Sexual relationship

[tall folio]

Legally someone can be an adult but can look extremely young so yes it is probably common for people to avoid this. On the flip side someone may pursue this because they are weird yk

[runic field]

Whenever I am having intercourse with an adult that looks a certain way(teenager) my body automatically likes the fact that they look underage.And I was wondering if there is a underlying reason behind that.Is it related to a feature or?
I am confused man I usually reject going on a date with adults girls that look a certain way because i feel as if it's a moral obligation

[tall folio]

There could be a few reasons for this but this isn't a generalized topic that is going to apply to the mass of people, it is unusual to like the fact that someone looks underage even when they are an adult. This seems like something you should bring up to a psychologist instead of discord.

[tall folio]

It absolutely is a moral obligation to not do something you think/feel is wrong.

[runic field]

Right

[runic field]

I disagree because what if it's my OCD lying to me

[tall folio]

Battling ocd is one thing, liking the fact that someone looks underage is another and should be discussed with a professional

[runic field]

I don't wanna like them for looking underage,I wanna find out why is that something my body like?because the word itself "underage" can't be the reason there has to be a reason behind it.

[tall folio]

true, "underage" isn't a feature

but it does encompass a class of features

like an umbrella term, anyways

[runic field]

Exactly now u get it

It's Def for sure youthfulness

[tall folio]

Does it scare you?

[runic field]

Bro ofc it does,I have been rejecting going on a date with soo many women for the past 1 year

Cuz I usually pick 18-21

I am 23

[tall folio]

yea I'm right around ur age man

and if I were you, I wouldn't date under 20

[runic field]

But your reasonings are different man

[tall folio]

you're right, why do you go on so many dates?

[runic field]

What feature do u think it could be possibly?

[tall folio]

hmm

It could be a "feature" it could be a "power" thing

[runic field]

It's not a power thing

I am not attracted to them because they look immature or they look like they can't consent

Def not

[tall folio]

Thats good

[runic field]

One thing I can say for sure is its something about their face

And it's related to youthfulness

[tall folio]

Are you absolutely sure that your body reacts because they are young

or is it something else

[runic field]

My mind labels it like "they look underage" but there is a underlying attraction behind it

Which is related to a specific feature

[tall folio]

I would write down a list of things you find attractive, go through them and figure out what could be triggering this thinking you have. Then I would see if this is exclusively towards "underage" girls and if it is, you need to go to a psychologist.

[runic field]

Thanks man

That would help

[tall folio]

yea

like

if you like the eyes, maybe it isn't specifically related to underage

But 100% it is always wrong to be attracted to underage women.

As men we are meant to protect innocence, not take it.

[runic field]

I am Def not attracted to them looking innocent

And I can't tell whether it's the big eyes,smooth skin,small face

Like one by one

I can't

[tall folio]

Those features aren't underage specific

Also, you may have been conditioned to liking it from a young age because of the kind of videos we are exposed to online

yk, corn

This is also something to work through and gain insight into with a therapist

[runic field]

I agree because I was exposed to adult pronography at a pretty young age

[tall folio]

yea, its actually awful for us as men

and argueably worse for the women in our lives

[runic field]

Man I can't wait to find a job and save money for therapy

[tall folio]

I've done therapy myself and I can say I'm glad I did it.

Also I just want to give you some advice but I wouldn't discuss this kind of thing online. This discord isn't going to be the place where you find answers for a question like that.

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[runic field]

Alr

Thanks pony

[tall folio]

yw man

[runic field]

It was really nice talking to u

[tall folio]

you too, hopefully you gain some insights soon.