Struggling with MOM

[ornate coral]

I'm a 19 yr old boy from India. My mother still baths me with me being naked. Recently I have started getting hard due to the touching over there during this bathing time. She questioned it earlier but now ignores it. Idk what to do. I am confused. Please guide me idk what's happening

I feel anxious about it somedays

[blazing rover]

Well if u dont want this to happen

Ur 19

U got choices on your lige

Life

Did u ever try to convince ur mom not to do that ?

[hollow wedge]

Can your father guide you?

[ornate coral]

I've tried my best to stop her. She don't listen. Says it's fine. I am overthinking

[ornate coral]

No. He's too agressive. He'll hurt mom if he knows this

[mental jolt]

Wanna talk

[tribal siren]

Is there anyone else that you can confide in, like your siblings or any other adult in your family that can help in making her understand? You need to tell her that this is not okay at all.

[ornate coral]

No one in my family else

Only me and her live together

[ornate coral]

My maternal grandmother knows about this but she supports her

[ornate coral]

I am really struggling with this
Too much worried. Idk if I might hurt myself 😔

[tribal siren]

Does your mom have any issues?

I think it's best if you seek professional help

[ornate coral]

No

[ornate coral]

Can I dm?

[tribal siren]

I'm not a professional, but you can dm, I'll try to be as helpful as I can.

[hollow wedge]

Can you figure out a way for your father to help indirectly? Or are you truly alone in this? Try to think of a way. For example just spending time with him might help. Or would your mother do something if she found out you want to talk to him?

[ornate coral]

I'm literally alone in this. I have tried taking help from cops. But my mother somehow managed them to

[ornate coral]

He lives in dubai. We're in contact with him. Still financially dependent on him. But he doesn't know about this

[hollow wedge]

Why is he alone there, for work? Does he come back ever?

[blazing rover]

Why does your mom bathe you? Do you have any disabilities?

[carmine sigil]

If there is no medical reason for it, you really need to have physical distance to your mother at that point.

[ornate coral]

He's last come back 2 yrs ago

[ornate coral]

No disabilities. She says "she can bath me even when I'm 35. It's nothing to be worried about. And I am overthinking."

[ornate coral]

You know I've tried my best. Cops was the last I could do

[thin dew]

yo mom weird as hell, is she trying to fuh u?

Jesus Christ darling, I struggle with advice for this, only thing I would do is harm her, fight your mother.

nah don't do what emperor says, he a persecutor alter, he violent

[hollow wedge]

Do you think you are overthinking or do you really don't like it? If she doesn't touch directly, do you think it can maybe go away??

[ornate coral]

I think I am not overthinking

[ornate coral]

Idk

[ornate coral]

Noo I can't do that

[hasty dagger]

Dude

If your seriously uncomfortable with it then id advise you to tell someone in your family man

[ornate coral]

I've no-one in my family. Just my dad, but can't tell him

[hasty dagger]

Are you 100% sure he’ll hit your mom?

[hollow wedge]

If you are on your own then solve it on your own. If you can't solve it yourself, then you have to depend on others in order for it to be solved. I don't see a middle ground personally. You either do some moves or you call for help, either your father or others. Maybe someone else can come up with something, but even so, you have to make decision to wait for somebody to help you.
So yes, you are on your own but you are also partly choosing to be which is fine. Actually maybe you should have a deadline, like make whole plan, SMART (Specific, Measured, Achievable, Realistic, Time-bound) plan, especially time-bound otherwise you are just being stupid with it and waiting indefinitely. So that's my general advice, have a plan if you are trying to solve it.

Oh people can help you with your plan I guess, but you are in charge of it. I guess that's a middle ground.

[ornate coral]

He'll kill her

[ornate coral]

I understand what you are saying. I'll try my best