#vent

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ashen epoch
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midnight dirge
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you probably have an avoidant attachment style

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based on the ghosting i’d say

spiral lion
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I think the first step is to admit you lie, you know it's a problem and it needs to stop. You should be open with her and admit what you have done, just to be honest. It's the only way things will get better

midnight dirge
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which is why u might’ve been doing that and i don’t blame you, it’s not entirely ur fault but you should work towards having a secure attachment style

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also about the lying, u might’ve fear that she won’t like u otherwise so u lied in the moment

ashen epoch
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its fine I just want to hear honesty

midnight dirge
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which is okay but u should own upto it

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you should tell her, if u really like her

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just be yourself and the right ppl will love u for who u are

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also try not to do it next time w other people

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the lying part

ashen epoch
midnight dirge
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but you can work on making it a secure one