#How to slowly make my move

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wicked plaza
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Talk to him bro and try being friends w him first

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Idk give him smt, pair up w him, ask how he is

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Yall could be like a yapped x listener duo lol

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Js dont overthink it and one has to make the first move lol

green sundial
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the thing is no one really talks to him. unless he wants to talk to them the most he does when he interacts with others is just like barely any concise sentences. it’s lowk cute

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I’m afraid that making the first move would make me seem desperate

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like he’d only talk to me when he needed smth in class which is NEVER

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and last time I sent him a follow request on insta

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it took a whole day and night just for him to not answer so I removed it

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I tried doing it again on Friday

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and til now he has not accepted it

green sundial
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Just don’t wanna force it

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and weird him out

frosty moth
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Push until it gives.

green sundial
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uhm he won’t accept my insta request so I removed it last time

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but when I go to school he acts very nervous towards me

frosty moth
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Did you ask him about it?

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There is this guy in my English class that I physically cannot talk to half of the time.

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I chicken out.

green sundial
green sundial
frosty moth
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It's gonna be hard.

green sundial
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I’m scared of rejection

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and plus I rlly want to work on myself yk…

frosty moth
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Just be friends.

green sundial
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uhm so I guess I’ll keep playing eye tag

green sundial
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we’ll prolly be

frosty moth
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You'll regret that you weren't friends with him first if you actually get into a relationship with him, Sena.

green sundial
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like acquaintances

green sundial
# frosty moth You'll regret that you weren't friends with him first if you actually get into a...

I don’t know what he is to me. after he didn’t add me on insta I tried to get him out my mind, it worked. I avoided him to get over him bc I don’t think I’m in his league. If he was like any other silly school crush I would’ve forgotten abt him since the first week of school but guess what I still have lingering feelings… he did his hair today and he looked so cute. when the teacher called him up to demonstrate smth. I couldn’t help but look deeply at him. he like turns his head side to side slowly to not meet my eye. I’m just wondering if he’s nervous bc others are looking but he didn’t look in my direction at all.

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we were doing a lab today so the teacher gave a lecture

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and he sat far from me but our chairs were adjacent from each other so as the teacher was talking I saw him at the corner of my eye covering his face, most of the time his mouth

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leaving only his eye open

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he’s very pretty but I don’t see myself dating him.

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maybe it’s bc I’m being insecure

green sundial
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im going through shit rn and I might not be ready for a relationship

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but I still want him deep down

frosty moth
green sundial
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where he came to class with some flowers and a gift

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and he handed it to this girl I know

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she’s rlly pretty and sits next to him in class

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It felt too real💔

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maybe I should talk to him

frosty moth
dim rapids
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Is anyone friends with him . Maybe ask his friend to give some info about him

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Just get to know him slowly

olive temple
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okay hi diva

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ive been in the same situation

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good news

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if he seems like a shy guy just walk up to him and make first move

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theres 0% rejection chance if hes sweet/shy and youre pretty

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coming from experience here, i shot my shot and he was REALLY quick to wanna start talking 😭

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just say you think hes cute and at least become friends

wind current
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admire him from afar and make eye contact

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and if he keeps looking back at you

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go for it

green sundial
olive temple
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just hope he doesnt get an ego from it

green sundial
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like hes very nervous around me

olive temple
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does he not have any hbs who would be chill with you

green sundial
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but we all knew this dude from middle school seo😭

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I don’t rlly talk to him lol

olive temple
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errr 🤔 i was friends with my crush's hbs before him and when they figured out i liked him they told me a ton about him

olive temple
green sundial
olive temple
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you might honestly have the shot dont scare yourself

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let me be honest though im still nervous with my guy and i know he likes me back 😭😭😭

green sundial
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the reason why I won’t make my move is bc

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I tried to

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I sent him insta requests twice

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he DID not open them😭

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but he likes playing eyetag whenever I look back at him sometimes

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I’m trying not to notice him a lot bc it’s making me seem desperate when ik he prolly saw it and ignored me

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like when I bump into him outside class he’s always on his phone calling sm1 or texting

green sundial
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your lucky!!

olive temple
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MINE DID THIS TOO UNTIL MY FRIEND MENTIONED IT TO HIM THAT IM INTERESTED

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he literally said "oh yeah i know her instagram" when asked about it

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DONT WORRY BROOOO

green sundial
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he’s like trying to stand and get closer to me in class and it’s making me soo happy

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today he stood like inches away from me and I was freaking out cuz ik he was staring at me while I was on my phone

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I couldn’t stop smiling too

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idk I think I should let it play out

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cuz when I stopped chasing him he’ll start chasing me instead

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bro literally waited for me to go to class so he could stalk me on my usual route to 8th period

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and he’s usually the first person there so it’s sooo intentional at this point.

olive temple
green sundial
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👀

olive temple
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lowk wait i wanna make a little diary here about my huzz so i can yap

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holdon!!!

green sundial
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omg u should

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I will read trust

lyric knoll
green sundial
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let me just hope that he has bad social anxiety

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cuz it’s rlly showing if so

green sundial
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today was an exciting day for me!!

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this morning when I came through the door my crush was staring at me with his body faced towards me and uhm while I was doing my work I peeked through the reflection of my laptop and once in every while he would stare at my back lol while his hand was on his chin as he pretended to look at his friend who was right next to him.

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and uhm since I was retaking a test, I was taking my sweet darn time. when the bell rang I’d finished so I went to put my laptop alway. surprisingly he was still there at his desk while most of the class left and the people who were still there were on one side of the class just finishing up till the last minutes. I intentionally knew he would see me so I peeked at him when I got down and placed my laptop in the cart. uhh and then I slowly just went over to my desk and he was just lingering there while pretending to be “on his phone” and slowly treading to the door like if he wanted to walk with me. well i didn’t want to bc I was surprised so he left and I just looked at him as he walked in front of me.

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but that was my only class I had with him as we had to split parts when class ended and he has b lunch while I had a.

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and I was expecting that I’d see him tmr but guess what?

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when I was talking to my friend outside the main entrance. As I was talking I met eyes with him and It felt like I was in a trance. Whenever I look at him I’d go for his eyes. Like as he slowed down my eyes tracked him while my lips were opening a bit which was way too obvious bc I turned my whole hearted attention to him as soon as he came. gosh I was very surprised bc I never saw him go this way and my friend was like oh he always leaves at this entrance, you just never get here early enough to see him😭😭😭