I feel stuck

[true maple]

I'm 23yo it's my 5th year in college and barely passed the 2nd year. I'm depressed and the pandemic didn't help.

I have HUGE issues starting things and when I do I only manage to do them up to a certain point cause of how slowly and painful it becomes.

Most times I do my best and isn't enough. I can't differentiate when I'm "suffering" in a healthy way putting effort and when I'm doing too much. It's so hard not making things white and black and tend to isolate myself cause I just hate myself and don't how how to answer "How are you?"

Any tips to start things? And get to know your healthy limits?

[cedar escarp]

I’m not going to be able to really help with anything, but just wanted to say that I’m also 23 and I really hate myself

Life is hard, and it’ll only get easier if you choose to make it so, whether it be biting the bullet and disciplining yourself to the point that you’re able to get done with what needs to be done at any given time, or you take things at your own pace and accept that everything you do is actually you putting your full foot forward while also being reasonable

[lone granite]

I could try to help you. I could try and hold you accountable for doing works. Being there while you work. Healing is a process, its not something you acquire. It takes time and you dont really notice how you did

[true maple]

If you could that would be great. What's your UTC zone?

[lone granite]

Idk. But its 1h48 am rn

[lone granite]

Then let me help you

[true maple]

Its 3.49am for me

[lone granite]

Well, its not bad at all !

[true maple]

May I dm you?

[lone granite]

Sure !

Go for it