yupppppp

[vocal dagger]

Yeah I agree

[vocal dagger]

So I got an update, let me know if you guys are ready to hear?

[charred abyss]

Ok

I’m here

[vocal dagger]

We just had an emotional talk 30 mins ago. I was in call with her and she said I had nice friends and she mentioned she was thinking about something, I asked what and she typed out this:

"I just wanted to say I’m sorry. I’m sorry for hurting your feelings, I’m sorry for ignoring your long text about how you see me as a loved one and want to be there for me. I’m sorry I stick with these people that don’t treat me right. And I’m really sorry about dropping our relationship and making things messy…. I’m a mess to be honest. Not on the outside not in front of all of the people we game with but inside. I stick around the people that don’t treat me well because I don’t have much self respect so I put up with it. Not that that is a good excuse. I’ve had a lot of bad relationships that hurt me and when you treated me so nicely and would listen to my feelings and always tried to come up with solutions I freaked out. I felt like I wasn’t ready like I wasn’t worthy, like I couldn’t do the same for you. A couple days ago hood talked to me. He asked what went on why I stick with bad people. And in all honesty I probably came up with some bs that seemed reasonable to say. But that night I couldn’t sleep because I realized how much your friends care about you and how much you truly care about me and I’m just pushing it all away because I never had that in my life and I don’t know how to be around it. It all seems to good to be true and the self worth I feel for myself is very low and so I may complain about how Wyo, shadow, and others treat me but I stick around because how they treat me is how I’ve know friends my whole life. So I just wanted to say I’m truly sorry for making you put up with me and my actions and I’m sorry for hurting you and making you worry a lot about me"

We're going to talk about everything later, but yeah, she brought it up naturally.

[charred abyss]

so how are you reacting to this

this is a good message she sent you tbf but the suddenness is a bit odd; maybe it’s not sudden in context tho

[vocal dagger]

It was sudden because she wrote all of this in calls

[charred abyss]

Hm

[vocal dagger]

I think things are getting better, we hanged out all night and we game with another friend and laughed at my stupid jokes.

[charred abyss]

That’s good

What about the creepy guy

[vocal dagger]

She mentioned that we will talk about everything later after the talk we had. I’m currently writing her a letter about everything I feel about what happened and what we’ve been through so I figured continuing that conversation when we’re both in better mindsets and focusing on our happinesses. She’s aware of the letter so I just gotta take my time to lay everything out there.

[vocal dagger]

He was weird in the morning by saying stuff like it’s impossible to be nice to you guys, since he’s trying to buy us stuff in Warzone when we don't need it lol. He was questioning why I didn't have my permit yet at 22.

[charred abyss]

Yeah take ur time dude good luck

[vocal dagger]

Thanks man

[charred abyss]

Why is HE a 30 something year old man asking 2 people to go to him when he’s barely known yall

[vocal dagger]

He stopped but he was weird and said something else like he’s a screwup? Odd

[charred abyss]

[vocal dagger]

Exactly! He said I wish both of you were here to try my breakfast burritos lol

She didn’t say anything.

[charred abyss]

Is he being friendly or weird tho

[vocal dagger]

Neither did I

[vocal dagger]

I guess both?

[charred abyss]

Hm

Has he said anything that friends wouldn’t say to each other

[vocal dagger]

Still don’t trust his ass but right now I’m trying to get my friend group on the game so we get more folks our age to make friends with her. No toxic people at all.

[charred abyss]

Yes good choice

[vocal dagger]

Besides the original stuff and today’s stuff so far, not yet.

[charred abyss]

Ok well ur already aware of him tho

Good luck on ur situation with ur gf tho

[vocal dagger]

Thanks, I’ll keep you guys updated of what happens next. I think things are getting better I was just paranoid because I thought she was mad at me. But I’m glad she spoke out about her emotions. I think we’re getting back to a relationship but she needs to take her time to love herself again.

[charred abyss]

Mhm yea

Both ppl gotta be stable for a relationship to last

Just support her ig