I’m in a weird situation, I love my boyfriend but, ’m scared of him physically hurting me, can’t talk about my doubts and problems to him without him losing it and snapping at me, he gets angry at me when I doubt him, but when he doubts me I stop everything im doing just to comfort him until he feels better. I had to beg him for the bare minimum multiple times, our relief has come to the point where I come to him with something, he gets irritated and snaps at me, I put on a smile and agree with everything he says and apologize for literally nothing. He doesn’t see that I’ve given up on this relationship and he doesn’t want to change anything even though there were so many nights where I begged him to just listen and validate my feelings sometimes. He told me I’m not the best person ever and I have my own mistakes, but unlike him I admit my faults and move forward and change myself, I’m so frustrated at him for not doing the same. I don’t even think I love him anymore. But I’m too attached to his man to leave. Im also genuinely scared of reaching out to other people for help because I don’t want him to get angry and yell at me or do something to hurt me. Him and I had our lives planed out together. I’m stuck and I don’t want to be.
#Boyfriend hurting me
torn jay
(Holy yap) but I’ve also been having this feeling that he’s cheating on me or lying to me and everytime I bring it up he gets hella angry, defensive. Idk what’s going on with him. Im so scared he’s going to somehow find this message and hurt me or start an argument, and I’m going to end up apologizing for reaching out for help.
torn jay
Update I brought up my issues with him and he broke up with me
agile plinth
Update I brought up my issues with him and he broke up with me
Why did he leave?