#Why???

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fossil stone
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For my whole life, I thought my mom was a little strict untill I told my friends about some crazy things my mom did.

I never realised how disproportionally mad my mom would get when I did things wrong. I once spilled a little water on the floor, and my mom enraged, decided to hit me multiple times and yell extremely loud.

She called me useless when I forgot to shut a closet door, yelling at me untill I gave her an "answer" that she felt satisfied with. ( She wanted me to call myself a piece of rubbish and shit.)

And when I didn't study thoroughly enough for a unit test, she went crazy and hit me so many times until I crashed out on her. She kicked me outside, and I was forced to stay outside until she felt like bringing me back in.

I always thought my mom was strict until my friends told me that when they get into trouble, they dont face these issues either where parents call them foul names or etc. I dont want to hate her but right now being close to her just makes me angry and depressed, I feel even more guilty that my mom pays all the bills and supports the whole family, but I cant even find a way to not stay mad at her. I can't even imagine how much trouble I would get into if I actually got into major trouble like failing a test or getting a detention at school

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ripe halo
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Hey I cant do much but i can tell u a story similar to yours to make you feel better .

I was living with my dad and when I used to go fishing with him I broke his rod and because of that he changed alot. He used to me kind and caring but Hes changed and he hits me yells at me but just alot of times has a crack in his heart. Because of it it showed that he cared he was afraid of losing me. Like his other adopted children that died in a crash. And I figured it out the hard way, its quite short but just treat your mom with the respect she carries you dont know what shes going through and shes afraid maybe just ask the wuestion and have a go "why do you hate me so much?" If it does not work call the cps maybe

upper night
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like after school hang out with them at their place or outside

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if not, you can go alone to a public library, a cafe, a park or someplace and study by yourself outside, or take a walk or do just anything

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when something bad does happen, try to keep your distance from her so you aren’t within her reach, make a run for it or lock yourself in the room

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and wait till you can go to college man, i’m sure that will be a much healthier place for you

fossil stone
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Thanks for the advice @ripe halo @upper night

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@upper night I think my mom has anger issues, so sometimes she is nice and sometimes she just explodes in rage and does crazy stuff when I do stuff wrong, I dont think im too bad of a kid

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My mom supports the whole family and one time she broke down in tears from stress she got about providing for family

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and btw @upper night I kinda got like a curfew like thing where I just go straight home after school no detours or etc

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but ty

upper night
upper night
upper night
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if u ever wanna talk tho, u can add me feel free text me whenever u want, i’ll be there as I can