#boyfriend has gotten really distant out of nowhere

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silver hamlet
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before we started dating he was completely fine but then two weeks into the relationship idk what happened he just became really distant for some reason, on saturday id sent him like 10 reels he just left them on delivered, even though wed hung out that day and everything was fine, then sunday he didnt text me all day and so i texted him at night to ask him if everything was fine cause i hadnt heard from him all day and he hadnt replied on insta either even tho he was active, he said everything was ok and that he was out w some friends and he sent a photo of the restaurant and he sent a ss of his dms and said he didnt reply to anyone (before we dated he used to take days where he wouldnt reply to anyone but hed still reply to me) so then monday in class he was being really distant so i confront him about it on text, the convo went out till tue and he got rly dry so i told him he can have his space but to reach out once hes ready to talk, he calls me wed night to ask for notes for the exam on thurs, thurs we see each other in class and he just says is that my seat keeps his bag and leaves and then i see him with friend and he doesnt even say hi to me, then after exam he leaves without saying bye, friday same thing, but after exam he asks to hangout but i alrdy had plans so i said some other time, he gets rly sick so we speak normally over the weekend and i go to his house on monday (hes still kinda sick) and he barely talks to me (but seems ok with everyone else) for 6 hours, i ask him to play something we can both watch so he just gives me his ipad and continues watching on his laptop, so i get mad and leave and he offers to book the uber, we dont talk for the next two days and when i confront him 2 days later he laughs and i get mad cause hes not taking me srsly and he gets mad that i dont understand that he laughs in serious situations he also likes 100s of weird reels about me and tells me its not that deep. still hasnt replied to the 10 reels from sat btw.

solemn night
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go ahead and break up with him

foggy coyote
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the simple answer is sometimes people just change, it’s possible it’s mental health issues or something else underlying but that isn’t for you to deal with, find somebody that matches your energy

silver hamlet
# solemn night go ahead and break up with him

he actually broke up w me a month ago now, he keeps looking at me in class but hes liking so many shitty reels about me and how im a h0e, ugIy, bltch, mid etc and how he wasted his firsts on me and how im spreading rumors about him (im really not idk if someones lied to him, i havent told anyone anything and literally everyone in the class feels bad for him)

silver hamlet
solemn night