How do I become a likeable person | The Therapy Center | Page 1

agile cloud Feb 15, 2026, 4:11 AM

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Ive lots of friends and everything. from going to clubs I just feel like a weirdo since no one will even notice me when all I care about is trying to improve myself. I work in at an IT office and since I don’t share the same interests as my co workers I’m just left feeling like the drag along that no one actually wants me there and since I’m at college 4 days a week and have no money I’m forced to work there. I’m 17 years old never had a girlfriend and can’t form a relationship since I’m too bland and not good enough for anyone

icy sparrow Feb 15, 2026, 10:02 PM

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agile cloud Ive lots of friends and everything. from going to clubs I just feel like a weird...

I am sorry you are feeling that way my friend, I know how awful that can be firsthand :(

Do you hang out with anyone though? Every little interaction can prove that they do care about you.

agile cloud Feb 15, 2026, 10:44 PM

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I do it’s just relationship wise it doesn’t matter how much I talk to a girl they just lose interest and it doesn’t go anywhere

icy sparrow Feb 15, 2026, 10:52 PM

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agile cloud I do it’s just relationship wise it doesn’t matter how much I talk to a girl the...

Well, if they are like that then they weren’t worth it in the first place. Having a relationship isn’t just about starting one, but about maintaining it long term, you will eventually find someone who will be really interested in yourself. Not because you are the best at something or you are the most handsome in the area, but because it is you and only you. That will be the person that matters the most.

agile cloud Feb 15, 2026, 10:57 PM

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Okay thank you

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Where should I go to meet people? I’ve tried Snapchat and have just ended up embarrassing myself and I only go out like once or twice a month now

icy sparrow Feb 15, 2026, 10:59 PM

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agile cloud Where should I go to meet people? I’ve tried Snapchat and have just ended up emb...

Hmm, clubs, any social place that you may also enjoy. Many people enjoy parties and concerts, you may enjoy some smaller and more controlled places, try everything my friend! As long as you are careful with the people around, you will definitely meet new interesting persons :D

agile cloud Feb 15, 2026, 11:08 PM

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Yeah I have met several people in clubs, get their Snapchat and then they just take no interest in me, like last night I met this girl and we were getting along really well and now today she wants nothing to do with me

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Just feels like such a dead end for meeting people

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