You did the right thing Katz
#I'm dumb so I need your advice 😔
pliant orbit
Katz, I am so proud of you for staying strong. You need to and you are. I have been there too. There are some things that you can see and try to understand
1st let him go. I know it sounds harsh but do it for your own sake. You need to have some peace and clarity in your life. If someone doesnt want to be with you, its ok. You are the most important thing here. You are gonna study, get a job a career. There is so much life to live. So if there is one person less, its ok
2nd Do not approach. Continue NC because otherwise it would hurt your self esteem for sure. Later you will realise that you were trying to beg someone to stay who didnt want to in the first place. Its ok
3rd you dont have to hate him to let him go. You must have had amazing moments with him as well. Do not curse that. Try to see it as a mix of bittersweet memories. Try to honor the love that you shared. Its ok to not be in that. But just to have experienced that is something beautiful. Be grateful to you and him for spending all those beautiful moments together and everything that he has taught you. Dont nurture hate, its gonna create a lot of negativity
4th take baby steps. One hr, one day at a time. This is a time taking process so give it all the time it needs. Feel the emotions and let it go
5th. You are not dumb. So you night wanna change the heading
All the best
pliant orbit
Katz, I am so proud of you for staying strong. You need to and you are. I have b...
I am trying..but his bday is coming soon..idk if I should wish him a happy bday or not. He did tell me he wants to be mine again after he complete his final exam next year
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I am trying..but his bday is coming soon..idk if I should wish him a happy bday ...
No. Just give yourself that time
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Alright...