Am I in the wrong?

[hearty dove]

Little Background: I’m friends with a bunch of girls and we have a friend group (around 8 girls total). I also have my kind of close friends/ trio who are also in that friend group.
Story:
So since like last year I’ve been the one to plan things like hangouts, gift giving etc. Whenever I ask in the group chat that we have on who’s available or who’s interested in the event, I literally get almost 1 to no response 90% of the time. It hasn’t rlly been an issue to me bc I love my friends and I get that they’re busy at times and can’t respond asap obviously. The new year rolls around and I ask them all in the group chat if they would be interested in hanging out once a month since we’re all busy and we’re high schoolers so hanging out consistently is not realistic. Anyways so after asking the question, I get literally no response and they still continue to talk in the groupchat like an hr later. Nb acknowledges what I said and at this point I’m ready to stop trying to plan things with them and just keep to myself. It’s getting embarrassing at this point to always be the one who’s trying to hangout and make plans. Would I really be in the wrong if I just stop trying to hangout completely with them and just keep to my trio or stay on my own?

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[vivid echo]

Hello! I have actually been in a very similar situation as to what you are going through. I know it's difficult feeling like you're the only one putting the effort in. It can make you feel overwhelmed or underappreciated.

A good and healthy relationship is one that is two sided, where both parties put in effort. If someone is always putting in the effort while the other does none, like what you are doing, it's not really a healthy relationship.

What I would suggest is find a time to talk to them, or just talking to your trio about how you feel. Tell them how you feel like you are the only one trying to plan things and you feel like you are being left out.

Hope this helps :3

[hearty dove]

Thank you!!