I don't know if I'm non-binary or just a girl who prefers they/them pronouns. I'm a lesbian and used to be hyper feminine with a pink aesthetic. But a lot of the time, it feels like a mask. It feels like me pretending like I'm the "perfect feminine lesbian". It's not that I didn't enjoy being feminine, it just felt restricting in a way. I man spread a lot of the time when I sit, I do not have feminine behaviors or talk in a feminine voice. I switched to androgynous and it felt so much better. I still like dresses, but pants definitely feel a lot better (pretty sure all women think so too haha). But anyways, I thought what it would be like for me to use he/him pronouns but that just felt like it erased my lesbianism and femininity. I redecorated my room from pink and obviously girly aesthetic to a more neutral one and it feels a lot better. Being a hyper feminine pink girly is a bit suffocating in a way. It makes me feel like I always have to act feminine as well. I've also wanted to wear binders since 2 years ago but I didn't know why I wanted to. I didn't like how big my chests were and I thought I was just a girl who didn't want to be sexualized. I don't know if I'm non-binary or just a girl who doesn't want to be treated like I'm JUST a girl and nothing more, and is also tired of being sexualized or admired by boys even though I have stated that I am a lesbian multiple times. Or am I a person who doesn't want to be a girl anymore?
#Am I Nonbinary?
timid frigate
timid frigate
:P
lethal ridge
Well are you?
vocal leaf
:P
Just a heads up, I feel, if you posted this in the LGBTQ+ section it’ll likely get more attention and feedback..
Because more people there are gonna view it .
timid frigate
Just a heads up, I feel, if you posted this in the LGBTQ+ section it’ll likely g...
Wait there's a LGBTQ+ section here?
gilded rose
Wait there's a LGBTQ+ section here?
#lgbtq