#My gf gets walked home by her rapist next school year

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warm raptor
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Someone help me

silk topaz
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first thing, it is NOT manipulative at ALL to not want her to get walked home alone with a literal rapist. im honestly questioning why 1. her parents are fine with it and 2. she is even fine with it.

im not a fan of ultimatums because usually they are toxic, but this clearly warrants an exception. you need to be firm and tell her that it is absolutely NOT okay for any reason for her to be even in contact with this person, and honestly you are in the right for wanting to break up over this if she doesnt listen.

it doesnt matter she is super forgiving either to this person. he is a literal constant threat to her, and i doubt he is reformed in any way.

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if she doesnt agree with you then thats a HUGE red flag by the way. its basically common sense to avoid this person and shouldnt even require being told to avoid them.

warm raptor
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And his dad will be driving both of them to school

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The only reason the boy was in her house was because he was staying there while his dad was out of country

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I’m scared

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Like genuinely scared

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I feel like I’m a curse anyone I love ends up getting assaulted

My first “relationship” was trafficked for years agyer she moved to America
My close friend was assaulted by her own dad
My ex got harassed and hid it from me
And now this

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Like we’re sixteen why the fuck do we have to think about this

limpid drum
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His punishment is to walk her home wtf ? How does that even make sense . Valid crashout

silk topaz
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personally, you ought to not be dealing with this situation especially at your age. there is no amount of how forgiving a person is that warrants maintaining contact.

dont let her brush off the situation. you need to be adamant about how you feel, and honestly i would break things off if she isnt listening to you. she is purposely putting herself in a state of constant danger. wouldnt be more wise for you yourself to be walking her home instead?

warm raptor
warm raptor
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We have 8 months until she has fo see him again

limpid drum
silk topaz
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either listen or end it

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youre gonna get hurt a lot worse if you stay and she doesnt listen or do anything

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its a different story if her parents are forcing it on her and is out of her control

warm raptor
warm raptor
silk topaz
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so she has absolutely no say in it?

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she cant tell her parents she doesnt want to be near this horrible person

warm raptor
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Idk it’s just so she can get his dad to drive her to this new school

limpid drum
warm raptor
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I need sleep

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Cuz I gotta wake up early to talk to her

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Cuz timezones

limpid drum
silk topaz