hey,can i know what she has been struggling from?i am not the best person right now to suggest something because i am struggling too but yaa let me know ,i will comment if it can help
#need help on how to deal with a partner thats hurt
cloud pewter
hey,can i know what she has been struggling from?i am not the best person right ...
its a mild inconvenience, her package is all the way across states but due to situations she wont be able to get it until next week. this package is js for hobbies
cedar spruce
its a mild inconvenience, her package is all the way across states but due to si...
can you explain the situation in detail?
like is she upset because her package didnt reached her at time?
and you sent that package?
cloud pewter
and you sent that package?
i am the one that would send it yes, but this package is at one of her relatives that wouldnt be able to give me the package due to situations
cloud pewter
like is she upset because her package didnt reached her at time?
yes
cloud pewter
can you explain the situation in detail?
basically she was already abit down, but with more inconveniences it eventually made her really upset with everything
and I, feel helpless because i cannot do anything that would atleast cheer her up for abit
ive tried ALOT of things
cedar spruce
basically she was already abit down, but with more inconveniences it eventually ...
ohh okayyy !i get it ,i get it
firstly i would liek to say thats very sweet of you to cheer her on even when it was not your fault at first place
and have you tried cheering her with her favorite food???
cloud pewter
nope… i cant :( the distance is too far to be ordering for her
cedar spruce
like sending her favorite food parcel or something
cloud pewter
she doesnt have a specific favorite food, but more of a food craving for instance
i TRIED sending money so she could choose, but that ultimately failed of course
cloud pewter
ive already tried buying things like that for her but it did not work
cedar spruce
she feels its too much waste of money???
cloud pewter
yeah.. probably
cedar spruce
yes
you can tell them to take her out
and pay for it ,without telling them to tell her
cloud pewter
you can tell them to take her out
help theyre long distance too
is there anything i am able to do in texts?
like a different approach towards cheering her up
besides my attempts of course
cloud pewter
so i undeerstand her
i am a dude so it really is hard to get my way around 😭😭💔
but i feel better knowing i am trying
do you have other suggestions of how to bond in a long distance rl?
cedar spruce
do you have other suggestions of how to bond in a long distance rl?
Rl means?
cloud pewter
relationshipp
cedar spruce
Listen,be with her
Listen to her*
Watch her favourite movie
And don't try to figure out anything or text
Just let her emotions change iguess
Also you need to understand 5 types of love languages
I got to know mine is spending quality time
Which i was deprived from my parents since childhood and had abandonment issues
So know her trauma then do the opposite of it which is her love languages
cedar spruce
Which i was deprived from my parents since childhood and had abandonment issues
For example.
Fear of Abandonment (childhood trauma)-spending Quality time(love language)
dark sorrel
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cloud pewter
And don't try to figure out anything or text
okayy gotts it
thank you alot
im gonna try to
atleast soothe the pain