#vent
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I think the first step is to admit you lie, you know it's a problem and it needs to stop. You should be open with her and admit what you have done, just to be honest. It's the only way things will get better
which is why u might’ve been doing that and i don’t blame you, it’s not entirely ur fault but you should work towards having a secure attachment style
also about the lying, u might’ve fear that she won’t like u otherwise so u lied in the moment
its fine I just want to hear honesty
which is okay but u should own upto it
you should tell her, if u really like her
just be yourself and the right ppl will love u for who u are
also try not to do it next time w other people
the lying part
ok you might actually be right on that ive read through it and seems like everything pretty much matches
yeahh
but you can work on making it a secure one