#After relationship.

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median sparrow
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Since new years every day feels like hell and heavy

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How do i cure myself from all of that

dire sluice
# median sparrow How do i cure myself from all of that

I broke up with my girlfriend in February. We had 2 years together and it was my first gf and I know the feeling like she is the love of my life. I know what you feeling now even months after that. Just try to talk with friends, go to the gym(it really helped me a lot since I was busy the whole day), start to learn new hobbies or sport. After my breakup I got addicted to learn how to play golf… try to go for a walk or drive by yourself. Go eat at restaurants that you always wanted to try

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She will always be in your memories because it’s your first love…

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Doesn’t matter if you try all things to forget her, but it will always be there because we never forget our first love

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It is difficult to get over that. I know what you feeling

median sparrow
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I mean i tried bringing myself up to these things but i gave up with no motivation or reasons to try. I won't lie but a month after break up i started snoring crystal (no idea if bringing that up is against the rules) and im literally doing nothing but feeling like constant trash bag. That broke me literally and my soul... abt friends, i moved out half a year ago to a new city and that somehow made my old friends forget about :// They don't check nor call to me anymore thru months even tho i tried texting them and reach for help they just forgot about me so i stopped trying. Right now i have no contact with anyone. Just myself..and that gut wrenching feeling and dreams about her

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Man i can't stop crying fuck bro...mannn she was everything to me even though i know she was also destroying me

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She also found a new bf after 2 weeks. 2 god damn weeks. Where I cry after her and lost hope in everything

median sparrow
dire sluice
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If it doesn’t work out for you, doesn’t mean is the end of the world. You will find the love of your live, it can take time but you will find it

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Just work on yourself

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And she will be there

median sparrow
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How do i find love where i don't even use socials cause im isolating scared of people..

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I use only discord that's all

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And online relationships does not work only brings pain

dire sluice
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You will find in the right time, if you’re desperate for someone. It’s not gonna work out

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Just keep yourself busy.. go to the gym, learn new hobbies, go to the church

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Make friends at the church

median sparrow
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Since then i also lost 15 pounds through 2 months i don't know what i can do anymore without some miracle machine or ghost taking my body to make myself work for the better

dire sluice
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God is so good. He always by your side no matter what

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God have a plan for you and you just need to work on yourself and he will provide all of it

median sparrow
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Should i start with a job? I don't know

dire sluice
median sparrow
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Okay i'll try with that in the first place.

dire sluice
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Get a job, graduate from college/university, work on yourself

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The time will come

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Trust me

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It takes time

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But at the end will be worth the wait

median sparrow
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The issue is...i don't want to get better i want to get worse and that's how i feel i dont know why

dire sluice
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Trust me

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Soon after you started working, going to the gym your mindset will change it

median sparrow
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Love is like a rose. Pretty but with torns that cuts deep if not handled well

median sparrow
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Try

dire sluice
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For sure dude

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You got this. Ivbeen through this

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And I’m so better now

median sparrow
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How is your new love tho? Do you crave for you ex even tho you got new gf

median sparrow
dire sluice