i am in an enmeshed relationship with my parents [especially my mom]

[dark tartan]

If you do freelancing try to earn more or get a job abroad and leave the country for opportunity and then come back home to then be able to live in a decent city

That’s your best shot to find someone

And have a better life

[kindred axle]

i can try to and am trying to earn more via freelancing and other stuff here. but i dont want a job, and if i get a job abroad, my expense would also increase with the income. and also having a girl who is a foreigner/ from a diff country would make it more complicated, cus she wouldn't come to india and i wouldn't want her to come here either. there would be citizenship problems and more.

[dark tartan]

Sure it becomes more expensive but your salary also increases 2-3 times . I mean do you live in a nice city