#Really need curly hair help because the struggle is affecting me mentally at this point

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prisma glacier
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Hi! Can someone with curly hair like mine or curlier comment here? I just feel so alone with struggling with my hair and its frizziness and stuff that it’s just really upsetting me and would like a friend who has similar hair and can help me with products and stuff for mine and teach me how to love and embrace my hair, here’s a pic. Thanks!

terse pebble
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here's what i did when i had long hair PeepoLove
wear silk bonnets when sleeping or use silk pillowcases.
use cold water to wash your hair, not warm. after your shower, use it and use a diffuser afterwards.
with hair creams, i personally just use anything that lists that it has aloe or shea butter.
trim your hair every 2-3 months.

ebon falcon
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But they look nice to me.

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I mean already nice without any modifications

terse pebble
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regardless, it's what they asked for. their hair does look very healthy and nice though. a routine is always nice as well as this could just be a pic where their hair isn't as frizzy.

prisma glacier
prisma glacier
terse pebble
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my hair is probably about 4 inches now because i'm growing out a buzz cut, but yes you can dm me if you'd like.

prisma glacier
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Anyone else???? Really struggling need HELP

ebon falcon
prisma glacier
ebon falcon
prisma glacier
ebon falcon
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Teach me here or teach me hair?

prisma glacier
ebon falcon
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Sorry about the bully part , that's hard at little age

prisma glacier
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I really need curly hair tips so anyone PLEASE

tired timber
prisma glacier
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Anyone else advice or tips? Please? I really need help!

tired timber
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Its unique and different and it makes you special

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and it has a really strong personality

prisma glacier
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PLEASE SOMEONE

ebon falcon
prisma glacier
ebon falcon
prisma glacier
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Please someone!! It looks so bad rn

charred pivot
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Your hair honestly looks great!
Here are the steps I do for my hair care in an EXTREMELY detailed explanation:

When washing my hair, I shampoo (ONLY ROOTS) at least twice and up to three times. I wash it all off and squeeze out most of the water by scrunching.

Then I apply conditioner (Ends to mid hair) and comb my hair with my fingers first. (I'm basically bending over and putting all the hair in the front, covering my face when using conditioner.) Then, I comb with a wide tooth comb. (I combed with fingers first to slightly detangle and not rip out my hair.)

After I'm done combing, I will use a scrunchie and a big hair clip to put my hair up. (You can use only one, but my hair is quite thick and using only one doesn't really hold it up well. Looking at your hair, I recommend using two like I do since you have a lot more hair and volume than mine even.)

At this point, I still haven't washed off my conditioner and I have put up my hair. So I will wash my face and body with soap, and then finally rinse off everything. (Including the conditioner.)

After you have rinsed off everything, squeeze out all of the water by scrunching once again, and I personally wrap my wet hair with pajama pants. (My family made fun of this at first because it was funny, but I swear it's a lot better than a towel because it's less frizz! Also, I use pants instead of a shirt because a shirt doesn't hold my hair like pants do.)

So after I put on my clothes, I will take off my pants-towel from my hair and use my hair products, which are: leave-in conditioner and mousse. I apply leave-in conditioner first for mid to ends, and then mousse. For mousse, you have to scrunch and take the hairs that aren't clumped together (and aren't forming curls) and finger curl them so they don't look frizzy or messy. And finally, I'll blow dry my hair with the lowest heat and speed.

I don't have a silk pillow case or a bonnet yet, but I am planning to buy them!