So like. My (16M) Girlfriend (18F) hasn’t texted me since the 24th of December at 2am (time zone gmt+1). My girlfriend and I have a 7 hour time difference, I am in front of her. Since it is Christmas time I thought it’s fine for yesterday but it’s already the 26th so it’s starting to worry me. We have only been together for a bit longer than a month and we never met in person. She sometimes doesn’t text me for 7-8 hours in her awake time when she’s with friends or family and that’s fine ofc. At some point she felt bad because she ghosted me for a few hours and we got to talking and we decided to stay together but she said she would disappoint me regardless of boundaries and I said that’s okay but now this is one of those disappointments and I don’t know how to cope with it or what to do. She isn’t on her phone much anyways so it’s not like she suddenly doesn’t text but it’s just not normal for her. She also doesn’t have notifications turned on so calling or spamming won’t help. I now left a message saying how I feel. So what I’m really asking for is if it’s okay for her to do this and if I should break up or not and how to cope with either decision
#My girlfriend hasn’t texted me for almost 4 days now
crystal crystal
sly fable
That's all very convenient for her.
The way I see it. I think you should be able to answer the why of this situation for yourself.
If the answer isn't good enough for you, then that's pretty good reason for not entertaining this anymore.
I don't think you should cope? Maybe take it as opportunity that you aren't really fine with that.
You could apologize for making the mistake of saying it would be fine and it wasn't ig? But you are also 2 years younger so..
Long distance must require more work than normal, it's obviously not ideal.
dense onyx
I could probably tell you, that it will be fine and etc. but ill be real man, i have no idea where you met her, if it was here on discord or somewhere else, it doesnt really matter, these relationships that are formed without the people seeing each other usually dont last long even tho the two people want to try. Not only that you havent seen each other, but theres also big time zone difference and age gap. If this isnt the first time this happend and youre already having doubts about this, i say you end it. I have faith in long distance relationships in most cases, but with what you said here, i dont know all the details so dont take this advise too hardly, just think about if its really worth it
crystal crystal
I could probably tell you, that it will be fine and etc. but ill be real man, i ...
I mean everyone told me to think about if it’s worth it but like she ain’t texting me so unless she remembers she got a boyfriend waiting for her and wants to text me I don’t need to think if it’s worth it I’ll probably just have to accept it…
frosty moth
shrewd tusk