Hi! Can someone with curly hair like mine or curlier comment here? I just feel so alone with struggling with my hair and its frizziness and stuff that it’s just really upsetting me and would like a friend who has similar hair and can help me with products and stuff for mine and teach me how to love and embrace my hair, here’s a pic. Thanks!
#Really need curly hair help because the struggle is affecting me mentally at this point
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here's what i did when i had long hair 
wear silk bonnets when sleeping or use silk pillowcases.
use cold water to wash your hair, not warm. after your shower, use it and use a diffuser afterwards.
with hair creams, i personally just use anything that lists that it has aloe or shea butter.
trim your hair every 2-3 months.
regardless, it's what they asked for. their hair does look very healthy and nice though. a routine is always nice as well as this could just be a pic where their hair isn't as frizzy.
Yeah my hair usually is very very frizzy
How long is ur hair now? And can I dm u ? It would be really nice to have someone who actually can help
my hair is probably about 4 inches now because i'm growing out a buzz cut, but yes you can dm me if you'd like.
Dmed you
Anyone else???? Really struggling need HELP
Can I ask you something?
What
Why so much emphasis on hair?
Cause I’ve gotten heavily bullied my whole life and as an adopted kid I’ve never been able to have someone teach me hair that geniuenly cares
Teach me here or teach me hair?
?
Teach me about how to care for my curly hair
Sorry about the bully part , that's hard at little age
I really need curly hair tips so anyone PLEASE
I have curly hair
Can I dm u?
Anyone else advice or tips? Please? I really need help!
can i just say this, your hair is really beautiful
Its unique and different and it makes you special
and it has a really strong personality
PLEASE SOMEONE
Your hair looks good , don't worry .
It looks completely fine .
It’s not ok for me tho. I need help from other curlies
I see , no worries
All I can say they look amazing and I don't see any need for any changes.
Rest is your choice.
Hope you soon feel better.
Please someone!! It looks so bad rn
Your hair honestly looks great!
Here are the steps I do for my hair care in an EXTREMELY detailed explanation:
When washing my hair, I shampoo (ONLY ROOTS) at least twice and up to three times. I wash it all off and squeeze out most of the water by scrunching.
Then I apply conditioner (Ends to mid hair) and comb my hair with my fingers first. (I'm basically bending over and putting all the hair in the front, covering my face when using conditioner.) Then, I comb with a wide tooth comb. (I combed with fingers first to slightly detangle and not rip out my hair.)
After I'm done combing, I will use a scrunchie and a big hair clip to put my hair up. (You can use only one, but my hair is quite thick and using only one doesn't really hold it up well. Looking at your hair, I recommend using two like I do since you have a lot more hair and volume than mine even.)
At this point, I still haven't washed off my conditioner and I have put up my hair. So I will wash my face and body with soap, and then finally rinse off everything. (Including the conditioner.)
After you have rinsed off everything, squeeze out all of the water by scrunching once again, and I personally wrap my wet hair with pajama pants. (My family made fun of this at first because it was funny, but I swear it's a lot better than a towel because it's less frizz! Also, I use pants instead of a shirt because a shirt doesn't hold my hair like pants do.)
So after I put on my clothes, I will take off my pants-towel from my hair and use my hair products, which are: leave-in conditioner and mousse. I apply leave-in conditioner first for mid to ends, and then mousse. For mousse, you have to scrunch and take the hairs that aren't clumped together (and aren't forming curls) and finger curl them so they don't look frizzy or messy. And finally, I'll blow dry my hair with the lowest heat and speed.
I don't have a silk pillow case or a bonnet yet, but I am planning to buy them!
Mind if I dm u?