#Workplace Situationship Getting Out Of Hand

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unique dew
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You should have an honest deep conversation with her.
Let her know your feelings and make 100% effort to understand hers too.

Also if in real she is consistent but not in text. Its maybe because she is with her ex and afraid of him or something.
I can only think of this but she might have very different reason too. Thats why I started with honest conversation.

She is in a tight spot. A mother looking after her baby in the presence of her ex.

The only thing , I dont understand is the neighbour sleeping.
You said you both are in situationship from September 2025 to right now.
So the January thing.
Is the January 2025 before she even met you or is this January 2026 while she was in situationship with you???

delicate arch
# unique dew You should have an honest deep conversation with her. Let her know your feelings...

Sorry, to clear things up, we met September 25, We became very close friends in December 25. The thing with the neighbor happened Jan 26 and then we started dating Feb 26. So the situationship has only been Feb 26 till now.

I appreciate the advice, having a conversation with her is what I was leaning towards anyway naturally. I think if she was a bit more transparent with me I wouldn't even mind full days with no text. like "hey I'm doing so and so today so will talk when I can" would do a lot for me right now.

I think I'm hesitant to share my opinions with her because I don't want to come across as controlling, especially when it involves her family life. As a father myself I fully understand that's her priority but just the occasional check in would go along way

unique dew
delicate arch
unique dew
# delicate arch No never

Since September did she also slept with someone else , or only this neighbour and even with him only once