So This is following a previous post. I'm part of this group of friends and one of them has gotten pretty physical with me in a flirting way. first she was just walking up to me a lot. then she put her head on my shoulder sometimes. and recently i plopped down on the floor because i was tired and she....sat on my back... are these all signs she has a crush on me or am i just crazy? and if so What should i do??? HELP!
#HELP!
harsh ingot
lunar jetty
So This is following a previous post. I'm part of this group of friends and one ...
Yeah she likes you lol cause there ain't no way she doesn't when she's doing all that
harsh ingot
Yeah she likes you lol cause there ain't no way she doesn't when she's doing all...
so what do i do
lunar jetty
so what do i do
I agree with @tender zinc that you should ask one of her friends. Just tell them how she has behaved to you, ask them if they know anything, and maybe also tell them if YOU like her or not
harsh ingot
I agree with <@1400853896716488886> that you should ask one of her friends. Just...
thing is gossip goes around fast in our group and My mother doesn't want me in a relationship.
harsh ingot
sorry
your good pal my situation is kinda crazy... I am thinking of asking her if she has a crush on me at a christmas event in private if you have an opinion on that
harsh ingot
just do what feels natural and right in your heart
I do that a lot and it ends badly but kk
tender zinc
thing is gossip goes around fast in our group and My mother doesn't want me in a...
Why doesn’t your mum want you to be in a relationship
forest salmon
BRO GAME IS A GAME YOU HAVE TO PLAY IT NO MATTER WHAT
harsh ingot
Why doesn’t your mum want you to be in a relationship
well we go to church and she doesn't want me to ruin her reputation
if im dating someone from church then my mom would probably go crazy
hasty wing
Ramen, instead of trying to think in the best interest of her (which may not be the case, but that's what I got from the post, I have no context from the previous post mentioned) first think if YOU like her, then go from there the way you think is best
Gl!! ^^
harsh ingot
Ramen, instead of trying to think in the best interest of her (which may not be ...
that is good advice... except either way im cooked. if I did have a crush on her (kinda undecided at the moment) then i'd have to deal with the drama and maybe even have to keep the relationship a secret. if i don't like her then i either have to talk to her or silently deal with the flirting
man life is complicated
hasty wing
My latest bf my mother didn't even know I was gay yet
So I had to hide that
Wasn't fun
harsh ingot
was it easy to hide
harsh ingot
guy
hasty wing
Or neither
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Oki
So, bc it would be a straight relationship, it looks like ur mother would be suspicious of it
That's how mine was Abt my girl best friends
harsh ingot
Right kk... tho my friend group is mostly girls... like 5 girls and 2 other guys
hasty wing
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Ok
That would help to conceal it
So I take it ur mother is very religious, yes?
harsh ingot
no not really. she's very self concious
hasty wing
O
My mother is, so when she snooped through my phone, after finding my now ex's and mine texts, she kinda didn't speak to me for like 2 months
:3
harsh ingot
daaaaaang. my mom basically just tells me no games and I just start drawing
harsh ingot
three problems with hiding the relationship
- church gossip
- observant mother
- actually asking the girl if they have a crush on me
now if i don't hide the relationship then my anxiety tells me like a thousand other things that could happen
hasty wing
Ok you could
•Completely avoid her in church
•idfk how to help here
•move slowly and at your own pace
That's valid
I have diagnosed moderate-severe anxiety, so I know how you feel
harsh ingot
its a small church and I'm still her friend so it'd be kinda weird if i just started avoiding her. not to mention the group meetups
as you see i am in a love pickle
hasty wing
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I don't go to church so I don't rlly know what y'all be doin in there, but like
Seems interesting
harsh ingot
basically meetups are just like school club meetups. and church itself is just music followed by speeches followed by everyone talking and she likes to come up to me EVERY. SINGLE. TIME
harsh ingot
nah its actually very cozy and nice
harsh ingot
your good pal my situation is kinda crazy... I am thinking of asking her if she ...
i did have this idea
hasty wing
Btw, ik u said that ur feelings for her are undecided, but which side u leaning to?
Oh
That seems like a pretty good idea
harsh ingot
Btw, ik u said that ur feelings for her are undecided, but which side u leaning ...
kinda leaning to the love side.... then again I feel like if i wait a couple years I'll be old enough to not care either way
hasty wing
Hm
harsh ingot
only reason i haven't already asked is because again mother and gossip
harsh ingot
yea its kinda hard to trust people. even people that might have a crush on you