How do I move on from a guy I truly loved? He put an end to our relationship so fast we didn't even get through a monthiversary or whatever.. he said that he couldn't keep up the relationship and he couldn't give me the attention I wanted when I didn't even ask for it because I know the pressure.. I could've been there for him, but still, he couldn't keep up the relationship. He didn't want to cause further damage to my feelings when I'm already healing with him. My heart broke because he ended it so quickly that we didn't last a month. I have no choice but to accept it, but I still love him more than myself. Part of me still wanted to be loved by a man like him, even if he couldn't give me the right amount of attention. I accept it because I'm used to it! At first, I thought I had done something wrong. When I hopped on my alt account, I saw his story on ig I viewed his story only to see his hand placement to a girl because I hate to say that I assumed that she is his lover, also thinking he chose her over me that kind of hand placement to a girl doesn't look normal to me that it led me to assume, which made me feel even vulnerable and confused. I don't know, I really, really wanted to move on, but he's too important for me to move on. 🙁
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Dang idk hard question
@topaz temple Hi. I see you. I am here. In fact we are all with you. You are not alone.
Try to see this from a different angle
Its a good thing he did it in less than a month I will tell you. Had he continued that way, you would have developed more and more love for him. He would have totally fallen out of it because he couldnt keep up and probably would have ended cheating on you. So you know see this as an advantage since its been less than a month, it would definitely be easier to get over as compared to a relationship that would have lasted for years. Atleast thats what happens in most cases if not all
And about him being important, he was but in the past. Not now. The most important thing to you is your peace, you, your family and faith. Thats all you need. Believe me you are gonna come across many people in life and even those who would treat you like a prince or princess just the way you deserve. This was an experience. Learn from it and let it go
oh well ill be honest with you but um he ended things with you to be with her
sounds bad ik but he wasn't someone to be around honestly