#Should I break up with him?

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gusty rock
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Good evening all, so I’ve been thinking on and off for a while about this and don’t know if I’m being sane about it.
For context me and my partner have been in a relationship for 9 months now (known each other for 4 years- throughout high school).

We have good and bad periods (like all couples do) and in the past he has been really || abusive || to the point I cheated to get out the relationship and make him hate me (which was shallow ik)
Fast forward to now, he has periods of when he’s extremely cold to me whenever I’m not at his place. || my mother is quite awful || and I wanna leave home and he’s my only other place.
He’s been quite nasty and rude but whenever I’m there he essentially worships me.
He had mates before who tried to break us up bc his mate got cheated on and wanted to break up everyone else as a result <- however that chaos is for another day.
Right now he has ‘mates’ <- quotation marks heavy on that, bc they bullied him throughout high school and into college.
He’s now ghosting me and putting me on mute when I wanted to talk and left me for 45 mins before he invited me to call.
His parents don’t really want me there and his dad uses every single opportunity to try kick me out.

Am I over reacting or shall I just do it?

short stream
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cheating isnt justified but abusive isnt either

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if ur self aware about it too then thats your sign to go

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its not crazy to make the best decision for you

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i hope you nothing but the best

gusty rock
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Thank you I appreciate it