problems between 17M and 15F

[turbid river]

now im js ignoring him but i have nothing to do in my life now

pmo

it feels shit

he says to trust him after acting "distant" (due to some shit abt being caught) to him before, but ts is the things he doesss...

:/

can i just.. I'm genuinely so tempted to just ghosting him. without warning.. maybe if im kind enough ill do give him a warning

[fickle crag]

hmm u should play something or dm random people

[turbid river]

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[fickle crag]

have u talked to him about this?

[turbid river]

I feel needy if I do

[fickle crag]

Technically u are needy for something to do

[turbid river]

I've been recently asking him what if questions... i think he's burnt from me ;;

[fickle crag]

how long have u been dating

[turbid river]

like what if he receives "pictures" from other women and stuff..

[turbid river]

8 months lmao

[fickle crag]

why would u ask him that

u just project that u don’t trust him

😭

Like as a guy, id break up if my gf asks me these kind of questions, no offence

relationships are built on trust

i sympathise, there are times where you don’t have trust

but thats the point where any relationship should end

If hes more busy than you, he wont be able to always update u on shiy

[turbid river]

idk i js find it hypocritical >:/ He complained one time I was busy, to update him and send pics, and i did that

nowwwwww he's not doing that

[fickle crag]

Call him out

[fickle crag]

Check #venting-2 i agree w that persons take

[turbid river]

okay i was an ass that timee.. im very reactive each time im in my menstrual 💔

that doesn't excuse anything

he was very upset

[turbid river]

AAAAAAA I SEND THE MESSAGE

[turbid river]

honestly dude WAIIITTT

this has more context,

He used to asked me pics constantly. reminding me what he's into

[fickle crag]

how old r yall

[turbid river]

.... 15 and 17

but it's fetishes......

ew

[fickle crag]

wait

A 17 yearold is asking u for innapropriate pics?

[turbid river]

umm to be specific

fffeet pics..?

[fickle crag]

ah

where yall from

[turbid river]

idk asia lol?

[fickle crag]

i mean cus

U are under age of consent

And he is

Asking u for feet pics

😭 tell me u didn’t send em

[turbid river]

relationship is built on trust......./jj

💔

[fickle crag]

ah

Mind if i ping a helper?

[turbid river]

dang.. sure

[fickle crag]

@wraith ivy

Hii

[wraith ivy]

Hello

[fickle crag]

Could i get ur take on smth

[wraith ivy]

Yes

[fickle crag]

a 17 yearold asking their 15 yearold gf for feet pics cus of fetishes

[turbid river]

um Hi

[fickle crag]

I think that’s worrisome..

[fickle crag]

hi

[wraith ivy]

How long have you two known each other? And is he still doing that?

[fickle crag]

I personally believe its just grooming from his side

[turbid river]

i legit called him a pedofile before abt it lol ngl..

[turbid river]

Um. I met him when he was 16?? i think idk, but the time i confessed we both turned that age lol

No Ig. but he guilts trip ngl each time i remind him abt that

but he hints..

like he wants a reward or smt

🥲 is ts cooked

idk bro

[fickle crag]

Yes

break up

[turbid river]

💀

[fickle crag]

I object to seconds

[wraith ivy]

Do you have any feelings for this guy? Has he shown good redeeming qualities?

[turbid river]

but ive been supporting it.. eueuahksjd. bc it just feels wrong to lose it all bc of some icky thing

[fickle crag]

I know im joking dw

[turbid river]

uhm, very smart but i don't plan to be dependant to him financially ngl
oh shit

uhhhmm

[fickle crag]

no redeeming qualities?

:((

[turbid river]

he makes me laugh
he's considered to buy gifts

[fickle crag]

Girl u got coup de foundre’d

[turbid river]

i had to search that up gng

[fickle crag]

It means love struck

[turbid river]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[fickle crag]

but yh

[wraith ivy]

@turbid river I would say, set up a clear boundary for things that make you uncomfortable, he may have his impulses and needs, but you have yours too and the line needs to be drawn. Specially considering that age gap that has to be treated really sensibly and maturely for it to work, proper communication is key in all relationships

If one of these things lack, it won’t end well

[turbid river]

alright jss I guess this is the closing

thank you ill see what happens..

I can update if yall want?

[fickle crag]

yeah

[turbid river]

for now can i just have some time off zz.. I need to stop 'waiting' ..

womp

[fickle crag]

well u can just set a boundary

[turbid river]

uhh different note

[turbid river]

I fear Im thinking that he should js break up w me, because of how much I doubt and don't trust him. this is not the first time lol.

[fickle crag]

U should break up

W him

[turbid river]

ykw im gonna think like the bigger man then

[turbid river]

but he says he still cares for me after all this.. 💔

[wraith ivy]

Is he showing that he does care through actions?

Because everyone can speak words out loud

Actions however are more genuine and follow a pattern long term that shows you the truth

[turbid river]

He does he really does

He says to trust on him

But im not doing it

I fear my narcissism is doing the worst of me

He complained abt not wanting to send pics and shat

And out of desperation I js said it was alright. After sending a long message abt how I expect similar treatment

Now I think I made him confused

But honestly i would've gone insane lol

[oblique anchor]

You guys are probably fixated on each other maybe that's why

You all have your bad and good sides but still if the dynamic is not really working do yourselves some favor and end it

I don't know his side of the story but the fact that you're having a thought of ghosting someone is just wrong

Having to ghost someone means that you are incapable of communicating clearly of what you want

[turbid river]

How do I say this to him? ;;

problems between 17M and 15F

lol

[sour roost]

Is that normal or smth where you live

[wraith ivy]

My friend, what did we say about bypassing automod?

[sour roost]

I don’t know how to say it any differently